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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all been on fab for a while and have been struggling to

Get a meet with someone

Just wondering if some of you more experienced peeps

Could take a look at my profile and give me some tips and pointers

And tell me where I am going wrong

Thanks in advance. Any advice is welcome

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, get some photos on there, the one you do have shows neither cock or face! Personally I don't respond to any messages where there aren't any decent....or indecent pics lol. Also, the status update is very negative and off-putting! What concerns me is the fact that you've got a massive friends list and are still struggling for meets, do you engage in conversations with any of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive friends list can be a little offputting.

Can't really see anything "wrong" with your profile, but it feels a little "meh", if you see what I mean. No "oomph". It's kinda hard to define, but it's a definite feeling I get from it. After all it's always good to set yourself apart from the hordes. First impressions do count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo's always help. And you seem to have lots of friends visible but your hiding verifications. It can be a bit off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow cheers guys for the rapid response

With regards to verifications

Had some of them from people I had cammed and chatted with

But they have since left the site

I still keep the tick but no comments. Have tried in the past to change this.

Will take on board what you guys have said and will hope that it brings

Some success!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

And of course, you must remember that just cos the ladies on this site are swingers it don't make them easy!

To be honest, unless you are special you may be better off going to a pub or club on a Saturday night! There are way too many single guys looking at a small pool of ladies or trying to get meets with a limited number of couiples who want them.

Don't think the name helps! That to us just says you are looking for BBW's so quite a few may well pass you by. And the BBW's on this site are very well attended so it may make things even more difficult!

We wish you well in your search, but life is tough for the single male...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massive friends list can be a little offputting.

Can't really see anything "wrong" with your profile, but it feels a little "meh", if you see what I mean. No "oomph". It's kinda hard to define, but it's a definite feeling I get from it. After all it's always good to set yourself apart from the hordes. First impressions do count."

That's the same impression I have I'm afraid.

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