FabSwingers.com forum: Why are all the guys called Jay?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??"

Damn well that's me out from messaging you then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, but my name is Jonas "jay cutler" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not Jay. Or James. Or Jonas...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they think it's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'M SPARTACUS!

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES

No, I am Spartacus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??

Damn well that's me out from messaging you then."

It's ok, I can shorten your name to J.

I adore your profile photo. Very irresistibly sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'M SPARTACUS!"

Lol awesome. See? It's been done before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??

Damn well that's me out from messaging you then.

It's ok, I can shorten your name to J.

I adore your profile photo. Very irresistibly sexy. "

Been called many things before just never that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??

Damn well that's me out from messaging you then.

It's ok, I can shorten your name to J.

I adore your profile photo. Very irresistibly sexy.

Been called many things before just never that."

And it's official... I've seen his photo. He's cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed a lot of J's before, very weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bizarrely I chose a random letter, not J which has no bearing to my name, which isn't J or James either. Confused? I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??

Damn well that's me out from messaging you then.

It's ok, I can shorten your name to J.

I adore your profile photo. Very irresistibly sexy.

Been called many things before just never that.

And it's official... I've seen his photo. He's cute.

Shhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whosyourman is actually pronounced 'jay'.. kind of confusing at the start, especially when I made it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??"

weve noticed this. its funny that youve started a post about it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for those who have found the same and said so.

It's been like this since I joined Fab.

I thought I was losing the plot for a while!

Is there a similar letter or name that's really common for the women on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??"

Hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess they think it's cool.

Ladies love cool James.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for those who have found the same and said so.

It's been like this since I joined Fab.

I thought I was losing the plot for a while!

Is there a similar letter or name that's really common for the women on here?"

Minx in a username are ten a penny. Lots of Ks as letters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm another jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not here..

The names Bond.

Ja...... ahhh crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Smiley not a James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know , you're onto something there. I've spoken to a few Jays. I wonder if their real name is Walter or Lionel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know , you're onto something there. I've spoken to a few Jays. I wonder if their real name is Walter or Lionel.

Bet they are. Alphonso. Or Fred.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I've noticed it too. I wonder if a lot with the initial J use the name Jay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought they were all called Dave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree lots of James and Jays. Also loads of guys called Paul, Steve and Andy. On the J front we also know a rather yummy Jason

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"Agree lots of James and Jays. Also loads of guys called Paul, Steve and Andy. On the J front we also know a rather yummy Jason"

Lol i agree with the same name popping up and lukes add to the list

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

My name is Colin, ever been messaged by a Colin before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought Paul was a common name among swingers. Once attended a gang bang and 4 of the 6 guys were Pauls. Got quite confusing.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Only met one James and one Jay....but quite a few Paul's and Mark's.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We get a lot of guys called John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with women it seems to kate and kath for us - a few in the lists -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not but someone named jay just winked at me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believe it or not but someone named jay just winked at me lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believe it or not but someone named jay just winked at me lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mates sometimes call me Jay...However it's for a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve had the same ... jamie james jay and they all came from st albans lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coincidentally, while on a dating site last night, my flatmate commented 'why is every guy under 40 called jay, as well as claiming to be a personal trainer?'....

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By *ontaskdontgetMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??"

I use just "J" as it is the initial of my first name, though on my couples profile it seems steve is the most popular male name we have encountered, we used to joke about it also, so I know what you mean

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By *ontaskdontgetMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I noticed a lot of J's before, very weird

I'm sure there's things a lot more weird on this site than the letter J, I can positively say I've seen lots lol

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I would not be surprised if some people didn't use their real names.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would not be surprised if some people didn't use their real names."

Why do people have a name they shag by? Just use your initial rather than using a ridiculous fake name.

Regards

Rupert Algernon Stroodfarter

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would not be surprised if some people didn't use their real names.

Why do people have a name they shag by? Just use your initial rather than using a ridiculous fake name.

Regards

Rupert Algernon Stroodfarter

Call me Jay for short. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of you can jay.. I mean say they've been messaged by a Leon?

I'm alternative like that you see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents were poor

So to make up for lack of presents they have me two first names A & J....hence Ajay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Weve had the same ... jamie james jay and they all came from st albans lol

I'm from the middle.

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

"(Sorry this is a very random question!)

I've noticed this before, I am always contacted by guys called Jay or James? Or Jamie.

Why is this? Is this a good fake name to use? Does anyone else have this a lot?

Out of 13 kik conversations I have currently open - 6 are called James or Jay?

It's really confusing!

Anyone else called James want to message me? I am obviously attracted to the name! Or something??"

I apologise for messaging you but I shall not apologise for admiring your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am jase but do get called jay or j lots of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed a lot of J's before, very weird

Very sexy pics. You being from Cork is surely the origin of the word "corker" to describe something very special lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wanting to give to much away until now, but I had a fake name to hide my identity, in reality I'm James.

It should also be noted we've commented before about this, our best friend is Jamie, we've met many couples with james, I think it must be some bizarre experiment in the 70s and 80s or somehow a subconscious belief that we can all be James Bond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a plain old steve and am happy with that. I've no problem with revealing my real name but no public pics showing my face. Ohhhhh noooo....not in this tiny town that I live in haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not wanting to give to much away until now, but I had a fake name to hide my identity, in reality I'm James.

Your pics are fab....in fact I think I'll go back and fab them all lol.

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By *ontaskdontgetMan
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *ontaskdontgetMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I'm just a plain old steve and am happy with that. I've no problem with revealing my real name but no public pics showing my face. Ohhhhh noooo....not in this tiny town that I live in haha!!

See just as I said,,,,,,, here come the Steve's lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just a plain old steve and am happy with that. I've no problem with revealing my real name but no public pics showing my face. Ohhhhh noooo....not in this tiny town that I live in haha!!

See just as I said,,,,,,, here come the Steve's lol"

Steve is a cool name lol. Nice bike btw

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over a year ago

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