FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

still no luck

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still no luck on here plus what's harder is to get the person to chat to u as seams like every one I tex on here don't get back to me yes I know they prob have a lot of texs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you follow the advice from your previous thread from 2 weeks back?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What was that mate as can't remember lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green arrow yourself. You asked for advice and got some good replies. Have you acted on any of the advice given?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What I try to do is have a good convo to see if we click u know but I don't seam to get any luck lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your last thread a few people advised to go to social meets which would be my advice. It shows you're genuinely up for getting out and meeting people and gets you known in the scene. Its an ideal situation to have decent conversations with people and make friends.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mate trust me I would love to go to a social meets but some times they r far and can't get there as I don't drive its a pain in the arse

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Have a look in the meets forum, there's a Sussex social every couple of months.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Nicecouple561 I know that but some of the places r far and can't get there

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the gym I'm often confronted with 'I wanna do this but..............'

This sounds familiar, 'I wanna go to socials but..............'

It's how you overcome the obstacles that you face that will define you. You say you want to go to socials but don't drive. So there's buses, taxis, trains, walking, cycling, car shares. So many ways to overcome an obstacle if not driving. Next objection?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eurekas is in Kent, get yourself there.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to socials, they are a good way for guys to get to know people and the excuse that they are to far away don't work lol, theres plenty of public transport and many people go to socials that way, so make an effort rather than complaining that you can't get a meet

I also think your photos don't do you any favours (yeah i know we havn't any ourselves but guys need to try harder)

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes that is true

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and same nugget of advice on nearly all of these single man 'why don't I get meet' whines...........when you take pictures, however they're taken................SMILE!

Looking miserable as sin isn't a great selling point.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks Nicecouple561 I know that but some of the places r far and can't get there "

One of the guys who comes books a cheap hotel room in advance I don't know if that would be an option for you, I know cost can be an issue. Otherwise it's a case of get involved, try and mix in the forum and keep going.

Good luck .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you just can't help people

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes you just can't help people

"

You can't help people who aren't willing to help themselves!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes you just can't help people

"

Not if they don't listen....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive attitude and not relying on Fabswingers for your sex life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top