FabSwingers.com forum: How do you Climax (Women)?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was reading that alot of women cannot orgasm through penetrative sex. I was wondering how accurate this is.

Personally penetrative sex along with my tits being sucked, nibbled, generally rough handled is the best way for me to Cum. Oral is nice but doesnt do it for me like having a juicy cock in me.

Any other views?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with penetration alone. Clitoral stimulation has me climbing the walls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All can/should work if done properly....

My best mate cums best when she is fisted

A previous party buddy could orgasm many ways...but only squirted cowboy style

Another friend comes best with a good finger fuck

It takes all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle too clit stimulation is the only way for me atm but in the past being really turned on rough handled and imagination has left me at a high and soaking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

interesting. I struggle with just clit stimulation. Normally a finger or a cock is the only thing that gets me going.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm lucky.

With a few people in my life... I have been able to achieve orgasm without penetration, or even touch in one case.

With the right person, I can reach orgasm either clitorally or with penetration, or from being touched in certain other places... but these are people I have a strong mental connection with. I also have a very different G spot orgasm to the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes anything can make me cum (cock, mouth, fingers, any body part), other times nothing can, and it's not usually anything to do with the sex but more to do with if I'm relaxed enough.

Do have a cock fetish though so get enough pleasure from being filled up by cock or sucking one.

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Lex says I have magic fingers lol. I can make her cum and squirt many times by fingering her G Spot. When playing with her clit he finds the Rabbit better than my fingers / tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never cum through penetrative sex the only way i can cum is through a mix of clit stimulation and a gentle finger inside me, nothing else has ever made me cum

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I cum through penetration only when in missionary or cowgirl positions. Never cum from doggy. Can also cum from oral and fingers (both at the same time preferred)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All can/should work if done properly....

My best mate cums best when she is fisted

A previous party buddy could orgasm many ways...but only squirted cowboy style

Another friend comes best with a good finger fuck

Don't presume what women should or shouldn't be able to do, your a bloke

Don't come back with "I've got 200 veris" either

It takes all sorts."

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Penetration in either hole, or if alone, dildo in pussy

My clitoris is neither use nor ornament

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky I can cum lots of ways and lots of tines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A damn good spanking, the rest follows naturally

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can orgasm most off the time I'm really lucky in that respect from oral sex and clit stimulation x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers and tongues get me off. .. that and a good wand session.

'Penetrative' only works for me if my clit is being stimulated too in some form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All can/should work if done properly....

My best mate cums best when she is fisted

A previous party buddy could orgasm many ways...but only squirted cowboy style

Another friend comes best with a good finger fuck

It takes all sorts."

That's not true. It has nothing to do with being done properly lol. Women who can't come through penetration, can't do so because their clitoris is to far away from their vagina. In most cases.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

"I'm lucky I can cum lots of ways and lots of tines

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me too never been a prob for me

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

clitoral stimulation for me, cannot cum from just penetration or any other way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an Interesting topic.

Have never cum from oral sex.. i wish i could!

If I'm turned on and we have had a lovely build up...I can usually come pretty quickly w a lovely hard cock inside me. Have just been getting in to role play (this is a new thing for me) with a lovely man off here....and even the thought of his lovely thick cock has me squirting v v quickly

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can cum from nipple stimulation alone if done right. Each method gives a different kind of orgasm and with full sex the different positions mean different kinda orgasm too. But I am lucky that I cum with most forms of stimulation but don't squirt

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Never ever orgasmed through penetration alone. Need strong clitoral stimulation. And very rare for me to cum with a cock inside me. A finger or 2 (plus clit stim) works ok but a cock seems to make it take even longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All can/should work if done properly....

My best mate cums best when she is fisted

A previous party buddy could orgasm many ways...but only squirted cowboy style

Another friend comes best with a good finger fuck

It takes all sorts.

