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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe blocking single guys would help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help "

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults "
If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Use the site tools like filters to work for you.

Many won't read profiles, or think they are something special and that you will break you rules and meet them anyway.

If you are not happy, do what is in your control to change it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention "

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help "

its as simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes "
Fair point. Good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very easy why don't you block them as you seem to have a huge problem lol - this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes Fair point. Good luck with that "

We are also happy to receive mail from guys when joining in a forum post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get 50 messages a week and we don't block single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes "

its fair enough expecting guys or any other group to read your profile..but make life simpler for yourselves.I noticed you do meet men, carry on doing that but at your discretion..which means blocking single men.

After some guys have perved the pics and see that you do meet men, they'll mail anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its very easy why don't you block them as you seem to have a huge problem lol - this "

Only with a select few dear ! I like to browse the sexy ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't get 50 messages a week and we don't block single men. "

Our messages increase when we post a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes Fair point. Good luck with that

We are also happy to receive mail from guys when joining in a forum post "

well dont moan then lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its very easy why don't you block them as you seem to have a huge problem lol - this

Only with a select few dear ! I like to browse the sexy ones "
Yes that's a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes Fair point. Good luck with that

We are also happy to receive mail from guys when joining in a forum post "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your 'looking for' list on your profile says you are looking for men. Delete that and you won't show up on searches that men do.

It is contradictory.

Also use filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes Fair point. Good luck with that

We are also happy to receive mail from guys when joining in a forum post

well dont moan then lol..."

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I think some insecure husbands play games on here with single guys. Use the filters.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults If your not looking for single guys then why not. Unless you like the attention

Nope just live in hope that there is respect for people's wishes Fair point. Good luck with that

We are also happy to receive mail from guys when joining in a forum post

well dont moan then lol..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, this was a look at me thread then.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"

In short, no.

The kind of guys who messsge you anyway won't read whatever you put in your profile nor are they likely to tead the forums.

Some couples simply block single men and look for them when they want them instead.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"So, this was a look at me thread then. "

either that or another knock the single guy thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We ll never be sheep nor flip flops which one applies to you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block or ignore,its simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"

Your "looking for" States you are looking for men!

Pot, kettle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We re allowed to update our profile its plain and english what's the problem with that ffs

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By *i-guyMan
over a year ago

chester


"Your 'looking for' list on your profile says you are looking for men. Delete that and you won't show up on searches that men do.

It is contradictory.

Also use filters. "

Makes sense to me.less confusing to none profile readers, hope it was ok for me to comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"

Lol if your to dumb to change your settings,so single men cant message you..How on earth do you manage to get dressed in the mornings????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also you have met with 3 single guys,you have in your preferences you want to meet single guys...erm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

Lol if your to dumb to change your settings,so single men cant message you..How on earth do you manage to get dressed in the mornings????

"

We re dumb now lol we get dressed just fine thx and not in outsize clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

Lol if your to dumb to change your settings,so single men cant message you..How on earth do you manage to get dressed in the mornings????

We re dumb now lol we get dressed just fine thx and not in outsize clothes "

Well you are,you created a thread moaning about getting messages from single men,when all you have to do is click on settings a change your preferences,so they cant message you,very very very simple to do....

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By *i-guyMan
over a year ago

chester


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

Lol if your to dumb to change your settings,so single men cant message you..How on earth do you manage to get dressed in the mornings????

We re dumb now lol we get dressed just fine thx and not in outsize clothes "

I think maybe it would be easier all round for you if you did just block single guys from messaging you like a lot of people have suggested until you want them too. Simples .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoa! All starting to get personal.

As a guy your profile says no single guys. Fine.

Your preference says looking for men. Fine.

You say you will look for guys when you want them. Fine.

You won't filter so that guys in threads can message you. Why?

You have had plenty of good advice. If you aren't happy with the volume of messages then my heart bleeds purple piss.

Sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it.

Getting shitty on the forums won't help.

And yes I can afford to get shitty as I'm not desperate for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just block us please xo's we can't promise to be adults and act with intelligence or respect and we think with ours dicks lmao how's pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the op is just a troll,forum user

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our profile says not in to couples they still mail and try it also says not bi or even curious in any way still get mails asking if we would consider them it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, this was a look at me thread then. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the op is just a troll,forum user "

Sheer class lol any other profound opinions you can share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"

We are not looking for single men, all messages will be deleted unread. Apart from ones we like the look of. But you need to be really special...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

We are not looking for single men, all messages will be deleted unread. Apart from ones we like the look of. But you need to be really special..."

