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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should try and encourage the ladies you're with, tell them what you like, give a bit of encouragement etc.

Or perhaps try a bloke instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact.. I have never came while receiving a bj :S

is that weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you should try and encourage the ladies you're with, tell them what you like, give a bit of encouragement etc.

Or perhaps try a bloke instead. "

Although Blokes can be bad too

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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

It all come skills...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every man likes something different and unless we are told what they are we can't mind read. Offer encouragement and tell them what you like....easy!

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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

"Maybe you should try and encourage the ladies you're with, tell them what you like, give a bit of encouragement etc.

Or perhaps try a bloke instead. "

Lol

I won't go that far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't suck a cock to get cum out of it. I do it because I like doing it

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Maybe you should try and encourage the ladies you're with, tell them what you like, give a bit of encouragement etc.

Or perhaps try a bloke instead.

Lol

I won't go that far lol"

Careful OP - you should never criticise somebody for doing something badly that you can't say you do better yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think some girls do it because they feel they have to. I don't suck every guy off ... but I have very good skills took me a while to acquire ive picked up things from different guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are not great, so it's a case of encouraging them, otherwise that's the same as shagging and the other person lying there with no words or responses.

But there are people who profess to be the best or great, and they're not. Surely everyone who's self aware understands that?

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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

"think some girls do it because they feel they have to. I don't suck every guy off ... but I have very good skills took me a while to acquire ive picked up things from different guys!

here we are getting somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEs I have had few rubbish ones but at least I got stiff so could fuck her.. that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewww I'd never have a willy in my mouth.

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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

"Ewww I'd never have a willy in my mouth.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello."

I'm so glad you posted that. I thought I was the odd one out as I was scrolling down the thread

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By *k1986Man
over a year ago

local

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello.

I'm so glad you posted that. I thought I was the odd one out as I was scrolling down the thread

this.

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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

It's about paying attention! If you can hear the sharp intake of breath through his teeth,feel the flex of his thigh muscles,gentle tremor in his legs and he reaches for your head,you know you're doing something right!!

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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello."

I have always made the ladies cum first alwaysss

however it's has never happened for me

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello.

I have always made the ladies cum first alwaysss

however it's has never happened for me

Maybe because you want it to so much. Relax and enjoy the sex - its not a competition.

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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

"It's about paying attention! If you can hear the sharp intake of breath through his teeth,feel the flex of his thigh muscles,gentle tremor in his legs and he reaches for your head,you know you're doing something right!!

please that note here ladies

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By *ufalo OP Man
over a year ago

Fun town

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello.

I have always made the ladies cum first alwaysss

however it's has never happened for me

Maybe because you want it to so much. Relax and enjoy the sex - its not a competition."

Come one I'm 34 ! Only 3 ladies made this happened

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Every guy needs something a little different. Some guys never come from blow jobs. Why assume it's the partner's fault or responsibility?

Sometimes you have to make the most of what little you have. If the guy is at group sessions and the suckers are getting great results with the other guys but not him then it's probably about him and not the dedicated cock suckers. What should he be doing differently?

I've had a couple of lame sessions where I make less effort - typically it's been a partner who's poor at pleasing me or there's a compatibility issue. I'm involved and not giving as much, but it's the two of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello.

I'm so glad you posted that. I thought I was the odd one out as I was scrolling down the thread

this."

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Try a T Girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You forgot the quiet "fuck"s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello."

So, from you post, we can deduce that you'll be blowing your meet within 5 minutes of meeting

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

I've never ever failed would dump a guy if he couldn't x

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

"Fact.. I have never came while receiving a bj :S

is that weird

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YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love blow jobs. I don't cum from them (well, v rarely) but that's great: it means i get to keep playing. As has been said already; why would you want to just cum and have playtime end?

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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

You forgot the quiet "fuck"s "

Oh yes,I did didn't I???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only guessing here, but I suspect most guys can only cum from a blowjob if it's 'hand assisted'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have really enjoyed bj's in the past without being able to cum, but my latest lover has really found the spot, especially when she fingers my bottom

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By *ldmaster4subgirlMan
over a year ago

rotherham

a wet lube finger in the ass while getting a bj helps big time def makes me cum loads lol had one young girl who was fantstic t bjs made me cum twice with out stopping just with her mouth and finger took her at least 30mins for both loads and never used hers hands at all def one of the best bjs ive had was wet and sloppy and balls deep she took it all never wasted a drop they the girls you want back every week lol

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ? "

Maybe but communication may be something you could learn - how can anyone know if what they are doing is doing it for your unless you tell them? Takes two to tango x

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

whenever I get BJ bloody grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to make a guy cum. The best is when they are deep in my throat and I swallow so my throat tightens round their girth. Oh the moans I get from that are amazing HeHe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love blow jobs, whether a lady makes me cum with her mouth, or is just playing and teasing me, leading up to a good hard fuck.

