FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence?

By *dareYou87 OP Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Now, I'm a little quiet, a little shy in real life... Yet when it comes to swinging it's totally different!

I get a little awkward if a stranger in the street talks to me, yet I can go to a couple's house that I barely know and have a threesome no problem?

My fuckbuddy is perfectly to go to a house and be gangbanged by four guys and yet when I try to get her to go over and talk to a guy she likes the look of in the pub it's all shyness and oh no I can't...

See plenty of profiles on here where people say they're shy but do things that suggest they're anything but!

I just think it's interesting... Anybody got any insight on this? Any examples of how your swinging self differs from your 'real' self?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now, I'm a little quiet, a little shy in real life... Yet when it comes to swinging it's totally different!

I get a little awkward if a stranger in the street talks to me, yet I can go to a couple's house that I barely know and have a threesome no problem?

See plenty of profiles on here where people say they're shy but do things that suggest they're anything but!

I just think it's interesting... Anybody got any insight on this? Any examples of how your swinging self differs from your 'real' self?

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Because compared to so many other things in life - sex is easy. There's no pretence or weighing up what should or shouldn't be said for example. It's carnal and a language that needs no words. Loin language

Sarah x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I can be shy uncertain situation but sex I am fine with. Have been with a fair few strangers where it been turn up and fuck back in my single days. Sean

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

yes i'm the same I find it tricky approaching woman in a pub or even contacting them on Fab,

for fear of rejection or being accused of pestering i think,

so I tend to just comment or return any chats until I know it's all comfy, then the gloves are off lol and seem to flow well with chat or just arrange to meet up with no problem, ive had a few 3sums and more sums so doesn't seem to be shyness or nerves, the mind is a mysterious thing!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I'm shy when it comes to any naughtiness

In "real" life I'm a mouthy bint

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By *dareYou87 OP Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Now that is interesting! Pretty much the complete opposite of how I am

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Confidence is something you can work on or you can hide behind personas. .... I met this girl she was a bodybuilding contestant, a bodybuilding judge, a gym owner and a door supervisor and a dominatrix..... but she was nervous to meet me I said "how" she said when she dons her leather hat or black n whites etc she's playing a part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I start to build my confidence someone/something happens to knock it down again but hopefully one day I'll have loads

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By *urple72Woman
over a year ago

southport

I'm shy, quiet and socially awkward in real life situations but feel totally comfortable stripping off in front of strangers and having sex with them. I'd love to go to a swingers club and see how I am in that environment. Being naked seems to boost my confidence whereas being clothed makes me feel restricted and uncomfortable.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I need a bit of a run up to get going, even at a swinger club. Once I get going I'm fine. Very shy in other situations though, which is one of the reasons I've been single for so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite laid back and patient, so I never stress myself out in most situations.

I'd say I'm more confident away from swinging in ways, though i don't lack it in swinging situations. I just think everyone is so friendly and open, but in some situations it's harder to read or get things across because of the nature of the beast

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