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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just posting this topic to see whether men and women prefer normal weight looking women I.e size 10-12 rather the whippet skinny looking where you'd love to force them to eat steak.

After having a kid myself iI feel like there is an average size that being size 10-12 . I'm a 10 at the minute but feel I've to lose a bit more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, go with what you're happy with. You will never be right for everyone so there's no point trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loose it then

Who cares what men on here like if you feel you need to loose more just do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just posting this topic to see whether men and women prefer normal weight looking women I.e size 10-12 rather the whippet skinny looking where you'd love to force them to eat steak.

After having a kid myself iI feel like there is an average size that being size 10-12 . I'm a 10 at the minute but feel I've to lose a bit more "

Normal schmormal.

Be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loose it then

Who cares what men on here like if you feel you need to loose more just do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can look good skinny, normal or overweight

its person dependent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves "

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text "

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I prefer 6-12 but as long as you and your partners happy we your body fcuk what others think. We're all different, your body looks great

If you lose too much weight it might not look good..... beautiful south sang perfect 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!"

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears "

i know its all context and it words on a screen. but i read that as derogatory towards slim women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant no offence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

i know its all context and it words on a screen. but i read that as derogatory towards slim women"

I totally agree for some reasons it's ok to call under weight women ironing boards, bags of bones, stick insects etc but if you called a over weight women a beached whale or jabs the hut all he'll would break loose, why is that

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I'm just posting this topic to see whether men and women prefer normal weight looking women I.e size 10-12 rather the whippet skinny looking where you'd love to force them to eat steak.

After having a kid myself iI feel like there is an average size that being size 10-12 . I'm a 10 at the minute but feel I've to lose a bit more "

Different men (and women) prefer different things. You can't please everyone so why bother trying! If you want to lose weight, do it. If your happy as you are stay that way...

Did you really need to be rude to get your point across....whippet skinny where you'd love to force them to eat steak!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

i know its all context and it words on a screen. but i read that as derogatory towards slim women"

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Im far from what society depicts as normal, Im dieting for me and my own reasons, not because I may become more universally appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind how they look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loose it then

Who cares what men on here like if you feel you need to loose more just do it "

Its nothing to with men or my partner on the weight I am but in my head I'm going to lose more just few pounds. And im not saying that curvy woman are fat look at marilyn monroe she was size 14 and she was a hottie .I still have the curves just want to lose a bit off the belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

i know its all context and it words on a screen. but i read that as derogatory towards slim women

I totally agree for some reasons it's ok to call under weight women ironing boards, bags of bones, stick insects etc but if you called a over weight women a beached whale or jabs the hut all he'll would break loose, why is that "

there are more weighty birds onhere to offend than there are skinny ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just posting this topic to see whether men and women prefer normal weight looking women I.e size 10-12 rather the whippet skinny looking where you'd love to force them to eat steak.

After having a kid myself iI feel like there is an average size that being size 10-12 . I'm a 10 at the minute but feel I've to lose a bit more

Different men (and women) prefer different things. You can't please everyone so why bother trying! If you want to lose weight, do it. If your happy as you are stay that way...

Did you really need to be rude to get your point across....whippet skinny where you'd love to force them to eat steak! "

I wasn't being rude in saying the above context that's just my opinion as a woman I have a right in freedom of speech.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

i know its all context and it words on a screen. but i read that as derogatory towards slim women

I totally agree for some reasons it's ok to call under weight women ironing boards, bags of bones, stick insects etc but if you called a over weight women a beached whale or jabs the hut all he'll would break loose, why is that

there are more weighty birds onhere to offend than there are skinny ones "

You were doing alright for the first couple of posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears "

Couldn't have said it any better!

I am a bag of bones or a skinny whippet you said and i'm a size 4 in clothing, its the size i choose for a 5ft frame. I've had kids and lost the weight through choice but i can't force feed myself with that steak to appease others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what makes you feel confident.

I don't think you sounded like you meant that in a nasty way, but the reflection is true. My boss says I am too skinny and need to put a bit of weight on, but I have NEVER heard him say anything about people being too fat even though he will hint it or something similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

Couldn't have said it any better!

I am a bag of bones or a skinny whippet you said and i'm a size 4 in clothing, its the size i choose for a 5ft frame. I've had kids and lost the weight through choice but i can't force feed myself with that steak to appease others."

I don't mean to offend anybody in what I said starting the topic I'm just asking what other peoples opinions would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

You don't look a bag of bones to me, you look really good.

Couldn't have said it any better!

