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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people keep looking at your profile over & over again but yet don't say hello?

I never quite understood that.

Surely closure of a polite no thanks is better than giving off stalkerish vibes.

Just my opinion.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to perv at your pics

Women always look at mine and never say anything,

Its not me by the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to perv at your pics

Women always look at mine and never say anything,

Its not me by the way "

Haha yeah good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you know when someone asks for advice on their profile etc?? i often tell them to look at the successful guys' profiles to seek inspiration. so perhaps its a compliment and they want to know what works so well for you. its a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them if it bothers you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well now I may need to have a look!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a message saying Boo! To someone who kept constantly looking

Within 24 hrs they had left the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you know when someone asks for advice on their profile etc?? i often tell them to look at the successful guys' profiles to seek inspiration. so perhaps its a compliment and they want to know what works so well for you. its a good thing!"

Thank you kindly. What a lovely compliment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block them if it bothers you "

Oh it was not a moan. More trying to understand different points of view and how peoples minds work

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dont click on who has viewed your profile ...problem solved !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well now I may need to have a look!! "

Your brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people keep looking at your profile over & over again but yet don't say hello?

I never quite understood that.

Surely closure of a polite no thanks is better than giving off stalkerish vibes.

Just my opinion.

Thoughts?"

it may be they fall outside your filters and can't message you but hope you'll message them to counteract that. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sent a message saying Boo! To someone who kept constantly looking

Within 24 hrs they had left the site "

If I ever get that from you I'll pack my bag and run then lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"dont click on who has viewed your profile ...problem solved ! "

Smart arse! There is always one lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people keep looking at your profile over & over again but yet don't say hello?

I never quite understood that.

Surely closure of a polite no thanks is better than giving off stalkerish vibes.

Just my opinion.

Thoughts?

it may be they fall outside your filters and can't message you but hope you'll message them to counteract that. X"

Interesting point. I shall write that down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a message saying Boo! To someone who kept constantly looking

Within 24 hrs they had left the site

If I ever get that from you I'll pack my bag and run then lol xx"

Soooo tempted now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sent a message saying Boo! To someone who kept constantly looking

Within 24 hrs they had left the site

If I ever get that from you I'll pack my bag and run then lol xx

Soooo tempted now "

Haha, well temptation can be a good thing...if it's handled in moderation

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By *traight outta YorkshireMan
over a year ago

Berwick

Now I want to look but don't want to come across as a stalker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People click away without thinking and without recalling where they've been before. Looked at me means nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I want to look but don't want to come across as a stalker!! "

Very droll...go on you can have a peek.

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Do we not complete a profile for people to have a look at????

I don't think we should get precious about our profiles, we make them to attract peoples attention,, surely there's no harm in looking,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do we not complete a profile for people to have a look at????

I don't think we should get precious about our profiles, we make them to attract peoples attention,, surely there's no harm in looking,, "

With out trying to sound too facetious, I would say there is a difference between looking and taking the time to look 6 - 8 times daily. All be it with a degree of subjectivity to what one deems to be "looking"

A valid point non the less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who post in the forums a lot will get looked at a lot, and often repeatedly by the same people. Of course there might also be a wanton, nubile hotty who is too shy to send you a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those who post in the forums a lot will get looked at a lot, and often repeatedly by the same people. Of course there might also be a wanton, nubile hotty who is too shy to send you a message "

Well one lives in hope. Oh and feel free to send that message

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