Or at least have some morals and self respect !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is quite funny now Making me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is quite funny now Making me chuckle. "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is quite funny now Making me chuckle. "

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In conclusion we ve been on this site for a total of 3 years now we re well known at chameleons and yes we ve met around 8 single men in that time but have now decided we want different .How did we come to this decision simple this site has gone downhill dramatically as displayed by the responses to this thread the site is now full of married men playing away ,people with no manners and flooded with men who believe that swingers might save them the cost of a prostitute ! We ll now return to our happy little swinging world knowing that the forums are exactly as we thought happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you want people to say to you? I don't see a problem,you've had the most obvious advice available

Is being well known at chams give you some sort of celebrity status?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*does*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did you want people to say to you? I don't see a problem,you've had the most obvious advice available

Is being well known at chams give you some sort of celebrity status? "

No it answers the Internet troll accusation we are genuine thanks .With regard to the thread it was a little tongue in cheek tbh but the answers we got from the single men who answered amount to fuck you we ll do as we please if you don't like block us ! Exactly what we d expect tbh

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By *i-guyMan
over a year ago

chester


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"

You asked for the advice and it looks like everyone pretty much has advised you to filter/change your settings so you dont get messaged by single guys. That was the advice asked for and given so if you didnt like it why bother asking ,did you expect something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

You asked for the advice and it looks like everyone pretty much has advised you to filter/change your settings so you dont get messaged by single guys. That was the advice asked for and given so if you didnt like it why bother asking ,did you expect something different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did you want people to say to you? I don't see a problem,you've had the most obvious advice available

Is being well known at chams give you some sort of celebrity status? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, this was a look at me thread then.

either that or another knock the single guy thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoa! All starting to get personal.

As a guy your profile says no single guys. Fine.

Your preference says looking for men. Fine.

You say you will look for guys when you want them. Fine.

You won't filter so that guys in threads can message you. Why?

You have had plenty of good advice. If you aren't happy with the volume of messages then my heart bleeds purple piss.

Sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it.

Getting shitty on the forums won't help.

And yes I can afford to get shitty as I'm not desperate for meets.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Single men now blocked and we re so grateful for the advice from the well qualified swingers we ve heard from in this thread

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Don't understand why anyone should block all single men from messaging them just because some are too thick to read the profile.

We get messages from single guys that have nothing to do with a meet. They might be asking a question or commenting on something we have posted.

If people are too dumb to read the profile then they get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't understand why anyone should block all single men from messaging them just because some are too thick to read the profile.

We get messages from single guys that have nothing to do with a meet. They might be asking a question or commenting on something we have posted.

If people are too dumb to read the profile then they get ignored."

Thank god a voice of reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We state on the profile that we don't meet BI men this does not stop them messaging us. After being politely declined they simply change their profile to straight and have another go anyway! We use the notes section so we always know when they try it.

Got sick of it this morning and have now switched our filters reluctantly.

There are some very very decent men on here it's a shame a small minority ruin it for the rest.

It's weird how this behaviour is never demonstrated by all the singles who frequent the forums. Carry on decent chaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, this was a look at me thread then.

either that or another knock the single guy thread "

Both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol yep so desperate to be looked at lmao and knock single men when we re verified by three and have friends don't think so ! Simple fact is the door was left open and some rubbish blew in and the couples and single ladies of this site will just drift away with the abuse off men who expect sex on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the first thing I look at, what there looking for and age range. If I don't fit I move on plane and simple

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You'd think it was that simple wouldn't you lol

There are a minority of single guys that do very well on swinging sites and it has nothing to do with looks or cock size or whatever other 'feature' the majority think is important.

They are the ones that 'get it' (pun intended)

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I do like to read a positive and uplifting thread on here...

Lets see if I can find one

Negativity breads negativity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't seem to have that problem lots look at the profile or fab the pics but don't get mails having said that we have toned the profile down and not put no single men in it 20 times lol

As someone says use the block button if you feel strongly about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like to read a positive and uplifting thread on here...

Lets see if I can find one

Negativity breads negativity... "

Good luck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't get 50 messages a week and we don't block single men. "

I get around 50. And I like it.

(Got 38 in a few hours after posting my latest profile photo so it does happen!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And forgot to say yes a lot of people (not just single guys) don't read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's the first thing I look at, what there looking for and age range. If I don't fit I move on plane and simple "

It's only sense, why would we try when we're clearly not what the couple is after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand why anyone should block all single men from messaging them just because some are too thick to read the profile.

We get messages from single guys that have nothing to do with a meet. They might be asking a question or commenting on something we have posted.

If people are too dumb to read the profile then they get ignored."

Did you complain in public about them? I didn't put a thread up about couples messaging me when I had not looking for couples and not bi but still got messages from couples with a bi woman. I just blocked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't get 50 messages a week and we don't block single men.

Our messages increase when we post a meet "

If you post a meet you will always get masses of applicants. That is what the meeting post is for. If we are having a mmfmm and put it in the update we get lots of contacts and just deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand why anyone should block all single men from messaging them just because some are too thick to read the profile.