I am a bag of bones or a skinny whippet you said and i'm a size 4 in clothing, its the size i choose for a 5ft frame. I've had kids and lost the weight through choice but i can't force feed myself with that steak to appease others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loose it then

Who cares what men on here like if you feel you need to loose more just do it

Its nothing to with men or my partner on the weight I am but in my head I'm going to lose more just few pounds. And im not saying that curvy woman are fat look at marilyn monroe she was size 14 and she was a hottie .I still have the curves just want to lose a bit off the belly"

thing is you cant spot reduce bodyfat unless you go in for something like lipo. you have to reduce it overall. just stick with it until ur happy but remember the gut is usually the last to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text "

But she wears a 12

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just do what makes you feel confident.

I don't think you sounded like you meant that in a nasty way, but the reflection is true. My boss says I am too skinny and need to put a bit of weight on, but I have NEVER heard him say anything about people being too fat even though he will hint it or something similar. "

That boss seems like a gobs***e ha. It maybe just might be my Irish blood coming out of me the way I say thing I really didn't mean in that sense its just a saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

Couldn't have said it any better!

I am a bag of bones or a skinny whippet you said and i'm a size 4 in clothing, its the size i choose for a 5ft frame. I've had kids and lost the weight through choice but i can't force feed myself with that steak to appease others."

As I've said above I didn't mean any offence to anyone of any shape or build. It does show that weight and size are but numbers though as I think you look really attractive in your photos.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I'm just posting this topic to see whether men and women prefer normal weight looking women I.e size 10-12 rather the whippet skinny looking where you'd love to force them to eat steak.

After having a kid myself iI feel like there is an average size that being size 10-12 . I'm a 10 at the minute but feel I've to lose a bit more

Different men (and women) prefer different things. You can't please everyone so why bother trying! If you want to lose weight, do it. If your happy as you are stay that way...

Did you really need to be rude to get your point across....whippet skinny where you'd love to force them to eat steak!

I wasn't being rude in saying the above context that's just my opinion as a woman I have a right in freedom of speech."

In my opinon as a female, I found it rude....I don't see why some people feel the need to put down others to make themselves feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

i know its all context and it words on a screen. but i read that as derogatory towards slim women

I totally agree for some reasons it's ok to call under weight women ironing boards, bags of bones, stick insects etc but if you called a over weight women a beached whale or jabs the hut all he'll would break loose, why is that

there are more weighty birds onhere to offend than there are skinny ones

You were doing alright for the first couple of posts "

hahah

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I'm naturally a size 6-8, I eat what I like and don't really exercise apart from walking. I don't have any choice about the size I am as I just don't put weight on. Having children has actually made me smaller. Some people like slim women and others don't. I personally prefer women we meet to be quite slim.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just posting this topic to see whether men and women prefer normal weight looking women I.e size 10-12 rather the whippet skinny looking where you'd love to force them to eat steak.

After having a kid myself iI feel like there is an average size that being size 10-12 . I'm a 10 at the minute but feel I've to lose a bit more

Different men (and women) prefer different things. You can't please everyone so why bother trying! If you want to lose weight, do it. If your happy as you are stay that way...

Did you really need to be rude to get your point across....whippet skinny where you'd love to force them to eat steak!

I wasn't being rude in saying the above context that's just my opinion as a woman I have a right in freedom of speech.

In my opinon as a female, I found it rude....I don't see why some people feel the need to put down others to make themselves feel better.

"

I didn't put down anybody I just asked for peoples opinions??

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Size

and weight are just numbers. A woman confident in their own skin is far

more attractive and a turn on. That said, I prefer a woman to be

womanly, curves rather than a stick insect.

Women in my view should never lose weight for others; only if they feel

uncomfortable in themselves

you were doing alright for the first couple lines of text

We all have preferences, just sharing mine. I stand by what I said!

i think he was referring to the fact you called a slim woman a stick

insect rather than you not liking them, no different to calling a big

women a beached whale, but then the OP has referred to slim women as

whippets, I can see this thread ending in tears

i know its all context and it words on a screen. but i read that as

derogatory towards slim women

I totally agree for some reasons it's ok to call under weight women

ironing boards, bags of bones, stick insects etc but if you called a

over weight women a beached whale or jabs the hut all he'll would break

loose, why is that "
personal preference. personally i'd take a big fatty over a bone collector any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loose it then

Who cares what men on here like if you feel you need to loose more just do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 6 but I'm not offended by the op, especially if he/she sends me a voucher for a free steak meal

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By *lackInWhiteCouple
over a year ago

Monroe

Personally I wld choose the woman who has the most confidence in herself weather she is a size 1 or a size 16....black

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Wiggles is whipet skinny as op calls it, but just to be clear, eats more than I do as a 16st bloke... I love her size and would never pick somebody heavier over her given the chance, petite is sexy as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body confidence is an attractive quality, whether big or small someone hung up on themselves can be hard work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body confidence is an attractive quality, whether big or small someone hung up on themselves can be hard work x"

The very point I was trying to make without offending anyone!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about how people hold themselves regardless of weight.

If I were to choose though it would be more rather than less.

And.... Off topic - Whippets are beautiful little dogs

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