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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can we ask if a couple as you for a face picture will you send or won't you ...... As we signed up to a swingers site not blind date ...

Then people say we can't because of our jobs !!!!

Thoughts please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this ourselves put it down to time wasters fakes move on don't both about them block button sorts it lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't carry on the conversation if they won't show their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allways send a face picture with any message. Did they send one? If not ask for theres 1st lol

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

No face = no naked us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to inflict my mug shot on any poor fool

What frustrates me more are couple profiles with no or almost no decent and various pics of the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone doesn't send a face pic I get bored and stop chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would send a face pic to a couple x if they are not prepared to send one due to their jobs I think it's very unlikely they would ever meet anyone in person so obviously just on here to see if they get any attention x yet another time waster I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dare say if they don't want to show a face pic it's up the them. It's their profile, their choice but if that limits who will or won't meet them - so be it. Nobody's right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it shows signs for concern when people can't show face pics. ....I like to think of this as an adult website. ...Unfortunately not everyone on it behaves like adults

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We only show our faces when we are fairly sure we aren't chatting with a family member, colleague or neighbour. We need to both be satisfied that our privacy and reputation aren't in jeopardy. If that means we get blocked, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was invited to a party by a woman saying it would be nice if we could come as shed like to meet us,so we asked for a face pic as we dont do blind dates and was blocked lol thing is she messages us wtf is that about

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

And I've got another issue. Why would a guy not tell me his first name before I meet him? Otherwise I'll be picking up the wrong bloke in the pub otherwise lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't have sex with someone who refused to show me their face before we met.

I sent my face pic once, 'your face is a picture!' she cooed, 'thanks' said me smugly, 'yeah' she sez 'the scream'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol cos its an ego boost as they think they will be recognise, the only ones that can do it is the prime minister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to post pics for personal reasons. It has limited potential meets but I frefer to chat and get to know people and then meet face to face. Each to his. Or her own but I've met some lovely people and formed long term friendships.

In general we are open minded about sex, why not be the same with peoples personal preferences too.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"And I've got another issue. Why would a guy not tell me his first name before I meet him? Otherwise I'll be picking up the wrong bloke in the pub otherwise lol"

That really is mental, if he's so paranoid give a false first name? However why so paranoid, okay if your first name is Bamber there's a chance a lot of us know who you are. However Pete, Dave or Mike, there's quite a few in the country.

I don't bother sending photos as I have face photos on my profile, I also give my first name, the genuine one too. Everything I do is perfectly legal and done with consenting adults, I can't see that anyone can use my information to blackmail me.

As an aside some years ago someone did try to blackmail me, the police were fantastic and dealt with the problem in a great manner. The person who was trying it was scared off by them. If you ever do get someone trying shit like that please do contact the police.

These days I'm pretty open about my life and lifestyle so fuck you if you don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't look for couples, but as a rule we never ask for a face pic as we think anyone serious would have the good sense to send one after they've seen ours. If they send one that's good, if not we don't go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we ask if a couple as you for a face picture will you send or won't you ...... As we signed up to a swingers site not blind date ...

Then people say we can't because of our jobs !!!!

Thoughts please x"

If I approach someone first I will always send them my face pic. But if they were to approach me and ASK for one without providing one (not actually happened yet so it's all theory!) I'd be suspicious and probably decline.

All about fairness really isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought I'd just show mine to speed things up a bit.

Needless to say it hasn't worked

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES

"lol cos its an ego boost as they think they will be recognise, the only ones that can do it is the prime minister

Haha,

I have taught at the same school for 10 years, I'd just like to check I dont teach their kiddies before I send a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol cos its an ego boost as they think they will be recognise, the only ones that can do it is the prime minister

Haha,

I have taught at the same school for 10 years, I'd just like to check I dont teach their kiddies before I send a face pic

Actually, that's a damn good reason to be careful. Hadn't thought about teachers before.

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES

Some of my former pupils will be 28 by now as well!

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

There are other professions where one might need to be a bit careful as well - social work, college staff for example.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's not illegal to fuck strangers for fun Someone sacks you for doing it I would think you'd be in line for quite a nice bit of compensation

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"It's not illegal to fuck strangers for fun Someone sacks you for doing it I would think you'd be in line for quite a nice bit of compensation

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. Plus all the embarrassment of a court case which you might not win anyway.Only a complete fool would risk taking that type of case to court .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't carry on the conversation if they won't show their face "

Same, hate it when people waffle on about no face pics due to job blah blah, keep them private then but you can send once you get chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only show our faces when we are fairly sure we aren't chatting with a family member, colleague or neighbour. We need to both be satisfied that our privacy and reputation aren't in jeopardy. If that means we get blocked, so be it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol cos its an ego boost as they think they will be recognise, the only ones that can do it is the prime minister

Haha,

I have taught at the same school for 10 years, I'd just like to check I dont teach their kiddies before I send a face pic

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Yes that's a good reason to hide it as well as ur people u teach u wont wanna regognise u

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Had this ourselves put it down to time wasters fakes move on don't both about them block button sorts it lol xx"

I would agree but if their heads so far up their arse 'because of their oh so important jobs' they might not be able to take a face pic.

