FabSwingers.com forum: These days it all costs money

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I appreciate arranged parties costs money, but certainly not the amounts charged by many. 50, 60, 80 pounds and more. For singlegguys like myself these tend to be the only option as traditional one on one meets or mmf are almost unheard of anymore. No one trusts a single guy these days. It's a real shame as on personal note I'm incredibly trustworthy! Going to these parties is a real struggle. I don't earn a huge amount, and I have (as does everyone else) financial commitments.

Just feels like I'm missing out based on my gender not my personality and it's a shame.

Anyway, self-pitying rant over!! Regards, David xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply and demand David, supply and demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of clubs hold nights from £20 upwards most charge £35. Why do you only go to parties.

You have a very basic profile and that is going to reduce your chances of finding a meet.

5 pics and 4 of those are your todger?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

One on one meets are not unheard of. I meet one on one quite often (and yes I know I'm a single fem, but I do meet single fellas)

ever considered its not your gender holding you back? Have a look through some of the profile hint threads.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You have a very basic profile and that is going to reduce your chances of finding a meet.

5 pics and 4 of those are your todger? "

definitely this...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Around 2008/9 when I first came onto fab I found it far more friendly towards us chaps. Very little mention of money either. All seems to have flipped now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But your post implies that this site or those parties are your only option for finding someone to have sex with.

I'd suggest that is far from the truth. And meets on here are not unheard of, that is a bit of a self pitying observation. And you're probably making it a self fulfilling prophecy by thinking like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have other pics of face etc which I happily send when I initiate a conversation, I just prefer to keep these off the public photos. Is that wrong?

In fact whilst being fortunate enough to get a one on one or couple meet, in truth I'd also be just as pleased is someone would talk to me. II'm always very polite and considerate.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I have other pics of face etc which I happily send when I initiate a conversation, I just prefer to keep these off the public photos. Is that wrong?

In fact whilst being fortunate enough to get a one on one or couple meet, in truth I'd also be just as pleased is someone would talk to me. II'm always very polite and considerate. "

Honestly, for me. If you messaged me - I would be an automatic thanks but no. If I want to talk to a dick (your profile avatar) then I have an ex husband. I detest talking to cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have other pics of face etc which I happily send when I initiate a conversation, I just prefer to keep these off the public photos. Is that wrong?

In fact whilst being fortunate enough to get a one on one or couple meet, in truth I'd also be just as pleased is someone would talk to me. II'm always very polite and considerate. "

A lot of women look at the profile before reading the message. So they may never get to your face.

I would actually write a proper profile, take some different pics. Try going to a social or two.

You want the results without putting any effort in. I may have got it wrong but it seems that way to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

"I appreciate arranged parties costs money, but certainly not the amounts charged by many. 50, 60, 80 pounds and more. For singlegguys like myself these tend to be the only option as traditional one on one meets or mmf are almost unheard of anymore. No one trusts a single guy these days. It's a real shame as on personal note I'm incredibly trustworthy! Going to these parties is a real struggle. I don't earn a huge amount, and I have (as does everyone else) financial commitments.

Just feels like I'm missing out based on my gender not my personality and it's a shame.

Anyway, self-pitying rant over!! Regards, David xx"

i have 3 socials a year where the club charges guys £30 entry, this includes a buffet and over 6 hours of facility use ie. jacuzzi, steam room ..etc.. not bad for £30!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to host parties regularly, never charged a penny, used to cost us, bit of food, change water in the tub etc. only thing we asked was for you to bring your own towels and a drink......we just liked doing it, why does everyone have to try and make a buck out of people now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just feels like I'm missing out based on my gender not my personality and it's a shame.

Anyway, self-pitying rant over!! Regards, David xx"

clubs are cheaper than that so there is other options

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