FabSwingers.com forum: You've got a wink.....what do you look at first?

By *ouplelookingforadultfun OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

We all get winks, day in, day out.

What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???

We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.

We then check pics.

Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.

Then we read their profile.

What does everyone else do first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much the same ...also I check to see if we have things in common ..location able to travel ..etc etc ..also age is a factor too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile first, so long as it isn't war and peace. Then look at the pics then the veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here really veris then pics then info to see what theyre looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location. Verification. Club goer. Pics.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I normally go into a kind of catatonic shock that some form of social contact has been made on my profile ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read the profile first, so long as it isn't war and peace. Then look at the pics then the veri's

If they are unverified I go no further though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to read the profile to see if we are suited, then look at pics to check if we are attracted then if we are we will wink back or send a message

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I normally pinch myself, make sure it's not a dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that this is a huge task for me

but where they are, then profile, then pics, then verifications.

Location doesn't seem to bother a lot of people when winking, but it is quite important for meets!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't. I mass delete once they get to over 200.

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By *idsTonyMan
over a year ago

RUGBY

For me I look at location then profile then pics.

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Pics, veris, profile

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"We all get winks, day in, day out.

What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???

We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.

We then check pics.

Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.

Then we read their profile.

What does everyone else do first?"

Delete en masse without looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Never get any winks.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't. I mass delete once they get to over 200. "

This: but after five!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's gotta be an initial spark of attraction physically for us so it's pictures first, if they peak an interest then we'll see if we fit their criteria in their profile text. You'd be surprised how many people wouldn't like us according to their text or interests.

If all that matches with what we're looking for and we'd like to go into more depth then we normally message a thanks for the wink and see if there's interest through messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location

pics(do they fullfill my preference)

verifications

any signs that go to partys/clubs

other wise I dont answer and delete weekly

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Burnley

"I normally go into a kind of catatonic shock that some form of social contact has been made on my profile ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all get winks, day in, day out.

What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???

We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.

We then check pics.

Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.

Then we read their profile.

What does everyone else do first?"

Pretty much the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a wink that led to a couple of lovely meets: one social then a play meet. I think I looked firstly at the pics, then read the profile fully, then messaged. We chatted. Met for lunch. Then had a very enjoyable hotel meet and are friends now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check profile, get excited by their pics, message them, wait for reply, wait for reply, wait for reply...shave the icicles off my beard!

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Veris are the last thing we check, everyone has to start somewhere, but before that it all depends on the profile photo. If they don't have one then we go no further, after that we read the profile from top to bottom.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Check profile, get excited by their pics, message them, wait for reply, wait for reply, wait for reply...shave the icicles off my beard! "

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I reply with a message thanking them for there wink , and ask if I would be of interest in what there looking for,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a while since ive had a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hate winks and friend invites with a passion so the first thing we look for is the delete button. We dont bother to read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look I just delete winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this wink thing you talk of? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother to look just assume they've got the wrong person lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I take winks as getting my attention. I'll view the profile and wink back or send a message

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

First thing I check is to see if they have/do meet, then I read the profile and only if I like the sound of them do I look at the photos

Hubby goes straight to the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at location first, then if it's a local, pics, veris and profile text. Then I might wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location, pics and profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i read profile and want to see a face pic, even if private by message. i dont tend to reply to winks but if someone messages me, then i usually reply, not unless there is no attraction

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By *layerzCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Geri's and pictures, though we wouldn't expect anyone to post face pics in their public profile. It's unreasonable to expect others go do things that you are. That said we would expect anyone that wants to send winks to have face pics in their private (for friends only) profile.... just as we do.

