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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure how to go about this without putting of regular people. I really enjoy fisting & I know it's not every ladies cup of tea.

I want to arrange some fisting meets but don't want to appear to be extreme on my profile. I've listed it as an interest on my profile & I have spoken to a few people about it on here with mixed reaction. I enjoy many things don't get me wrong but wanting a specific meet where I fist a fab friend to orgasm heaven.

Should I be asking on here? Seems more people on the forums chat more openly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fisting???

Fucking or fighting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just recently got into fisting in a big way, I love it, when done properly. Same as you I have it as an intrest on my profile, but since its not for everyone I dont tend to mention it until, someone says to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put an add in the meets section for ...

"Big Fat Fanny, who was such a naughty Nanny", that Freddy Mercury sang about, in Fat Bottomed Girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people just tick all the boxes when they join then are horrified when you mention it in an email and say they dont like it..

We have fisting listed in our interests,i love it when done properly,if people have fisting listed as an interest then surely there is no harm in asking x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I need an eye test, I thought it read fishing meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought it said 'fishing meet'

I was just about to dig my road and reel from out of the loft

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha not into fighting fanny lol

don't want to put in meets as it goes straight onto my profile & I don't want to be seen as a radical extremist lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought it said 'fishing meet'

I was just about to dig my road and reel from out of the loft "

I'll get the boat! Who's Rod?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add to your profile 'Very interested in Fishing meets - will bring my own maggot to the fishing hole"

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

I love it though dont meet outside club and yet to let anyone else do it to me in club, and can tell you done properley does not make you slack or baggy !!!!!!! Its immensley naughty feeling and pleasurable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i am still waiting for a domme, i have listed it as an interest but i think all the ladies down this way must be sub or just hate the thought of doing a guys ass

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Not sure how to go about this without putting of regular people. I really enjoy fisting & I know it's not every ladies cup of tea.

I want to arrange some fisting meets but don't want to appear to be extreme on my profile. I've listed it as an interest on my profile & I have spoken to a few people about it on here with mixed reaction. I enjoy many things don't get me wrong but wanting a specific meet where I fist a fab friend to orgasm heaven.

Should I be asking on here? Seems more people on the forums chat more openly!"

a lot of women do like it but may be afraid to list it in likes as some DO automatically say oh she likes fisting...she must have a bucket fanny..I mean it isn't like the hands slips in no problem when doing it is it...lol it is something I really enjoy...have even gotten a few guys hooked on it after having fisted me for the first time...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Add to your profile 'Very interested in Fishing meets - will bring my own maggot to the fishing hole" "

thought about a DIY meet but it's probably pointless - I'll be the one doing the DIY

I also thought about a FAIR GROUND meet but I'm sure I'll end up on the dodgems

any one for DIVING?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this 'when done properly' - is there a fisting manual?

I guess wearing a boxing glove would not count as doing it properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it though dont meet outside club and yet to let anyone else do it to me in club, and can tell you done properley does not make you slack or baggy !!!!!!! Its immensley naughty feeling and pleasurable xx"
..... makes mental note hehes

*sits on coffin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this 'when done properly' - is there a fisting manual?

I guess wearing a boxing glove would not count as doing it properly. "

Yes, there is a "technique" lol, it's not generally something that can be done quickly!

Boxing gloves not required lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this 'when done properly' - is there a fisting manual?

I guess wearing a boxing glove would not count as doing it properly. "

Yeah there is,the wrong way is when a guy just tries to shove his hand up you in one go! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said this site isn't educational? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's another thread relating to fisting on the forum - more err educational

I want to know who's up for some! Lol

ps for the less experienced rather than boxing gloves & ramming it straight up, latex/rubber & plenty lube!

(not mariglold flock line - yellow/pink or blue - passion killers unless you also take the washing up brush lol)

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

It's not something I've tried,yet.....but definitely will......with the right person!!!!!!

