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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you prefer your men to be real men or something more effeminate ... ?

Are you actually attracted to men or just the concept of cock .... ?

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We from my point of view its more about cock than anything else im not attracted to guys but if a cock is there in the sexual situation then i enjoy playing. Im not sure if that makes me bi but its what i like. So if a guys manly or effeminate it makes no differance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men. If one thing utterly fucks me off it's screaming queen types. I *do not* get it. If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

I can't for the life of me why guys would want to be like women ...

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for the record, I'm as rough as they cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real men. If one thing utterly fucks me off it's screaming queen types. I *do not* get it. If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

My son is gay and proud.. And he doesnt act like a woman! Not all gay men do as you put it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real men. If one thing utterly fucks me off it's screaming queen types. I *do not* get it. If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

My son is gay and proud.. And he doesnt act like a woman! Not all gay men do as you put it!"

Screaming queens?!!

Nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, we're going on about gay men, so why has the OP, put this under a Bisexual header

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real men. If one thing utterly fucks me off it's screaming queen types. I *do not* get it. If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

mass generalisation or what?? Sheesh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real men. If one thing utterly fucks me off it's screaming queen types. I *do not* get it. If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

My son is gay and proud.. And he doesnt act like a woman! Not all gay men do as you put it!

Screaming queens?!!

Nice!

Thats what i thought..

There is nothing like steriotyping people..

Took a lot of courage for my son to come out to his family and friends,when i see comments like that makes me mad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ok, we're going on about gay men, so why has the OP, put this under a Bisexual header

Nope I asked what type of men bisexual guys were attracted to ...

I am interested to know if being bisexual may effect what kind of men they prefer as opposed to gay men.

I wonder if being attracted to females and men means bisexual guys may prefer T-Girls who present a degree of femininity .... effeminate men (screaming queens in some cases perhaps) .... or if they just like straight acting guys.

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Real men. If one thing utterly fucks me off it's screaming queen types. I *do not* get it. If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

My son is gay and proud.. And he doesnt act like a woman! Not all gay men do as you put it!

Screaming queens?!!

Nice!

Thats what i thought..

There is nothing like steriotyping people..

Took a lot of courage for my son to come out to his family and friends,when i see comments like that makes me mad."

To be fair to Englandandportugal here .... the way I read his post is not labelling all gay men as screaming queens ... but rather he doesn't understand the section of the gay community that do exude a large degree of campness ....

It does take a great degree of courage to come out to friends and family and it's good to see that your son has your support ....

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of you need to learn to read, I didn't say all gay men act like feminine screaming queens. We know a great many gay / bi men who don't feel the need to act like lilly savage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And, yes, thank you Kirsty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh I see, well for me, I'm not into the camp scene, I have nothing against it but just doesnt appeal to what I want from another guy. hope that answers your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real men. If one thing utterly fucks me off it's screaming queen types. I *do not* get it. If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

My son is gay and proud.. And he doesnt act like a woman! Not all gay men do as you put it!

Screaming queens?!!

Nice!

Thats what i thought..

There is nothing like steriotyping people..

Took a lot of courage for my son to come out to his family and friends,when i see comments like that makes me mad.

It does take a great degree of courage to come out to friends and family and it's good to see that your son has your support ....

Kirsty

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Nowhere in my post did I state it referred to all gay men - it was the term "screaming queens" I didn't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just like men, that does not mean i will shag anyone tho lol but straight men, bi men, TVs etc if i like someone and are attracted to them i will play with them, regardless of if they are 'real' men or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

camp, tv or ts is a no way for me, I would never dabble with any off them.

No offence ment by that to anybody by the way, each to thier own after all and I hope you respect that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We from my point of view its more about cock than anything else im not attracted to guys but if a cock is there in the sexual situation then i enjoy playing. Im not sure if that makes me bi but its what i like. So if a guys manly or effeminate it makes no differance. "

What he says. Dan too. Don't stand aroundin bars thinking 'he's fit' but in good old fashioned MFM/MMF/FMM Bi group thang Dan enjoys cock & pussy & tits & bums &..........filthy bugger. Literally lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ourselves and many people we know have no problem with gay/bi guys.

