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Young single guys find it hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else young and single find it hard to meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only as hard as you make it for yourself. There's plenty of tools within the site to give you the best chance of arranging meets........,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do well in clubs and that just dont do well on here dont no if its my age location or what x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really "
your 36 got 11 years on me so......

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

stick to clubs and socials if that's what works best for you. It does me, I just use fab to keep in touch with people I've met and to see what events are going on.

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Anyone else young and single find it hard to meet on here"

I partly agree to this statement as I do see a lot of profiles with a minimum age restriction.However, there are many profiles with a mlmaximum age restriction too and some specifically look for young, single guys. I'd recommend focusing more effort towards profiles actively seeking out young, single guys - keep your message lighthearted and respectful and I am sure you'll get some meets. Good luck OP!

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Not really "

No, I have no problem either,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really your 36 got 11 years on me so......"

Maybe your cock's just not big enough?

I don't know. I am not the oracle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it rather easy. Just don't Rush and be polite.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anyone else young and single find it hard to meet on here"

What makes you think it's your age and location making it difficult?

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By *ynxMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Best advice is dont rush be polite and you might get some meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh mate youve got pics of your knob all over your profile .

cock pics arnt cool it doesn't impress the ladies read the forums .

Then just be cool chat to ladies and dont be in a rush to talk about sex . Swinging is more than just sex .

And lastly dont be pushy and take your time .

Its not an age thing atall

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Anyone else young and single find it hard to meet on here"

I'm old and I don't find it difficult but you have to make an effort. Meets don't happen automatically or even quickly. You just have to be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 2 weeks and still no messages from any young females in my mailbox hopefully it's still early days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young guys should find it hard, there'd be a problem otherwise, viagras for older men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 cock pics!... And the first cum pic isn't particularly appealing... In fact for me it's a massive turn off! There are lots of negative posts from people that don't understand why they can't get meets. Equally there are lots of people in each of those brackets that have no problem. Check out the profiles of the young guys that are more successful and pic out some pointers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 cock pics!... And the first cum pic isn't particularly appealing... In fact for me it's a massive turn off! There are lots of negative posts from people that don't understand why they can't get meets. Equally there are lots of people in each of those brackets that have no problem. Check out the profiles of the young guys that are more successful and pic out some pointers! "

this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 cock pics!... And the first cum pic isn't particularly appealing... In fact for me it's a massive turn off! There are lots of negative posts from people that don't understand why they can't get meets. Equally there are lots of people in each of those brackets that have no problem. Check out the profiles of the young guys that are more successful and pic out some pointers!

this!"

And this again!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Just over 2 weeks and still no messages from any young females in my mailbox hopefully it's still early days."

Yes it's really early days!

Although, having said that, I was really lucky enough to have a meet on the very first night that I joined this site over three years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although, having said that, I was really lucky enough to have a meet on the very first night that I joined this site over three years ago."

;( rub it in haha

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Although, having said that, I was really lucky enough to have a meet on the very first night that I joined this site over three years ago.

;( rub it in haha"

Well if you insist! They were a couple of my age! my very first verification!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Sorry that should have read half my age!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"6 cock pics!... And the first cum pic isn't particularly appealing... In fact for me it's a massive turn off! There are lots of negative posts from people that don't understand why they can't get meets. Equally there are lots of people in each of those brackets that have no problem. Check out the profiles of the young guys that are more successful and pic out some pointers! "

^^^Totally agree, unless of course it's just your cock that defines you, then there is no need to change them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really your 36 got 11 years on me so......

Maybe your cock's just not big enough?

I don't know. I am not the oracle. "

You're soooo old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 cock pics!... And the first cum pic isn't particularly appealing... In fact for me it's a massive turn off! There are lots of negative posts from people that don't understand why they can't get meets. Equally there are lots of people in each of those brackets that have no problem. Check out the profiles of the young guys that are more successful and pic out some pointers!

this!

And this again!! "

and again

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

7 months on here and no meets have worked out...partly because I do get busy with other things, partly because I'm young, short and can't accommodate. tbh I'm having better results with craigslist at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7 months on here and no meets have worked out...partly because I do get busy with other things, partly because I'm young, short and can't accommodate. tbh I'm having better results with craigslist at the moment"

All women on craigslist are fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were still young and look young and fiund it hard. having a family doesnt help either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really your 36 got 11 years on me so......

Maybe your cock's just not big enough?

I don't know. I am not the oracle.

You're soooo old. "

Hahahaa yes... Catching up with us all though c

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Just over 2 weeks and still no messages from any young females in my mailbox hopefully it's still early days."

If you are waiting for them to mail you, you are in for a long wait. Be proactive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All women on craigslist are fake."

Not all, we have met a few of there

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"7 months on here and no meets have worked out...partly because I do get busy with other things, partly because I'm young, short and can't accommodate. tbh I'm having better results with craigslist at the moment"

How do you know it's being young, short and can't accommodate that's stopping you getting meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just over 2 weeks and still no messages from any young females in my mailbox hopefully it's still early days."

Seriously you've no idea and no patience either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh mate youve got pics of your knob all over your profile .

cock pics arnt cool it doesn't impress the ladies read the forums .

Then just be cool chat to ladies and dont be in a rush to talk about sex . Swinging is more than just sex .

And lastly dont be pushy and take your time .

Its not an age thing atall"

It's definitely an age thing with some of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get older....it's a piece of piss then.... Plenty meets n veris for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you just have to find what works for you and you'd do well.

...there's no rush. You said you do alright in clubs. So, you're not really missing out on anything. Go with your own pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"6 cock pics!... And the first cum pic isn't particularly appealing... In fact for me it's a massive turn off! There are lots of negative posts from people that don't understand why they can't get meets. Equally there are lots of people in each of those brackets that have no problem. Check out the profiles of the young guys that are more successful and pic out some pointers! Thanks i took eveyones advice and got rid of some photos and added some new ones, less cock photos now hey, im still learning thanks anyway xxx

this!

And this again!!

and again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can be a little difficult actively messaging people you may like to meet - but honestly, isn't that just like any other guy on here?

I personally have more success with people (more so couples than single women) who message me directly. Sometimes they mention they're looking for young guys on their profile; sometimes not.

Having a nicely-written profile body does help a fair bit in finding 'sensible' people as it displays intelligence and maturity. Otherwise, just be kind, don't be a pain and eventually someone will gain interest

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You've got a good attitude anyway

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