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea

i think your a little to tight _oddess but id certainly like to be the one that trys!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think your a little to tight _oddess but id certainly like to be the one that trys!!!! "

my GF is only a size 6/8 & hasn't had kids. Take time (sometimes almost 2hrs of play!), build upto it & she'll take my fist!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think your a little to tight _oddess but id certainly like to be the one that trys!!!! "

In theory any women can be fisted, it just takes a lot of time, patience....and lube! But then I have got small hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no fun fisting a bucket anyway. I should know - i need a tetanus injection last time. Need a plastic one next time.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

OP..if it's something you'd really like to do...put it in your profile.

If you daren't put it in your profile...are you sure you want it that much?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Trim the nails, maybe use gloves and be careful if people have a coil fitted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"OP..if it's something you'd really like to do...put it in your profile.

If you daren't put it in your profile...are you sure you want it that much?"

it's on mine! & I do it with my girlfriend. See earlier posts. What I mean is it can still be a bit of a taboo & not always something you feel yo can broach

For example - I've been talking to someone for a little while & fisting is not on their profile so never discussed it.

After putting this thread up a whole new conversation has started & it's something that they've done to others but never had the confidence to try themselves so it's not on their profile. I can understand that because if it's out there & we blokes see it we'll be trying it on!

Same as I'm sure anal sex is omitted from people who might want to try it but on their terms. It can still be a bit taboo!

Hopefully if through FAB we meet similar like minded people we feel confident to ask & maybe explore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have I stumbled into something here?

All the time I've been on fab I must get an average ratio of 10 guys to every girl looking at me! Since I've put this thread up loads of you ladies & couples have been peeking & not many have fisting on their likes. Does that mean my previous post bears more meaning than I realise

is it "i'm a fisting curios" person / couple? Should we start to state our curiosities more? Should t be an option to tick maybe? One for siteadmin to consider?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Apologies for getting confused by the line "don't want it on my profile as it's a bit extreme"

I realise you did say it was on your profile, but I perceived an undercurrent of "I'd rather it wasn't there" in your posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No worries just don't want to put a meet up on my profile specifically wanting a 'fisting session' lol

let's face it single guys on here can bd scary enough lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm wonder if anybody hasnow added it on their profile ??

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston


"Hmm wonder if anybody hasnow added it on their profile ?? "

I have lol

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Hmm wonder if anybody hasnow added it on their profile ?? "

was already on mine

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"Hmm wonder if anybody hasnow added it on their profile ??

was already on mine "

And ours lol.

I personally am not sure about a fisting "party" I'm sure there will be those who would jump at the chance but for me, it doesn't happen immediately. It's something I love but have only managed it with hubby and "almost" with one other guy who we'd consider a good friend (I suppose anyone who'se had their hand that far up your fanny would be considered a good friend tho eh? lol) From my POV it's a lot to do with trust and probably something i'd only be comfortable doing with someone I knew fairly well

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm wonder if anybody hasnow added it on their profile ??

was already on mine

And ours lol.

I personally am not sure about a fisting "party" I'm sure there will be those who would jump at the chance but for me, it doesn't happen immediately. It's something I love but have only managed it with hubby and "almost" with one other guy who we'd consider a good friend (I suppose anyone who'se had their hand that far up your fanny would be considered a good friend tho eh? lol) From my POV it's a lot to do with trust and probably something i'd only be comfortable doing with someone I knew fairly well

*Her*"

No good at a party too rushed. As for only done with partner - I agree its definatly a trust thing!

