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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like either. I wonder if they have permission from the other person especially when some are even showing faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

@ mopping a bird out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on usualy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I'm too keen on them either. In my opinion a single man should show pictures of just him as a single man and not ones of him in action with others. Having said that, their profiles to do as they wish and my choice if I look at the pictures or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" @ mopping a bird out"

I giggled at that too

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think whilst that's fine in terms of your preference.

Surely it's only the same as women posting sex acts.

Men on the whole are more visual when it comes to sex but it does not mean all women dislike seeing sec acts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the picture

if you can see the guy it's ok it's the ones where you can see full few of the women and only his cock that make laugh, more so when they put comments like can't show face pics due to job but happy to show the whole site the face pic of the last bird who sucked his off

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag. "

We all show sex acts every now and then though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only ones I really like are of men giving oral. Not just the top of their heads popping up between thighs. Tongue action pics

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Not keen on them personally but no different to the pics that women post of themselves plastered in cum or with cocks in every orifice.

But as they have posted the pics Im guessing that they themselves like them - so good on 'em. I just try not to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's hot and involving DP.

It's when you get a message describing in detail a sex act that they want to try that turns us off.

Much prefer a little paragraph about themselves and some humour.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

On some, it's hard to tell who the profile belongs to, as you can see more of the lass he is bungalowing than of the chap himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

We all show sex acts every now and then though. "

Very true, but my photos of that kind are 90% me and hopefully gives someone an idea about me. And the men would certainly not be identifiable (and for the record, know they're up there and are totally ok with that)

The top couple of inches of a man's cock next to pretty much a full face or body of a woman on a single male profile tells me nothing about what they look like, which is the point of photos for me. I accept that everyone uses the photos differently though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had guys ask me for videos of me with another guy as well but some of the guys asking I'd be protecting their feelings by not sharing pictures/videos of cocks I've "entertained"

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

We all show sex acts every now and then though.

Very true, but my photos of that kind are 90% me and hopefully gives someone an idea about me. And the men would certainly not be identifiable (and for the record, know they're up there and are totally ok with that)

The top couple of inches of a man's cock next to pretty much a full face or body of a woman on a single male profile tells me nothing about what they look like, which is the point of photos for me. I accept that everyone uses the photos differently though. "

If it's the only pic then fine. But they could have a mix. Dressed. Undressed. Sex act. Etc.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

In terms of pictures. I think a camera swap is the best way to go.

You take pics with my camera. I'll take them with yours that way editing and control are in the persons hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys ask me for videos of me with another guy as well but some of the guys asking I'd be protecting their feelings by not sharing pictures/videos of cocks I've "entertained" "

i don't have any, I never take pics or vids of me shagging and if some guy I met did and posted them on his profile or sent them out I'd be hacked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If it's the only pic then fine. But they could have a mix. Dressed. Undressed. Sex act. Etc."

Yes point taken. It's not so much the profile photos that bug me though it's when you're chatting to someone away from here and boom, there's a BJ video in your inbox, which has happened a few times. What can that be for except showing off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In terms of pictures. I think a camera swap is the best way to go.

You take pics with my camera. I'll take them with yours that way editing and control are in the persons hands.

"

yep, any photos of me are taken on my phone and that way I only let people see what I want them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

I've got a hankering for stuffed turkey now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys ask me for videos of me with another guy as well but some of the guys asking I'd be protecting their feelings by not sharing pictures/videos of cocks I've "entertained" "

Small?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

We all show sex acts every now and then though.

Very true, but my photos of that kind are 90% me and hopefully gives someone an idea about me. And the men would certainly not be identifiable (and for the record, know they're up there and are totally ok with that)

The top couple of inches of a man's cock next to pretty much a full face or body of a woman on a single male profile tells me nothing about what they look like, which is the point of photos for me. I accept that everyone uses the photos differently though.

If it's the only pic then fine. But they could have a mix. Dressed. Undressed. Sex act. Etc."

This!

Balance is everything.

I had play pics on my old solo profile - all were of people still active on site, with full consent (many put the same pics or similar on theirs!) and if they left I removed them. But they were mixed with plenty of solo shots of myself.

It's no different to single females or couples posting similar shots.

If you worry about your picture content and only post to please others you'll never succeed.

Post pictures that you like. And if you have others in them? So long as consent is given I don't see the problem.

As I've said many times before - the only ones that concern me are new, unverified profiles showing play pics with others, as there is a high likelihood the other party is unaware of their use.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with .."

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though."

There are quite a few out there.

Personally I prefer more erotic or photoshoot style photos if it's a sex act rather than a BJ selfie or such like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" @ mopping a bird out"

never heard of MOPPING out before lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though."

Are u looking on the same website as me ??

Theres pics on here only a gynocologist should see ...

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


" @ mopping a bird out

never heard of MOPPING out before lol x"

It's a classic.

Must be a Swansea term. Helluva place Swansea (and I mean that in an affectionate, but slighty scared way)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with .."

My answer stands for any profile. If you struggle to think which one is the profile holder, or a man, woman or couple have pics of other people on with their faces then I dislike and actually wouldn't be interested in meeting. It's indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though.

Are u looking on the same website as me ??

Theres pics on here only a gynocologist should see ...

