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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know??

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know?? "

I'd happily move on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know??

I'd happily move on you "
ditto

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know??

I'd happily move on you ditto "

first move is the most important lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make the first move worried about rejection was a lot easier when i was younger although even then i'd get my makes to do the ....oi my mate fancies you bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know??

I'd happily move on you ditto you are soooo right lol

first move is the most important lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

will leave you 2 to it

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I rarely make the first move, if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never make the first move worried about rejection was a lot easier when i was younger although even then i'd get my makes to do the ....oi my mate fancies you bit "
aww bless,i know kelly,but we are in 2014 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" will leave you 2 to it "
looks like im going back into hibernation then lmao

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


" will leave you 2 to it looks like im going back into hibernation then lmao "

oh can I join??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" will leave you 2 to it looks like im going back into hibernation then lmao

oh can I join?? "
there allways a place in my cave for you my sweetness xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After some hassle and drama on a previous profile I decided to do things differently this time round. I've set a silly age range so no one can message me and I make the first move

Never thought I'd be brave enough to do this but I've sent a few winks and we've got chatting A few winks and one message have been ignored but that's to be expected.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


" will leave you 2 to it looks like im going back into hibernation then lmao

oh can I join?? there allways a place in my cave for you my sweetness xx "

aww thanks. bet you're nice & hot too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After some hassle and drama on a previous profile I decided to do things differently this time round. I've set a silly age range so no one can message me and I make the first move

Never thought I'd be brave enough to do this but I've sent a few winks and we've got chatting A few winks and one message have been ignored but that's to be expected. "
well done,at least you have done something x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" will leave you 2 to it looks like im going back into hibernation then lmao

oh can I join?? there allways a place in my cave for you my sweetness xx

aww thanks. bet you're nice & hot too "
my cave is allways snug for you gorgeous xx

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


" will leave you 2 to it looks like im going back into hibernation then lmao

oh can I join?? there allways a place in my cave for you my sweetness xx

aww thanks. bet you're nice & hot too my cave is allways snug for you gorgeous xx "

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know?? "

Nobody likes rejection, but the kid at the school disco who got the knockbacks also got some dances too. the kid sat at the side nursing a cup of Corona orange all night...Well, I can say on good authority that approach didn't get me, I mean them, any dances.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the feeling Lion does not want any other guys in this thread for awhile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a bit like,

Good morning lion i do like your mane,

Well thankyou i do try and keep it in good shape.

Do your prowl around here often?

I do yes,but my pray is very hard to find?

Oh really?yes they all seem to hide?

Oh im sorry to here that lion,but your soo cute,i know but that still doesnt help me

aww lion i will be your friend.

Aww thankyou,come and say hi anytime

I will take you up on that lion.

Aww thankyou,chat soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to stand back and still do a little, apart from when I've had a couple of drinks, I usually make the objects of my affections quite obvious then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to stand back and still do a little, apart from when I've had a couple of drinks, I usually make the objects of my affections quite obvious then "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get the feeling Lion does not want any other guys in this thread for awhile. "
your ok bud,your a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get the feeling Lion does not want any other guys in this thread for awhile. your ok bud,your a laugh "
Awww your to kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always struggle to know how and when to make a move - too soon and you risk a block, too late and there's a risk they think you're not interested .. it's like a minefield here for us guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allways leave it to the lady. Cant go wrong then. Bound to have lost fun along the way thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to have fun with each other and watch to see if anyone that we have chatted to either moves close or starts playing nearby, then we are happy to make a move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get the feeling Lion does not want any other guys in this thread for awhile. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore "
but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers "
More like blind. I bet it was the guide dog that was not very impressed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a bit like,

Good morning lion i do like your mane,

Well thankyou i do try and keep it in good shape.

Do your prowl around here often?

I do yes,but my pray is very hard to find?

Oh really?yes they all seem to hide?

Oh im sorry to here that lion,but your soo cute,i know but that still doesnt help me

aww lion i will be your friend.

Aww thankyou,come and say hi anytime

I will take you up on that lion.

Aww thankyou,chat soon

"
oh and i dont bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first time for me with a couple we had been chatting to beforehand - there was a spare playroom and i went and asked - just like that - want to come a play - was all about the mood of the place- on the way home i said - blimey ive never asked outright like that - mind you was a few firsts that night

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm too shy to make the first move, but once we start chatting I'm ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm too shy to make the first move, but once we start chatting I'm ok. "
im very shy really xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont make the first move anymore since I rejoined. As I see it if people read my profile like what they see they will message me. Anyway I spend to much time on the forum to browse for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont make the first move anymore since I rejoined. As I see it if people read my profile like what they see they will message me. Anyway I spend to much time on the forum to browse for meets."
well im going to do exatly the same thing,im getting just that little bit tired now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"first time for me with a couple we had been chatting to beforehand - there was a spare playroom and i went and asked - just like that - want to come a play - was all about the mood of the place- on the way home i said - blimey ive never asked outright like that - mind you was a few firsts that night "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"first time for me with a couple we had been chatting to beforehand - there was a spare playroom and i went and asked - just like that - want to come a play - was all about the mood of the place- on the way home i said - blimey ive never asked outright like that - mind you was a few firsts that night "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's quite refreshing when the lady makes the first move.

I love by the rule rejection is not a bad thing, it just educates you and married down who could potentially like you.

If we all feared rejection...no one would make a move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When messaging I tend to find it's me making the first move....although it was a nice surprise to receive a message the other day. But alas, as much as she stated she liked my profile, she obviously hadn't read it, as she was married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers More like blind. I bet it was the guide dog that was not very impressed."

In response to you both, I expect because I am not what they were looking for. I don't always reply to messages but that is because they don't send face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers More like blind. I bet it was the guide dog that was not very impressed.

In response to you both, I expect because I am not what they were looking for. I don't always reply to messages but that is because they don't send face pics "
God knows what they are looking for then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptionally flattering when a lady makes the first move on here given the choice of men. But no offence taken how busy it is if I have to do the legwork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do make the first move, the only time I've not they became unlos very fast. Maybe its the old school gent in me that expects a lady to be courted and wooed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg!!! Peeps the days of covering up your ankles are long gone,we are in 2014 grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg!!! Peeps the days of covering up your ankles are long gone,we are in 2014 grrrrrr "
You would not say that if you saw my ankles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Omg!!! Peeps the days of covering up your ankles are long gone,we are in 2014 grrrrrr You would not say that if you saw my ankles."
its ok you are a special case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg!!! Peeps the days of covering up your ankles are long gone,we are in 2014 grrrrrr You would not say that if you saw my ankles.its ok you are a special case "
You are right I am well special a one of a kind. Which is a good thing.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"After some hassle and drama on a previous profile I decided to do things differently this time round. I've set a silly age range so no one can message me and I make the first move

Never thought I'd be brave enough to do this but I've sent a few winks and we've got chatting A few winks and one message have been ignored but that's to be expected. "

Only another 25 years and I'll be able to send you a message

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