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By *h1lsthemanMan
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

I enjoy fisting a woman and yes it takes time but the pleasure i get from giving the woman so much pleasure especially when she gushes is amazing ! i have not thought of looking on interests of woman/couples to see if they have fisting listed may be i will look in the future !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I enjoy fisting a woman and yes it takes time but the pleasure i get from giving the woman so much pleasure especially when she gushes is amazing !"

it's true. I'm happy when the lady is totally satisfied. Not just about me & my cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just put a add in the meet up section saying your after ladies who enjoy fisting, who gives a bugger what anyone else thinks? you'll attract the women you want and thats all that matters

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

tried it and could not get the whole hand in, strange as a babies head is bigger than my hand any tips

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tried it and could not get the whole hand in, strange as a babies head is bigger than my hand any tips "

I love to fist & with me it usually comes after we've had an hour or so fucking. I find the secret is :

a. A good lube that doesn't degrade to quick & not one that tinggles

2. Time. Push a few fingers up at a time. Try streching using fingers off both hands maybe. Putting 8 fingers in as if praying will stretch & at the same time their knuckles 'massage' the walls increasing blood flow

you could use increasing in size toys. We use 2 'cones' one standard & one large but I cut the top off the large one as it can go too deep.

C. Work together - she likes to take control initially, my arm propped up by the elbow & she squats on me bit by bit. As she takes my hand in she stops, tenses her muscles then relaxes a bit more

4. As the woman you need to tell him/her which way you like the knuckles - to the front pushing against your pubic bone, to the back making their fingers push up against your g spot or turning (if so speed)

5. Don't forget towels - almost all the ladies I've fisted gush & gush. It's an extreme pleasure & communication, time & patience is the key

enjoy!!!!

maybe we could get together!

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Very good advice from Klitking there :thumbsup:

I've also found that "bearing down" helps the last little bit. Sounds odd as it's almost as if you're trying to push it out, but it relaxes the muscles and really helps.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo this is not something I could do, well never say never, but its not something I find particularly sexy. I find that 3 of my partners fingers is too much for me and it starts getting painful rather than pleasure. I dont know whether its cos i havent had babies naturally or because im fairly small framed (apart from the outside protection of padding of course). I also have the view, and its probably totally silly, that I will become big and baggy and stay like it - so from that point of view it puts me off a little. Ive heard from people who say that if done properly its absolutely fantastic - so accept I dont really know what im talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fist Club.

The 1st rule of Fist Club is you dont talk about Fist Club.

The 2nd rule of..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fisting is great if its done properly i love it and its the only time i squirt so just go for it xx

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Ooo this is not something I could do, well never say never, but its not something I find particularly sexy. I find that 3 of my partners fingers is too much for me and it starts getting painful rather than pleasure. I dont know whether its cos i havent had babies naturally or because im fairly small framed (apart from the outside protection of padding of course). I also have the view, and its probably totally silly, that I will become big and baggy and stay like it - so from that point of view it puts me off a little. Ive heard from people who say that if done properly its absolutely fantastic - so accept I dont really know what im talking about "

no it is not true that you stay all big and baggy...women dont stay dialate at 10 cm after having a baby do they?lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no it is not true that you stay all big and baggy...women dont stay dialate at 10 cm after having a baby do they?lol

lol question - why if everyone is different & every childbirth is 'unique' why do you have to get to 10cm's ????

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"no it is not true that you stay all big and baggy...women dont stay dialate at 10 cm after having a baby do they?lol

lol question - why if everyone is different & every childbirth is 'unique' why do you have to get to 10cm's ????

"

I would have to say...no clue...lol...just know that when my son was born that was the goal I had to reach...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it looks like my fisting partner in crime maybe departing - I have a vacany on my arm hahaha any offers!

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"Well it looks like my fisting partner in crime maybe departing - I have a vacany on my arm hahaha any offers!

"

*coughs*

Oops - there - it's in

Lol.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it looks like my fisting partner in crime maybe departing - I have a vacany on my arm hahaha any offers!

*coughs*

Oops - there - it's in

Lol.

*Her*"

'COVONIA' that'll sort your cough out lol

trips, falls lands on a fisting post OUCH! that's gotta hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it true you'll only stay big & baggy if the wind changes while its in there???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wierd thing is ...I've had big girls that couldn't take a fist & then size 8 that I easily slipped into. It's also something that cannot be rushed ..lots of lube & I prefer to use latex medical gloves let the lady set the pace. MMmmmm I love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok another question-

Those of you that love it & do it how many of you ladies gush from fisting & do you nomally gush or is the fisting better?