However,we all fail to understand why,if a guy is sexually attracted to other guys do they go for effeminate guys,transisters or T girls.

Is it maybe because they have issues with their feelings and meeting this kind of guy eases their conscience?

Similarly,Trace is genuinely bi and sexually attracted to other women.

The only women she's attracted to though are feminine ones.

We can't understand some gay(the dike variety)women who dress and behave like guys,wear no make up and have close cropped hair.

They're usually partnered by a carbon copy and seem to be a race appart.

Surely they may as well have a relationship with a guy.

If they love women,why not go for one who exudes femininity?

It's a funny old world!

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By *ocalMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Do you prefer your men to be real men or something more effeminate ... ?

Are you actually attracted to men or just the concept of cock .... ?

Kirsty

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in reply to the OP ,in my case i would say just the concept of cock, there isn't a guy i have ever seen, in real life of even famous as in film, TV stars or what ever that i would say i fancy in the slightest, in every day life i have never meet or looked at a guy and thought "wouldn't mind a bit with him" or anything like that, the bi thing with me is a have a fair few fantasy's (don't we all) and a few of them involve cock, a cock attached to a normal acting man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think most bi guys have a softer more understanding side to them but there are of course exceptions

As for attraction although i am bi and have been since i can remember i find it very difficult to be attracted to a fully dressed man (there are about three i could find attractive)

But sexually and naked (and with someone who is of the same mind as me either bi/gay )then yes

I do not however find that straight men do it for me and can therefore enjoy fully mmf or foursomes etc with straight men and not want to have sexual contact with them in any way shape or form xx

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

I really don’t understand why people have to confuse sexuality with character type!

A male may be anything from Macho/Masculine to Sugar-plumb-fairy but in fact this doesn’t say anything about his sexuality but of course people will ‘assume’!

There are transvestites who are 100% heterosexual, there are gays who are celibate, just about every and any combination one might think of exists.

The same applies to females, character wise they may be anything from very feminine to Tomboy, it says NOTHING about their sexuality as you will find straight, bisexual and gay in all variations.

Typically in the swinging hobby bisexual means hetero-flexible, meaning that they are only interested in the same sex – when its in a sexual context.

Its not rocket science, just stop pigeonholing people. When you meet a person, either you like them or you don’t, simple really. If you like or dislike a person because of their sexuality then maybe you’re in the wrong hobby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don’t understand why people have to confuse sexuality with character type!

A male may be anything from Macho/Masculine to Sugar-plumb-fairy but in fact this doesn’t say anything about his sexuality but of course people will ‘assume’!

Totally agree with you there

There are transvestites who are 100% heterosexual, there are gays who are celibate, just about every and any combination one might think of exists.

The same applies to females, character wise they may be anything from very feminine to Tomboy, it says NOTHING about their sexuality as you will find straight, bisexual and gay in all variations.

Typically in the swinging hobby bisexual means hetero-flexible, meaning that they are only interested in the same sex – when its in a sexual context.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

me thinks that someone does not understand the differnce in being gay to being bi.

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By *rustafoxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I assume you are the guy with that reply?

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By *oung81Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I am bi when I have a MMF 3some, It just makes it more fun

When I say Bi, I will suck a cock and let mines be sucked too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don’t understand why people have to confuse sexuality with character type!

A male may be anything from Macho/Masculine to Sugar-plumb-fairy but in fact this doesn’t say anything about his sexuality but of course people will ‘assume’!

There are transvestites who are 100% heterosexual, there are gays who are celibate, just about every and any combination one might think of exists.

The same applies to females, character wise they may be anything from very feminine to Tomboy, it says NOTHING about their sexuality as you will find straight, bisexual and gay in all variations.