"

Apparently not, but then maybe I don't spend enough time browsing the female profiles. I have never seen what I described though, and I've seen the male equivalent many a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though.

Are u looking on the same website as me ??

Theres pics on here only a gynocologist should see ...

"

There are some that would put a gynaecologist off their dinner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though.

Are u looking on the same website as me ??

Theres pics on here only a gynocologist should see ...

There are some that would put a gynaecologist off their dinner!"

Very very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooopsie

Weve accidently turned another single guy bashing thread right around !

We may be shot at dawn now !

Those pesky single guys don't know there place anymore

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I don't mind seeing action pics, I've got a few myself, but like others have said, 1/2 an inch of a guy's cock and the entire woman on a single guy profile isn't probably the best picture ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" @ mopping a bird out

I giggled at that too "

put an image in my head too of woman lying on back, one of those yellow "wet floor" signs and guy with a mop and bucket going about his business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind seeing action pics, I've got a few myself, but like others have said, 1/2 an inch of a guy's cock and the entire woman on a single guy profile isn't probably the best picture ever "

Some guys only have half an inch of cock ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

thats your choice.

I however consider myself a swinger(a versatile one), I like 1 to 1 meets,group sex meets,parties,socials(and 1 to 1 social meets).I have a problem with those that cannot be open minded to what the scene is primarily about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards.

thats your choice.

I however consider myself a swinger(a versatile one), I like 1 to 1 meets,group sex meets,parties,socials(and 1 to 1 social meets).I have a problem with those that cannot be open minded to what the scene is primarily about."

Nail on the head mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen on graphic pictures full stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to give opinions on the tackiness of my photos, I'm curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to give opinions on the tackiness of my photos, I'm curious."

You have photos? I didn't realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to give opinions on the tackiness of my photos, I'm curious."

In good shape fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge turn off for me along with cock pics or anything bareback on a single guys profile. I'm generally not a fan of hardcore pics, they do nothing for me. I like tasteful body shots, things that leave something to the imagination. I don't really want to see graphic pics of past meets, I want to see the person who's profile it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had guys ask me for videos of me with another guy as well but some of the guys asking I'd be protecting their feelings by not sharing pictures/videos of cocks I've "entertained"

Small?"

Noooo, they're very big! So big that they might be intimidating to the people asking to see them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Huge turn off for me along with cock pics or anything bareback on a single guys profile. I'm generally not a fan of hardcore pics, they do nothing for me. I like tasteful body shots, things that leave something to the imagination. I don't really want to see graphic pics of past meets, I want to see the person who's profile it is."

I totally agree with this about all profiles !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres pics on here only a gynocologist should see ...

There are some that would put a gynaecologist off their dinner!"

Very very true"

Would have to agree....some women have some real cringe invoking pics too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to give opinions on the tackiness of my photos, I'm curious.

In good shape fella"

Thanks lol

I was wondering about my sex ones though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*as pointed out above, is it more acceptable that couples can have pics of their 4some(or moresome)meets?-If the answer is yes, well that just goes to show how one sided the argument is against single men(or women).

I'll continue to use my profile to attract those who may be interested..if it loses me meets with others...I dont really give a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to give opinions on the tackiness of my photos, I'm curious.

In good shape fella

Thanks lol

I was wondering about my sex ones though "

Lol

No comment

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though.

Are u looking on the same website as me ??

Theres pics on here only a gynocologist should see ...

"

Hahaha! Very true, most close up shots are awful (to me personally) I find them a big turn off...I think not showing it all off adds mystery so I prefer the dressed or teasing pics...took me ages to decide whether or not to get my boobs out for a pic on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

Some guys really don't care who they fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

We all show sex acts every now and then though. "

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though.

Are u looking on the same website as me ??

Theres pics on here only a gynocologist should see ...

Hahaha! Very true, most close up shots are awful (to me personally) I find them a big turn off...I think not showing it all off adds mystery so I prefer the dressed or teasing pics...took me ages to decide whether or not to get my boobs out for a pic on here!"

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards.

Some guys really don't care who they fuck. "

No and neither do some women.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

If there was a load of single female profiles where only their bits were in shot, next to pretty much the entire recognisable face of some unsuspecting bloke, then I'd think that was a bit shit too. I haven't seen many of them though."

I'm slightly guilty of this although I always blacken out the faces and ask permission! I don't put my own face up so would never put anybody else's up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find those images equally as bad as the ones that some women show of themselves holding either their fanny of arsehole open wide enough that we can see what they ate for yesterdays lunch - not a good look I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't find them tacky and never said they were. I just find them a turn off. I can obviously only give my own reasons as to why and they probably won't be the same as the next persons reasons. I don't like them because I'm naturally jealous and territorial, when I'm with a guy I want him to think that I'm the best person he's ever been with. I don't want to see pictures of him getting it on with someone else, if he didn't ask to take a picture of him hanging out of me or with his dick in my mouth I'd be like hang on, you wanted a picture of that other bird, fuck you!

Also if it was a particularly stunning girl with an uber incredible body I'd be like, right I don't look as good as that so straight away I wouldn't want to meet him, same as if it was a really buzzing girl I'd be like right ok he'll shag anything so that would put me off meeting.