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

I notice that a number of people who have posted in this thread are going to the BBW Bash at Chams on Sunday. Should we try to meet up and compare techniques at sometime during the day?.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"I notice that a number of people who have posted in this thread are going to the BBW Bash at Chams on Sunday. Should we try to meet up and compare techniques at sometime during the day?. "

You on commission?

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow


"I notice that a number of people who have posted in this thread are going to the BBW Bash at Chams on Sunday. Should we try to meet up and compare techniques at sometime during the day?.

You on commission?"
Commission, no, a mission, possibly

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

a good while ago i was in a midlands club and myself and 3 guys were playing with a lady when she said 'lets do sometnhing different' and asked us to show our hands, she chose my hands and asked me to fist her!,quite a few others came in to watch and i am now hooked on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something we've thought about before. Guess we've always been worried about stretching the vagina too much.

Sounds too good not to give it a go though! Follow it up with some exercises and we're sure everything will be back to normal in no time :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i adore being fisted it has to be done slowly and with care but do it right and its pure heaven.i used to have an older gentleman who did it perfectly and i love love love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to say i was introduced by a 25 year old who came so hard i got cramp in my hand ,i did as i was told and now slip it into conversationoften just in case,always love to tickle with a fist inside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not something we've thought about before. Guess we've always been worried about stretching the vagina too much.

Sounds too good not to give it a go though! Follow it up with some exercises and we're sure everything will be back to normal in no time :P"

you'd be supprised that it's back to normal very very quickly - the secret is to take your time & the lady is to be totally relaxed! Try not to force hard against the pubic bone with your knuckles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was asked today about fisting meat?? surely thats what a vet does - just sounded wrong.

does that mean those that like fisting are wrong??

Back to is it still taboo?

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Have done it once with a lady who enjoyed it a lot.

As others say not rushing, trimmed and tidy nails, or a glove. Ignore the porno's where they fist within seconds, probably have been warming up before the take

Is it taboo, not as much as anal fisting and probably not as much as the lady taking her strap-on to the man.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

I have a secret thing for fisting I have never had it done but would love to, hubby tried but it wouldn't happen. I would never go on a meet for IT though as I wouldn't want to disappoint by saying no it hurts type thing.

but wouldn't be against trying it on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to ask a serious question about this fisting lark

I personally cant take a fist, many have tried, but i just cant take it, i have to tell them to stop as they usually just hurt me with their determination to get their hand up

Now i dont know if thats because, and im going to be honest now, having someones whole hand up my flu just does not appeal to me at all, when i see others fisting women i just think.....fucking hell she must have a fanny like a bucket!! and the thought of others thinking that about me just puts me off.

Maybe if i really relaxed and was enjoying it i could take a hand, maybe its because i cant relax while its being done that it hurts me and i tend to really dry up, maybe i am just to small down their to take a fist, i have no idea and i guess i'll never know

But what i want to know is, and im really not taking the piss now this is a genuine question thats kinda scares me, is if you take a fist regular does it stretch your bits like anal does? i love anal and do it quite regualr, once it really hurt till i got used to it now i can take a cock no problem and dont even need lube so ive obviously stretched to accommodate this act, and if your muff works the same do women who do fisting after a bit need really well hung guys to satisfy them?

I know people go on about child birth etc when talking about fisting but lets be honest you cant really compair the two, your body goes in to hours of preperation to pass a baby and most of us will only got thro this 2, 3 maybe 4 times in our lifes so tho yes a baby is bigger than a fist i dont really go with the if you can pass a baby you can take a fist theory, i just feel that if its something that done offen enough your muff with end up going really big and out of shape???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to ask a serious question about this fisting lark

I personally cant take a fist, many have tried, but i just cant take it, i have to tell them to stop as they usually just hurt me with their determination to get their hand up

Now i dont know if thats because, and im going to be honest now, having someones whole hand up my flu just does not appeal to me at all, when i see others fisting women i just think.....fucking hell she must have a fanny like a bucket!! and the thought of others thinking that about me just puts me off.