I love watching a girls hungry lips gliding along my hard shaft, moving rhythmically on my cock. Completely focused with the look in my eyes and using her mouth and tongue to worship and adore me.

Thank you ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to make a guy cum. The best is when they are deep in my throat and I swallow so my throat tightens round their girth. Oh the moans I get from that are amazing HeHe xx"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every man is very different.. Some like slow and sensual and others like sloppy deep throat and all the variations in between. Usually if you go by the moans you can't go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a woman make me come by a blow job!!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I love giving blow jobs and each man is different.

Can i say Op though that you have been on over a year and not 1 veri.....maybe yr oral technique could do with some education too lol

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think there is a lot of pressure on those giving the blow job. Especially when you read about others who always get the man to cum.

I for one didn't like giving blow jobs as I thought I must be crap if they didn't cum. So I just stopped giving them at all, until my current partner took that pressure away from me. He taught me just to enjoy myself playing with him. Lick, suck, kiss, even nibble a bit. Making him cum was not the goal. Just enjoying each other was.

So now I don't care if someone doesn't cum from a blow job from me, as long as we are both enjoying it, so I have gone from detesting them to loving them.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife gives the best BJ and makes me cum all the time. And she swallows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you should try and encourage the ladies you're with, tell them what you like, give a bit of encouragement etc.

Or perhaps try a bloke instead. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had a woman make me come by a blow job!! "

I have loads of times

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Fact.. I have never came while receiving a bj :S

is that weird

I havnt either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some ladies are crap and some wont even go there! And feel like there is a whirling hungry soft milking device attached to you which pulls you inside out as you erupt in her mouth. But they only get that good by enthusiasm and the guy telling her what feel crap, what feels good and then what feels like begging her not to stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fact.. I have never came while receiving a bj :S

is that weird

Neither have I

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

As has already been said, communication is the key as everyone is different.

My ex used to like me to go in at an angle, grinding my tongue against his helmet whereas Vince isn't so keen.

Have also sucked a guy off who seemed to want things as basic as possible - lips held loose, stroking up and down his shaft, barely any sucking or pressure, no hands and he liked it as slow as possible.

The only way it's going to be crap is if you don't tell them what you want or the person giving the blow job isn't in the mood.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fact.. I have never came while receiving a bj :S

is that weird

Neither have I

I don't think it's weird, I hardly ever cum from oral either.

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By *roncoverssereneCouple
over a year ago

NearYouVille

"Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ? "
My lady watches ever move, assist her tongue with teeth, adjusts the strength of the suck and oh oh oh oooooooooooooooohweeeeeeeee damn that was good.....honey cheeks does it well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same for women

Some squirt some don't

That don't make the person behind the foreplay rubbish !!

I've made certain guys cum

And others just enjoy

Not everyone's gonna be the same

And agree communication is the key !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same for women

Some squirt some don't

That don't make the person behind the foreplay rubbish !!

I've made certain guys cum

And others just enjoy

Not everyone's gonna be the same

And agree communication is the key !!"

Amen to this!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Been told I'm quite good on occasions, helps that I absolutely love to do it though. Noticed also the way my hubby likes it doesn't always cross over to other guys in the same way, not everyone wants to be deepthroated

Subjective, likes and dislikes. The life of the blowjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy recently sent me a video of him receiving a blow job, he said he knows the woman was rough as fuck looking but he said she gave him the best blow job he'd ever had. It involved her deep throating then pulling it out with massive amounts of stringy looking flem attached to it then spitting on it but not just a little, it was almost like she was sick on it but that bile looking stuff. Then he grabbed her head and was skull fucking her whilst she was gagging. It looked pretty disgusting if I'm honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy recently sent me a video of him receiving a blow job, he said he knows the woman was rough as fuck looking but he said she gave him the best blow job he'd ever had. It involved her deep throating then pulling it out with massive amounts of stringy looking flem attached to it then spitting on it but not just a little, it was almost like she was sick on it but that bile looking stuff. Then he grabbed her head and was skull fucking her whilst she was gagging. It looked pretty disgusting if I'm honest! "

So did you see the guy again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same for women

Some squirt some don't

That don't make the person behind the foreplay rubbish !!

I've made certain guys cum

And others just enjoy

Not everyone's gonna be the same

And agree communication is the key !!