It's not an attack of single males, I love love love single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find those images equally as bad as the ones that some women show of themselves holding either their fanny of arsehole open wide enough that we can see what they ate for yesterdays lunch - not a good look I'm afraid."

Absolutl a lady should never show her exposed arsehole !

Thats just crude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close up action shots could be of anyone and have found on many occasions, with a quick reverse image search, they are as they are taken off different porn sites!! Not to say some people put their pics on other sites but some are obviously not them. Not sure why having a pic of someone else's bits and trying to pass them off as yours is a good idea but hey ho, the wonderful world of fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find them tacky and never said they were. I just find them a turn off. I can obviously only give my own reasons as to why and they probably won't be the same as the next persons reasons. I don't like them because I'm naturally jealous and territorial, when I'm with a guy I want him to think that I'm the best person he's ever been with. I don't want to see pictures of him getting it on with someone else, if he didn't ask to take a picture of him hanging out of me or with his dick in my mouth I'd be like hang on, you wanted a picture of that other bird, fuck you!

Also if it was a particularly stunning girl with an uber incredible body I'd be like, right I don't look as good as that so straight away I wouldn't want to meet him, same as if it was a really buzzing girl I'd be like right ok he'll shag anything so that would put me off meeting.

It's not an attack of single males, I love love love single males "

I would have said jealousy was gonna be part of the equation for a few...I'm not territorial or jealous..if I seen you with other men etc it wouldnt bother me..

at least you have admitted that...

I just find it weird knowing what kind of site this is and the nature of meeting for nostringsattached meets can lead people into jealous,possessive,territorial thinking.

If I said to you OP, (after we met lol),please dont show pics of yourself as its going to attract other guys....would that be fair?...nope..it really wouldnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

"

I put mine up because I thought they looked tasteful and sexy, and of of them shows me with my belt.

I don't think you can actually see any genitalia in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of male and female members performing sex acts bore me stupid and puts me off wanting to view the rest of the profile but one profile I do find interesting is of a young male who can suck him self off with around 50 photos of him doing this

Bloody funny and very entertaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures of male and female members performing sex acts bore me stupid and puts me off wanting to view the rest of the profile but one profile I do find interesting is of a young male who can suck him self off with around 50 photos of him doing this

Bloody funny and very entertaining "

I'm now taking all my sex act pics down for U...wish I had a backbone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

I put mine up because I thought they looked tasteful and sexy, and of of them shows me with my belt.

I don't think you can actually see any genitalia in them."

That's a different thing then. From memory, your photos do show you - face and body - so that's not what I was talking about. Unless you've changed them all to just your cock next to a woman's face since I last saw them.

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Turn off... Its either usually a bareback pic that they always say is an 'ex' yeah right mate!!

Or its of some stupidly skinny girl (usually no face shown as its a body for tv face for radio) and then they say they like girls of all sizes but just dont want to be seen with anyone who doesnt have a perfect body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock in hand is worth 2 in the bush

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Don't mind too much, so long as it isn't too graphic, nothing up close, but a nice group shot is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't mind too much, so long as it isn't too graphic, nothing up close, but a nice group shot is ok. "

please delete that other guy out of the pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find them tacky and never said they were. I just find them a turn off. I can obviously only give my own reasons as to why and they probably won't be the same as the next persons reasons. I don't like them because I'm naturally jealous and territorial, when I'm with a guy I want him to think that I'm the best person he's ever been with. I don't want to see pictures of him getting it on with someone else, if he didn't ask to take a picture of him hanging out of me or with his dick in my mouth I'd be like hang on, you wanted a picture of that other bird, fuck you!

Also if it was a particularly stunning girl with an uber incredible body I'd be like, right I don't look as good as that so straight away I wouldn't want to meet him, same as if it was a really buzzing girl I'd be like right ok he'll shag anything so that would put me off meeting.

It's not an attack of single males, I love love love single males "

Oh my reference to tacky wasn't responding to you, I get and understand your point of view, makes complete sense.

It was just a genuine shout out to see if people thought my pics went over their line.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Don't mind too much, so long as it isn't too graphic, nothing up close, but a nice group shot is ok.

please delete that other guy out of the pic... "

Which one (pic and guy lol)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the picture

if you can see the guy it's ok it's the ones where you can see full few of the women and only his cock that make laugh, more so when they put comments like can't show face pics due to job but happy to show the whole site the face pic of the last bird who sucked his off "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like voice notes of guys climaxing, often listen to them whilst having some self love, either that or watching gay porn with volume nice and loud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't mind too much, so long as it isn't too graphic, nothing up close, but a nice group shot is ok.

please delete that other guy out of the pic...

Which one (pic and guy lol)? "

lol in fact of of your pics that show others in the pics...its pretty disgusting behaviour...that amount of sex n stuff...I cant tolerate it any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any different to couples posting pics of threesomes ??

Or single ladies posting them ?

Ahh ofcourse it is because lets face it single men are the scurge of the swinging world most of the time ...

Dont get me wrong some ask for it but its a big brush we all get targeted with ..

My answer stands for any profile. If you struggle to think which one is the profile holder, or a man, woman or couple have pics of other people on with their faces then I dislike and actually wouldn't be interested in meeting. It's indiscreet. "

And this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like voice notes of guys climaxing, often listen to them whilst having some self love, either that or watching gay porn with volume nice and loud!