Maybe if i really relaxed and was enjoying it i could take a hand, maybe its because i cant relax while its being done that it hurts me and i tend to really dry up, maybe i am just to small down their to take a fist, i have no idea and i guess i'll never know

But what i want to know is, and im really not taking the piss now this is a genuine question thats kinda scares me, is if you take a fist regular does it stretch your bits like anal does? i love anal and do it quite regualr, once it really hurt till i got used to it now i can take a cock no problem and dont even need lube so ive obviously stretched to accommodate this act, and if your muff works the same do women who do fisting after a bit need really well hung guys to satisfy them?

I know people go on about child birth etc when talking about fisting but lets be honest you cant really compair the two, your body goes in to hours of preperation to pass a baby and most of us will only got thro this 2, 3 maybe 4 times in our lifes so tho yes a baby is bigger than a fist i dont really go with the if you can pass a baby you can take a fist theory, i just feel that if its something that done offen enough your muff with end up going really big and out of shape???"

I can't take a fist at all, I want to but I just can't, maybe I just need someone who is more patient and experienced.

I do know that I've fisted 2 exes, both smallish girls that hadn't had children and there was no difference in the size of their bits, if anything they were tighter after we had done it. I do feel qualified (lol) to assure you that you won't get baggy bits from being fisted. The vagina is waaaay more elastic then the ass, maybe that's why you find anal easier after a while.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

no you need a smaller first

I can not take a fist at all (yet) and I have had three children even not long after having a child (meaning weeks not hrs lol) it didn't work but hope to try with a more experience hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no you need a smaller first

I can not take a fist at all (yet) and I have had three children even not long after having a child (meaning weeks not hrs lol) it didn't work but hope to try with a more experience hand."

trust - time & patience size is somewhat irrelivant

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

Some women can take a fist, some can take two, some can take a finger, some can take two. Body size seems to have little to do with it. Everybody is different, not better, worse, sexier, less sexy, ...

I dare say that there are some who won`t play with a person if they can't fist them, but I think for the majority, fisting is an enjoyable PART of sex play.

The vagina is designed to be stretched and will "bounce back" easily, the anus isn't!

I can almost guarantee that if the intended fistee is apprehensive, it isn`t going to happen! They need to trust that the fister is going to stop if asked. The most important thing that the fister needs is patience!!! Lube can help too, but natural secretions are fine. I prefer not to use gloves, but would if asked. As has been said above, don't believe the porn, you need to work your way up, finger by finger.

I'm worried though by comments about pain! If you're being fisted and it hurts, ASK (TELL) THE FISTER TO STOP! If you're fisting someone and they ask you to stop, STOP! Pain is the bodies way of telling you that damage is being done, ignoring the pain doesn't stop the damage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also keen to try fisting, one of my last remaining fantasies....!!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"ok another question-

Those of you that love it & do it how many of you ladies gush from fisting & do you nomally gush or is the fisting better? "

I'd never squirted until I was fisted by a fem - closely watched by my male friend- now it happens on a regular basis with him and I love it .

Like you all say patience is the key - let the fem or male work up to it and then you can both enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being fisted. I was recently lucky enough to take part in my first female fisting which was amazing. I took her to the wrist as did she when i returned the favour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No worries just don't want to put a meet up on my profile specifically wanting a 'fisting session' lol

let's face it single guys on here can bd scary enough lol. "

Weren't u just talking about your size 6-8 girlfriend, single guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No worries just don't want to put a meet up on my profile specifically wanting a 'fisting session' lol

let's face it single guys on here can bd scary enough lol.