We get messages from single guys that have nothing to do with a meet. They might be asking a question or commenting on something we have posted.

If people are too dumb to read the profile then they get ignored."

I did say that .....but it got ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand why anyone should block all single men from messaging them just because some are too thick to read the profile.

We get messages from single guys that have nothing to do with a meet. They might be asking a question or commenting on something we have posted.

If people are too dumb to read the profile then they get ignored.

I did say that .....but it got ignored "

Sorry, what did you say? I was too busy having my own opinion to acknowledge anyone elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get single guys asking for advice all the time if we have posted about a particular club for instance. We answer this without any issue at all and quite like talking to nice guys.

That's why we are reluctant to block them as you often uncover a nice diamond.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's the first thing I look at, what there looking for and age range. If I don't fit I move on plane and simple

It's only sense, why would we try when we're clearly not what the couple is after? "

That's the question ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has it cooled down any in here yet??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who's hot under the collar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha, theres a few across the forum we wanted to post something sensible and helpful earlier in the post but had to dodge the arguments, anyway, looks like its sorted now

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"

If you block single guys but then decide you want to meet one find the guy you want to meet message him and he will be able to reply but no other single guy will be able to message you.

Hope this helps good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

If you block single guys but then decide you want to meet one find the guy you want to meet message him and he will be able to reply but no other single guy will be able to message you.

Hope this helps good luck"

^^^^ that saved us a bit of typing

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?

If you block single guys but then decide you want to meet one find the guy you want to meet message him and he will be able to reply but no other single guy will be able to message you.

Hope this helps good luck

^^^^ that saved us a bit of typing "

Thought it was time to cool things down a bit.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Same old story. (Single- male - bashing)

.if you don't want single male contact. Use the provided site filter. SIMPLE. no need to be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same old story. (Single- male - bashing)

.if you don't want single male contact. Use the provided site filter. SIMPLE. no need to be offended.

"

That is what countless people have advised them to do,but they wont...I say them (with a pinch of salt) from the profile it seems its a male only 1,under a couple name.....

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"

Perhaps you have changed your profile in the last 2 days but I just looked and it said nothing about no single men. Your 'Looking for' lists men as well as couples and women. If you don't want men to message you, even if you don't want to block them, all you should at least remove men from your Looking for. If not, don't be surprised if some message you. After all you are looking for men, your profile says so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The reason for the thread was that we posted a meet looking for a couple on two separate occasions and were pestered by single men ! We ve tried the filters however still received a message from a single male so not sure we used them right anyway we ll now ignore comfortable in the knowledge that the vast majority of single guys on here are desperate and irrelevant happy swinging

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

* If you block single guys, then you still message / wink / friend request them and then they can reply

* If you've previously messaged a single guy and then apply the filter, then I believe that they can still contact you, as there was prior contact

* Removing men from the people that you are looking to meet means that you won't show up in as many searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men now blocked and we re so grateful for the advice from the well qualified swingers we ve heard from in this thread "
So are you saying i have no chance of a meet then ? You sound lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"* If you block single guys, then you still message / wink / friend request them and then they can reply

* If you've previously messaged a single guy and then apply the filter, then I believe that they can still contact you, as there was prior contact

* Removing men from the people that you are looking to meet means that you won't show up in as many searches"

Single men finding manners and responding to requests that require them will improve their enjoyment of this site ! We do meet single guys when we fancy it but as we ve said the attitude of some is dragging this site down think you ll find a similar thread today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single men now blocked and we re so grateful for the advice from the well qualified swingers we ve heard from in this thread So are you saying i have no chance of a meet then ? You sound lovely "

No we ve not said that and we ve viewed you several times sure we could have fun we ve unblocked single men and have decided to ignore the ill mannered messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us guys are delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"* If you block single guys, then you still message / wink / friend request them and then they can reply

* If you've previously messaged a single guy and then apply the filter, then I believe that they can still contact you, as there was prior contact

* Removing men from the people that you are looking to meet means that you won't show up in as many searches

Single men finding manners and responding to requests that require them will improve their enjoyment of this site ! We do meet single guys when we fancy it but as we ve said the attitude of some is dragging this site down think you ll find a similar thread today "
We all know that there are some single guys on here that are prats and ignore profiles but on the other hand there are genuine nice guys . Unfortuatly you have to wean out the bad ones to find the good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men now blocked and we re so grateful for the advice from the well qualified swingers we ve heard from in this thread So are you saying i have no chance of a meet then ? You sound lovely

No we ve not said that and we ve viewed you several times sure we could have fun we ve unblocked single men and have decided to ignore the ill mannered messages "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"* If you block single guys, then you still message / wink / friend request them and then they can reply

