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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any woman fatter than me.

So....huge .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's diff for each person, I've seen size 12 to size 30 calling themselves BBW, it's up I you how you label yourself, no set rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was BBW as a size14 but I'm not. Heard its size 20+.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sure a size 12 and 14 isn't big, would it not be a but of a knock if someone called u that and u weren't big?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good chance this thread will start world war 3 I love women in all shapes and sizes. Even more if they have plenty of meat on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I was BBW as a size14 but I'm not. Heard its size 20+."

Size14 isn't even close to being a bbw....unless your about 4' tall.

I would say 18 is borderline, depending on height and build. Many of my best meets were with a bbw but personality is far more important than looks or size in the long run anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was curious cause I would consider myself big at a size 14, so knocks back on my confidence a but when organising meets, making sure everyone has seen a full body pic of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant really tell from your profile but as someone who has put in many hours of research..I'd say no, you aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always getting called bbw....I'm not I'm just fat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's one full body pic I just made public, and thank you. Do other women feel the same with the media etcs view on what makes a woman beautiful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...you are definitely a bbw.

You might be fat too, but you're definitely beautiful....so that makes you a bbw...even if you don't like the term.

I don't. I prefer Reubenesque

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are posted weekly. It all depends on your height etc at a size 24 and 5ft 6 I'm certainly a BBW!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why isn't there a term for skinny women? Or is there,, ? I've said before until I joined these sites, I thought bbw meant something else and was used in music,, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I was BBW as a size14 but I'm not. Heard its size 20+.

Size14 isn't even close to being a bbw....unless your about 4' tall.

I would say 18 is borderline, depending on height and build. Many of my best meets were with a bbw but personality is far more important than looks or size in the long run anyway"

Yeah I do get told I'm not fat enough. Would love to be fatter (and have been fatter and loved it) but have to keep my diabetes under control so lost over 4 stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can call me whatever they want. I'm a big girl and am not really bothered if I'm called bbw fat or any other variation etc because I'm OK with myself and happy in my own skin. What does get to me is when men send messages along the lines of "I prefer bigger anyway" like they are doing you a favour sending the chub a message. I do just fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a polite term for a fat bird mostly

fire in the hole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a large lady, I don't have an issue with it, it's quite clear on my profile if you don't like it don't message me, I've a good personality I'm loyal to friends and trustworthy, to me that's the making of a beautiful woman, labels are clothing, good etc not for human beings xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can call me whatever they want. I'm a big girl and am not really bothered if I'm called bbw fat or any other variation etc because I'm OK with myself and happy in my own skin. What does get to me is when men send messages along the lines of "I prefer bigger anyway" like they are doing you a favour sending the chub a message. I do just fine! "

I get this a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 8-10 slim

12-14 average

14 and above fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size 8-10 slim

12-14 average

14 and above fat"

This isn't so,, because if you are extremely tall,, then 14 isn't that big, if you extremely short 8-10 can be quite shapely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size 8-10 slim

12-14 average

14 and above fat

This isn't so,, because if you are extremely tall,, then 14 isn't that big, if you extremely short 8-10 can be quite shapely"

I agree, it is largely to do with proportion, when you look at pictures many women are very optimistic lol, but some are also modest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size 8-10 slim

12-14 average

14 and above fat

This isn't so,, because if you are extremely tall,, then 14 isn't that big, if you extremely short 8-10 can be quite shapely

I agree, it is largely to do with proportion, when you look at pictures many women are very optimistic lol, but some are also modest.

"

Haha optimistic

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Im what people class as a bbw....there aint nothing beautiful about my thighs believe me, but yes height has a lot to do with shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't ever hear anyone asking how beautiful you have to be to be a bbw.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that"

I am 5'6'' and a size 16.

I should be a 12 but not managed that yet...I kinda like ma humps.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"You don't ever hear anyone asking how beautiful you have to be to be a bbw....."

* chuckles *

No I haven't seen/heard this asked either...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that"

People carry weight differently and height can also be a factor. So no I don't think there is a set size.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I was BBW as a size14 but I'm not. Heard its size 20+.

Size14 isn't even close to being a bbw....unless your about 4' tall.

I would say 18 is borderline, depending on height and build. Many of my best meets were with a bbw but personality is far more important than looks or sizej in the long run anyway ur so fit feir

Yeah I do get told I'm not fat enough. Would love to be fatter (and have been fatter and loved it) but have to keep my diabetes under control so lost over 4 stone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I was BBW as a size14 but I'm not. Heard its size 20+.

Size14 isn't even close to being a bbw....unless your about 4' tall.

I would say 18 is borderline, depending on height and build. Many of my best meets were with a bbw but personality is far more important than looks or sizej in the long run anyway

ur so fit feir

Yeah I do get told I'm not fat enough. Would love to be fatter (and have been fatter and loved it) but have to keep my diabetes under control so lost over 4 stone "

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Having been a size 24/26, I've been big but sure as hell did not feel beautiful like that, so I would never have used BBW.