Give 'em a chance.

Ahem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've personally never understood it. The primary reason I'm on here to have sex. It requires a physical attraction and if I haven't seen a face how would I know?

I can tell an awful lot by someones eyes and smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had problems with this as we only show faces either by Skype or social meet but if people aren't happy with this that's their choice as not sending is ours. However we are definitely not time wasters or fakes as some would believe and may not be super models but not hit with the ugly stick either x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We both have jobs where we wouldn't really want our employers to know about our swinging. One of us works (customer facing) for the local council, the other for a school.

We won't have public face pics, but have no problem sending face pics to people who we'd like to meet. Our assumption is that others respect our privacy in the same way that we respect theirs.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I dont send a face pic initially no, it stops me sending a pic of me to some random who i have no connection with and putting my job and tbh the life i live at risk. If people truely want to meet me i will show my profile and then my pic to them. Its their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally Id begin to have my doubts if someone didn't want to send a pic after we've chatted for a few days.

I understand the job thing, though. I could very easily reveal a lot of personal information by letting slip my job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own. There are genuine people who don't show face pics. Not everyone feels confident and do worry about their reputation. Most people go by false names so really do you know who your chatting to at the end of the day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer not to post pics for personal reasons. It has limited potential meets but I frefer to chat and get to know people and then meet face to face. Each to his. Or her own but I've met some lovely people and formed long term friendships.

In general we are open minded about sex, why not be the same with peoples personal preferences too. "

So do you not share a face picture at all or do you do it at the point of arranging the meet? Personally I want to see who I'm chatting to first as I've no interest in wasting time chatting only to find there's no mutual attraction at the point of arranging the meet and nor would I meet without seeing a face picture

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By *ndym12Man
over a year ago

Ivybridge

Thank god for face pic Fridays lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I would send a face pic to a couple x if they are not prepared to send one due to their jobs I think it's very unlikely they would ever meet anyone in person so obviously just on here to see if they get any attention x yet another time waster I guess x "

Wow,we must be time wasters

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I send a face pic, if asked to do so xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will always send a pic if asked IF they will do the same - we explain we have them for friends only etc - a few have said oh yes our private pics have pics of both of us and face pics and when you get there and look they havent - thats a bit annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send a face pic, if asked to do so xx"

and she is very pretty too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree have to be sure before we send

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By *illy_gossyMan
over a year ago

Gosforth Newcastle

Only send face pic if demanded.

Let,s 'face' it ladies, why see something you are going to be sitting on during the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this now and again I wont meet private with anyone I can't see a pic off and thats social first anyway, as i don't want the embarressment of saying there not for me.Alot of us have a job we would all prefer them not knowing.

some wont send as they don't want there pic with fabswingers written on it, of which they prefer to send via whatsapp, kik etc

personnelly I dont do any of those to strangers so its either end of convo or there mysterymen coming to a party, im always clear as not seen them that there may not be an attraction, I send mine so they know what I look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are other professions where one might need to be a bit careful as well - social work, college staff for example."

And legal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often get asked to send face pictures but usually refuse, mainly because they are all over our profile lol.

If we get the "I can't send one because of my/our job" crap then we are not going to meet them simple as. Though I really don't understand why someone would think they could get a blind date in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we ask if a couple as you for a face picture will you send or won't you ...... As we signed up to a swingers site not blind date ...

Then people say we can't because of our jobs !!!!

Thoughts please x"

We'll chat with couples up to a point without but then if not prepared to exchange face pics it isn't going anywhere. Single guys go straight in the bin if they don't send a face pic with first message as requested on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone says they can't show a face pic because of their job i just ignore them. Unless they're David Cameron (and lets face it who would want to meet that spam faced prick?) then their reason is bs. Plus i won't meet anyone i haven't spoken to on webcam first so if they won't show a pic, they're never coming on cam.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

"When someone says they can't show a face pic because of their job i just ignore them. Unless they're David Cameron (and lets face it who would want to meet that spam faced prick?) then their reason is bs. Plus i won't meet anyone i haven't spoken to on webcam first so if they won't show a pic, they're never coming on cam."