Amen to this!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's willing to put in her mouth it's a great start, so all good for me. It's relatively easy to sort the technique out. I Only ever had to complain once. Teeth scraping on the helmet!! Not good, but she got the hang of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't suck a cock to get cum out of it. I do it because I like doing it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you see the guy again?

No I've not met him, not sure if I will yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im crap at them. I don't want cum in my mouth so I don't bj for long. I'm more of a licker and a nibbler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you see the guy again?

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ? "

I'd like to see you put that to the boards of education.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x"

I didn't ask for it either and don't really see the appeal in seeing pictures/videos of guys with other birds doing sex acts. If anything it puts me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x

I didn't ask for it either and don't really see the appeal in seeing pictures/videos of guys with other birds doing sex acts. If anything it puts me off! "

i totally agree hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x

I didn't ask for it either and don't really see the appeal in seeing pictures/videos of guys with other birds doing sex acts. If anything it puts me off!

i totally agree hun xx"

I agree too, it's a huge turn off - and I always wonder whether the girl knows he's sending it around to everyone he's trying to fuck next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x

I didn't ask for it either and don't really see the appeal in seeing pictures/videos of guys with other birds doing sex acts.

If anything it puts me off!

i totally agree hun xx

I agree too, it's a huge turn off - and I always wonder whether the girl knows he's sending it around to everyone he's trying to fuck next

I think weve started a new forum topic girlies lol cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fact.. I have never came while receiving a bj :S

is that weird

Its quite common according to my male friends. Think I need to offer them my skills xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x

I didn't ask for it either and don't really see the appeal in seeing pictures/videos of guys with other birds doing sex acts.

If anything it puts me off!

i totally agree hun xx

I agree too, it's a huge turn off - and I always wonder whether the girl knows he's sending it around to everyone he's trying to fuck next

I think weve started a new forum topic girlies lol cx"

Do it! I'll do it, never started a thread that had many replies before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ? "

Yes and it's also true to say some men are crap at giving oral

your point is?

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ? "
. Surley it is about the pleasure you receive . Why is it necessary to come ?. I have never had any problems from ladies giving them. You need to communicate and interact to enjoy. A few ladies have pulled skin back to far and the pressure was slightly painful. I just adjusted my position to relieve the pressure slightly . I prefer it to be a warm up to fuckng them. Their pleasure is just as important as yours. Some of the blow jobs that I have had in Cap d Agde I will remember for the rest of my life . Made cock rock solid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x

I didn't ask for it either and don't really see the appeal in seeing pictures/videos of guys with other birds doing sex acts. If anything it puts me off! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think I've mastered the art

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

BJs are as much a mental thing for guys as they are physical. At least they are for me. Going at it furiously like a Dyson, well...you'll be fresh out of luck i'm afraid.

That said, i understand that some women love the experience/ control that having a cock in their mouth brings. Sometimes, that can be more of a turn on than any physical foreplay.

It is all about understanding what works with the individual youhappen to be with. Anyone approaching oral sex woth a "one size fits all" or "My skills are 10/10" mentality is a bit deluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll keep practicing then......

Susan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ?

Yes and it's also true to say some men are crap at giving oral

your point is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of himself getting a blowjob without even asking if i wanted to see it. Was sorry he did cos i wasnt pleased lol x

I didn't ask for it either and don't really see the appeal in seeing pictures/videos of guys with other birds doing sex acts. If anything it puts me off! "

Me too! Why would you want to see that? I think because a some men enjoy seeing videos they assume everyone does, does nothing for me!!

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Can we honestly said some ladies are rubbish at giving b-J ?

By personal experience only 3 ladies have managed to make me blow ????????????

Is this a skills to be leaned ?

Yes and it's also true to say some men are crap at giving oral

your point is?

Still waiting for a guy to make me cum through oral ... But at least they are bothering in the first place.

Different guys like different things and you only find out what a specific guy likes once you're down there. Unfortunately a lot of people don't have crystal balls to know before hand the exact speeds, movements etc. that you like and if you don't give feed back then they'll never know what to do to improve for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would I want the bloke to cum from a BJ? What about me? I meet for sex and mutual fun, not for the guy to 'blow' within 5 mins of saying hello."

I'm with you in this, but have also found this works both ways... Have been a few guys that have almost dragged me off because they were close to orgasm and didn't want to let go yet as they wanted to keep playing. I've also go a regular meet though who repeats and the first load is usually from a bj, but that's a unique situation.

That's not to say I've made every guy cum or be on the edge, if I don't get any feedback on whether he is enjoying what I'm doing I tend to get bored and give up. I enjoy giving head but it's pointless if I don't know whether he's enjoying it too or not... Just as if I guy is giving me oral I'll make sure he knows what works and what doesn't otherwise why bother?

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