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Massive age gaps. Wrong or right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being 23 nothing turns me on more than the thought of being used and abused (And rewarded too) by a much older women.

A lot of women seem to be happy to date a younger guy. But there are also a large amount that won't, everyone has there preferences but surely older women dream of hot younger guys coming after them?

Big age gaps wrong or right in casual sex relationships as well public relationships??

Thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until you have children, then you will look at those same older people differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being 23 nothing turns me on more than the thought of being used and abused (And rewarded too) by a much older women.

A lot of women seem to be happy to date a younger guy. But there are also a large amount that won't, everyone has there preferences but surely older women dream of hot younger guys coming after them?

Big age gaps wrong or right in casual sex relationships as well public relationships??

Thoughts please"

I don't think there is anything wrong with two consenting people having sex, where the is a huge age difference. Personally for me though it doesn't feel right having fun with a guy that is the same age as my oldest child. Most women do find this a turn on but I prefer a experienced slight older gent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wait until you have children, then you will look at those same older people differently. "

Never thought of that. Very true!

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"surely older women dream of hot younger guys coming after them?

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err NO just a bit creepy to me

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

at the end of the day life is short so if two people fancy each other and want to get it on who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No much prefer more mature men, far better lovers than younger guys, in my opinion

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"No much prefer more mature men, far better lovers than younger guys, in my opinion"

where have you been all my life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being 23 nothing turns me on more than the thought of being used and abused (And rewarded too) by a much older women.

A lot of women seem to be happy to date a younger guy. But there are also a large amount that won't, everyone has there preferences but surely older women dream of hot younger guys coming after them?

Big age gaps wrong or right in casual sex relationships as well public relationships??

Thoughts please

I don't think there is anything wrong with two consenting people having sex, where the is a huge age difference. Personally for me though it doesn't feel right having fun with a guy that is the same age as my oldest child. Most women do find this a turn on but I prefer a experienced slight older gent "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong about it at all.

Why would there be,if there are no laws broken, both are consensual and attracted, what could possibly be wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dream? It's reality for some women,you probably

have a little fantasy of what it's like. In reality it could be a lot different

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

I dont think i could feel comfortable with a 20 year old,but when i was 19 a lovely 54 year old woman screwed the living daylights out of me ......funny how age changes the wat we look at things ....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Being 23 nothing turns me on more than the thought of being used and abused (And rewarded too) by a much older women.

A lot of women seem to be happy to date a younger guy. But there are also a large amount that won't, everyone has there preferences but surely older women dream of hot younger guys coming after them?

Big age gaps wrong or right in casual sex relationships as well public relationships??

Thoughts please"

Nothing wrong with big age gaps in any relationship as long as both parties are of legal age, its mutually consensual and there is no malicious manipulation or coercion going on....but that applies in any relationship.

Do you imagine that younger men are doing older women a favour by wanting to have sex with them?

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"surely older women dream of hot younger guys coming after them?"

Yesyesyesyes

For me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Do you imagine that younger men are doing older women a favour by wanting to have sex with them? "

Ha no I definitely didn't mean it like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basic rule of thumb is .....if either partner needs an oxygen tank or a Defibrillator next to the bed, the age gap is way too big....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not what personally interests me, but it's certainly not wrong if it's what both partners want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Do you imagine that younger men are doing older women a favour by wanting to have sex with them?

Ha no I definitely didn't mean it like that. "

it sounds like it when you say that "surely" older women dream of younger men coming after them. There isn't anything sure about it...all women are different..even older ones and there is much to commend an older man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at the end of the day life is short so if two people fancy each other and want to get it on who cares"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a 20 year old tried it on or flirted with me (yeah like THATS ever gonna happen!!) I think whilst of course I'd be flattered I wouldn't take it any further.

Just too big a gap, far too young and even though they'd be comfortably legal in terms of age I would still feel like a dirty old man for pursuing it. So no to a big younger gap.

If a gorgeous and horny 60 year old did however, then I'd go for it! Upwards ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 years between us

Works great for us

It's others that have the issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm 46 and until recently had a fb aged 21...We went out to night clubs together and non of our friends batted an eyelid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"24 years between us

Works great for us

It's others that have the issues

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Wow! My ex was 14 years older than myself. Although the break up didnt have anything to do with the age gap I'd like to quote what my youngest daughter once said: but Mom you're in different phases of your life. And that is true!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If two people are comparable what should age, creed or colour have to do with it.

If its your relationship it has nothing to do with anyone else. I'm happy as a pig in shit in my relationship and have been for 8 years (he's 22 years my senior)

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Being 23 nothing turns me on more than the thought of being used and abused (And rewarded too) by a much older women.

A lot of women seem to be happy to date a younger guy. But there are also a large amount that won't, everyone has there preferences but surely older women dream of hot younger guys coming after them?

Big age gaps wrong or right in casual sex relationships as well public relationships??

Thoughts please"

My thoughts are too filthy to relate!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

24 year old son expecting his first child any time soon ...would i be comfortable sleeping with a guy around that age range ..no ..but for others it works..each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love much older and much younger !

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

My hubby was 18 years older than me worked for 25 years before he passed away. Now not so keen on big age gaps and men younger than my son's do nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I.ve always preferred my age or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes them happy and they are not breaking the law then carry on I don't have a problem with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine married a lady 15 yrs older than him . He is regretting it now at the age of 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to the people involved. Its not for me though, something doesn't sit right with me about fucking someone young enough to be my daughter. Yes, I have tried, and had a number of other offers, but, whilst I'm very very flattered, it just feels morally wrong to me. I love sex, but to me, that seems seedy and pervy. Just my opinion of course.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

In the interests of research, I am very willing to carry out an experiment to see if sex with a 20 year old is better than with someone, like me, in their sixties. Join an orderly queue please.

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