Typically in the swinging hobby bisexual means hetero-flexible, meaning that they are only interested in the same sex – when its in a sexual context.

You're assuming all swingers play the same!

I play with straight sub men who yearn to be dominated and used for my pleasure.

The look of horror, the colour drain from their face as I show them what is in store for them is a major turn on for me. A bi guy is happy at the thought, robbing me of the thrill of his fear and humiliation.

That's what works for me and my playmates, it's not about disliking someone because of their sexuality, their sexuality means they don't react in a way that pleases me, and I'm doing what pleases me!

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Ones who know what they are doing and are a bit pervy...

It has nothing to do with looks (although for me if you look my old headmaster you have scored lol!)

For us - it's just another option in sex...

We can't help who we want to have sex with - however who we want to love is a different matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gay men are supposed to like men, they why the hell do they act like women.

I can't for the life of me why guys would want to be like women ...

Kirsty

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me neither, but we met this cracker and I am glad we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Kirsty, I am Bi, thought I was simply curious but I think I have gone beyond curious and its not just about the cock, and the best bit is both me and eve seem to like the same kind of guys. Its great to share,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if being attracted to females and men means bisexual guys may prefer T-Girls who present a degree of femininity ....

Kirsty

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I know a T Girl I quite fancy, and the degree of femininity is quite awesome and I wouldnt want to see that stripped away at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you make them watch Loose Women .... ?

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It has nothing to do with looks (although for me if you look my old headmaster you have scored lol!)

Do I look like your old Headmaster ....?

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you make them watch Loose Women .... ?

Kirsty

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That would be taking bdsm a step too far!

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Do I look like your old Headmaster ....?

Kirsty

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Hun - he wishes

Actually he probably wishes he was alive as the old bugger no doubt is pushing up the daisies now - no doubt perving young cock somewhere in heaven/hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do I look like your old Headmaster ....?

Kirsty

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Hun - he wishes

Actually he probably wishes he was alive as the old bugger no doubt is pushing up the daisies now - no doubt perving young cock somewhere in heaven/hell

Sigh .... oh well, at least I can hold onto my chastity.

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd consider myself about 66% straight but the only men I would find myself attracted to are either muscular toned types or good looking transexuals and the odd TV.

I wouldn't be into the camp type at all.

Sorry for resurrecting an old thread.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

hi all.might sound shallow,but its all about the cock for me...i could'nt kiss a man it just aint me.as for camp guys.....well i dont even go there.im a straight acting,rough manly guy who is attracted to women,but who just likes to suck cock now & again.lol......although i would like to meet a very convincing ts,ladyboy or shemale though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they should create a weird section in this forum.no problems with bi or gay or any sexuality but some stuff people get up to is past sex and onto something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am i the only person who likes screaming gay queen men? not in a sexual way just more in a fun company type of way! but do find the phrase a bit insulting to be honest! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i don't understand is when bi men say things like, i dont fancy men, or i only like cock, sounds so desperate, sorry but that just equates to a straight man saying, any holes a goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I don't like the look of them, I get them to send their cock thro the post to suck on with a stamped addressed envelope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but whats wrong with glory holes and any one will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but whats wrong with glory holes and any one will do

always reek of piss for some bizarre reason.

or so I have heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the appeal of Gloryholes at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see the appeal of Gloryholes at all."

nor me...someone with a nice warm mouth is inviting, until he takes a knife and slashes my cock off. yu kinda lose the moment then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd be the paranoid type too

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think some guys like cock, but also want a touch of femininity, too. Having said that when I and another CD were dogging on Sunday night a few of the guys gave us a very wide birth. It was enough to make us think they must have been gay or something lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, do crossdressers and transsexuals find that its mostly bi lads rather than gay lads that fancy them I wonder?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lol, do crossdressers and transsexuals find that its mostly bi lads rather than gay lads that fancy them I wonder?"

Oh No ... They are all "straight" ...

So they tell me ....

Generally, bisexual guys .... often married and who are exploring a "secret" desire ...