"

This I do

But as for pictures I don't see it's any different from women posting pictures ad the same

They help sometimes to gauge size and sexual tastes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off... Its either usually a bareback pic that they always say is an 'ex' yeah right mate!!

Or its of some stupidly skinny girl (usually no face shown as its a body for tv face for radio) and then they say they like girls of all sizes but just dont want to be seen with anyone who doesnt have a perfect body! "

Yes that's true!!! Ive had women say it's with a x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to have some pictures taken of me sucking a guy off, can never get a flattering angle though! From above you can see the bump from when my nose was broken. From the left side you can see my scar over my eye from when I was glassed. Will have to find someone with patience and ability to sustain a hard on for me to get some decent pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to have some pictures taken of me sucking a guy off, can never get a flattering angle though! From above you can see the bump from when my nose was broken. From the left side you can see my scar over my eye from when I was glassed. Will have to find someone with patience and ability to sustain a hard on for me to get some decent pictures!"

can easily photoshop your nose bump lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards.

thats your choice.

I however consider myself a swinger(a versatile one), I like 1 to 1 meets,group sex meets,parties,socials(and 1 to 1 social meets).I have a problem with those that cannot be open minded to what the scene is primarily about."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to have some pictures taken of me sucking a guy off, can never get a flattering angle though! From above you can see the bump from when my nose was broken. From the left side you can see my scar over my eye from when I was glassed. Will have to find someone with patience and ability to sustain a hard on for me to get some decent pictures!"

I have the same thing with my nose and there's ways round it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit confused now Op lol..

you find sex act pics a turn off...but want a pic of you sucking a guy off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

I agree. Prefer to see a clear picture of their face with a message other than "Hi, how's you?"

Something a bit more creative to catch my imagination works.

Cock pics do nothing for me either, it's what you can do with it that counts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards.

I agree. Prefer to see a clear picture of their face with a message other than "Hi, how's you?"

Something a bit more creative to catch my imagination works.

Cock pics do nothing for me either, it's what you can do with it that counts!

"

I wonder what that pussy can do....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a bit confused now Op lol..

you find sex act pics a turn off...but want a pic of you sucking a guy off.... "

For myself to look at my beautiful conquests!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't particularly like pics of potential sexual partners in action. Pointless really.

Stories are more powerful, if it's that kind of relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit confused now Op lol..

you find sex act pics a turn off...but want a pic of you sucking a guy off....

For myself to look at my beautiful conquests! "

lol..I think you look tasty, regardless of the bumpnose n scar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit confused now Op lol..

you find sex act pics a turn off...but want a pic of you sucking a guy off....

For myself to look at my beautiful conquests! "

oops..I misread that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

Personally depends on the guy and the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a bit confused now Op lol..

you find sex act pics a turn off...but want a pic of you sucking a guy off....

For myself to look at my beautiful conquests!

oops..I misread that haha"

Haha it's fine there was a compliment there so I'm taking it, and thank you

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

Off*

Much more attracted to other things.

*Always wonder if they get the other persons permission to post their pic on the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards.

Off*

Much more attracted to other things.

*Always wonder if they get the other persons permission to post their pic on the net

"

my meets come from here...I doubt any of them would let me put pics up of them without their knowledge ..I can sometimes take 100 or so pics on a meet...most of them I wont be in, so I cant use them....so the person(s) get their pics for their use

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

"

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By *roncoverssereneCouple
over a year ago

NearYouVille


"I find them a bit of a turn off too, especially if they're sent without asking.

When it's a blow job video or pic what exactly does that tell you about them? That they can lie there and get their cock sucked? Well congratulations!

It's another way of showing off, and the men who are actually sexy and successful don't need to brag.

We all show sex acts every now and then though.

Very true, but my photos of that kind are 90% me and hopefully gives someone an idea about me. And the men would certainly not be identifiable (and for the record, know they're up there and are totally ok with that)

The top couple of inches of a man's cock next to pretty much a full face or body of a woman on a single male profile tells me nothing about what they look like, which is the point of photos for me. I accept that everyone uses the photos differently though.

If it's the only pic then fine. But they could have a mix. Dressed. Undressed. Sex act. Etc.

This!

Balance is everything.

I had play pics on my old solo profile - all were of people still active on site, with full consent (many put the same pics or similar on theirs!) and if they left I removed them. But they were mixed with plenty of solo shots of myself.

It's no different to single females or couples posting similar shots.

If you worry about your picture content and only post to please others you'll never succeed.

Post pictures that you like. And if you have others in them? So long as consent is given I don't see the problem.

As I've said many times before - the only ones that concern me are new, unverified profiles showing play pics with others, as there is a high likelihood the other party is unaware of their use.

A"

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By *roncoverssereneCouple
over a year ago

NearYouVille


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

We believe caution is advised to all not to persecute the single guy/s here...For what's so different to couples & single fems whom follow this theme...horses for courses and maybe use of better filters...However, we firmly agree with... 'it's their profiles to do with as they wish and our choice if we make the effort to look at the content of their pictures'

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As others say it's more acceptable when the majority of the photo is the member, not vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On some, it's hard to tell who the profile belongs to, as you can see more of the lass he is bungalowing than of the chap himself. "

Bungalowing! HAHAHA made me think of Rainbow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it shows they are confident, experienced and not shy.

showing off maybe but then you could say that about any other type of pics or verifications. They get turned on looking at their pics and others looking at them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others say it's more acceptable when the majority of the photo is the member, not vice versa.

