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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

"

we do find that. We also in our experience, find that if the man doesn't feature clearly in at least one picture then he is an unwilling participant or a voyeur only...no matter what their profile says. That is in our experience only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

we do find that. We also in our experience, find that if the man doesn't feature clearly in at least one picture then he is an unwilling participant or a voyeur only...no matter what their profile says. That is in our experience only."

Haha yeah it does give off a no care attitude that ppl will be mesmerised by their winning personalities and not need further pics... Or is that just me being anal :P

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have got loads of me but a good amount of him.....he is tucked away in friends only but he is there - participating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are only interested in cpls that have photo's of them both together ..... even worse are "cpls" who have to take 'selfies' of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have more of me than of him.

Mostly because he hates having his photo taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about a third of ours are him

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

not many of my other half on here but that's because hes always the one holding the camera lol xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty!

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"We have more of me than of him.

Mostly because he hates having his photo taken. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty ! Lol I think there's prob loads more of me in our pics although there are some of him there are clear face pics of me him and us together in our private pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples are just looking for straight guys so no need for pics of the guy half.

If they are looking for couples but only have pics of rhe female it's like he's pimping her out. Or that he thinks the woman in the other couple doesn't matter, she should fuck him anyway. Her opinion is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He says im much nicer to look at! I don't agree that's why there is only a few of him as I made him! Lol. We have a clear face pic together to send when needed tho!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some couples are just looking for straight guys so no need for pics of the guy half.

If they are looking for couples but only have pics of rhe female it's like he's pimping her out. Or that he thinks the woman in the other couple doesn't matter, she should fuck him anyway. Her opinion is irrelevant.

"

I tend to think that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the least photogenic person in the world, we have face pics that we can send and body pics so that people can see what I look like, but must of our pics are of Mrs l,

But let's be honest 90 percent of the interest is female half of the couple, the man wants to have sex with her and the woman wants to have sex with her, a lot of the time it really is like the male half is just someone to be put up with to get to the fem.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Most of our pics are of us together.......We're here as a couple and will only consider playing as a couple so our pics reflect that

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I get tired of the reasons like he is the one holding the camera. I know how to use a cemera. He'll even my kids can.

Lots of couples do understand why other couples and singles will want the profile to be about the couple. The verifications about the couple same for the description but then o....All the pics are as the OP said! Frustrating.

Yes personal choice. Yes I do ignore those profiles. Yes.....

Just gets very tiring when those couples then complain they can't meet the people they want.

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We also have photos of us both when accepting friends invite. As this is a step forward to meeting up.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We have pics of us both "

This!

People can run their profiles however they want. But there is a correlation between couples stating that they struggle to find suitable company and the ratio of female/male pics they show.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its funny how the op was about adding people as friends to find that there were an uneven amount of male/female pics but now its rapidly turning into people saying they ignore profiles that don't have clear pics as public?

the majority of profiles we notice do tend to try and keep things a little private, back to the op you bunch of threadjackers

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Guilty, but it wont change!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

we do find that. We also in our experience, find that if the man doesn't feature clearly in at least one picture then he is an unwilling participant or a voyeur only...no matter what their profile says. That is in our experience only.

Haha yeah it does give off a no care attitude that ppl will be mesmerised by their winning personalities and not need further pics... Or is that just me being anal :P "

Lee is in many of our photos but cant have public photos , so we have them in private and friends only... He is most definitely not the reluctant half of us....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

we do find that. We also in our experience, find that if the man doesn't feature clearly in at least one picture then he is an unwilling participant or a voyeur only...no matter what their profile says. That is in our experience only.

Haha yeah it does give off a no care attitude that ppl will be mesmerised by their winning personalities and not need further pics... Or is that just me being anal :P

Lee is in many of our photos but cant have public photos , so we have them in private and friends only... He is most definitely not the reluctant half of us.... "

Yep! That's why I said in our experience.

I'm happy for people to run their profile in a way that suits them .....just like we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of both of us, But find that some of his pics are fabbed before they realize it is his bum lol .

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont have pics of nick as he doesn't play so says there is no need to see him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are both on here,thats the way it should be, we are a couple so we advertise as a couple we hope you like our photos xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more of the Mrs but I am in a fair few

It does save time in messaging if a couple has pics of both on the profile but as long as they are willing to send some in a message its no biggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

"
We made the effort..but then again its only the woman anyones looking for we find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usual answer to similar threads,if a profile doesn't appeal to you,move onto the next and the next and the next until you find one that does.

Single guys have to do that,why shouldn't couples or ladies?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I just looked at my looked at me and notice how many people don't even bother with an avatar!!

They wonder why their mail gets deleted or turned down in general.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

we keep all our pic private, then send one or two in a message with mob number when we get to know each other ,works for us..well so far lol Connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't ever have any public pics of Mr Iconic but we do have them in private.

There are lots more of me because I am an exhibitionist and he's not allowed to take up many of our pic allowance of 150 because I need those slots for me.

He's not a willing participant anyway, I have to drag him kicking and screaming to clubs and parties to have sex with beautiful women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of our pics are of us together.......We're here as a couple and will only consider playing as a couple so our pics reflect that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile pic is us , and the odd cock pic is mine too .

However , we don't really care whether other couples like it or not as we prefer to play with single guys anyway . We do play with couples at clubs or parties , but away from that it's my wife that plays and not very often me .

Plenty of couples do like the fact that we play as we do , and love the fact that they get Sabrina to themselves though !

