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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just wondering if guys meeting ladies from here expect them to dress for sex?..would it be a bit dissapionting if the lady just wore usual underwear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find most ladies make the effort with there dress - so us men should not just wear jeans and a tee shirt on a meet - make the effort, I do.

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By *awnpaulCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow


"just wondering if guys meeting ladies from here expect them to dress for sex?..would it be a bit dissapionting if the lady just wore usual underwear?"

Think you've got to go with how YOU feel comfortable, every situation is different really....kinda depends on what how you've been talking. It's up to you......if they look disappointed, leg it and show them what real disappointment is!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"just wondering if guys meeting ladies from here expect them to dress for sex?..would it be a bit dissapionting if the lady just wore usual underwear?"

Sure it's nice for a lady to have some sexy undies on.... but do you really think most guys are that bothered if they are coming off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes "get dressed 4 success" as Roxette once sang..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just wondering if guys meeting ladies from here expect them to dress for sex?..would it be a bit dissapionting if the lady just wore usual underwear?

Sure it's nice for a lady to have some sexy undies on.... but do you really think most guys are that bothered if they are coming off?"

When i first started this swinging malarky ,i used to go all out..thigh boots,stockings etc,but soon realised i felt uncomfortable and i looked like someone's nan in a window in Amsterdam..lol. so now i just stick to a nice thong and a pretty bra or just no bra at all . i still have a bloody good time and the chaps seem ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wondering if guys meeting ladies from here expect them to dress for sex?..would it be a bit dissapionting if the lady just wore usual underwear?

Sure it's nice for a lady to have some sexy undies on.... but do you really think most guys are that bothered if they are coming off?

When i first started this swinging malarky ,i used to go all out..thigh boots,stockings etc,but soon realised i felt uncomfortable and i looked like someone's nan in a window in Amsterdam..lol. so now i just stick to a nice thong and a pretty bra or just no bra at all . i still have a bloody good time and the chaps seem ok with it."

Yeah dont see why not! good idea that.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"just wondering if guys meeting ladies from here expect them to dress for sex?..would it be a bit dissapionting if the lady just wore usual underwear?

Sure it's nice for a lady to have some sexy undies on.... but do you really think most guys are that bothered if they are coming off?

When i first started this swinging malarky ,i used to go all out..thigh boots,stockings etc,but soon realised i felt uncomfortable and i looked like someone's nan in a window in Amsterdam..lol. so now i just stick to a nice thong and a pretty bra or just no bra at all . i still have a bloody good time and the chaps seem ok with it."

Let's face it, you can be dressed head to toe in latex and lace with the most wonderful killer heels... but if you feel out of place wearing it, you won't enjoy yourself as much and any guy worth his salt won't enjoy himself as much if you look uncomfortable and feel uncomfortable.

Never yet heard of a guy complaining about a woman's underwear being too orninary, especially when she's walking up to him with confidence and has that look in her eye.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

*ordinary* even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*ordinary* even"

or both lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*ordinary* even

or both lol "

but which is better???

i like ordinary,,,,i like sexy,,,,but which is better???

only 1way to find out--

FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by joe ive missed that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tell guys to wear whatever makes them comfortable. Would much rather some relaxed metalhead in jeans and tshirt than some townie in a nicely pressed shirt with half a gallon of deodorant sprayed in his underwear because he felt he "had to impress".

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

ermmm ive got dressed befor and within 10 mins its in a heap on the floor hehe

still nice to make an effort innit hehe

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton

Just getting to see any underwear on a woman in the flesh sense would do me... at least I might feel I'm nearing my goal...

Sexy undies have never looked that good on a hanger in Marks & Sparks... and you get odd looks stood with a boner looking at the wall hanging POS of Miss Klass, Twiggy and the saucy French Girl... What her name... bless her nearly lost her life in those French Woods after her split with her fella...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of a meet, just ask a guy to describe your undies

I'll wager most of them wouldn't have a scooby doo

So don't dress to please them, do it to please yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

French Woods ?

is that tiger woods girl - friend?? lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Jack,dress to please yourself wear what you feel comfortable in x

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton


"French Woods ?

is that tiger woods girl - friend?? lol lol "

Nah... Some footballer was banging her I think... Arsenal one no doubt they're a french team in the UK aren't they?

Pretty woman though all the same... and your heart would melt at the sound of her accent no doubt... Cause your cock certainly wouldn't... melt I mean go soft!? lol

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

agree, most woman make an effort to wear sexy undies even though they usually end up nude. if they've gone to the trouble of wearing stockings and suspenders too it's polite to let them keep them on during the first session, at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agree, most woman make an effort to wear sexy undies even though they usually end up nude. if they've gone to the trouble of wearing stockings and suspenders too it's polite to let them keep them on during the first session, at least!"

Innit just!! lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I wear what, I feel comfortable in. Have a wide range of undies from bra and panties, to basques and corsets. Depends on the meet, but if I know a guy likes at certain thing will try to please if I have it. But I have to feel good and comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea!

if i know im meeting a sexy horny couple 4 fun i will dress up in smart gear,,,,T-shirt n Jeans! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no way i would go the whole hog on a first meet, i dress up but not to the extent of stockings etc, been there only to find they came casual so i dont bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no way i would go the whole hog on a first meet, i dress up but not to the extent of stockings etc, been there only to find they came casual so i dont bother"

Yeah 2rite ,,,i agree there sometimes.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i tend not to dress up for a first meet unless i am sepfially asked to.