"

This is precisely the point I was making

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Don't mind too much, so long as it isn't too graphic, nothing up close, but a nice group shot is ok.

please delete that other guy out of the pic...

Which one (pic and guy lol)?

lol in fact of of your pics that show others in the pics...its pretty disgusting behaviour...that amount of sex n stuff...I cant tolerate it any longer. "

I know, shockin' innit?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can't say I'm too keen on them either. In my opinion a single man should show pictures of just him as a single man and not ones of him in action with others. Having said that, their profiles to do as they wish and my choice if I look at the pictures or not. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Depends on the picture

if you can see the guy it's ok it's the ones where you can see full few of the women and only his cock that make laugh, more so when they put comments like can't show face pics due to job but happy to show the whole site the face pic of the last bird who sucked his off "

Agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps moving forward, all the ladies should put up pics of a plate of food they've made or a piece of ironing they've done and they guys can put up pics of some diy they have done. Much more practical and relevant than of cocks pussy and all that malarkey, after all this isn't a sex site you know xx

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"The only ones I really like are of men giving oral. Not just the top of their heads popping up between thighs. Tongue action pics "

Agree

I also like seeing man give oral to other man :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps moving forward, all the ladies should put up pics of a plate of food they've made or a piece of ironing they've done and they guys can put up pics of some diy they have done. Much more practical and relevant than of cocks pussy and all that malarkey, after all this isn't a sex site you know xx"

My what a wonderful idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the picture

if you can see the guy it's ok it's the ones where you can see full few of the women and only his cock that make laugh, more so when they put comments like can't show face pics due to job but happy to show the whole site the face pic of the last bird who sucked his off "

If a guy with pics like that contacts me i just say they are advertising the girls rather than themselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "

Well done for starting this thread hun!!

The next time a guy with pics like this contacts me and doesnt understand why i aint interested he's getting pointed in the direction of this thread xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol and its ok for single women and couples to have sex acts with others inn pics then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps moving forward, all the ladies should put up pics of a plate of food they've made or a piece of ironing they've done and they guys can put up pics of some diy they have done. Much more practical and relevant than of cocks pussy and all that malarkey, after all this isn't a sex site you know xx"

Well I'm buggered then, don't cook, don't iron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps moving forward, all the ladies should put up pics of a plate of food they've made or a piece of ironing they've done and they guys can put up pics of some diy they have done. Much more practical and relevant than of cocks pussy and all that malarkey, after all this isn't a sex site you know xx"

Ahhh but the guys send these pics to straight girls like myself thinking they will be turned on. Now if a guy was to send me a pic of another guy sucking him off i would be turned on. As i do clearly state in my profile my bi MMF fantasy xx

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By *eanorMan
over a year ago

west herts

This thread is yet another example of the ridiculous sliding scale of mores on this site and the swinging scene in general.

Single males shouldn't post pictures of themselves in action FFS.

Bore off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is yet another example of the ridiculous sliding scale of mores on this site and the swinging scene in general.

Single males shouldn't post pictures of themselves in action FFS.

Bore off.

"

To be fair that's not what the opening post on the thread says. It asks if people find it a turn on or a turn off. And the answers have been a mix of both.

This sprang from some posts on another thread when a load of us had been sent unsolicited blow job videos by guys trying to impress.

If it makes me a boring bastard to not be impressed by that and to wonder whether the women in the videos or photos know about it, I'm totally ok with that. And I'm sure I'll survive the fact that no one will want to meet me, what with my being at the bottom of your sliding scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is yet another example of the ridiculous sliding scale of mores on this site and the swinging scene in general.

Single males shouldn't post pictures of themselves in action FFS.

Bore off.

"
where are the pics of you in action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is yet another example of the ridiculous sliding scale of mores on this site and the swinging scene in general.

Single males shouldn't post pictures of themselves in action FFS.

Bore off.

"

Absolute turn off. Displays a total lack of discretion. The woman probably doesn't even know they are being displayed, so there are consent issues and they are v immature - look at at me I've had sex. Yawn!!

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By *eanorMan
over a year ago

west herts

So your automatic assumption is that any single man who posts action pics has done so without the consent of the other party?

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By *eanorMan
over a year ago

west herts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your automatic assumption is that any single man who posts action pics has done so without the consent of the other party?

"

Basically. I keep any pics like that until somebody actually asks to see them x

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By *eanorMan
over a year ago

west herts


"This thread is yet another example of the ridiculous sliding scale of mores on this site and the swinging scene in general.

Single males shouldn't post pictures of themselves in action FFS.

Bore off.

where are the pics of you in action? "

I haven't taken any during meets, it's not a priority for me tbh.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I think whilst that's fine in terms of your preference.

Surely it's only the same as women posting sex acts.

Men on the whole are more visual when it comes to sex but it does not mean all women dislike seeing sec acts."