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

Bit of a niche one here for me but when it's a bi male couple it'd be great to see some pics of the guy playing with a guy too. You see loads with ladies but very few with blokes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

We made the effort..but then again its only the woman anyones looking for we find "

To be honest we loose interest if we get as far as adding cpls as friends and find we have to ask for pics of the male. If you are a cpl advertising that you full swap I wouldn't even consider going there unless I see a few recent pics of the male as well. Maybe I have high standards but don't just shag the male half because he's there. There has to be an attraction between all 4 ppl.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

There are pics of both of us BUT .......... Anita looks so much better than me, so we have less pics of me and more of her.

Cal xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This subject seems to have gone off in a few different directions, my moan was friending cpls who both play and there not being adequate pics of the male half.

Yes he maybe be shy or being made to be dragged kicking and screaming, don't bother if that's the case, let the female have a single profile so there are more females for us greedy bi fem cpls god damn it!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We have pics of us both

This!

People can run their profiles however they want. But there is a correlation between couples stating that they struggle to find suitable company and the ratio of female/male pics they show.

A"

To be honest, personally we haven't really found a difference. We have added more pictures of Mr B and of us together over the last year or so and it hasn't affected the amount of messages or offers we get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its mainly the women enjoy poseing and guys like takeing them that's the case with us ,

how ever we have a full frontal of both on show and a normal clothed pic of us together not on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree. I gues that most couples use women pics as they know the woman gets the meet in the couple, hence there hardly are no pics of the man lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men have more female flesh on their pics. It's off putting

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Yes, hands up, guilty of that one. My oh says that if we put pics of him up, no one will ever email us again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men have more female flesh on their pics. It's off putting "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes, hands up, guilty of that one. My oh says that if we put pics of him up, no one will ever email us again... "

so what happens when they see him in the flesh?

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

Absolutely amazed at the number of couple profile this relates to. Swinging should be on an equal basis or least attempt to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, hands up, guilty of that one. My oh says that if we put pics of him up, no one will ever email us again...

so what happens when they see him in the flesh? "

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,


"Yes, hands up, guilty of that one. My oh says that if we put pics of him up, no one will ever email us again...

so what happens when they see him in the flesh? "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Now I am all for people doing exactly as they please on here, as I said, we do .

However if as a straight couple we intend to meet another straight couple what reason could there possibly be for me not being able to see pictures of the male half of any potential meet?

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Hmmm, similarly guilty (and would have used the 'I'm the one taking the pics' excuse!) Must fix that!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

As it is guys for MrsH we are are looking for we tend to show her pics. There are a couple of MrH just to show he is real.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes, hands up, guilty of that one. My oh says that if we put pics of him up, no one will ever email us again...

so what happens when they see him in the flesh?

"

No one has actually run a mile yet...lol only about half.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes, hands up, guilty of that one. My oh says that if we put pics of him up, no one will ever email us again...

so what happens when they see him in the flesh?

No one has actually run a mile yet...lol only about half. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics of me in our profile simply because I dont play on our meets so really cant see why it matters what I look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

"

Women are rubbish at taking photos, everyone knows that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

Women are rubbish at taking photos, everyone knows that."

blimey that's news to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

Women are rubbish at taking photos, everyone knows that.

blimey that's news to me. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

Women are rubbish at taking photos, everyone knows that.

blimey that's news to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

We made the effort..but then again its only the woman anyones looking for we find

To be honest we loose interest if we get as far as adding cpls as friends and find we have to ask for pics of the male. If you are a cpl advertising that you full swap I wouldn't even consider going there unless I see a few recent pics of the male as well. Maybe I have high standards but don't just shag the male half because he's there. There has to be an attraction between all 4 ppl. "
yOUR ONLY STATING THE "NORM"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we see a photo of NORM, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm, similarly guilty (and would have used the 'I'm the one taking the pics' excuse!) Must fix that!"
Why change a profile on someone elses whim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we see a photo of NORM, please?"
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz always 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we see a photo of NORM, please?"
lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pics of us both

This!

People can run their profiles however they want. But there is a correlation between couples stating that they struggle to find suitable company and the ratio of female/male pics they show.

A

To be honest, personally we haven't really found a difference. We have added more pictures of Mr B and of us together over the last year or so and it hasn't affected the amount of messages or offers we get."

Agree.....we get feck all on our couples profile regardless of what pics we have

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can we see a photo of NORM, please?"

No! He's not very good looking, he hates having his photo taken and he is a spy so he can't have his picture anywhere in case he has to kill you if you look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or when you speak to cpls and they add you as a friend and there are always millions of the female in various positions so you get a general feel for what she's like but either none or one tiny pic of the male half being either a cock pic or a very blurry pic of them together? And he's wearing sodding sunglasses, my personal favourite! Being the female half of this cpl I want to see what I'm getting as well!

Rant over! :D

"

OP if pics of the bloke aren't forthcoming. ...move on. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think we have a good mix though more female than male there's pics of him in public and face pics we keep for friends only

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

There are more of me ... as Tom seem to believe he can be a photographer one day lol .(please dont burst his bubble . hes happy lol ) but there are pics of tom too . we also have more of couple shots in our private pics .

sometimes we are lookimg for single males and setomes couple ls so we try and give a bit of everything xxx Tabitha xxx

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Both mr and Mrs pics including face pics in our public gallery though more Mrs than Mr as 1 Mr don't like his photo taken and 2 Mr is usually holding the camera and 3 Mr says Mrs looks the much better one of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the male half here at the moment.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only the male half here at the moment.

Her"

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