Now I have lost a lot of weight (17 stone gone) and am a size 10/12 but consider myself as average.

Its all about what you feel, not the label in your knickers thats just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads are posted weekly. It all depends on your height etc at a size 24 and 5ft 6 I'm certainly a BBW! "
very tasty aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves are sexier than a six pack on a woman

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Size 8-10 slim

12-14 average

14 and above fat"

Haha...I'd love you to tell my friend that who has to wear size 14 trousers to get em over her arse where she's a personal trainer and has done so many squats her glutes are huge. There's not an ounce of fat on her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a fat woman but take me as u find me lol

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 to 18 depending on height 5ft 7 an size14 is not bbw but 5ft an size 16 to 18 is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that"

A big beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size 8-10 slim

12-14 average

14 and above fat

Haha...I'd love you to tell my friend that who has to wear size 14 trousers to get em over her arse where she's a personal trainer and has done so many squats her glutes are huge. There's not an ounce of fat on her! "

i demand her contact details!

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

If you are my height the term weeble is more fitting but only if you are old enough to remember what weebles are!!

BBW is universally understood in here and we will stick to it for now.

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that"
I allways thought it was big build women for bbw. Learn somefin new everyday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that I allways thought it was big build women for bbw. Learn somefin new everyday lol"

Well i suppose you could use that term. Thanks for the wink by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't ever hear anyone asking how beautiful you have to be to be a bbw....."

Like wise you can be a genuine really nice guy, but dont get a look in because you are shorter than average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that are size 17 and above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16 to 18 depending on height 5ft 7 an size14 is not bbw but 5ft an size 16 to 18 is "

my wife had been described as a bbw but she's a 14/16 and 5'8 i think she well sexy wot ever bracket ppl put her in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that I allways thought it was big build women for bbw. Learn somefin new everyday lol

Well i suppose you could use that term. Thanks for the wink by the way "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a 14 16ish depends where i buy my clothes i love my curves but mostly i really like my 36 boobs my curves defines me as a confident woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do you guys/girls class as a bbw? Is there a set size or is it down to the person to call themselves that I allways thought it was big build women for bbw. Learn somefin new everyday lol"

Me I thought it was big bodied woman so you aren't alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a 14 16ish depends where i buy my clothes i love my curves but mostly i really like my 36 boobs my curves defines me as a confident woman "

that's the same as my wife lol and 36dd gotta love them

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large lady, I don't have an issue with it, it's quite clear on my profile if you don't like it don't message me, I've a good personality I'm loyal to friends and trustworthy, to me that's the making of a beautiful woman, labels are clothing, good etc not for human beings xx "

Me too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large lady, I don't have an issue with it, it's quite clear on my profile if you don't like it don't message me, I've a good personality I'm loyal to friends and trustworthy, to me that's the making of a beautiful woman, labels are clothing, good etc not for human beings xx

Me too ! "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say on here the same as what I put on a similar post.

Not everyone will like the term BBW and that's their perogative, terms like that will always be subjective.

I go to BBW events and have no issue referring to myself this way.

I'm a big girl, in height as well as dress size and I believe that every woman is beautiful in their own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a SSBW ... I don't consider myself beautiful so I miss out the B. How others see me is their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can call me whatever they want. I'm a big girl and am not really bothered if I'm called bbw fat or any other variation etc because I'm OK with myself and happy in my own skin. What does get to me is when men send messages along the lines of "I prefer bigger anyway" like they are doing you a favour sending the chub a message. I do just fine! "

I call you hot

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By *bonydesireWoman
over a year ago

london


"People can call me whatever they want. I'm a big girl and am not really bothered if I'm called bbw fat or any other variation etc because I'm OK with myself and happy in my own skin. What does get to me is when men send messages along the lines of "I prefer bigger anyway" like they are doing you a favour sending the chub a message. I do just fine! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll say on here the same as what I put on a similar post.

Not everyone will like the term BBW and that's their perogative, terms like that will always be subjective.

I go to BBW events and have no issue referring to myself this way.

I'm a big girl, in height as well as dress size and I believe that every woman is beautiful in their own way."

I don't agree some women are far from beautiful.

I don't mean you obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll say on here the same as what I put on a similar post.

Not everyone will like the term BBW and that's their perogative, terms like that will always be subjective.

I go to BBW events and have no issue referring to myself this way.

I'm a big girl, in height as well as dress size and I believe that every woman is beautiful in their own way.

I don't agree some women are far from beautiful.

I don't mean you obviously "

But not everybody sees through your eyes...everybody is beautiful to somebody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll say on here the same as what I put on a similar post.

Not everyone will like the term BBW and that's their perogative, terms like that will always be subjective.

I go to BBW events and have no issue referring to myself this way.