One and done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some people doing the usual and assuming single guys are all dishonest, useless and by and large devoid of all aspects of character...i have one pic on friends only of a girl in reverse cow girl, it often gets commented upon as being 'hot'...and the girl in question knows its there and requested that it stay there..please assume better men than some posters currently do..and maybe..just maybe you might find some

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


" @ mopping a bird out"

Made me chuckle too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that puts me off is no protection in these pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing that puts me off is no protection in these pics "
no glove no love clare ill be packing plenty on monday hun come say hi

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

More turned off by sad judgmental people ... Plenty here lol Some people always trying to put themselves at a different class to the single guys. Seriously, leave them alone and get on with the fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right to avoid sexism. 24 hrs of my ugly mug doing it for the team on my avatar. Lol

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

I loves that muchly.... not an attack on single males, they love single males.... only they effectively blocked them by limiting the ages to between 99 and 99. heheheheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your automatic assumption is that any single man who posts action pics has done so without the consent of the other party?

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Yes I do. Yes there are decent single men on here. Ive met a few, however there is an increasing amount of low life coming on here using it as instashag and these men have such a low opinion of women that consent to have those pics up wouldn't cross their sad little minds. As I said before an absolute turn off. If this makes me appear like i think I am above these people then yes I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought any profile pics had to be of the profile holder anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I loves that muchly.... not an attack on single males, they love single males.... only they effectively blocked them by limiting the ages to between 99 and 99. heheheheh

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It's usually just a filter to stop getting loads of mail. It's much easier to go looking for decent people when the inbox isn't flooded with dickheada.

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By *eanorMan
over a year ago

west herts


"So your automatic assumption is that any single man who posts action pics has done so without the consent of the other party?

Yes I do. Yes there are decent single men on here. Ive met a few, however there is an increasing amount of low life coming on here using it as instashag and these men have such a low opinion of women that consent to have those pics up wouldn't cross their sad little minds. As I said before an absolute turn off. If this makes me appear like i think I am above these people then yes I am! "

There's no real answer to such a black and white attitude then is there.

And yet no doubt you consider yourself open-minded and empowered because you're a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like receiving pics like this either. If i want to see who they have met, I go and look at the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happy whatever we post . We can never win . Its not a whinge either been here long enough I just accept it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get fed up of seeing pics of women's feet btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your automatic assumption is that any single man who posts action pics has done so without the consent of the other party?

Yes I do. Yes there are decent single men on here. Ive met a few, however there is an increasing amount of low life coming on here using it as instashag and these men have such a low opinion of women that consent to have those pics up wouldn't cross their sad little minds. As I said before an absolute turn off. If this makes me appear like i think I am above these people then yes I am!

There's no real answer to such a black and white attitude then is there.

And yet no doubt you consider yourself open-minded and empowered because you're a swinger."

So swingers can't have morals and standards because we have to be open minded. The lack of respect that uploading these pics without consent shows over rides any 'openmindedness' that I have.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Not for me i am happy to say, it is very off putting

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My 'action' shots are in private or friends only. Personally, I really like action shots and preferably group sex action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally. I would never send an 'action' pic or a cock pic on a first message. Maybe if things got a little heated and from talking to that person you can tell they won't mind me sending such pics..then, i'd send a cock pic. Usually i just send a bulge.

Mind you, if i do add someone to my friends list i warn them of the graphic nature of the pics in my profile. So they know how the pictures would differ.

But, it's my profile at the end of the day. I'd use it however i want. Without being disrespectful to the OP. Some days i'm just horny and i'd upload a cock pic and leave it up there (like today). Other days i'm feeling teasing so i'd upload different kind of pics.

Depends on the mood for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a turn off for us too we don't want to see someone else's conquests but we do like to see imaginative picture of the guy on his own. There are some who would use these pictures to check out the standard of woman the guy meets but often it's an "ex girlfriend", but in all honesty we don't bother looking at them and move on to someone who we are attracted to.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

Think lots of women find it a turn off. But they should not be on profile bet some women dont even no they got them on here. But i looked at some profiles and the single men with them seam to have lots of meets so must be some thing in it. What you mean by videos did not no you could put them on here

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"So your automatic assumption is that any single man who posts action pics has done so without the consent of the other party?

Yes I do. Yes there are decent single men on here. Ive met a few, however there is an increasing amount of low life coming on here using it as instashag and these men have such a low opinion of women that consent to have those pics up wouldn't cross their sad little minds. As I said before an absolute turn off. If this makes me appear like i think I am above these people then yes I am! "

LOL, wow! who hurt you?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"I thought any profile pics had to be of the profile holder anyway "

Good point!

Here's an example: Had a message today from a guy saying 'Remember me?'

Let's just say the profile pic was 90% shaven pussy, 10% his penis was well, use your imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

sad as fuck is my attitude...I'm either boasting or making sexual obejects out of women...I love sex+photography...thats just the fact....

I'm fucked if it doesnt get me meets with certain people...but I'm fucked with the people who dont mind it or in fact...lalalala...like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its double standards its ok for women and couple do sex acts in pics whilst for men its not..... just another "against" single guy threads.. Next lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also depends what the action is. Some pics with a man and woman in are very sexy. Some are just close ups of genitals and could be of anyone. Some you can't work out what the pic is of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many assumptions, generalisations and judgements in this thread.