Hence the question on this site .... as opposed to a transgendered orientated site where the answer (so far at least) has been different.

Gay guys just don't get T-Girls ... and can sometimes be more aggressive in expressing their distaste than straight guys ...

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like convincing t girls like kirsty. Love girls. Guys do nowt for me. Wt wud that make me , bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A convincing TS like Kirsty would probably be my ultimate fantasy

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i know a number of guys who would call themselves bisexual ie orally bi as well as those who enjoy penetrative sex with guys. of these only maybe 2 or 3 are actually physically attracted to a guy and refuse to cuddle carress or snog another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us its all about fun and we both have had orally bi experiences. We wouldnt label ourselves as bi as such, we are attracted to the opposite sex in real life, but when swinging, we will indulge if its bi night at the club if the situation is right. for my guy he does not tend to play with effeminate men or T-girls, not because he is judgemental, he is the most non judgemental man I have ever met, but there is nothing sexier than two heterosexual men totally at ease with their own sexuality that they can indulge in bi experiences. To us its all lust and fun, and not because we are essentially attracted to the same sex.

The same for me, i have had bi experiences with women but the women have been feminine, i have not had an experience with a more masculine looking girl - I tend to go for girls who are like me, and im essentially a girly girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if your a queen with attitude. I love Karl (chams) and he can be the biggest bitch there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t heterosexual mean exactly that??? Didn’t know heterosexuals enjoyed bisexual experiences, regardless of how at ease they are with their sexuality.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Doesn’t heterosexual mean exactly that??? Didn’t know heterosexuals enjoyed bisexual experiences, regardless of how at ease they are with their sexuality. "

Then you don't know as much as you thought you did.

And you've learned something.

So it's been a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the only thing i've learned is that everyone who is at ease with their sexuality seems to be straight

so are all bisexuals really straight and hiding behind the bi label

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

But the only thing i've learned is that everyone who is at ease with their sexuality seems to be straight

so are all bisexuals really straight and hiding behind the bi label

Erm - work out the double negative in that statement, and then come back with which bit you want answered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the second part will do

are all bisexuals really straight and just hiding behind the bi label

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"the second part will do

are all bisexuals really straight and just hiding behind the bi label"

Well, in a nutshell, yes and no.

It depends on who your bisexual is, whether they regard, recognise or use bisexuality as a 'label' and how much definition of themselves they take from their sexual preferences on any given day.

So yes, your bisexual COULD be straight but hiding behind the bi label. Or indeed the reverse.

Why? You'd need to ask the bisexual in question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have we been here before?

I'm sexually interested and aroused by both men and women but only romantically interested in women. I have no interest in dating or making an emotional connection with men in the same way I do with women.

Paddy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we have to have labels. Im more of a try sexual I go with the flow and if I enjoy it then I will do it again I love pushing bounderies and experimenting. I love cock but girls are fun to play with but to me girls are not enough still need a hard fucking after.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Have we been here before?

In the words of famous funksters The Average White Band - 'Let's go round again'.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

It all seems very complicated where for us it is quite simple

We both love to play with women and we also love to have a willy to play with iideally doing a double bj...

Does that make us bi or just adaptable.. Not sure, bi suits us as long as we play...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the second part will do

are all bisexuals really straight and just hiding behind the bi label

Well, in a nutshell, yes and no.

It depends on who your bisexual is, whether they regard, recognise or use bisexuality as a 'label' and how much definition of themselves they take from their sexual preferences on any given day.

So yes, your bisexual COULD be straight but hiding behind the bi label. Or indeed the reverse.

Why? You'd need to ask the bisexual in question.

I’m genuinely intrigued as to why 3 labels cover bisexually within swinging, I just don’t like over complicating things, and agree not everyone likes labels, but why not choose one that best describes them?

Buy the way, did I tell you I’m a virgin, well except when the mood takes me

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It all seems very complicated where for us it is quite simple

We both love to play with women and we also love to have a willy to play with iideally doing a double bj...