Weren't u just talking about your size 6-8 girlfriend, single guy?"

hehe no size doesn't matter - used ex GF size 6/8 as an example that small framed girls can be 'worked up' just the same as larger framed girls lol

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"No worries just don't want to put a meet up on my profile specifically wanting a 'fisting session' lol

let's face it single guys on here can bd scary enough lol.

Weren't u just talking about your size 6-8 girlfriend, single guy?

hehe no size doesn't matter - used ex GF size 6/8 as an example that small framed girls can be 'worked up' just the same as larger framed girls lol"

people can be suspicious on here can't they....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't say suspicious - always questioning yes but isn't that the way you find stuff out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last I was about to fist a lady friend she made me take my watch off as she wanted more than just my fist. Very wet experience and not one i would have wanted to miss. She said I hit parts that made her gush like a tap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Put up a meet for Friday & got some negative comments from some of the people I've chatted with for a while, so removed it?

guess my original comment was valid to a degree.

Bovrl - like it or hate it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 all of you who think it dont strech you look up latex angel....

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Put up a meet for Friday & got some negative comments from some of the people I've chatted with for a while, so removed it?

guess my original comment was valid to a degree.

Bovrl - like it or hate it lol "

that is a shame...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put up a meet for Friday & got some negative comments from some of the people I've chatted with for a while, so removed it?

guess my original comment was valid to a degree.

Bovrl - like it or hate it lol

that is a shame..."

I half expcted it hence the post.

Maybe from here my joy may come???

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Put up a meet for Friday & got some negative comments from some of the people I've chatted with for a while, so removed it?

guess my original comment was valid to a degree.

Bovrl - like it or hate it lol

that is a shame...

I half expcted it hence the post.

Maybe from here my joy may come???"

if you were further south there is a big fan of it down southampton way...lolalways a good way to end a session in my books

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put up a meet for Friday & got some negative comments from some of the people I've chatted with for a while, so removed it?

guess my original comment was valid to a degree.

Bovrl - like it or hate it lol

that is a shame...

I half expcted it hence the post.

Maybe from here my joy may come???

if you were further south there is a big fan of it down southampton way...lolalways a good way to end a session in my books "

((Nods excessivly))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all those in favour of fisting put ya hands up

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"all those in favour of fisting put ya hands up "

both??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"all those in favour of fisting put ya hands up "

hehe!

can't that's the problem! Lol

need a woman on my arm for that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"all those in favour of fisting put ya hands up

both?? "

show off lol,

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"all those in favour of fisting put ya hands up

both??

show off lol, "

Noooo. One would make my eyes water.

The thought of both fists up mi flue would have me running for the hills

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

.

Is something I would love to try, but would have to be with someone I could trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all those in favour of fisting put ya hands up "

Lmao

love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"all those in favour of fisting put ya hands up

Lmao

love it. "

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Can't do a fist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 fingers to knuckles has been my maximum.. all the way to wrist next please.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I might have left my watch behind??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

bump

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So a month on - still looking to replace my fisting FB partner in crime - wondered if any one who was unsure on trying it has since done so? Was it what you thought? Better or worse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regulary meet a very nice man that has magic hand, he can fist a pussy to sweet heaven, mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regulary meet a very nice man that has magic hand, he can fist a pussy to sweet heaven, mmmm "

hmmm I think I know this guy.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shhhh its a secret lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"So a month on - still looking to replace my fisting FB partner in crime - wondered if any one who was unsure on trying it has since done so? Was it what you thought? Better or worse?"

I keep telling you to come to Scotland!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you haven't been fisted you really don't know what you are missing out on , in my experience it is the ultimate (multiple) orgasm.... I ofr one cannot get enough of it

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By *ush girlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"So a month on - still looking to replace my fisting FB partner in crime - wondered if any one who was unsure on trying it has since done so? Was it what you thought? Better or worse?