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

sad as fuck is my attitude...I'm either boasting or making sexual obejects out of women...I love sex+photography...thats just the fact....

I'm fucked if it doesnt get me meets with certain people...but I'm fucked with the people who dont mind it or in fact...lalalala...like it."

I was coming back to this thread anyway...

The question was about if people like to see pics of other people on profiles.

I don't like to see pics of other people, especially if you can't tell which person is the profile owner(s). Or where 99% of the photo is of the other person.

That's just my opinion and I am in no way saying other people should do what I want. It's their profile.

However I do like some pics, such as yours. Yes I know I am contradicting myself.

I wouldn't avoid meeting someone with a profile that was different to my likes. Who the fuck am I to tell someone else how to have their profile?! If I like the person, I like them. But I'm still just as entitled to my thoughts as they are entitled to theirs. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My comments refer to couples, women and tv profiles, not just single men.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

Personally I actually find it a turn on and not only just on profiles.. I like to see pictures or watch videos especially if im talking to a guy and they share back how turned on they are about our conversations.

I also have a few friends ill do this with on Kik, purely just for picture/video sharing and no intentions of meeting them.

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over a year ago


"It also depends what the action is. Some pics with a man and woman in are very sexy. Some are just close ups of genitals and could be of anyone. Some you can't work out what the pic is of"

that clue might be in the profile holder...I think I'm the wee skinny blackish guy in most of my pics lol...

as I've previously stated, I like group sex and so do a lot of my meets...we take pics..we might even take a video..this is OUR time...we like to share it,as swinging essentially goes , we share what we want to get up to..we want to 'show' off...

I object to this fascination that sexual organs can be deemed as disgusting,crude blahhh fucking blah..

if I can find the beuty in an insect(as my hobby dictates),I can certainly find the beauty of an open pussy or arsehole dripping with cum......maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

sad as fuck is my attitude...I'm either boasting or making sexual obejects out of women...I love sex+photography...thats just the fact....

I'm fucked if it doesnt get me meets with certain people...but I'm fucked with the people who dont mind it or in fact...lalalala...like it.

I was coming back to this thread anyway...

The question was about if people like to see pics of other people on profiles.

I don't like to see pics of other people, especially if you can't tell which person is the profile owner(s). Or where 99% of the photo is of the other person.

That's just my opinion and I am in no way saying other people should do what I want. It's their profile.

However I do like some pics, such as yours. Yes I know I am contradicting myself.

I wouldn't avoid meeting someone with a profile that was different to my likes. Who the fuck am I to tell someone else how to have their profile?! If I like the person, I like them. But I'm still just as entitled to my thoughts as they are entitled to theirs. x"

I hate contradictors...and some I'd happily shag ...like u..

but again, its fucks me off everytime I read the same posts about 'action' pics...

I get VERY fucking fucked off being told what should be on my profile

I get very fucked off in most cases when people talk utter pish in fact...starnge that..and yes..ive a fucking hangover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I actually find it a turn on and not only just on profiles.. I like to see pictures or watch videos especially if im talking to a guy and they share back how turned on they are about our conversations.

I also have a few friends ill do this with on Kik, purely just for picture/video sharing and no intentions of meeting them. "

I'd share anything spunktual with u

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Personally I actually find it a turn on and not only just on profiles.. I like to see pictures or watch videos especially if im talking to a guy and they share back how turned on they are about our conversations.

I also have a few friends ill do this with on Kik, purely just for picture/video sharing and no intentions of meeting them.

I'd share anything spunktual with u"

Haha.. but I can just take sneaky perves at your profile xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

"

Cheeky fecker!!

I said pretty much that yesterday!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I actually find it a turn on and not only just on profiles.. I like to see pictures or watch videos especially if im talking to a guy and they share back how turned on they are about our conversations.

I also have a few friends ill do this with on Kik, purely just for picture/video sharing and no intentions of meeting them.

I'd share anything spunktual with u

Haha.. but I can just take sneaky perves at your profile xx"

dont look at pic 154...it shows me anally ejaculating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

sad as fuck is my attitude...I'm either boasting or making sexual obejects out of women...I love sex+photography...thats just the fact....

I'm fucked if it doesnt get me meets with certain people...but I'm fucked with the people who dont mind it or in fact...lalalala...like it.

I was coming back to this thread anyway...

The question was about if people like to see pics of other people on profiles.

I don't like to see pics of other people, especially if you can't tell which person is the profile owner(s). Or where 99% of the photo is of the other person.

That's just my opinion and I am in no way saying other people should do what I want. It's their profile.

However I do like some pics, such as yours. Yes I know I am contradicting myself.

I wouldn't avoid meeting someone with a profile that was different to my likes. Who the fuck am I to tell someone else how to have their profile?! If I like the person, I like them. But I'm still just as entitled to my thoughts as they are entitled to theirs. x

I hate contradictors...and some I'd happily shag ...like u..

but again, its fucks me off everytime I read the same posts about 'action' pics...

I get VERY fucking fucked off being told what should be on my profile

I get very fucked off in most cases when people talk utter pish in fact...starnge that..and yes..ive a fucking hangover"

I only ever talk utter pish.

Have a fry up. Oops that was a suggestion. Not telling you what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

Cheeky fecker!!

I said pretty much that yesterday!