Does that make us bi or just adaptable.. Not sure, bi suits us as long as we play...

That's all well and good.

But you HAVE to choose a label.

It's the law, dontcha know??

And once you've chosen your label you HAVE to stick to it - no changing your mind or going back, no keeping the receipt just in case.

What would happen if everyone just did what they felt like when they were in the mood for it, but didnt bother if they didnt feel like it?

It would be chaos i tell you, chaos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn’t heterosexual mean exactly that??? Didn’t know heterosexuals enjoyed bisexual experiences, regardless of how at ease they are with their sexuality. "

No i dont think it does mean that. The way I look at it both myself and my guy are heterosexual. In real life we are not attracted to the same sex, neither would be ever get into a full time relationship with a member of the same sex.

When we go to the club we leave our real life and respectability at the door and we enter the murky world of swinging. Here we can be whatever we want and we can try new things out. Cos ive licked pussy, doesnt make me a lesbian, not does it make me bisexual either, i would never be interested in a relationship with a woman outside the club.

To us its shedding those labels that society put on us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a gay man in a club may lick a womans pussy - hes still a gay man though. Its just the time, the place, the confidence, the naughtiness, the shedding of inhibitions and just basically cos we wanna know what its like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

time to bring up HETRO-FLEXIBLE again

haha i really want to spread this word.

it means your attracted to the opposite sex physically and emotionally so you will only have relationships with the opposite sex however you feel you can play with your own sex if you like just for fun

well thats the simple way off explaining it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn’t heterosexual mean exactly that??? Didn’t know heterosexuals enjoyed bisexual experiences, regardless of how at ease they are with their sexuality.

To us its shedding those labels that society put on us.

The labels on here are for here though, not real life, was genuinely interested because as a heterosexual myself and someone who also swings, I don’t relate performing oral on the same sex as something heterosexuals do.

Is it the stigma that’s attached to it? As noticed the female is happily labelled as bi curious but the male straight.

Please feel free to tell me to shut up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"time to bring up HETRO-FLEXIBLE again

haha i really want to spread this word.

well thats the simple way off explaining it"

Great word but doesn't that just mean bisexual??

Definiton • Bisexuality is sexual behavior or an orientation involving physical or romantic attraction to both males and females.

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By *ionysus_st3Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

Well, I'm 99% straight. But every now and then I like to receive anal from a guy. I don't find men attractive at all & I'm not effeminate. I'm essentially a straight man with an interesting little quirk. It's just a shame there are so many women who turn me down & hold it against me just because that 1% in me likes to receive anal from a guy every once or twice a year...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you meen but people meen different things with bisexual, if somebody asked me was i bi I would say yes but explain what i stated when explaining hetro-flexible,

the reason i put hetro-flexible on my profile is so people know i will only play with the same sex on rare occasion and I do not find them rommanticly attractive etc etc

some people know the term but not many, so I put it on my profile so people can ask about it

people tend to put bi-curious on thier profile when they mean this alot off the time, however to me bi-curious means you havent yet had a bi experiance and you want to try before you decide

so having this extra word on people's profiles may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I'm 99% straight. But every now and then I like to receive anal from a guy. I don't find men attractive at all & I'm not effeminate. I'm essentially a straight man with an interesting little quirk. It's just a shame there are so many women who turn me down & hold it against me just because that 1% in me likes to receive anal from a guy every once or twice a year...

m8 your very new to the site(unless you have been on before) I am sure it will pick up for you soon

or were you on about women in the none swinging world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what you meen but people meen different things with bisexual, if somebody asked me was i bi I would say yes but explain what i stated when explaining hetro-flexible,

the reason i put hetro-flexible on my profile is so people know i will only play with the same sex on rare occasion and I do not find them rommanticly attractive etc etc

some people know the term but not many, so I put it on my profile so people can ask about it

people tend to put bi-curious on thier profile when they mean this alot off the time, however to me bi-curious means you havent yet had a bi experiance and you want to try before you decide

so having this extra word on people's profiles may help"

Hete

exible eh? I'd be the same.

