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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whilst on a roll here I wanted to mention about verifications!

Occasionally you see someone with loads of verifications scrolling down the page for miles and miles but its all via webcam or phone, nothing face to face! I get webcam, and can understand that but by phone could be anyone!

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By *andcCouple
over a year ago

London and Cheshire

It's just an option some people like, we personally don't take any notice of phone or webcam verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here the only verifications we take any notice of are "meeting"

Ok so a webcam or even phone can prove there was a man and woman there, they were probably a couple but it doesnt tell me if they are sociable, if they turn up when they say they will, if they are pushy etc

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston

Has anyone ever seen a BAD report of a meeting?

Most seem to say that they got on like a house on fire and can't wait to meet again for "fun" then there is no second posting. Does that mean they didn't have the bottle to say NO first time and then disappeared into the webosphere?

Hey we are all horny and want to have an exciting time BUT some folks will just talk all night! I want to be seduced...

...fairly quickly!!! Bad girl!!!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever seen a BAD report of a meeting?

Most seem to say that they got on like a house on fire and can't wait to meet again for "fun" then there is no second posting. Does that mean they didn't have the bottle to say NO first time and then disappeared into the webosphere?

Hey we are all horny and want to have an exciting time BUT some folks will just talk all night! I want to be seduced...

...fairly quickly!!! Bad girl!!!

xxx "

it'd never occur to us to give a 2nd verification for a 2nd meet... does that make us weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

We would'nt give a second or third either

Sometimes we don't even give a first,have see a few regular people and neither of us have verified each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having visions of people with 109 verifications all off the same friend after years of meeting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever seen a BAD report of a meeting?

Most seem to say that they got on like a house on fire and can't wait to meet again for "fun" then there is no second posting. Does that mean they didn't have the bottle to say NO first time and then disappeared into the webosphere?

Hey we are all horny and want to have an exciting time BUT some folks will just talk all night! I want to be seduced...

...fairly quickly!!! Bad girl!!!

xxx "

Yes there are a lot of bad verifications if you read between the lines ........

On here for over a year and no verifications for real meets ???

The profile that says "had lots of fun meets on here and want more" scroll down and none of these people chose to meet them - omnious

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I only have verifications on my profile where i have met someone in person. I have the odd duplicate verification if ive been seeing someone along while we occassionaly update them. Some of them read like a personal diary between the same two people. As jed said you can read between the lines of some of the verifications lol

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston


"We would'nt give a second or third either

Sometimes we don't even give a first,have see a few regular people and neither of us have verified each other"

I was thinking more of adding to a webcam, phone or initial "coffee" meet response. So that I know that a full blown, shagtastic night of filth and debauchery has actually happened or not, as the case may be.

I wasn't planning on re-verifying every time a re-meeting happens! A girl has to leave some mystery! Besides I am a shy girl.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

But why would you display a bad verification?

I was wondering, when you verify someone for the first time, and they don't show it, it shows that user is verified. I could have put they are a complete waste of time, didn't turn up etc etc. Yet it still shows they are verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people actually give bad verifications though? I always think of it like a reference for a job - noone gives a bad one, but they can refuse to give one, which says it all.

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Has anyone ever seen a BAD report of a meeting?

Most seem to say that they got on like a house on fire and can't wait to meet again for "fun" then there is no second posting. Does that mean they didn't have the bottle to say NO first time and then disappeared into the webosphere?

Hey we are all horny and want to have an exciting time BUT some folks will just talk all night! I want to be seduced...

...fairly quickly!!! Bad girl!!!

xxx

it'd never occur to us to give a 2nd verification for a 2nd meet... does that make us weird?"
Nope doesnt make u weird at all.for me tho being single man its good if u get 2nd verifaction cos it means u did sumthing right the first time.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"We would'nt give a second or third either

Sometimes we don't even give a first,have see a few regular people and neither of us have verified each other

I was thinking more of adding to a webcam, phone or initial "coffee" meet response. So that I know that a full blown, shagtastic night of filth and debauchery has actually happened or not, as the case may be.

I wasn't planning on re-verifying every time a re-meeting happens! A girl has to leave some mystery! Besides I am a shy girl.

"

hehehehe I know what you mean,they've had a veri for speaking on the phone and how lovely they sound and then no meet veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People could give bad veri's,who would show a bad veri on profile?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'd give a second verification, because that proves that

a) Your first veri wasn't just talk.

b) You're not just looking for a series of one-off's (assuming that's something you want to demonstrate)

However, there's no need for a third unless something remarkable happens...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd give a second verification, because that proves that

a) Your first veri wasn't just talk.

b) You're not just looking for a series of one-off's (assuming that's something you want to demonstrate)

However, there's no need for a third unless something remarkable happens... "

We have met some people several times, verify on the first meet, then again after around about 4, get to know them a little better by then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People could give bad veri's,who would show a bad veri on profile?"

Meet me, give me a bad veri (of course you would have to lie with me being soooo good and that) and I will show it.

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"People could give bad veri's,who would show a bad veri on profile?"

Had a similar conversation with a lovely lady recently and we decided to test it out - she left me a 'bad' verification after our meet and I do have it on display.

But that said, I think (hope!) it's pretty obvious that her tongue was firmly in her cheek when she wrote it

I did have one person comment later that 'maybe you and I don't share a similar sense of humour' but what the heck, it made me smile...

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

I never thought about second verifications and what might be read into not showing them. OTher than the ones which are clearly from the socials, all of mine, bar one, are from people who've Ive gone on to see more than once, often many many more times .

however it doesnt look like that from them

guess I'll just have to rely on people making their own mind up anyhow

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"People could give bad veri's,who would show a bad veri on profile?

Had a similar conversation with a lovely lady recently and we decided to test it out - she left me a 'bad' verification after our meet and I do have it on display.

But that said, I think (hope!) it's pretty obvious that her tongue was firmly in her cheek when she wrote it

I did have one person comment later that 'maybe you and I don't share a similar sense of humour' but what the heck, it made me smile..."
I just read it,its quite funny.so your right.fuck them if they cant take a joke.lol

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