A"

I know u did..it was just really on the fence commenting..I wish u would raise ur backbone n stiop being a fud about speaking out against the masses

x

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

sad as fuck is my attitude...I'm either boasting or making sexual obejects out of women...I love sex+photography...thats just the fact....

I'm fucked if it doesnt get me meets with certain people...but I'm fucked with the people who dont mind it or in fact...lalalala...like it.

I was coming back to this thread anyway...

The question was about if people like to see pics of other people on profiles.

I don't like to see pics of other people, especially if you can't tell which person is the profile owner(s). Or where 99% of the photo is of the other person.

That's just my opinion and I am in no way saying other people should do what I want. It's their profile.

However I do like some pics, such as yours. Yes I know I am contradicting myself.

I wouldn't avoid meeting someone with a profile that was different to my likes. Who the fuck am I to tell someone else how to have their profile?! If I like the person, I like them. But I'm still just as entitled to my thoughts as they are entitled to theirs. x

I hate contradictors...and some I'd happily shag ...like u..

but again, its fucks me off everytime I read the same posts about 'action' pics...

I get VERY fucking fucked off being told what should be on my profile

I get very fucked off in most cases when people talk utter pish in fact...starnge that..and yes..ive a fucking hangover

I only ever talk utter pish.

Have a fry up. Oops that was a suggestion. Not telling you what to do. "

make me one...and take pics of u almost frying ur nipples x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

Cheeky fecker!!

I said pretty much that yesterday!

A

I know u did..it was just really on the fence commenting..I wish u would raise ur backbone n stiop being a fud about speaking out against the masses

x

P "

Just cos your lens is bigger than mine....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn on or turn off...?

I see lots of pictures of single guys with pictures of them mopping a bird out or shagging or getting sucked off. I've even received videos without asking for them, of guys receiving or performing sex acts!

Personally I find it a turn off!

Happy to discuss

Regards. "
Some girls will..some girls wone ..some girls need a lot of videos and some girls dont.

iI know youve got that feeling and dont know why but some say they need and some girls lie....racey like yer pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of irrelevant posts here. Site rules mean a single guy cannot show a woman's face anywhere in his pics. Seems to be people here complaining about pics that don't exist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread "

was hoping for some back up ffs..call yersel a pal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread

was hoping for some back up ffs..call yersel a pal lol "

I think you have made your point perfectly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread

was hoping for some back up ffs..call yersel a pal lol

I think you have made your point perfectly xx "

but I'm a single guy...my point(s) have been ignored and ridculed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread

was hoping for some back up ffs..call yersel a pal lol

I think you have made your point perfectly xx

but I'm a single guy...my point(s) have been ignored and ridculed "

Suck it up sugar tits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread

was hoping for some back up ffs..call yersel a pal lol

I think you have made your point perfectly xx

but I'm a single guy...my point(s) have been ignored and ridculed

Suck it up sugar tits!

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ur hubby said no...gutted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not keen on them personally but no different to the pics that women post of themselves plastered in cum or with cocks in every orifice.

But as they have posted the pics Im guessing that they themselves like them - so good on 'em. I just try not to look "

at last voice of reason

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Interesting thread "

Want some popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who will do part 2? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anything wrong with men having pictures of sexual activity on their profiles as long as the content is fair,by that I mean not hiding themselves and showing the majority of the woman,I'm not looking to play with the woman I want to be interested in the man and if I can't see much of him then its no good for me

Its a swinging site where people meet other people for sex,I have sex pics on my profile too so I'm not going to judge anyone for what they want to show on theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of irrelevant posts here. Site rules mean a single guy cannot show a woman's face anywhere in his pics. Seems to be people here complaining about pics that don't exist?"

Well there's a lot slipping under the rules radar then because I get sent about three a day. Maybe the eyes might be blocked by a little strip over them, but there's often basically a whole face or body.

I don't know where on the thread anyone said people "shouldn't" have them on their profile though. The OP's point, and my point, was that we find it a bit of a turn off. Others have said it's a turn on for them. So what's the problem? Why does that make me boring/closed minded/judgemental/making assumptions (delete as appropriate)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ahhh fuck it and fuck anyone else who disagrees lol...tired of judgemental shit on here...not ONE single person as really been able to say whether a couple should post pics of their 'conquests'...i wonder fucking why?

sad as fuck is my attitude...I'm either boasting or making sexual obejects out of women...I love sex+photography...thats just the fact....

I'm fucked if it doesnt get me meets with certain people...but I'm fucked with the people who dont mind it or in fact...lalalala...like it."

We feel the same towards couples and singles a like, they should be showing themselves off and not their past meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be my last comment for this particular thread..

but has anyone else seen many couples profiles...sometimes it can be from a group club meet...not one guy in the pic, and several fem arses all laid out to view?

come on...challenge these profiles too...surely they are not reflective of what the Op and a few think should be on a profile.

I'd imagine, as I'm obviously liking such pics, these people have enjoyed their nites..and love the exposure their healthy and filthy swinging sex lives give them.

so getting back to the original OP.

why should my swinging time be any less for what it is for others?-not that I think I care for the answers...as nobody has given a valid answer to why I can post pics of group meets(or single meets)..or why I cannot, in relation to any couples who post the same..........

anyone?

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