If we accepted a friends request and there were no face pics, we would probably delete as a friend... Is that unreasonable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get excited only to find most winks are usually from blokes.... ffs. I still look at profile though cos I'm a nosey bugger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really shocked and have to double check its a wink from a woman lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Their pics to see if their hot as fook ...if so the get a wink back after i pick myself up off the floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start from the top and work my way down, their pictures are the last thing I look at. If there is something on their profile that doesn't appeal then I won't bother with anything else.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I just delete them all... don't look, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get really shocked and have to double check its a wink from a woman lol

know the feeling mate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get really shocked and have to double check its a wink from a woman lol

know the feeling mate lol"

Whats a wink?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get really shocked and have to double check its a wink from a woman lol

know the feeling mate lol

Whats a wink????? "
YEs its like once a month maibe a wink or so

Not sure think its if u get a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really look but when we do straight to the profile and perv the pics

(then read it of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all get winks, day in, day out.

What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???

We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.

We then check pics.

Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.

Then we read their profile.

What does everyone else do first?"
normally delete as see it as lazy chancers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

distance often is first glance - then the rest of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will or won't meet smokers. How long they've been on the site. Location. Profile text. Pics.

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

When you open the profile it says where they are.

Scroll down, see the pics, see the veris.

If interested read the profile, check the public gallery, check the veris.

Chances are you have some mutual veris and maybe go to the same places or parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get winks day in and day out???

When, and IF, I get one, I'll be sure to let you know what I do, after I come round and put some ice on the back of my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile, check for height,location, and then look at pics . . If they're all cock shots I tend to delete. To me verifications only show that some one is 'genuine'-doesn't mean they're for us . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The size of his cock obviously

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

On the odd occasion I do get a wink, it's pics first, then location. Veris & then profile.

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

"The size of his cock obviously

Always a good selling point

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Check the top of the page to ensure its my profile....

Then check again........lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The size of his cock obviously

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And the 6pack 2 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics before anything if we don't fancy them we don't care if they are as nice as mother Theresa

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I normally go into a kind of catatonic shock that some form of social contact has been made on my profile ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics (dick pics everywhere means I'll just leave)

If there's an attraction (no dick pics), I check how long they've been on site and whether or not they're verified.

Then I check height and profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geri's and pictures, though we wouldn't expect anyone to post face pics in their public profile. It's unreasonable to expect others go do things that you are. That said we would expect anyone that wants to send winks to have face pics in their private (for friends only) profile.... just as we do.

If we accepted a friends request and there were no face pics, we would probably delete

as a friend... Is that unreasonable?"

Totally agree, we look at whether they have veris but don't necessarily read them, then profile for similarities and then pictures for visual stimulation. We wink people as an ice breaker as there's not a smile button which is what we'd do if out and about. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First veris, pics and read profile to if we have similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First veris, pics and read profile to if we have similar interests.

Couldn't resist winking you despite the distance. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to get your first veri is a bloody nightmare, i'm guessing once you can get one or two you are away, but this first one jeez!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel really bad because I just don't get chance to check all the winks, I do try and answer all messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How mad they are

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we check that the profile has more than three words, then check pics then check veris, if all is good we message..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I remember to check then...

Username...some are really off putting

Age and distance

Pictures ans stats etc like hight

Profile text then lastly Varies

I can stop reading at any point

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We usually skip the men, message the women, judge couples on pictures and profile as to how genuine they seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reply with a message thanking them for there wink , and ask if I would be of interest in what there looking for,

doesn't the wink indicate their interest in the first place? That's why i send a few winks out alongside messages.

Reading the comments from men about *shock* and *icicles*, same here!!!

Reading comments from women is helping to give me insight into how women react to initial contact *applications* from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for any Arse Pics(Female)

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can/can't accommodate, height, location, profile, veris, pics....in that order

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley

It seems to me that it makes no difference what I look at. For every single wink I've ever received, when I reply with a message, no further response! Are they just winding me up?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check the profile to see if they match what I'm looking for and vice versa. Check pics if available, send a thanks message and hopefully make some social connection and see where it leads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a wink, usually check for either a blue moon or hell freezing over lol

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley

"If I get a wink, usually check for either a blue moon or hell freezing over lol "

Amen to that!

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