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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have found a genuine mix of people on here some have been great some not so much.... put a status up about an outdoor meet and some of the replies where well em to the point, eg where and when... is that how the majority meet? we like to have a chat and swap pics first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not how we meet

I doubt very much its how the majority meet either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its comes across as if they think theyre gods gift and wold be lucky to have them lol id rather see if theres some attraction before anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it shows the disconnect between swingers and the pure NSA crowd, often hard to tell difference

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You will always get chancers.

Why not go browsing yourself and make first contact?

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

surely even the nsa crowd would like some attraction, have found some decent guys but loads of chancers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely even the nsa crowd would like some attraction, have found some decent guys but loads of chancers"

Seems to be a fair number of people who don't care as long as they are attractive. But there is enough shallow people in life so no surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds as if they are being presumptuous. You said you were looking for an outdoor meet. Not dogging. The two are or can be very different. I have had outdoor meets with a couple, a few times and single fems. Usually arranged between the two/three of us. Time and place. Not a general invite, i.e. dogging. Although this to can be invitation only.

But not all men are the same!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i didnt say they where all the same, the majority have been chancers but theres been some genuine lads that have taken the time to write out a message and start a convo which is nice. was just curious as to if the when and where ones was the norm or do most like to chat a bit first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i didnt say they where all the same, the majority have been chancers but theres been some genuine lads that have taken the time to write out a message and start a convo which is nice. was just curious as to if the when and where ones was the norm or do most like to chat a bit first"

I just think as you rightly point out...those were chancers. Possibly not verified or just hoping you weren't fussy. I think what they tend to forget, is how many others see your status. Personally I exchange messages before meeting, usually several so you can gauge whether you are likely to get on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

see thats what we like from men not just a wham bang thank u mam lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see thats what we like from men not just a wham bang thank u mam lol"

We have a similar issue with some of the single guys . Not so much that they don't wanna chat on here , but that they just wanna know where and when . Instead of meeting in a pub first they seem to just expect to meet somewhere for a quick fuck . I have lost count of how many times I have changed our profile text suggesting there needs to be an attraction to fully enjoy a meet , it still happens every time we post a meet up .

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some people go for a less subtle approach than others. I don't think there has been a single recorded incident of a successful outcome to a guy with no pics sending the message 'suck my cock'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people go for a less subtle approach than others. I don't think there has been a single recorded incident of a successful outcome to a guy with no pics sending the message 'suck my cock' "
ahhh so that's where I'm going wrong..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its how I meet, love instant shag meets one or 2 msgs is whats needed, indoor or outdoor fun

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I don't think its the correct behaviour, although I can see how an 'outdoor meet' could be taken as a free for all as in how some couples like to undertake dogging adventures.

I for one am never presumptuous and would always asked to be considered to participate in any outdoor activities

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If you want to approach meets in a certain way - the best way is to be clear in your profile text.

People aren't mind readers.

A status update can easily be misconstrued when read in conjunction with the words below it. Otherwise you will attract the wrong kind of interest.

Do you think you have done enough to be clear to those viewing your profile or do you see any areas that could cause confusion? If the former - all good. If the latter.........

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean we actually have to converse with the people we are gonna ride?

No deal. Back to porn for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not swingers or NSA crowd (whatever the fcuk that is)

It's the increasingly large group of male nobs on here who think the site is calked instashag or something.

You can spot them a mile off....two line profile texts, cock shots taken in the toilet, can't accommodate coz married.....

Delete, block move on....simples

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's not swingers or NSA crowd (whatever the fcuk that is)

It's the increasingly large group of male nobs on here who think the site is calked instashag or something.

You can spot them a mile off....two line profile texts, cock shots taken in the toilet, can't accommodate coz married.....

Delete, block move on....simples"

There are as many unverified, two line profiles with blurry hard to make out pics that can't accommodate 'couples' profiles.

You can spot them a mile off too.

A

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