FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the girls?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just an honest question as to how can I get noticed more from the ladies on here? Appreciate the ratio is more guys than girls and having been on the site a long time with only a couple of meets its getting frustrating!

Feel as though im wasting my time and money and would appreciate any feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's just distance that's a problem for some?.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasting your money? What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It does seem that I live in a very frigid area....maybe I should move lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your photos look nice but there's nothing that sets you apart from other profiles.... also its the distance

hope this helps

summer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Membership fees every month....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"your photos look nice but there's nothing that sets you apart from other profiles.... also its the distance

hope this helps

summer"

Thanks Summer....guess im crap at writing profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure on what you mean by wasting your money?

OP there are as you know lots of single guys on the site, some are pretty successful on getting meets, and some are not so lucky.

What are you doing to be pro active on the site? Do you join in the forum banter? Do you go to socials? Is your profile working for you?

Because the competition is so stiff you need to stand out from the other single guys on here.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Membership fees every month...."

The site is free. You don't have to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Membership fees every month...."

The £5 isn't membership fees, the site is a free site, the £5 gives you access to helpful tools, like the who looked at me ect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure on what you mean by wasting your money?

OP there are as you know lots of single guys on the site, some are pretty successful on getting meets, and some are not so lucky.

What are you doing to be pro active on the site? Do you join in the forum banter? Do you go to socials? Is your profile working for you?

Because the competition is so stiff you need to stand out from the other single guys on here.

Good luck "

yeah do all the above but again maybe its location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure on what you mean by wasting your money?

OP there are as you know lots of single guys on the site, some are pretty successful on getting meets, and some are not so lucky.

What are you doing to be pro active on the site? Do you join in the forum banter? Do you go to socials? Is your profile working for you?

Because the competition is so stiff you need to stand out from the other single guys on here.

Good luck

yeah do all the above but again maybe its location

No, we've met lots of people in that area. It's debauched.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Membership fees every month....

The £5 isn't membership fees, the site is a free site, the £5 gives you access to helpful tools, like the who looked at me ect. "

Exactly that, need to keep on top (excuse the pun) of activity, just in case I do get interest and being a member hopefully comes across that Im genuine!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure on what you mean by wasting your money?

OP there are as you know lots of single guys on the site, some are pretty successful on getting meets, and some are not so lucky.

What are you doing to be pro active on the site? Do you join in the forum banter? Do you go to socials? Is your profile working for you?

Because the competition is so stiff you need to stand out from the other single guys on here.

Good luck

yeah do all the above but again maybe its location

No, we've met lots of people in that area. It's debauched.

Maybe it's the profile then...too direct you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you need to put abit more on your profile.

The bit that gives you a summery of the person and body ect.. Were you have put your body is fabulous I would change that. That sort of thing puts me off personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think you need to put abit more on your profile.

The bit that gives you a summery of the person and body ect.. Were you have put your body is fabulous I would change that. That sort of thing puts me off personally

Thanks for that, i'll have another go at the profile later tonight and change the fabulous bit....thought I'd put muscular tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does seem that I live in a very frigid area....maybe I should move lol"

Please let me know if you decide to relocate in this direction!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure on what you mean by wasting your money?

OP there are as you know lots of single guys on the site, some are pretty successful on getting meets, and some are not so lucky.

What are you doing to be pro active on the site? Do you join in the forum banter? Do you go to socials? Is your profile working for you?

Because the competition is so stiff you need to stand out from the other single guys on here.

Good luck

yeah do all the above but again maybe its location

No, we've met lots of people in that area. It's debauched.

Maybe it's the profile then...too direct you think?"

I think it looks great as it is. x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm confused about your profile because you describe yourself as straight but have a veri from a TV/TS who says he enjoyed sucking your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does seem that I live in a very frigid area....maybe I should move lol"

Wales is a nice place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm confused about your profile because you describe yourself as straight but have a veri from a TV/TS who says he enjoyed sucking your cock. "

I can't help but agree (although particular tv looks incredibly feminine) m.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It does seem that I live in a very frigid area....maybe I should move lol"

This post and calling me a girl would stop me from contacting you.

You have some nice photos it must surely only be a question of time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It does seem that I live in a very frigid area....maybe I should move lol

This post and calling me a girl would stop me from contacting you.

You have some nice photos it must surely only be a question of time"

ooops sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think you need to put abit more on your profile.

The bit that gives you a summery of the person and body ect.. Were you have put your body is fabulous I would change that. That sort of thing puts me off personally

Thanks for that, i'll have another go at the profile later tonight and change the fabulous bit....thought I'd put muscular tbh "

Again, not Athletic. Average is your best bet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think you need to put abit more on your profile.

The bit that gives you a summery of the person and body ect.. Were you have put your body is fabulous I would change that. That sort of thing puts me off personally

Thanks for that, i'll have another go at the profile later tonight and change the fabulous bit....thought I'd put muscular tbh

Again, not Athletic. Average is your best bet."

Thanks

Note to self, must work on profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm confused about your profile because you describe yourself as straight but have a veri from a TV/TS who says he enjoyed sucking your cock.

I can't help but agree (although particular tv looks incredibly feminine) m. "

Veri now hidden........