I think I will use that now myself

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By *ionysus_st3Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

"m8 your very new to the site(unless you have been on before) I am sure it will pick up for you soon

or were you on about women in the none swinging world"

Well, I've already been with 1 person on the site (a female). But I come across so many women (whether they're from the swinging world or not) who get turned off when they see 'Bi Guy', so I have to list myself as straight just to be in with a chance.

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By *ibidinemMan
over a year ago

carmarthen /llanelli .

horses for courses everyones different! wot some people find a kink others find the norm ! im a trysexual kindof guy myself im a builder i have a good physique i play footy and shower with 22 guys do i find it horny? nope ! but in a 3sum situation would i play with a cock !? well why not life is all about learning and experments! does that make me bi? gay? who knows who cares im just out for fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well thats up to you, I dont do it for that reason but i do list myself as straight because i dont want a loads off single men messaging me, this way I avoid them but can still make friends with other guys etc

but thier are lots of women who like bi guys

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By *ionysus_st3Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

"horses for courses everyones different! wot some people find a kink others find the norm ! im a trysexual kindof guy myself im a builder i have a good physique i play footy and shower with 22 guys do i find it horny? nope ! but in a 3sum situation would i play with a cock !? well why not life is all about learning and experments! does that make me bi? gay? who knows who cares im just out for fun! "

That's a good attitude to have -similar to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but thier are lots of women who like bi guys

Waves hand in the air...ME.....

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By *ionysus_st3Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

"but thier are lots of women who like bi guys

Waves hand in the air...ME.....

Wow! That's great!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like all types of men, depends on what im after and my mood, i do like the more alpha dominante all man male, they quite good when your in that mood where you just wanted to be used and have a guy take control

but in a MMF 3sum i would rather have two bi guys than straight ones, seeing men playing and doubling up on a guy with another man is a turn on for me, i also like TVs and have met quite a few but they have to be really convincing for me to meet a TV, i dont like hairy men in frillies

What i like and what im looking for differs from meet to meet, after all it would be very boring if we met the same type on every meet, i like variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok, we're going on about gay men, so why has the OP, put this under a Bisexual header

cos antiquated swinging "morals" now think that bi is ok for women and is even desirable, but not yet got their "giving heads" around bi men. SIMPLES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ourselves and many people we know have no problem with gay/bi guys.

However,we all fail to understand why,if a guy is sexually attracted to other guys do they go for effeminate guys,transisters or T girls.

Is it maybe because they have issues with their feelings and meeting this kind of guy eases their conscience?

Similarly,Trace is genuinely bi and sexually attracted to other women.

The only women she's attracted to though are feminine ones.

We can't understand some gay(the dike variety)women who dress and behave like guys,wear no make up and have close cropped hair.

They're usually partnered by a carbon copy and seem to be a race appart.

Surely they may as well have a relationship with a guy.

If they love women,why not go for one who exudes femininity?

It's a funny old world!

XXXX"

CERTAINLY bldy is ... my head hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It all seems very complicated where for us it is quite simple

We both love to play with women and we also love to have a willy to play with iideally doing a double bj...

Does that make us bi or just adaptable.. Not sure, bi suits us as long as we play...

That's all well and good.

But you HAVE to choose a label.

It's the law, dontcha know??

And once you've chosen your label you HAVE to stick to it - no changing your mind or going back, no keeping the receipt just in case.

What would happen if everyone just did what they felt like when they were in the mood for it, but didnt bother if they didnt feel like it?

It would be chaos i tell you, chaos...

imagine ... tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is that once it known that you sucked a cock you will be always known as a cocksucker.

Actually does that even make sense

I'm hugely confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesnt make you bi, if your not attracted to guys your not gay or bi.

Just like me. I enjoy sex and sometimes even cocks but im not attracted to men.

