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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

In the last month I've had emails from at least 10 gay men offering themselves for all sorts and types of gay sex.

The fact that it says clearly on my profile that I'm straight obviously meant nothing.

In the past, I've simply blocked and deleted. Today however, I had enough and threw in a stinker of an email reply before blocking and deleting.

I think I'll stick to this formula from now on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe block men from messaging you.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well it's better out than in....

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Well if your not looking to meet them why don't you just block them so they can't message you in the first place??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not simply use the mail filters to block single men from messaging you?

Simples!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

At least the bi's aren't a-prowling.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe block men from messaging you. "

Its a simple cure.

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Wasn't aware there was such a filter open to men. Filter activated!

Still, apart from the nuisance factor, I'm still puzzled as to why anyone would expect someone with a different sexual preference to meet them.

I'll wager I've got a better chance of shagging my favourite porn star than these guys having any success!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, ever messaged a guy listed as straight

There does, however, seem to be quite a large number of straight guys who like to message bumders like us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't aware there was such a filter open to men. Filter activated!

Still, apart from the nuisance factor, I'm still puzzled as to why anyone would expect someone with a different sexual preference to meet them.

I'll wager I've got a better chance of shagging my favourite porn star than these guys having any success!"

Because, as suprising as it may sound to you, there are a LOT of men on this site who claim to be straight and will shag anyone or anything. Some are so dense that they think that by putting straight on their profiles, that nobody will think to look at their veris and see most of them are from tv's and other men. I have seen it so often it laughable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't aware there was such a filter open to men. Filter activated!

Still, apart from the nuisance factor, I'm still puzzled as to why anyone would expect someone with a different sexual preference to meet them.

I'll wager I've got a better chance of shagging my favourite porn star than these guys having any success!"

It's a spray and pray marketing strategy. No doubt they get some takers from the 'straight' demographic, if they mail enough people, and it costs nothing but a few seconds to send a copy n paste message. I doubt they read your profile beforehand

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Haha I agree with priapus - I always try to message them to point it out but never get a 'oh thenks awfully, one pressed the wrong button, don't you know'

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Never, ever messaged a guy listed as straight

There does, however, seem to be quite a large number of straight guys who like to message bumders like us "

False advertising.., and these guys are at least bi.

It is still a bit different. If I was gay and got an email from a "straight" guy, I'd be puzzled, but at least I'll know he's interested in what I'm offering.

It won't be the same the other way round.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Lucky bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe that people get unwanted mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, ever messaged a guy listed as straight

There does, however, seem to be quite a large number of straight guys who like to message bumders like us

False advertising.., and these guys are at least bi.

It is still a bit different. If I was gay and got an email from a "straight" guy, I'd be puzzled, but at least I'll know he's interested in what I'm offering.

It won't be the same the other way round."

Maybe you just give off a gay vibe them

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Never, ever messaged a guy listed as straight

There does, however, seem to be quite a large number of straight guys who like to message bumders like us

False advertising.., and these guys are at least bi.

It is still a bit different. If I was gay and got an email from a "straight" guy, I'd be puzzled, but at least I'll know he's interested in what I'm offering.

It won't be the same the other way round.

Maybe you just give off a gay vibe them "

I suppose that's possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, ever messaged a guy listed as straight

There does, however, seem to be quite a large number of straight guys who like to message bumders like us

False advertising.., and these guys are at least bi.

It is still a bit different. If I was gay and got an email from a "straight" guy, I'd be puzzled, but at least I'll know he's interested in what I'm offering.

It won't be the same the other way round.

Maybe you just give off a gay vibe them "

Straight guys with veri's from men give off a pink glow.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You can block males, I will get you on a single bi female profile...

You can't keep a good bi down....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if your not looking to meet them why don't you just block them so they can't message you in the first place??

"

This. Simples.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

echoing the 'spray and pray' comment by an earlier poster (sorry i forgot to go back and quote you..... lol)

But - OP, welcome to the world of most women on here.. where *a few guys* will go and say 'hiya babe - fancy a fuck??' to 100 women. If he gets 99 slaps and one fuck, then.. well,

I'm not saying a lot of you guys are just pure chancers looking for a happy ending.

OK, I am saying that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile clearly states "black guys only" yet we still have lots of white guys trying to tempt us to the "light" side. Still haven't had to be rude to any of them yet. And we don't even have a filter to activate!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Our profile clearly states "black guys only" yet we still have lots of white guys trying to tempt us to the "light" side."

this made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know the difference between a Straight guy and a bi guy ????????????????????????

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ABOUT FOUR PINTS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be very carefull. You can catch the gay just by looking at a gays profile . Theres no such thing as a straight guy on fab. Sadly thats down to spineless guys who are ashamed to admit that they like cock and state there straight on there profile. Im as straight as they come. But you still get guys thinking they can turn you. Its a game to them. Id rather stick my cock in a mincer then near a guy. But each to there own hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of offers to by gay men lol but I don't block men as I am chatting to loads from the forum here both men and women in pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"echoing the 'spray and pray' comment by an earlier poster (sorry i forgot to go back and quote you..... lol)

But - OP, welcome to the world of most women on here.. where *a few guys* will go and say 'hiya babe - fancy a fuck??' to 100 women. If he gets 99 slaps and one fuck, then.. well,

I'm not saying a lot of you guys are just pure chancers looking for a happy ending.

