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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

please read profiles! its starting to annoy me when reading messages all addressed to the fem! our profile is not a single fem profile, its a couples profile!

and breath

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean the profile is meant to be read, shit!

That's what's been going wrong, usually skip to the pictures

Stress not, it happens to all of us, just makes it easier to know who to ignore......

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

Profiles and read.......got to be joking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But reading a profile takes effort. Easier to just look at the photos. Then send a simple message like. Hi how are you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Profiles? What profiles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But reading a profile takes effort. Easier to just look at the photos. Then send a simple message like. Hi how are you?"

yeah and ask questions later lol

its the ones that address Hi babe, Hi sexy what you doin tonight wana come mine? my replies usually 'nar fanks mate, not my tipe

but yeah those ones

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

A lack of total repect for the couple if that's the clumsy approach

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

On my couples profile the ones that go straight into the whole 'wow you look hot, fancy a meet' spiel I assume are addressing my bi BF (since I think he is well hot) so I leave them for him to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 pictures of the female and 1 of the bloke might be a factor in why you attract the sort of blokes that think with their dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here but yes guilty as above. Too many pics of jools.

Tried putting pic's of me up and only got interest from gay guy's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On my couples profile the ones that go straight into the whole 'wow you look hot, fancy a meet' spiel I assume are addressing my bi BF (since I think he is well hot) so I leave them for him to answer.

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Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"26 pictures of the female and 1 of the bloke might be a factor in why you attract the sort of blokes that think with their dicks"

Ha never noticed or counted just upload them lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"please read profiles! its starting to annoy me when reading messages all addressed to the fem! our profile is not a single fem profile, its a couples profile!

and breath

Thanks"

but it starts with "female will play alone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But reading a profile takes effort. Easier to just look at the photos. Then send a simple message like. Hi how are you?

yeah and ask questions later lol

its the ones that address Hi babe, Hi sexy what you doin tonight wana come mine? my replies usually 'nar fanks mate, not my tipe

but yeah those ones"

Yeah that is one of our hates but we use it as another filter. If they haven't got the brains or manners to address us both in the first message then we know they aren't someone we would want to meet.

But we usually reply similar to yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"please read profiles! its starting to annoy me when reading messages all addressed to the fem! our profile is not a single fem profile, its a couples profile!

and breath

Thanks"

Why stress? We always see it as the first rejection fence far better to find out who lacks respect early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But reading a profile takes effort. Easier to just look at the photos. Then send a simple message like. Hi how are you?

yeah and ask questions later lol

its the ones that address Hi babe, Hi sexy what you doin tonight wana come mine? my replies usually 'nar fanks mate, not my tipe

but yeah those ones

Yeah that is one of our hates but we use it as another filter. If they haven't got the brains or manners to address us both in the first message then we know they aren't someone we would want to meet.

But we usually reply similar to yourselves. "

we do this, is usually ends up in some infantile excuse, we laugh at that aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But reading a profile takes effort. Easier to just look at the photos. Then send a simple message like. Hi how are you?

yeah and ask questions later lol

its the ones that address Hi babe, Hi sexy what you doin tonight wana come mine? my replies usually 'nar fanks mate, not my tipe

but yeah those ones

Yeah that is one of our hates but we use it as another filter. If they haven't got the brains or manners to address us both in the first message then we know they aren't someone we would want to meet.

But we usually reply similar to yourselves.

we do this, is usually ends up in some infantile excuse, we laugh at that aswell "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it says the fem meets alone and most of the pics are of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it says the fem meets alone and most of the pics are of her. "

It's still a couples profile so really the decent thing would be to direct it to both Initially and mention that they were looking to meet fem by herself. We think they should still acknowledge the fact it is a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice if couples had a pic of both of them just so we don't get confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find that most couple profiles is written in 3rd person text. I gues they are written by the husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be nice if couples had a pic of both of them just so we don't get confused "

why? Is the word couple near to where the name is so hard to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will find that most couple profiles is written in 3rd person text. I gues they are written by the husband "

Well ours is written by the third person in our couple lol

Actually ours is wrote by juicy (fem) because I get told off for spelling and punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be nice if couples had a pic of both of them just so we don't get confused

why? Is the word couple near to where the name is so hard to understand"

Some 'couple' profiles have the majority of pics of just the female. Using the female as 'bait'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be nice if couples had a pic of both of them just so we don't get confused "

but there is a pic of us both, just further down the list lol

but as others have said, it is a couples profile and in it it says what we both like and look for.

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