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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we do everything in the bedroom department with other couples except full penertration thats for ourselves while we are on a meet,we love to be watched and to watch what do you think about this,we love each other to much to fuck somebody else,who would be happy with this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you do and what boundaries you have would be respected by any halfway decent couple. If they didn't like it, they won't meet you.

From our perspective, we'd be just as happy with a really horny soft meet as much as anything more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agreed, if everyones happy and the boundaries are clear then a fun night can be had

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"we do everything in the bedroom department with other couples except full penertration thats for ourselves while we are on a meet,we love to be watched and to watch what do you think about this,we love each other to much to fuck somebody else,who would be happy with this xx "

If it works for you and the others then that's just perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lifestyle is all about what you or you and your partner want to do. What anyone else thinks is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone had their own boundaries. I'm sure there are others our there that will be happy with your requirements and go with it.

I'm (hopefully) meeting a couple next week that want to just flirt and flash. They've been clear up front they're not after anything physical. Their limits, their rules and to be honest I'm as excited as a kiddie in a sweet shop even though I already know nothing more will come of it.

Have a brilliant and enjoyable time doing what you're comfortable with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only soft swing, find it a huge turn on watching and being watched and saving penetration for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou for all your nice answers and happy soft swing to all you genuine couples on here xx

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham


"We only soft swing, find it a huge turn on watching and being watched and saving penetration for ourselves. "

That's what we find as well well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thankyou for all your nice answers and happy soft swing to all you genuine couples on here xx"

Its good you have worked it out before you started. Unfortunately my partner and I didn't. I thought I would be ok with full swap but when I saw a woman (I want to use a different noun) writhing and moaning loudly on his cock, I freaked, I mean I really freaked, I wanted to kill. Instead I grabbed my clothes and left the hotel room, getting dressed in the corridor, completely distraught.We still swing but only soft stuff and I'm fine with that. It was, for me, just a step too far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou for your reply thats what we couldnt cope with seeing each other being fucked by somebody else thats why we love soft swing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we do everything in the bedroom department with other couples except full penertration thats for ourselves while we are on a meet,we love to be watched and to watch what do you think about this,we love each other to much to fuck somebody else,who would be happy with this xx "

The soft swing would be fine by us but I dont play only Emily so nobody can watch us.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Due to having a back injury i save penetrative sex for my good lady, and indulge anything other than that with the other female of a couple, and obviously with my partner.

Having said that, she is free to have sex with the guy if she wishes to, as I don't have a problem with that at all and it's totally her choice.

When telling couples this in the past many have said "Well we won't swing with you if your partner is jealous of you having sex with my wife"!

My reply is simple..."She's not jealous, it's MY choice, and these are OUR boundaries, if you don't like them feel free to delete, block and move on"!!!

It works for us, and as long as everyone is happy with that we're all on to a winner.

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By *estyorkscplrusCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Knowing what you want and what works for you is the best thing by far.

We are only into soft also and found it works for us.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

The Reading area and surrounding areas seem quite hard for finding soft swing couples!

Seems it's all or nothing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When I joined fab, I thought 'soft swing' was sex on a pile of cushions or bed or sofa as opposed to the carpet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must agree fully with all on here. ALL eventualities are fine if made clear before hand.

Myself I much prefer full pleasure (obviously as a single guy) but even when I play with a fwb to make up foursome.

I have, and will, meet with soft swing couples...the last two, however, finished up going much further. Think they (maybe others?) had put soft swing so they could be 100% sure before going further....that seems fair to me too! If you get more than you expected then not likely to complain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only soft swing , we love being watched and watching others , it can be very erotic

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We only do soft swap were happy

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