OK, I am saying that. "

Fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I agree with priapus - I always try to message them to point it out but never get a 'oh thenks awfully, one pressed the wrong button, don't you know' "

I think its frequency demands a special button that we can press, just to get the message to them clearly and succinctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be very carefull. You can catch the gay just by looking at a gays profile . Theres no such thing as a straight guy on fab. Sadly thats down to spineless guys who are ashamed to admit that they like cock and state there straight on there profile. Im as straight as they come. But you still get guys thinking they can turn you. Its a game to them. Id rather stick my cock in a mincer then near a guy. But each to there own hey "

Cock in a mincer!

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Id rather stick my cock in a mincer then near a guy. But each to there own hey "

I don't think I'll go that far If my only choices were a mincer and another man's ass, I'll take the ass every day of the week lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather stick my cock in a mincer then near a guy. But each to there own hey

I don't think I'll go that far If my only choices were a mincer and another man's ass, I'll take the ass every day of the week lol"

You've changed your tune, Liberace.

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Id rather stick my cock in a mincer then near a guy. But each to there own hey

I don't think I'll go that far If my only choices were a mincer and another man's ass, I'll take the ass every day of the week lol

You've changed your tune, Liberace. "

Well spotted

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm quite open about being bi, don't give a fuck, the amount of straight guys who approach me even though I say I'm really full on bi with good Tgirls? It's been said many times, the main difference between a straight and a bi guy? About 6 pints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop moanin n get on wae it

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Our profile clearly states "black guys only" yet we still have lots of white guys trying to tempt us to the "light" side. Still haven't had to be rude to any of them yet. And we don't even have a filter to activate!"
lol

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

How many single women and couples get messages from men that they don't want?

It's a bit rich to have straight men complaining of unwanted attention.

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"How many single women and couples get messages from men that they don't want?

It's a bit rich to have straight men complaining of unwanted attention. "

I suppose in your world two wrongs make a right.

Putting unwanted emails aside, a gay man has got nothing a genuinely straight man needs or can use. So where is the sense in asking to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens in the chat room to, with pm's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And how many straight men on here do you hear about going with men or t.v's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shocking isn't it I get messaged all the time by "straight" guys,

what a mixed up muddled world

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"I suppose in your world two wrongs make a right.

Putting unwanted emails aside, a gay man has got nothing a genuinely straight man needs or can use. So where is the sense in asking to meet?"

Most bi men on here are 'straight' according to their profiles.

So for all a bi/gay guy knows any man on here could be bi, but not say on their profile.

So the 'sense in asking to meet' - is just like in any other case, men pushing the envelope to see if they get a result.

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I suppose in your world two wrongs make a right.

Putting unwanted emails aside, a gay man has got nothing a genuinely straight man needs or can use. So where is the sense in asking to meet?

Most bi men on here are 'straight' according to their profiles.

So for all a bi/gay guy knows any man on here could be bi, but not say on their profile.

So the 'sense in asking to meet' - is just like in any other case, men pushing the envelope to see if they get a result. "

Won't a more efficient use of their time be to stick to the male profiles that actually say they're gay or bi? Or better still create a profile on fabguys, where you know for sure that everyone likes men for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose in your world two wrongs make a right.

Putting unwanted emails aside, a gay man has got nothing a genuinely straight man needs or can use. So where is the sense in asking to meet?

Most bi men on here are 'straight' according to their profiles.

So for all a bi/gay guy knows any man on here could be bi, but not say on their profile.

So the 'sense in asking to meet' - is just like in any other case, men pushing the envelope to see if they get a result.

Won't a more efficient use of their time be to stick to the male profiles that actually say they're gay or bi? Or better still create a profile on fabguys, where you know for sure that everyone likes men for sex?"

As I've said many times before, if you want to work out who is a Bi guy masquerading as straight on here, then get a fabguys profile as they are all on there too.

And the difference between a straight guy and a Bi guy is not 6 pints. It's 6 weeks of unread/deleted messages to couples and women!

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"

Most bi men on here are 'straight' according to their profiles.

So for all a bi/gay guy knows any man on here could be bi, but not say on their profile.

So the 'sense in asking to meet' - is just like in any other case, men pushing the envelope to see if they get a result.

Won't a more efficient use of their time be to stick to the male profiles that actually say they're gay or bi? Or better still create a profile on fabguys, where you know for sure that everyone likes men for sex?

As I've said many times before, if you want to work out who is a Bi guy masquerading as straight on here, then get a fabguys profile as they are all on there too.

And the difference between a straight guy and a Bi guy is not 6 pints. It's 6 weeks of unread/deleted messages to couples and women! "

My point exactly. Just the fabguys bit though

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

be flattered .. or ignore ..delete ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose in your world two wrongs make a right.