Haha re Cameron

Good on ya. I need to know names and faces because as a youth group leader I may well have or have had their daughters in my group at some point in the last 12 years. Some of the girls are 20 now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clearly state on my profile no pic no reply. No clear face pic on profile or with first message gets a block from me. I can't be bothered with people who don't like sending pics. I don't want side shots I don't want ones of you 20 miles away from the camera I even want ones of you with appalling lighting. Just a goid face pic. If your expecting us to meet up with you why do you all have issues with yourself. I send face pics when asked

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"There are other professions where one might need to be a bit careful as well - social work, college staff for example."

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"We both have jobs where we wouldn't really want our employers to know about our swinging. One of us works (customer facing) for the local council, the other for a school.

We won't have public face pics, but have no problem sending face pics to people who we'd like to meet. Our assumption is that others respect our privacy in the same way that we respect theirs."

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"There are other professions where one might need to be a bit careful as well - social work, college staff for example.

And it's not just employers, but also children who have subsequently grown up, but who may still have younger siblings. Could you imagine the hassle once your pics spread round the school.

The truth is there are always people who try to collect pics to set up fake profiles elsewhere. The trouble with the internet is that once a pic is shared, you lose control of it forever. For these reasons we will only very rarely share a face pic, and never with someone we haven't built some degree of trust with.

If people can't accept that, we're cool with that, and simply move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds totally reasonable to me.

Perhaps they will turn up in a Burqa? Then a face pic is not any use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do expect later after chatting that a photo would be necessary at some point if not we wouldn't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send a face pic if asked, and won't meet unless I've seen one. Do people really meet without knowing what someone looks like ?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

What frustrates me more are couple profiles with no or almost no decent and various pics of the man

Agreed

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

We will not send face pics, unless we are definitely going to meet. I see no point in sending a face pic just to chat to someone. Our veri's show we are genuine and not time wasters. I'm defo not sending our face pic to everyone, who just sparks up a conversation on here!!

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

What frustrates me more are couple profiles with no or almost no decent and various pics of the man

Agreed

This drives Susie mad too. Sometimes there isn't even a pic of the male in private pics!! sometimes all pics are so close up that no information can be gained by looking at the pic....not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had this ourselves put it down to time wasters fakes move on don't both about them block button sorts it lol xx"

This

We will stop talking to someone if they wont show a face pic. We are happy to send ours IF we are talking to someone we feel we would like to meet.

We wonder how on earth its possible to meet someone if you dont know what they look like??! Do you wear a red carnation to the meet?

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By *roncoverssereneCouple
over a year ago

NearYouVille

"And I've got another issue. Why would a guy not tell me his first name before I meet him? Otherwise I'll be picking up the wrong bloke in the pub otherwise lol

These days I'm pretty open about my life and lifestyle so fuck you if you don't like it

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By *roncoverssereneCouple
over a year ago

NearYouVille

"Sounds totally reasonable to me.

Perhaps they will turn up in a Burqa? Then a face pic is not any use.

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Aren't Burqa's worn by engaged or married Islamic women...then again maybe Not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned down a potential meet as he was married and "straight" in real life but on here as bi-sexual and worried he'd get busted eventually by his wife

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We've had a few meets and verifications but we don't send face pics until we are sure we are going to meet. Normally after we chatted by phone!! Do you think collectors keep their collections private??

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

"... What frustrates me more are couple profiles with no or almost no decent and various pics of the man

agree - it is unhelpful if their are no pix of the guy on a couple profile.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

"Can we ask if a couple as you for a face picture will you send or won't you ...... As we signed up to a swingers site not blind date ...

Then people say we can't because of our jobs !!!!

Thoughts please x"

I would be interested to know why the o p has no facepics readily available on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't send to an unverified couple, but if the other couple had various veris, then no problem for us. But we too find so many people expect blind dates some claiming it makes it more exciting, jog on is what we say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we get this fairly often. Were taking a little break at the moment, but when we are meeting all our pics are public including faces and we both a have fairly important jobs, where you could argue that being recognised would perhaps cause trouble, however we are entitled to a private life outside of work and swinging is how we enjoy it, if people we work with dont like it thats their issue, so dont really see "we cant send pics coz of our jobs" being a good enough excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we will always send a pic if asked IF they will do the same - we explain we have them for friends only etc - a few have said oh yes our private pics have pics of both of us and face pics and when you get there and look they havent - thats a bit annoying "

This, had it a few times!

To the OP do you send your face pic first then ask? Or just ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always send a face pic if asked, and won't meet unless I've seen one. Do people really meet without knowing what someone looks like ? "

Apparently they do as I constantly get messages from a guy who's been verified but has no face picture as I have asked several times, and he isn't the only one including a guy one day registered who expected me to meet him but only had cock picture, thought what he could do in bed was enough and got really snotty when I said I would wait until he had a face picture

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

timewasting muppets ..if i dont get a face pic and fone nos i just block them and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still i don't see the point wot if you get on a meet and thay are pig ugly and there's no attraction at all,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wont meet without a facephoto but I hate giving my number out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wont meet without a facephoto but I hate giving my number out x"

i can understand that with the number but no face hhhmmmm

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"It's not illegal to fuck strangers for fun Someone sacks you for doing it I would think you'd be in line for quite a nice bit of compensation

As much as we can agree with what you've said, there are other things to add to the equation!

