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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

.... multiple meets!

Time to ask for opinions. In past couple of years I've had a number of instances where I've met women or couples a number of times but they have to this date not verified me. No problem for me as I'm not interested in collecting veris.

However, what confuses me is that in almost every case they have verified other meets after first time.

Given that we keep meeting, I think it's clear I don't have a problem with it, but having happened with about 5 or 6 different members, I'm completely baffled!

Any pearls of wisdom on that one? !

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Have you asked if they would mind verifying you? Maybe the other meets did?

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

I would never do that. I leave the choice of verifying up to my meets. Like I said, I have no problem not being verified as I've met some of them 4 or 5 times, I'm just baffled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be like O mate fancy leaving me some feedback or what like.

Do you leave veri's for them? Bit odd if they don't write anything even after 3 or 4 meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... multiple meets!

Time to ask for opinions. In past couple of years I've had a number of instances where I've met women or couples a number of times but they have to this date not verified me. No problem for me as I'm not interested in collecting veris.

However, what confuses me is that in almost every case they have verified other meets after first time.

Given that we keep meeting, I think it's clear I don't have a problem with it, but having happened with about 5 or 6 different members, I'm completely baffled!

Any pearls of wisdom on that one? !"

No harm in asking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other meets might have asked for a verification. Could be a case of don't ask don't get. The ones who baffle me are those who ask for a verification and don't display it. Probably not enough praise for them

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I think it's because your name's Jay ... erm but I could be wrong!

Here's a crazy idea though .. why don't you ask them?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

We only have your word for that

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Perhaps if you sent veris - preferably not too long or graphic - you would get some back? Just saying!

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"Perhaps if you sent veris - preferably not too long or graphic - you would get some back? Just saying!"

Maybe if you ask before you shoot, you wouldn't kill innocent people. I always verify.

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"We only have your word for that "

Thank you for your insightful and thoughtful opinion. Priceless. I'll treasure that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you're that good for them they don't want to make you too busy by bulling you up???

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I would never do that. I leave the choice of verifying up to my meets. Like I said, I have no problem not being verified as I've met some of them 4 or 5 times, I'm just baffled! "

so you have 'no problem' with not being verified yet start a thread on it..

and you don't want to ask them but put it out in an open forum, surely they will see this..?

or is it all part of a cunning plan..

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

I considered that possibility. Then I woke up from my fantasy dream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... multiple meets!

Time to ask for opinions. In past couple of years I've had a number of instances where I've met women or couples a number of times but they have to this date not verified me. No problem for me as I'm not interested in collecting veris.

However, what confuses me is that in almost every case they have verified other meets after first time.

Given that we keep meeting, I think it's clear I don't have a problem with it, but having happened with about 5 or 6 different members, I'm completely baffled!

Any pearls of wisdom on that one? !"

They might see the number of veri's you have and see no need to add to it.

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"I would never do that. I leave the choice of verifying up to my meets. Like I said, I have no problem not being verified as I've met some of them 4 or 5 times, I'm just baffled!

so you have 'no problem' with not being verified yet start a thread on it..

and you don't want to ask them but put it out in an open forum, surely they will see this..?

or is it all part of a cunning plan..

"

If I had a problem with it, very doubtful I would keep meeting them, or I would have asked. The reason for the thread as I said in my OP is that I'm baffled and was looking for opinions of why this may. No master plan behind it either. Like I said, collecting veris is not why I joined Fab.

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