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what is bi or gay??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personaly i dont class myself as bi, gay or strieght although im as comfy with both!!! For me its the pleasure that counts!!! Plz give your thoughts

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am bisexual because I have sexual contact with both sexes.... I like to keep it simple.

and I am very comfortable with the label.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My profile explains....

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

(mr) hmmm i consider myself straight due the the fact sexual contact with other males does nothing for me. Been there tried it now decided not for me. However i dont find it uncomfortable like some people do just plain neutral.

(mrs) considers herself bi as she enjoys sexual contact with both male and female either as a group situation or as solo play with another person. (i just think she is greedy and doesnt like to miss out on something XD )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personaly i dont class myself as bi, gay or strieght although im as comfy with both!!! For me its the pleasure that counts!!! Plz give your thoughts"

Surely if you're comfortable having sex with men or women then it's simple. You're bi sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personaly i dont class myself as bi, gay or strieght although im as comfy with both!!! For me its the pleasure that counts!!! Plz give your thoughts

Surely if you're comfortable having sex with men or women then it's simple. You're bi sexual."

Yup your profile says you will suck guys so you are bisexual.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and a bit confused with which I prefer. Both make me horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fuck men I fuck women. I enjoy both so I'm bi. Quite simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personaly i dont class myself as bi, gay or strieght although im as comfy with both!!! For me its the pleasure that counts!!! Plz give your thoughts"

Hmm not sure. I get turned on by a guy sucking me off but don't find men attractive, I prefer women's bodies - and their company too.

So my answer is probably 'confused'?

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Sexuality is a spectrum.

It only fits into boxes for people who feel the need to understand so they can like or dislike something, in my opinion.

There are a lot of things in the world that I don't understand and that's fine, I don't need to pigeon hole things or be judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi and love it. Simple. I fuck men and woman

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Sexuality is a spectrum.

It only fits into boxes for people who feel the need to understand so they can like or dislike something, in my opinion.

There are a lot of things in the world that I don't understand and that's fine, I don't need to pigeon hole things or be judgemental. "

Pretty much this ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality is a spectrum.

It only fits into boxes for people who feel the need to understand so they can like or dislike something, in my opinion.

There are a lot of things in the world that I don't understand and that's fine, I don't need to pigeon hole things or be judgemental. "

It's not being judgemental or pigeon holing someone to say if they enjoy sex with men and women that they're bi sexual. It's just a fact. Same as if you only want to have sex with the opposite sex you're heterosexual.

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

I am fully bi and happy with the label, we need to way to describe our sexual tastes somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has a guy am st8 but when im dressed as Samantha im bi and love it ive got the best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi-sexual as enjoy sharing couples in a 3som, I tend to only play with woman when sharing a man, not with woman alone.its just what I like personally

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

What I meant when I said about pigeon holing is that I've recently heard a few people describe themselves outside of the straight/bi/gay boxes.

Heteexible, homoflexible, asexual - it's part of the spectrum but they don't see themselves as bisexual.

When you see yourself clearly defined as straight/bi/gay then you probably don't have a problem with it. But people who see themselves as alternative to those constructs probably do feel pigeon holed.

Thinking of sexuality as a spectrum allows people to choose their own (or not choose any at all) and not have categories forced upon them.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

I have no idea why the emote is coming up - it should spell Hete-ro-flexible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea why the emote is coming up - it should spell Hete-ro-flexible.

"
Hahahah! I quite like that emote word, it looks very happy with it's sexuality!

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality is a spectrum.

It only fits into boxes for people who feel the need to understand so they can like or dislike something, in my opinion.

There are a lot of things in the world that I don't understand and that's fine, I don't need to pigeon hole things or be judgemental.

It's not being judgemental or pigeon holing someone to say if they enjoy sex with men and women that they're bi sexual. It's just a fact. Same as if you only want to have sex with the opposite sex you're heterosexual."

EXACTLY

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

If you like sex only with the opposite sex, your straight.

If you like sex with men and women, you're bi-sexual.

If you like sex ONLY with the same sex as you, you're gay.......simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have to label myself then pansexual it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I have to label myself then pansexual it is x"

Id say you were just Sexy Punks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now consider myself bi-sexual. Before I came on to this site I had never been in a situation where I could 'play' with a woman. Once I tried it, I made myself bi-curious because I enjoyed it, but you can only stay bi-curious for so long. I've always thought there should be a bi-playful option though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I have to label myself then pansexual it is x

Id say you were just Sexy Punks x"

And this is why you're my number one fan xxx

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