I have a couple of guys that i know like certain things so will try to please them visually before the fun begins

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

We have our meet clothes - they get us in the mood

And as mrs new says - she doesn't do trashy underwear... so couples who rip our underwear with their teeth beware the wrath of mrs new...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is always sexy. As long as you look attactive and clean (and also like you do in yer profile pic lol) then that's a good footing to start off on.

I tried a gimp mask for my first meet - newbie error - my mum thought there had been a terrorist Anthrax attack. So i stick to a simple smart t-shirt, clean shaven and cowboy leather assless chaps. Works a treat

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Oh and before anybody asks - I have no idea what trashy underwear is..

Too play safe I just pay attention to what she buys then buy more of it when she is not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol lol lol

loving the funny comments!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if any guy has ever worn the ann summers elephant trunk on a first date - lol now a pic of that would be great for the gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if any guy has ever worn the ann summers elephant trunk on a first date - lol now a pic of that would be great for the gallery."

Yeah ,,,,mmmmmmmmmmmm i wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have our meet clothes - they get us in the mood

And as mrs new says - she doesn't do trashy underwear... so couples who rip our underwear with their teeth beware the wrath of mrs new..."

I'm with you here, have different undies and clothes and once dressed in them I feel "ready". Always wear stockings, and they never come off on the meet, like to keep shoes on as well if possible!!

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham


"We have our meet clothes - they get us in the mood

And as mrs new says - she doesn't do trashy underwear... so couples who rip our underwear with their teeth beware the wrath of mrs new...

I'm with you here, have different undies and clothes and once dressed in them I feel "ready". Always wear stockings, and they never come off on the meet, like to keep shoes on as well if possible!!"

And that is the right answer

Think looking sexy in nice lingerie is so important, Claire dresses to impress on every meet, sexy underwear is all part of the fun for us.

The comments saying would the guy remember the underwear OMG yes, first impressions count and usually leads to fantastic sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have our meet clothes - they get us in the mood

And as mrs new says - she doesn't do trashy underwear... so couples who rip our underwear with their teeth beware the wrath of mrs new...

I'm with you here, have different undies and clothes and once dressed in them I feel "ready". Always wear stockings, and they never come off on the meet, like to keep shoes on as well if possible!!

And that is the right answer

Think looking sexy in nice lingerie is so important, Claire dresses to impress on every meet, sexy underwear is all part of the fun for us.

The comments saying would the guy remember the underwear OMG yes, first impressions count and usually leads to fantastic sex! "

Well yes i agree with that 100% thats rite,,take note u lot!!lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

when we go on a meet,mrs saucy always dresses to impress,heels,stockings,mini,low cut top.on most of the meets.the heels,stockings,and mini,stay on whilst we play.ive said before,we have gone on meets.where the people have made no effort at all,looked although they had just finished gardening.we have never played with those couples.if they dont make an effort for a meet,when the f*** do they make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WEll as roxette once sang-------"get dressed for success"! lol

OR just put ure sunday best on n hope 4 the best shag of the century! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys look fantastic in Jeans and T shirt, ok perhaps not the "I fcuk for fun" logo type shirt and any old jeans but a nice tight fitting white T shirt and quality pair of jeans can look good.

Sadly I am not one of the guys that makes T shirts look good but I do dress for all meets.

Personal hygene is paramount so freshly showered, moistureised (yes even at my age) a quality after shave, cleanly shaven, teeth brushed, mints or spray in Sasha's handbag, favourite skin tight boxers etc.

And guys ..... shirts off first but then it has to be the socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys look fantastic in Jeans and T shirt, ok perhaps not the "I fcuk for fun" logo type shirt and any old jeans but a nice tight fitting white T shirt and quality pair of jeans can look good.

Sadly I am not one of the guys that makes T shirts look good but I do dress for all meets.

Personal hygene is paramount so freshly showered, moistureised (yes even at my age) a quality after shave, cleanly shaven, teeth brushed, mints or spray in Sasha's handbag, favourite skin tight boxers etc.

And guys ..... shirts off first but then it has to be the socks "

Very Good point that,,,very good point!!

in fact,,,,here here,lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on my mood being honest

i love stockings and nice underwear but sometimes i don't want to give the wrong impression on a 1st meet so i go casual but smart with sexy undies

i think its important to see a man look nice to prove he's made an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make a effort 4 a nice sexy meet ,,,ps i love those sexy meets ,,,when they happen! lol,,,but like i say i shave ,,freshen up ,,n put sprays on,,,just look decent.

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston

Any guy wishing to see me in sexy underwear only needs to take me shopping and I am more than willing to model it for him later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy wishing to see me in sexy underwear only needs to take me shopping and I am more than willing to model it for him later. "

ooooooooooooooo very seductive! very nice.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress in whatever I feel comfortable in...There is absolutely no way, I'm never going to turn up to meet someone, dressed in trousers & a shirt/suit etc & I wouldn't ever expect anyone else too, I think I'd actually laugh! I always make sure tho, that clean clothes are involved & always, a fresh pair of boxers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fancy coming with me to Primark ?

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston


"fancy coming with me to Primark ?"

I can't get underwear at primark, my tits are to big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fancy coming with me to Primark ?"

Id go with u anywhere i would! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Primark,,,,,its POSH CARBOOT SALE ! lol

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