I know how you feel and its a hard thing to accurately explain.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This thread deserver some kind of award for not degenerating into the usual slanging match between the straights and the rest...pat yourself on the back everybody.

And a special commendation to the guy from the straight 'dogmeister' couple who appears to be actually listening to what people are telling him about bi stuff and, whilst not necessariy agreeing with everything, is at least taking it on board.

(of course once the other straights find he's been talking to us they'll have him taken out and shot for being a traitor to his orientation!)

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

It would be interesting to here from the anti-bisexuals straights as to why they are put off bisexuals, else we are left to guess and make assumptions such as bigotry and paranoia.

Of course we’ve no idea how many people are NOT contacting us because bisexual is stated on our profile. No one has ever written to us (so far) and said, ‘Won’t be shaggin you cos we’re straight’. So does this so-called anti-bisexual really exist?

Thing is if someone is looking for a fight they will use any excuse, and along with that often comes name-calling, fatty, skinny, queer!!! Often it’s the victim of such abuse that draws conclusions as to why the person attacked them and put it down to being fat, skinny, queer or whatever when in fact they just don’t like you!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I always find it best not to just assume

For us, we have straight MFM. We started off asking for straight men, as we didn't know if we would be comfortable with a bi man.

Now before you all get defensive, the reason for that wasn't that we thought a bi man wouldn't be able to control himself and need to dive on Mr R ......it was just the unknown of wether a glance that lasted a bit too long would put both of us off and the meet would get uncomfortable enough to have to end.

We then met a man who we still think was bi, but he said he was straight. We liked him and his horny thoughts so we had the meet, and then had repeat meets with him. He was I would say the most comfortable meet we ever had, but we still think he was bi and it didn't matter, as he only wanted to do me ( mrs ).

I know not everyone will be the same and if we choose to meet a man who happens to be bi then it migt be different, but we are more open minded now and we don't discount bi men anymore.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Being totally honest, if we see a comment on profile that states "hubby is straight, totally, therefore no bi males males at all"..which is stated more times than you may think..

Then although mr new will not jump on him and turn him, lol, this for us gives some indication that they may not be our type of couple

It is not he fact they are straight, and we do both play straight, depends on how we feel that week for that meet, but more of indication of where their heads are at..

We just go to the next profile... Each to their own

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It would be probably just as well as they wouldn't match your profile for you to mail them.

We have mails asking for bi MFM even though we say we are after straight MFM, and although we don't have on our profile what you have seen, at times I can understand why people want to confirm it on their profile, as it would save many mails to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't play with bi men simply because I don't think they'd provide the factor x I need to fully enjoy my meets.

Seeing the colour drain from my playmates face when I show them the content of my toy box and see them shake when I get them to put the condom on the strap on, put it one me and lube it up is a MAJOR turn on for me. Their moans of pleasure, coloured by humiliation also adds to the allure.

I don't think I would get that reaction from a bi man. If he's had the real thing my latex toys will not hold the same "fear" which I find alluring - hence my choice.

I don't play with subs who visit professional Dommes and like to play in dungeons either as they tend to be "hard core" and too extreme for my taste.

When you say "no bi men" people assume you're "sqeamish" at the thought of two men together...I've said many times on these boards that I find gay porn a major turn on, but when it comes to playtime, straight and shaking suits me perfectly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me by surprise when I found that I loved seeing my guy suck another guy. Now im not sure if he were to go to a bi night on his own as a single guy whether he would suck another guy. Every time i see him suck a guy or a guy suck him, then im completely and utterly turned on. In fact it fills my fantasies when i think about sex.

he also enjoys seeing me with another woman - though for him the thing that really turns him on is seeing me suck a guy whilst he is taking me from behind. Part of the reason why we have bi experiences is because it turns us on knowing the other one is turned on by watching it - thats what gets us off, so whilst yeah licking a woman is great, it tastes good and i enjoy it, what really turns me on is knowing he is watching and i think thats the same for him with a guy

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It must be said, my wife loves watching me take a big cock up my bum.

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