* If you've previously messaged a single guy and then apply the filter, then I believe that they can still contact you, as there was prior contact

* Removing men from the people that you are looking to meet means that you won't show up in as many searches

Single men finding manners and responding to requests that require them will improve their enjoyment of this site ! We do meet single guys when we fancy it but as we ve said the attitude of some is dragging this site down think you ll find a similar thread today We all know that there are some single guys on here that are prats and ignore profiles but on the other hand there are genuine nice guys . Unfortuatly you have to wean out the bad ones to find the good ones "

We can't quote some of the pms we ve had on here forum rules but our thread was borne out of some particularly unpleasant ones this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"* If you block single guys, then you still message / wink / friend request them and then they can reply

* If you've previously messaged a single guy and then apply the filter, then I believe that they can still contact you, as there was prior contact

* Removing men from the people that you are looking to meet means that you won't show up in as many searches

Single men finding maoiinners and responding to requests that require them will improve their enjoyment of this site ! We do meet single guys when we fancy it but as we ve said the attitude of some is dragging this site down think you ll find a similar thread today We all know that there are some single guys on here that are prats and ignore profiles but on the other hand there are genuine nice guys . Unfortuatly you have to wean out the bad ones to find the good ones

We can't quote some of the pms we ve had on here forum rules but our thread was borne out of some particularly unpleasant ones this week "
Just get thicker skinned and just block and move on . You will find them type of guys never get meets and the frustration makes them bitter xx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

As with many walks of life there will be chancers, I've always been of the opinion that your profile is a filter of sorts if people message that clearly haven't read it delete block move on to the next, if the number of messages from people that aren't what you're looking for the site offers filters that you can choose to use or not

have fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason for the thread was that we posted a meet looking for a couple on two separate occasions and were pestered by single men ! We ve tried the filters however still received a message from a single male so not sure we used them right anyway we ll now ignore comfortable in the knowledge that the vast majority of single guys on here are desperate and irrelevant happy swinging "

Desperate and irrelevant...

Toys still out of the pram?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The reason for the thread was that we posted a meet looking for a couple on two separate occasions and were pestered by single men ! We ve tried the filters however still received a message from a single male so not sure we used them right anyway we ll now ignore comfortable in the knowledge that the vast majority of single guys on here are desperate and irrelevant happy swinging

Lol not difficult to rattle some is it

Desperate and irrelevant...

Toys still out of the pram?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason for the thread was that we posted a meet looking for a couple on two separate occasions and were pestered by single men ! We ve tried the filters however still received a message from a single male so not sure we used them right anyway we ll now ignore comfortable in the knowledge that the vast majority of single guys on here are desperate and irrelevant happy swinging

Lol not difficult to rattle some is it

Desperate and irrelevant...

Toys still out of the pram? "

Hope you have a brilliant weekend. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry desperate irrelevant and cheating if you feel left out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The reason for the thread was that we posted a meet looking for a couple on two separate occasions and were pestered by single men ! We ve tried the filters however still received a message from a single male so not sure we used them right anyway we ll now ignore comfortable in the knowledge that the vast majority of single guys on here are desperate and irrelevant happy swinging

Lol not difficult to rattle some is it

Desperate and irrelevant...

Toys still out of the pram?

Hope you have a brilliant weekend. x"

Always thank you hope you do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've clicked on the wrong site. I seemed to have stumbled into a creche. Lots of bickering and tantrums going on. I've read nearly all the posts on here and it seems to me that the problem still hasn't been solved. All a waste of fresh air in my eyes lmao.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults "

Yes, because that is what they are

I keep on getting messages from short men when I have very clearly stated that I am looking for someone taller than myself. And there is no filter to block on 'height less than 5'11"'; so I just delete the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe blocking single guys would help

Treat them as ignorant children then not adults

Yes, because that is what they are

I keep on getting messages from short men when I have very clearly stated that I am looking for someone taller than myself. And there is no filter to block on 'height less than 5'11"'; so I just delete the message"

Ooooo I'm 6ft 6in lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we all share a pizza?

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Get plenty of single men on here asking for advice on their profiles so we d like some advice from them our profile clearly states no single men please so why have we had 50 messages off single men asking to meet this week ? Any advice guys on how to word it so you all get the message ?"
. Look at the subject matter or profile picture and block delete all irrelevant messages with reading . You may however miss reading a few relevant messages . Probably impossible on this site to ensure that members adhere to members selection criteria .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we all share a pizza? "

No way! Do you know where everyone's hands have been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh all for me then! That's fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry desperate irrelevant and cheating if you feel left out lol "

Pretty much covers it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can feel the in this room xx

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm tempted to mail them just to annoy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can feel the in this room xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm tempted to mail them just to annoy them "

Feel free too do you consider yourself capable of annoying us lol

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