I'm a big girl, in height as well as dress size and I believe that every woman is beautiful in their own way.

I don't agree some women are far from beautiful.

I don't mean you obviously

But not everybody sees through your eyes...everybody is beautiful to somebody!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your never going to get a clear cut answer to this age old question because we all like and see things different, men who like slim women will see a size 14/16 as big where as men who like big women won't, you can't be attractive to everyone and I see no point in worrying about what people who don't like my size think about me

I've been turned down for many reasons my body is just one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, the size it starts at is a personal perception. I don't like the expression BBW as we are all individual, not just a body type.

Sophia Loren was beautiful. I've always liked her quote. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW's are real women in my eyes! Love all shapes and sizes as long as there is some meat on the bone...

Skinny does nothing for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I was BBW as a size14 but I'm not. Heard its size 20+.

Size14 isn't even close to being a bbw....unless your about 4' tall.

I would say 18 is borderline, depending on height and build. Many of my best meets were with a bbw but personality is far more important than looks or sizej in the long run anyway

ur so fit feir

Yeah I do get told I'm not fat enough. Would love to be fatter (and have been fatter and loved it) but have to keep my diabetes under control so lost over 4 stone "

Hi sexy...

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No one, as I just don't see big as beautiful,I find my own size repulsive as a bloke, so a woman bigger than me simply does nothing.

Plus I find the label quite pointless anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always getting called bbw....I'm not I'm just fat "

Exactly what I was just thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always getting called bbw....I'm not I'm just fat

Exactly what I was just thinking "

About me,not you

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I don't class anyone as a bbw, i find most class themselves and i just go with it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"BBW's are real women in my eyes! Love all shapes and sizes as long as there is some meat on the bone...

Skinny does nothing for me! "

Here we go again with the 'real women' quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us skinnys getting a raw deal again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us skinnys getting a raw deal again"

I'm sure you do ok regardless of people's opinions on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha yes in the dark rooms,, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBW's are real women in my eyes! Love all shapes and sizes as long as there is some meat on the bone...

Skinny does nothing for me!

Here we go again with the 'real women' quote "

Appreciate everyone has their own taste & that's fine, just wish I was "a real woman"

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBW's are real women in my eyes! Love all shapes and sizes as long as there is some meat on the bone...

Skinny does nothing for me!

Here we go again with the 'real women' quote

Appreciate everyone has their own taste & that's fine, just wish I was "a real woman"

Dx"

i wish i wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought BBW was big black willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought BBW was big black willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought BBW was big black willy

"

no that's BBC

big black cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term Bbw really does irritate me.. It's like saying because their bigger they are automatically beautiful, what about the slimmer women on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The term Bbw really does irritate me.. It's like saying because their bigger they are automatically beautiful, what about the slimmer women on here? "

Why has there always got to be a competition or comparison.

A term referring to bigger women being beautiful does not take away that slimmer women are beautiful too.

I don't understand why people get so offended by what terms people choose to describe themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's one full body pic I just made public, and thank you. Do other women feel the same with the media etcs view on what makes a woman beautiful? "

As a curvy (38G bust size 16/18 top 14/16 bottom) woman I have struggled with outer confidence in the past but definitely found here there's someone for everyone's personal preference.

In regards to the thread everyone describes themselves how they see themselves. I've seen slender women with gorgeous bods describe themselves as curvy where I would define them more athletic.

And likewise I say I'm curvy not bbw. I have gathered bbw lovers consider it the bigger the better rather than a particular size.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"The term Bbw really does irritate me.. It's like saying because their bigger they are automatically beautiful, what about the slimmer women on here? "

Well we haven't had the 'bag of bones' or 'dog with a bone' comment yet, but there is still time

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Slender women can still be curvy tho - its a shape not a dress size. I'm a 10/12 and been told I'm curvy as I have an hourglass shape... whereas I think I am more average.

As for the "real woman" comment, or only big being beautiful, I guess thats down to the beholder.

When I was big, I didn't feel like a BBW, I felt fat, ungainly and ugly, hence working my arse off (literally) to get to where I am now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slender women can still be curvy tho - its a shape not a dress size. I'm a 10/12 and been told I'm curvy as I have an hourglass shape... whereas I think I am more average.

As for the "real woman" comment, or only big being beautiful, I guess thats down to the beholder.

When I was big, I didn't feel like a BBW, I felt fat, ungainly and ugly, hence working my arse off (literally) to get to where I am now."

My point exactly. I didn't at all imply they weren't. My point stated we all see each other differently than we see ourselves. So the terms available to describe ourselves are pretty much open to interpretation of the profile viewer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large lady, I don't have an issue with it, it's quite clear on my profile if you don't like it don't message me, I've a good personality I'm loyal to friends and trustworthy, to me that's the making of a beautiful woman, labels are clothing, good etc not for human beings xx

Me too !

Why thank you

Well said "

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