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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

I was contacted recently on here by a 23yo virgin. I don't swing often but the thought of teaching this guy how to satisfy a woman was exciting.

He turned up, which I was amazed at, he told me he'd never even kissed a woman passionately, let alone anything else, and that it was becoming an obstacle to having a relationship but held him back in other aspects of his life.

He was like a rabbit caught in headlights, I had to go slow, so as not to scare him, but 2 hours later and a subsequent visit, the change in him and confidence that he now has is remarkable.

I don't think I've ever had such an impact on anyone before. Much better than how I lost my virginity.

When you lost yours, was it special or a bit rubbish like mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even remember the name of the girl I lost mine with and although I always thought it would never bother me. I now wish I would of made sure it was better

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Hopefully better than mine!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Mine was awful, but subsequent sessions were and still are much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was contacted recently on here by a 23yo virgin. I don't swing often but the thought of teaching this guy how to satisfy a woman was exciting.

He turned up, which I was amazed at, he told me he'd never even kissed a woman passionately, let alone anything else, and that it was becoming an obstacle to having a relationship but held him back in other aspects of his life.

He was like a rabbit caught in headlights, I had to go slow, so as not to scare him, but 2 hours later and a subsequent visit, the change in him and confidence that he now has is remarkable.

I don't think I've ever had such an impact on anyone before. Much better than how I lost my virginity.

When you lost yours, was it special or a bit rubbish like mine?"

Looking at your profile, i bet that guy had the most erotic and fulfilling time of his life, and for that guy things will only go downhill for him now.....unless he is lucky enough to be invited back. Well done for showing him the ropes, lots of people dont have time for novices and its a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Looking at your profile, i bet that guy had the most erotic and fulfilling time of his life, and for that guy things will only go downhill for him now.....unless he is lucky enough to be invited back. Well done for showing him the ropes, lots of people dont have time for novices and its a shame "

This was pretty much what we we're saying to each other, the bar has been set high for him now! Bet he's not complaining tho lol

J+J

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I love to hear of women giving younger guys a chance. There is a great deal of pressure at that age to have sex a lot, and have sex well. And when you feel as though you're not living up to societal standards (who said they were law anyway?), it is a nasty feeling.

Hopefully more women will follow your example and give a younger guy a chance. Experienced women are so hot

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't think anyone is that great a lover when first starting out, its something experience can give you, watching and listening work wonders when adding to a sexual repertoire

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Sex with an ex was really bad which ultimately ended our relationship.

Found out later he was a virgin.. That explained why he apologised for leaving a 'mess' after sex

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

aw thank you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im really a virgin madge .. could you show me how to give you a good time

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Great encounter Madonna. Horny for all involved and what an experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost mine to a prossie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how many times he's used that line lol

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Madge that is a very good thing you have done wish someone had shown me the way, would probably have been way too scared to take the offer when I was that age, I also think a lot of women need to be shown how to enjoy it.

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Virgin my arse!

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

he was genuine but apparently I've spoilt him. He said what 20 something is going to have the skills and 40 something has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a great deal of pressure at that age to have sex a lot, and have sex well. And when you feel as though you're not living up to societal standards (who said they were law anyway?), it is a nasty feeling.

Have to agree so much with this comment, I was at uni and not very confident with girls (although I was very good at sex so I was told as I liked to give pleasure) but the corrosive feeling when you think people are leaving you behind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when I lost my virginity with my first girlfriend at college.

Even though she was blind, it did feel a bit special when we did it for the first time. The sex later in the relationship got better with practice and did some hot stuff to spice things up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also should say my first time was actually very good, and I'm still in contact with her, although never told her i popped it with her....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he was genuine but apparently I've spoilt him. He said what 20 something is going to have the skills and 40 something has"

Age has nothing to do with experience or being a good lover. Was sweet that you made it special for him though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things, more you do something you better you get at it.

Old saying practice makes perfect

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

lol he's all up for some more practice!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The guy will never forget you

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Lost mine to my wife. So she must have liked something I did.

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Wonder how many times he's used that line lol"

Well, we didn't want to say. Lol.

As long as you all had fun then bring it on.

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

Fallen Madonna,

Thanks for telling us your story. You have done a good job not only to give the young guy his first experience but also to do so with sensitivity and consideration so he enjoyed it.

My first time was enjoyable. The second time, now that we were used to each other, was amazing and wonderful. I was a fast learner and she appreciated that her horses accepted me.

First time having sex as a tgirl was crap.

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

As my dear departed mother would have said ' self praise is no praise at all'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's self praising ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a very lucky lad ! You are a seriously sensual lady........ I'd love to unwrap you

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"I was contacted recently on here by a 23yo virgin. I don't swing often but the thought of teaching this guy how to satisfy a woman was exciting.

He turned up, which I was amazed at, he told me he'd never even kissed a woman passionately, let alone anything else, and that it was becoming an obstacle to having a relationship but held him back in other aspects of his life.

He was like a rabbit caught in headlights, I had to go slow, so as not to scare him, but 2 hours later and a subsequent visit, the change in him and confidence that he now has is remarkable.

I don't think I've ever had such an impact on anyone before. Much better than how I lost my virginity.

When you lost yours, was it special or a bit rubbish like mine?

Looking at your profile, i bet that guy had the most erotic and fulfilling time of his life, and for that guy things will only go downhill for him now.....unless he is lucky enough to be invited back. Well done for showing him the ropes, lots of people dont have time for novices and its a shame "

I got a l'il time..

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts


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I got a l'il time.. "

Wow. I hope what Madonna did starts a trend

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

pmsl _razedcat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cradle snatcher!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost mine on my 13th birthday to an older girl won't say how old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember mine fondly, he was older and my boyfriend and he went at my pace etc etc, he was just brilliant.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive broken in a few lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think ill use that line on here. It worked for him lol

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

lol gentleman

not so much age but lack of experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first with my first girlfriend it was great as we both wanted it so much but very nervous.

My first time with a guy was disastrous though! He stopped after a bit and said sorry I'm not gay and just walked off!

Got better along the way though.

And now I want to loose my anal cherry as never tried that but wanting to. Anyone interested

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By *allen Madonna OP   Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Be choosy with whom you loose your anal virginity to. Because of the intimate act, you need to be careful that you won't be harmed by someone getting their own gratification and not thinking of you. Get a girl to fuck you with a strap on possibly - ah, yes, yet more virgins I've had!!!!

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