My partner is a teacher, and has been for 20+ years.

She also gets chatted up by the children's fathers fairly often, proving they're obviously not to concerned about playing around, so there is a possibility the odd one or two might be on fab.

And while having sex with strangers isn't illegal, when teaching in a small village school, if that got out, it's not just about the job, it's also to do with the fact we have adult children, who would also find out!

Having said that, once we are comfortable with someone, we will send face pictures. But also prefer to go on cam with them both as a couple.

Problem with sending face pictures are they can be screenshot and saved easily.

Cam to cam isn't so easy to do that.

But again everyone is different and has their own reasons why they will or won't send them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will only send one now if we think there's a chance we might meet, will not send one to someone who is not at least photo verified..and we'd rather it was after they sent one first..just us being new and cautious.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok no face pic on profile but surely if you're chatting/interested then swapping face pics is only logical

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

We both have face pics on public profile

may be that explains lack of messages but loads of looked at

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By *illy_gossyMan
over a year ago

Gosforth Newcastle

"We both have face pics on public profile

may be that explains lack of messages but loads of looked at

Your faces look friendly, I'ts some of the outfits that are scarey lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both have face pics on public profile

may be that explains lack of messages but loads of looked at

Your faces look friendly, I'ts some of the outfits that are scarey lol x"
giggidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always share face pic as they are open for anyone to see as when chatting to someone its always nicer to put a face to the words instead of just a body. And find it much nicer to see someones face I just find it easier to interact with them

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By *andl76Couple
over a year ago

north east

We won't send a face pic unless we're keen on the the other cpl and willing to meet. Otherwise we'd rather keep things private -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well our face pix are on our profile for everybody to see so we expect face pix early on too

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We are happy to send once we get to know people. We know people who have had trouble caused in the past so N is a little apprehensive about it due to her job. If they wanted face pics of me, that's fine, but until we get to know people then N wouldn't feel ready as she works with kids. In some instances, N is happy once she sees others face pics and doesn't know them.

Though we wouldn't expect a meet until we had exchanged face pics anyway.

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By *egsandPearlyCouple
over a year ago

Shaftesbury

"Had this ourselves put it down to time wasters fakes move on don't both about them block button sorts it lol xx"

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't send face pics,we won't send face pics,we make that clear on our profile.no one is being forced to contact us.does that make us timewasters?

100 plus verifications says different.

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By *errycpl25Couple
over a year ago

Derry

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We agree with this, we had a first message from a couple asking can we have a face pic, when we said not until we have talked and might meet, their reply was if we send ours will you send yours,.... still no until we might meet, we don't send it out willy nilly, people are all to quick to judge that you are then fake and block you, our veris show we are genuine.. (just a bit careful)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we ask if a couple as you for a face picture will you send or won't you ...... As we signed up to a swingers site not blind date ...

Then people say we can't because of our jobs !!!!

Thoughts please x"
We don't but that's probably because we have public face pics on our profile.

I generally don't buy the whole "protecting my job" BS unless you work as a teacher or some other protected profession, it really isn't relevant.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

We don't send out face pics very often. We will if it looks like a meet is likely.

We mainly use fab to keep in contact with friends we have made at the club.

Yes I have a job where I would more than likely be sacked if it was made public what I did in my private life...

No I am not blowing my trumpet, just stating a fact...

What many of you don't realise is that nearly every employment contract has a clause in it re embarrassing your employer or damaging the employers image or reputation...

I fell foul of something similar many years ago. I started work signed my contract. In it was a clause stating that I would abide by company rules. I read the rule sheet I was handed. A year later I had an argument with the manager and pointed out that what he was accusing me of wasn't in the rules....

Out comes the company rule book... It was about 18 inches by 18 inches and 12 inches thick.... He stated that this was the rule book and that I had agreed to follow the rules...

So be careful you may not be as safe as you think...

Don't forget once you have sent that picture you have no control, just look at how many pics are stolen from here and can be found by googling something like " cock whore". Do you want to be rembered for ever like that?

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over a year ago

If we struggled to get a meet we might be pushed to accept a no face rule with photos.

However we are not so all things being equal we will always go with the people who are happy to send a face photo.

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over a year ago

What many fail to realise is that no employer can legally dismiss you for what you do in your private life unless they can show a direct link between your private and work lives.

Not saying that they may not find some bullshit excuse to sack you anyway, but being on Fab would not be grounds for dismissal in the majority of cases.

personally we are happy to show our faces. If we weren't we would say so, not make excuses.

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