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Arranged a meet only to find out you know the couple??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

Just wondered if anyone has found a couple on here and thought we'd like to meet them and got in touch, then after arranging a meet and turning up only to find out you know them socially away from the 'scene'? (hate that term!!)

It must be a little 'awkward' to say the least!!!

We have seen social friends on sites and stayed well clear.

Anyone had this happen??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god that'd be awkward. Or it was a workmate.

I guess that's what prior mailing is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes happened to us, we met a young bi fem couple and when they got here the fem was the daughter of friends of ours,

we had a laugh and a chat but didnt play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was just a couple from the town where we live, it's quite a small town, but we recognised them, we don't know them that well but thought it best to stay clear!! got to be careful with Viv's job! Just wondered if anyone else has had this happen?

Did make us smile though!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shazal!!

The daughter of a friend!! must have been very awkward!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't people talk and exchange photos before arranging to meet?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant see that ever happening, it would mean meeting blind and who does that now days? surely you at least swap pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we live in a small rural village, and were contacted by a couple on fab, who also live there.

They said they know us, which isn't much of a surprise really, lol.

Our pics are on open view, they don't have any, even in private.

We asked them to identify themselves, as they contacted us, not the other way round. They didn't send us their pics.

They asked for a meet in our local pub, but they didn't show, or should I say, they didn't say who they were, lol.

When we go to the pub now, we people watch and try to guess who "the swingers" are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cant see that ever happening, it would mean meeting blind and who does that now days? surely you at least swap pics"

Obviously not everyone does!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cant see that ever happening, it would mean meeting blind and who does that now days? surely you at least swap pics"

We've done a few "blind" meets and have to say, have been pleasantly surprised on each occaision.

Kate and I met on a blind date some 30yrs ago now, and so we don't approach blind dates with too much trepidation.

We rarely play on first date either, so it's only a social meet anyway.

We realise other people will see it differently, but, hey, that's life

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"i cant see that ever happening, it would mean meeting blind and who does that now days? surely you at least swap pics

Obviously not everyone does!! "

It would never happen to us, we all show face on cam before we decide to meet, for a few reasons, but the above one being one of them.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Never had it happen on a meet,but was messaged by a guy last year and when we moved things to msn to chat I realised straight away it was someone I used to work with 20 years ago. I would have been happy toplay, but he really couldn't handle some from his "real" life knowing.

The week before last I did have a couple in the chatroom pop up and say..."we know your mum" When I asked how...they said they lived near her. I just laughed and said wellif you see me say hi - just don't mention Fab if my mum is there

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

We don't do blind dates either

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Don't people talk and exchange photos before arranging to meet?!! "

have to say that this was my first thought..... I know people sometimes like to meet off the cuff... but still.... hello... picture???? it could have been anyone... well... obviously it was!!!

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

we could imagin it might be embarrasing BUT they are on the site for the same reason , so aftershock have a drink a laugh and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had arranged to meet a couple at a local club down here with hubby and went outside for some frsh air talking to the wife and getting along fine my husband came over to join in the convo with us and about 3 minutes later we heard someone behind say hello ***** turned around to find an old school mate of hubby's stood there and it was his wife i was talking to lol

Caught us off guard a bit for a while had a laugh about it but didnt play together dont know why til this day xxx Lois xxx

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"When we go to the pub now, we people watch and try to guess who "the swingers" are. "

Try watching to see who is watching to see who the swingers are, then you might have found your mystery couple!

It's all very well going on about pics before meets, but how many times have you met someone who looks nothing like their pic, has heavily photoshopped or used one from 1987?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ours wasnt a blind date,

we just didnt recognize the fem from her photos, only when they arrived we realized who it was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments, we would never meet 'blind' either, it was just that we saw somebody's profile and we recognised them. But as they are from our local area we decided it best not to contact them, discretion is paramount to us, not just cos it's a small town and tongues would wag (not worth the risk) but because of jobs in the public sector!!

It would mean being suspended or sacked!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard a good story recently about something that happened to a friend of a friend... Couple arranges a meet with a single guy (pics exchanged but not faces) and the single guy turned out to be their nephew!! How excruciating would that have been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Just wondered if anyone has found a couple on here and thought we'd like to meet them and got in touch, then after arranging a meet and turning up only to find out you know them socially away from the 'scene'? (hate that term!!)

It must be a little 'awkward' to say the least!!!

We have seen social friends on sites and stayed well clear.

Anyone had this happen??"

Wasn't us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happened to us on another site we chatted for a bit then when it came to ex pics they were a cple who go next door to us it was his sisters house we knew them pretty well she was an ex miss wigan he was and still is a great looking guy who we still see a lot of and did anything happen well they came to ours and dident leave until 5 30 next morning did it bother us of course not all adults together doing what they want with no pressure .WOULD DO IT AGAIN EVEN WITH MY BOSS OOPPPSS LINDA IS MY BOSS LOL

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL


"Hi,

Just wondered if anyone has found a couple on here and thought we'd like to meet them and got in touch, then after arranging a meet and turning up only to find out you know them socially away from the 'scene'? (hate that term!!)

It must be a little 'awkward' to say the least!!!

We have seen social friends on sites and stayed well clear.

Anyone had this happen??"
Not yet, i think it would be great sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we go to the pub now, we people watch and try to guess who "the swingers" are.

Try watching to see who is watching to see who the swingers are, then you might have found your mystery couple!

It's all very well going on about pics before meets, but how many times have you met someone who looks nothing like their pic, has heavily photoshopped or used one from 1987?"

Too many times to mention, but if someone I knew from back in the day, posted a photo from back in the day I'd recognise them!

Then again I always meet socially first in a pub of my choosing, I'm not one for meeting someone I don't know, spoken to or seen in a hotel for a shag straight of!

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Heard a good story recently about something that happened to a friend of a friend... Couple arranges a meet with a single guy (pics exchanged but not faces) and the single guy turned out to be their nephew!! How excruciating would that have been? "

Oh, I've got a worse one than that! I know a woman who is quite seriously into BDSM, loves to be treated like dirt, being strung up from a beam, given a GOOD hiding before some hard rough sex.

She was chatting with a younger chap online, he was outlining his plans for her, she was keen, but obviously needed to be quite sure about potential meets. She lives abroad in a small ex-pat community, this potential Master apparently lived in the same area, so she was being very wary about what she said to identify herself, holding back pics etc, certain things were emerging which made her spider sense tingle.

Of course, you are ahead of me by now and know that this young stud turned out to be her 19 year old son, who still lived with her. She just let contact fizzle out, and to this day, the lad is unaware who he was sending pics of his cock and detailed fantasies to. I actually felt embarrassed and sick for the poor lad myself, brrrrr, doesn't bear thinking about, does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that mother and son were both into BDSM, which to be fair is quite a niche activity in the wider community, surely says something about a there being a genetic aspect of sexual preferences. So it's nobody's fault that we're a bunch of sexual deviants, it's written in the genes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep happened to us aukward mmm

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