That's not true. It has nothing to do with being done properly lol. Women who can't come through penetration, can't do so because their clitoris is to far away from their vagina. In most cases. "

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

Not normally by vaginal penetration but get your fingers, tongue and/or cock around my clit and I'm off like a tap, include some anal stimulation and I can turn into a broken water main

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"clitoral stimulation for me, cannot cum from just penetration or any other way..."

Same here. Makes me laugh when blokes say ALL women 'should' be able to cum through penetration if it's 'done right' (and of course, they can do it right). What a crock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"clitoral stimulation for me, cannot cum from just penetration or any other way...

Same here. Makes me laugh when blokes say ALL women 'should' be able to cum through penetration if it's 'done right' (and of course, they can do it right). What a crock."

Comments like this make men sound immature. Every woman knows (despite what men say) what makes her come and what she likes.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Mrs- I'm one of the lucky ones and can cum with penetration only but oral and a few fingers in the right place has me climbing the walls! Once I've cum once in a session though it don't take me much at all to cum again.....and again lol Xx

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I cum very easily through oral sex and fingers, actual penetration not always xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"clitoral stimulation for me, cannot cum from just penetration or any other way...

Same here. Makes me laugh when blokes say ALL women 'should' be able to cum through penetration if it's 'done right' (and of course, they can do it right). What a crock.

Comments like this make men sound immature. Every woman knows (despite what men say) what makes her come and what she likes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All can/should work if done properly....

My best mate cums best when she is fisted

A previous party buddy could orgasm many ways...but only squirted cowboy style

Another friend comes best with a good finger fuck

Don't presume what women should or shouldn't be able to do, your a bloke

Don't come back with "I've got 200 veris" either

It takes all sorts."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"clitoral stimulation for me, cannot cum from just penetration or any other way...

Same here. Makes me laugh when blokes say ALL women 'should' be able to cum through penetration if it's 'done right' (and of course, they can do it right). What a crock."

Very rarely through penetration. Clit stimulation and once I have that first one they just keep cummin

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have never cum through penetrative sex the only way i can cum is through a mix of clit stimulation and a gentle finger inside me, nothing else has ever made me cum "

I'm the same. It frustrates me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was reading that alot of women cannot orgasm through penetrative sex. I was wondering how accurate this is.

Personally penetrative sex along with my tits being sucked, nibbled, generally rough handled is the best way for me to Cum. Oral is nice but doesnt do it for me like having a juicy cock in me.

Any other views?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Penetration in either hole, or if alone, dildo in pussy

My clitoris is neither use nor ornament"

Pmsl, neither use nor ornament.

I will pop it on my mantelpiece. And polish it weekly. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration, oral, fingers. Sometimes just from kissing or even being touched. I love my body lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never cum through penetrative sex the only way i can cum is through a mix of clit stimulation and a gentle finger inside me, nothing else has ever made me cum

I'm the same. It frustrates me."

I'm like this but I'm happy with it.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"Penetration in either hole, or if alone, dildo in pussy

My clitoris is neither use nor ornament

Pmsl, neither use nor ornament.

I will pop it on my mantelpiece. And polish it weekly. Lol

same as my tits.....couldn't breastfeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to come from being penetrated, and the only time clit stimulation didn't work was when I was on Prozac. Hugely frustrating - but it did make my nipples extra sensitive and was amazed to find myself orgasming from them being nibbled alone. Never since, mind you...

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

Very interesting and popular thread

I can achieve an orgasm through many ways but get a different sensation from them it seems so variety works!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have orgasmed allsorts of ways - once i have tripped the switch i keep going and often really dont want to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like most women cum through clitoral stimulation but if I watch porn I can cum in under 1 min with stimulation. But my fav way to cum is missionary position as he grinds down slowly and gently on me and we get into a rhythm, that for me is the ultimate. Then there's the old favourite of girl on top to control my own speed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fingers and tongues get me off. .. that and a good wand session.

'Penetrative' only works for me if my clit is being stimulated too in some form.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum almost too easily from penetration, oral, fingers, nipples, but my friend has only ever cum from penetration alone once. Everyone is different- no bad thing

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