Putting unwanted emails aside, a gay man has got nothing a genuinely straight man needs or can use. So where is the sense in asking to meet?

Most bi men on here are 'straight' according to their profiles.

So for all a bi/gay guy knows any man on here could be bi, but not say on their profile.

So the 'sense in asking to meet' - is just like in any other case, men pushing the envelope to see if they get a result.

Won't a more efficient use of their time be to stick to the male profiles that actually say they're gay or bi? Or better still create a profile on fabguys, where you know for sure that everyone likes men for sex?

As I've said many times before, if you want to work out who is a Bi guy masquerading as straight on here, then get a fabguys profile as they are all on there too.

And the difference between a straight guy and a Bi guy is not 6 pints. It's 6 weeks of unread/deleted messages to couples and women! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do change your mind can I watch please?

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If you do change your mind can I watch please? "

If who changes their mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well it's better out than in....

"

The guys messaging him obviously think it's better in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, ever messaged a guy listed as straight

There does, however, seem to be quite a large number of straight guys who like to message bumders like us "

The amount of "straight" guys contacting me is a joke. Fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many "straight" guys are in complete denial on fab.

Apparently it is only a label but why do so many guys involve themselves in descriptive contortions to avoid the bi/gay one being applied to themselves?

I can respect a gay or bi guy who is confident about himself but feel only contempt for those who advertise to suck cock or meet tv's but claim to be straight.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood


"Never, ever messaged a guy listed as straight

There does, however, seem to be quite a large number of straight guys who like to message bumders like us "

yep, I get loads of them so I guess some gay/bi guys thing it's worth a shot...

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood


"

Putting unwanted emails aside, a gay man has got nothing a genuinely straight man needs or can use. So where is the sense in asking to meet?"

not necessarily, an available hole doesn't have to have a gender

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By *ancadamMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I am astonished by how many men who describe themselves as straight have messaged me asking to meet.some do have meets with t.v.'s on their verifications but the majority have women only veris .i think many men who are on this site are experimental or just highly sexed .id never consider messaging a man claiming to be straight although i can understand why many do given the deception some are operating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Once those labels are set in stone they shalt not be moved! Once straight always straight! A swinging site is no place for experimentation!

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood


"Absolutely. Once those labels are set in stone they shalt not be moved! Once straight always straight! A swinging site is no place for experimentation! "

just as well I'd done my experimenting before I joined then, though think there may still be some more research to be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely. Once those labels are set in stone they shalt not be moved! Once straight always straight! A swinging site is no place for experimentation!

just as well I'd done my experimenting before I joined then, though think there may still be some more research to be done "

Not here, once you have selected your sexual orientation, you're suck with it.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood


"Absolutely. Once those labels are set in stone they shalt not be moved! Once straight always straight! A swinging site is no place for experimentation!

just as well I'd done my experimenting before I joined then, though think there may still be some more research to be done

Not here, once you have selected your sexual orientation, you're suck with it."

ah dammit, better delete profile and redo then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't aware there was such a filter open to men. Filter activated!

Still, apart from the nuisance factor, I'm still puzzled as to why anyone would expect someone with a different sexual preference to meet them.

I'll wager I've got a better chance of shagging my favourite porn star than these guys having any success!"

Many many "straight" guys on here meet other men. I do have a secret giggle as some of the very outspoken "i would never meet a bi man its sick" women have veris from guys who've messaged me asking to meet and even more who have messaged tgirl friends.

Tbh I don't see the point in lying and on the rare occasion I do meet a bloke I won't meet them if they're down as straight, not so much out of principle just they tend to be a bit shit in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite open about being bi, don't give a fuck, the amount of straight guys who approach me even though I say I'm really full on bi with good Tgirls? It's been said many times, the main difference between a straight and a bi guy? About 6 pints"

If you gotta get them d*unk to change their mind that ain't the difference between straight an bi that's the difference between sex and rape...

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Be very carefull. You can catch the gay just by looking at a gays profile . Theres no such thing as a straight guy on fab. Sadly thats down to spineless guys who are ashamed to admit that they like cock and state there straight on there profile. Im as straight as they come. But you still get guys thinking they can turn you. Its a game to them. Id rather stick my cock in a mincer then near a guy. But each to there own hey "

I'm thinking mincer may be a Freudian slip.

There's many a bi guy,150% straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best sex I've had has been with "straight" guys !!

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By *ptimusD OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"

Putting unwanted emails aside, a gay man has got nothing a genuinely straight man needs or can use. So where is the sense in asking to meet?

not necessarily, an available hole doesn't have to have a gender "

Well, if all that counts is a hole, it'll be easier for them to stick it in a pie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men on sites like this are chancers like people have said. We all get those messages, its flattering to a degree I suppose. What's even stranger is the 'straight' lads that message (usually after you've uploaded a new pic)

As long as they are respectful, I'm respectful back. It's the ones who are either a) pushy or b) lack any sort of self respect that I don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps just see it as a nice thing that an admirer is taking the time to message. I just like to chat so the more messages the merrier!

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