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It doesn't matter if the veri is hidden. The green arrow of truth will prevail. I was hoping for an explanation, not a sneaky hiding of the veri. I suppose the actual fact of it being hidden explains enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm confused about your profile because you describe yourself as straight but have a veri from a TV/TS who says he enjoyed sucking your cock.

I can't help but agree (although particular tv looks incredibly feminine) m.

Veri now hidden........ "

And there answers your own question !

Be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine guys find it quite easy to get meets ..

I honestly believe that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just an honest question as to how can I get noticed more from the ladies on here? Appreciate the ratio is more guys than girls and having been on the site a long time with only a couple of meets its getting frustrating!

Feel as though im wasting my time and money and would appreciate any feedback

Profile and pics look good, you don't accommodate which will put people off I think, just my humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter if the veri is hidden. The green arrow of truth will prevail. I was hoping for an explanation, not a sneaky hiding of the veri. I suppose the actual fact of it being hidden explains enough for me.

Think what you like. And why is it the finger pointing starts as soon a somewhere posts. If I knew I would be scrutinised I wouldnt have bothered and if you can't be pleasant why bother....post elsewhere as this thread was started genuinely and has now been ruined for me. Cheers pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Feel as though im wasting my time and money and would appreciate any feedback

Profile and pics look good, you don't accommodate which will put people off I think, just my humble opinion

Thanks for the feedback...kids!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has been pleasant. I think your last couple of posts highlight exactly why you're not getting any meets. "Have fun".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly wasn't been unpleasant atall .

I was trying to answer your question .

U say your straight but your verifications say u met a TV . So u were contradicting yourself .

Even more suspicious when the veri dissapeared after it was pointed out .

As i said be honest .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Think what you like. And why is it the finger pointing starts as soon a somewhere posts. If I knew I would be

scrutinised I wouldnt have bothered and

if you can't be pleasant why

bother....post elsewhere as this thread

was started genuinely and has now

been ruined for me. Cheers pal"

I wasn't being unpleasant. I was confused because your profile said you were straight so asked a question. You could have offered an explanation but instead you hid the verification you have from a man who sucked your cock. There's nothing wrong with being

bicurious or bisexual so no reason to hide your veri. By doing so, you're preventing potential sexual partners from knowing that fact and that's not fair on them. In what way do you think I've ruined your thread? If you mean I've ruined it by asking you a question, then I don't accept that because this is a public forum and I am entitled to post on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads fine and you have a few photos. If I was reading it though , my thoughts would be - you cannot accommodate and you want daytime meets. I would draw the conclusion from that, perhaps wrongly that you are not single. That may put some people off. But I do know that may be the wrong conclusion. You've had two meets, so you've had some success, sometimes it's just sending the right message at the right time.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Think what you like. And why is it the finger pointing starts as soon a somewhere posts. If I knew I would be

scrutinised I wouldnt have bothered and

if you can't be pleasant why

bother....post elsewhere as this thread

was started genuinely and has now

been ruined for me. Cheers pal

Steve posted a genuine question...you asked for opinions from girls, but it's a public forum...anyway, I'm a girl (honest, although the moustache can be a little off-putting) and I'd probably ask the same (plus I love bi guys). The thread isn't ruined unless you (or others) get arsey or abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you asked for scrutiny?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I looked at your profile even though "girls" would have put me off. The first thing that put me off was the meet verification from a tv on a straight profile. You mention "honest" a lot: yeah...right, I wouldn't open your message as I read the profile first. Add to that the "traveling salesman" daytime meet...I'd think you weren't single either.

You asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think what you like. And why is it the finger pointing starts as soon a somewhere posts. If I knew I would be

scrutinised I wouldnt have bothered and

if you can't be pleasant why

bother....post elsewhere as this thread

was started genuinely and has now

been ruined for me. Cheers pal

The fact you have put on your profile that you are straight yet have a veri from a tv who enjoyed sucking your cock, which is now hidden, is enough to put me off. I'd rather have a real honest profile rather that jackanory thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just read your thread and feel you might have taken it personal but the guys just hi lighting what the thread was asking. You can't take this site seriously it's meant for sexy fun. Some you win some you loose. Take both the positive and negative and work with that. First is to be honest with yourself, as the guy said, if you are bi curious put your profile to that. Opens others doors for you, closes others. There's a lot of people on here all after there own fantasy and types of person, you won't set a profile up to get every one. I think accommodation is a big factor to most people but that's it for my input. Just take the site with the fun and honesty with the people you meet. I think we'd all love more meets from these sexy ladies who hold all the cards to our fantasies. Lol. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just read your thread and feel you might have taken it personal but the guys just hi lighting what the thread was asking. You can't take this site seriously it's meant for sexy fun. Some you win some you loose. Take both the positive and negative and work with that. First is to be honest with yourself, as the guy said, if you are bi curious put your profile to that. Opens others doors for you, closes others. There's a lot of people on here all after there own fantasy and types of person, you won't set a profile up to get every one. I think accommodation is a big factor to most people but that's it for my input. Just take the site with the fun and honesty with the people you meet. I think we'd all love more meets from these sexy ladies who hold all the cards to our fantasies. Lol. Enjoy. "

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