I keep telling you to come to Scotland!!! "

us scottish lasses know what we like although a gentle ladies hand is more me!

Hey KK all the time you've known me, You never said this was your thing! now I know lol!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"shhhh its a secret lol

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ok lol i'll keep it our secret lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to meet a guy for fisting sessions, sadly he moved to scotland so now doing without, for the time being anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm have more people added rusting to their profiles? I've had a number of messages from curious people but is it something of a taboo still?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't understand why some of the women on this thread seem to feel embarrassed if not ashamed that they can't take a fist up them.

On the contrary,they should be proud that they can't.

Given the choice,I know which ones I'd rather meet.

I, and many other guys we know, find "fisting" on the interests list off putting.

The common consensus is "If they can take a fist,shagging will be a waste of time!".

It may be just an opinion but one worth considering none the less.

XXXX

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By *ouch PotatoMan
over a year ago

nationwide.

Well my fist is twice the size of my cock and some so if my fist fits in my cock isn't going to get a lot of friction. I prefer a tighter one any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my fist is twice the size of my cock and some so if my fist fits in my cock isn't going to get a lot of friction. I prefer a tighter one any day."

There you have it,you girls who can't take it - don't worry - be happy!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well my fist is twice the size of my cock and some so if my fist fits in my cock isn't going to get a lot of friction. I prefer a tighter one any day.

There you have it,you girls who can't take it - don't worry - be happy!

XXXX"

It's always each to their own - the muscles in the vagina are very unique. My ex would be satisfied with a small discrete dildo & she was the one to introduce me to fisting - it took a long time of playing like I've said earlier but fisting the vagina doesn't make it slack in any way. Fisting or stretching the anus is totally different as the muscles 'memory' changes.

Like I said it's each to their own & it's not for the majority.

Mm still taboo then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my fist is twice the size of my cock and some so if my fist fits in my cock isn't going to get a lot of friction. I prefer a tighter one any day.

There you have it,you girls who can't take it - don't worry - be happy!

XXXX

It's always each to their own - the muscles in the vagina are very unique. My ex would be satisfied with a small discrete dildo & she was the one to introduce me to fisting - it took a long time of playing like I've said earlier but fisting the vagina doesn't make it slack in any way. Fisting or stretching the anus is totally different as the muscles 'memory' changes.

Like I said it's each to their own & it's not for the majority.

Mm still taboo then! "

The Vagina will recover some of its previous shape but not all. Like with child birth a woman will not tighten up unless she does pelvic floor exercises and it takes some time after forced dilation. And we are talking forced dilation not dilation due to hormone release to enable a baby to be delivered. Fisting will break down muscle, it can recover and be improved with vaginal exercises. However this wont occur in hours after fisting its more a mater of days. There fore to indulge in vaginal penetration after fisting you will feel looseness, lack of friction and less stimulation for both party's.

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

have had sex with a lady after becky had been fisting her (at her request)and it was a bit like throwing a chip up the high street to be honest. neither of us enjoyed it so we will not be doing it again.but good luck to those that enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my fist is twice the size of my cock and some so if my fist fits in my cock isn't going to get a lot of friction. I prefer a tighter one any day.

There you have it,you girls who can't take it - don't worry - be happy!

XXXX

's always each to their own - the muscles in the vagina are very unique. My ex would be satisfied with a small discrete dildo & she was the one to introduce me to fisting - it took a long time of playing like I've said earlier but fisting the vagina doesn't make it slack in any way. Fisting or stretching the anus is totally different as the muscles 'memory' changes.

Like I said it's each to their own & it's not for the majority.

Mm still taboo then! "

here here!! it makes me tighter through the orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love & adore women & wouldn't want to do anything that harms or pains them. The pleasure that I witness puts aside my own needs as to see someone virtually pass out with an intense orgasm works every time for me - not saying that it has to be on the 'menu' so to speak as pleasure comes in many different form and understanding what your partner wants is paramount in my book.

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