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"Just a question to find out people's opinions When chatting to a 'couple' who have on there profile that they will block unless addressed as a couple put I'm and me instead of our and us would you think that is probably a fake? " No, I'd just avoid them for having double standards, same as cpls who insist you have pics on your profile but have non on their own! | |||
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"I say 'I' or 'my' in the forums a lot. I do it in messages to friends too. But as a first response or OP ending message it will always be worded as coming from both of us. Does it mean someone's fake? Possibly, possibly not. Might just be carelessness. A" I do this too but when it's new people we've not spoke to it came across as a single or a very selfish half of a couple | |||
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"Probably being too wary Messages like when I'm in the mood and what I want It just came across as being not about a couple " The ones you really need to be wary of is cpls profiles where the guy seems to be free all the time to meet women with the wife's consent!!!! | |||
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"I would say..to whom am I adressing at the present moment? " That i did and apparently they were both online but at different houses and 'he' didn't know 'she' was online as well | |||
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"I would say..to whom am I adressing at the present moment? That i did and apparently they were both online but at different houses and 'he' didn't know 'she' was online as well " Sounds odd. | |||
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"I would say..to whom am I adressing at the present moment? That i did and apparently they were both online but at different houses and 'he' didn't know 'she' was online as well " Any other 'warning signs' ? Used to happen to us occasionally when I was working away more but I'd always make it clear from the off. Guess it's a judgement call. A | |||
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"I would say..to whom am I adressing at the present moment? That i did and apparently they were both online but at different houses and 'he' didn't know 'she' was online as well " Lots of couples aren't full time. If you are wary move on. You're giving details now that they could recognise themselves from. | |||
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"I would say..to whom am I adressing at the present moment? That i did and apparently they were both online but at different houses and 'he' didn't know 'she' was online as well Any other 'warning signs' ? Used to happen to us occasionally when I was working away more but I'd always make it clear from the off. Guess it's a judgement call. A" Just gut instinct, I guess that's the only thing you have to go on on here with new unverified members | |||
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"Just gut instinct, I guess that's the only thing you have to go on on here with new unverified members " Always go with your gut, sometimes some of these profiles give me IBS! We tend to steer clear of unverified users, but if something about them really attracts you, simply ask for a webcam view or a fem2fem telephone chat. Mr ddc | |||
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"We've always had the view that everyone has to start somewhere just like we did When you've had your pics stole on here you tend to be a bit more wary though " Sadly the onus will always be on the new, unverified profile to somehow 'prove' they are who they say they are - rather than on you. If they're local - invite them down the club. And if they say they can only do a Friday......... A | |||
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"what gets me is why do guys (well couples too) always presume its the female? some messages we get are always addressed to the fem. Hi sexy, Hi babe wana meet me. etc etc since where does it say single fem?" Thats what the male hopes that it is the female who answers | |||
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"We've always had the view that everyone has to start somewhere just like we did When you've had your pics stole on here you tend to be a bit more wary though " we had some of our pictures stolen...well mine actually. Anyone can steal them not just the people who message you. Wariness is good though, we tend to believe about half of what anyone tells us and although we tell as much of the truth as its wise to do (never say where we work for instance)we are prepared fro others to be wary of us too. | |||
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