FabSwingers.com forum: Women on here are objects

By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Apparently, thats what i have just been messaged, how dare i think i have standards as im on a swinging site and all women are objects just to meet fuck and job done....

And apparently its people like me who ruin the site

(P.s UNLOS)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah well never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(P.s UNLOS)

Well there's a surprise, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well logically speaking, women are objects. As are men. Because we exist. But I don't think he was thinking in terms of metaphysics or philosophy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were an object what object would I like to be

I'm going to have to think about that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had the same the other day. The message was to Paul (my pet hate) and was all about what he would like to do etc and I couldn't resist replying asking why he thinks that would work and his reply was basically that I'm my husbands (were not married) property and I should do what my husband wants so to wait till my husband has seen the message please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm makes ya wonder if you was an object what object would you be,,an arm chair,a vase,a door,a hoover?

gosh makes ya think eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hmmm makes ya wonder if you was an object what object would you be,,an arm chair,a vase,a door,a hoover?

gosh makes ya think eh

Well great minds think a like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I were an object what object would I like to be

I'm going to have to think about that one

an object of desire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes some men think some pick you up and dump you if you let them .....but theres some good ones on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I were an object what object would I like to be

I'm going to have to think about that one

an object of desire?

Oh yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, how dare you ruin the site like that, didn't you understand, you girls are all just so much 'meat'. Now get on your back, spread em and stop whinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely, how dare you ruin the site like that, didn't you understand, you girls are all just so much 'meat'. Now get on your back, spread em and stop whinging

huh men eh?,,deary me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there's a few men on here who've come out from the stone age due to some temporal time rift. They've managed to master some rudimentary language but that's about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely, how dare you ruin the site like that, didn't you understand, you girls are all just so much 'meat'. Now get on your back, spread em and stop whinging

Lol

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

There will sadly always be a few rude and inconsiderate people who don't see the person at either end of a message as a real person.

In my thinking you could say that ladies and couples who don't reply to polite emails are also unthinkingly treating the writer as someone who has no feelings...an object!

retires back into bunker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An object.....how about a rolling pin or a frying pan to hit him over the head with!! How rude!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I get man handled,stroked,licked and unmentionable things done to me I do not object to being an object. I do try to not objectify men though

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"An object.....how about a rolling pin or a frying pan to hit him over the head with!! How rude!!

I know lol thats only a bit of how rude it was didnt want to go into too much detail, altho he did make a username specifically aimed at mine insulting me

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By *uy4couplesMan
over a year ago

south kent

yes some men think some pick you up and dump you if you let them .....but theres some good ones on here too

i agree , im only up the road if you fancy a chat some time. x and no i think your beautiful not just an object, lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I object

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"hmmm makes ya wonder if you was an object what object would you be,,an arm chair,a vase,a door,a hoover?

gosh makes ya think eh

I'd be a big chest, but not an antique one. Probably one put in the loft and kept out of the way of visitors.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hmmm makes ya wonder if you was an object what object would you be,,an arm chair,a vase,a door,a hoover?

gosh makes ya think eh

I'd be a big chest, but not an antique one. Probably one put in the loft and kept out of the way of visitors.

oh sod the modesty id be a sex machine n fuck the tits off ya

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

oh sod the modesty id be a sex machine n fuck the tits off ya

I don't suppose you've kidnapped a mutual male friend of ours who has left the site? He posted his goodbyes yesterday. There was speculation that he'd eloped with one of us. It isn't me, so that just leaves you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well how rude is that no woman is an object and should not be treated as one so bloke the cave man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes some men think some pick you up and dump you if you let them .....but theres some good ones on here too"

Its nsa

Ive picked men up and dumped them,didn't realise I had a binding contract to keep seeing them

Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh sod the modesty id be a sex machine n fuck the tits off ya

And it's not me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf."

Imagine being the last can in a famine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh sod the modesty id be a sex machine n fuck the tits off ya

And it's not me! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently, thats what i have just been messaged, how dare i think i have standards as im on a swinging site and all women are objects just to meet fuck and job done....

And apparently its people like me who ruin the site

(P.s UNLOS)

Well just behave yourself and tow the line then....god!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women are a beutiful object all dif shapes and size best thing God created appart from there mood swings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a whole lot worse over the years . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(him) was un a chat room and some bloke must have thought it was the wife the pm that came through was "hey doll have you been trained yet" wtf is that about i replied politely " no shes not a dog but you need some manners" and blocked him,thought it to be very rude at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately there's a few men on here who've come out from the stone age due to some temporal time rift. They've managed to master some rudimentary language but that's about it"

I'm surprised that some people are surprised that some people have attitudes like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes some men think some pick you up and dump you if you let them .....but theres some good ones on here too

Its nsa

Ive picked men up and dumped them,didn't realise I had a binding contract to keep seeing them

Ooops

Don't you know what nsa means? It's the next thing down from marriage. Hearts, flowers, stalking, exclusivity, hissy fits, jealousy......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently, thats what i have just been messaged, how dare i think i have standards as im on a swinging site and all women are objects just to meet fuck and job done....

And apparently its people like me who ruin the site

(P.s UNLOS)

Why let it bother you? Same old fab... Small number of numpties who can't handle rejection!

I had a woman the other day saying how I should be grateful that she messaged me and went on a rant because I said she wasn't my type.

Water off a ducks back lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf.

Imagine being the last can in a famine"
with no tin opener!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the reason i stay well clear of profiles that state the male wants another female to join in and put a show on with his wife/gf.

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

"If I were an object what object would I like to be

I'm going to have to think about that one

an object of desire?

Perfect description.....Mwah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women are a beutiful object all dif shapes and size best thing God created appart from there mood swings

But see why refer to the woman as an object she is a person a human not something to buy in a shop and discard of later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are walking sex objects lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its guys like that puts us off meeting single males which is unfortunate as there are some lovely guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather wank, than have an emotionless shag with 'an object'. I've met women who want to be used and abused, but only in the confines of a meet and, whilst it's great fun at the time, I couldn't really think of someone like that. I still struggle with the concept of not caring fort, respecting, liking (whatever you want to call it) someone I want to have sex with. NSA yes but not NEA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women are a beutiful object all dif shapes and size best thing God created appart from there mood swings

But see why refer to the woman as an object she is a person a human not something to buy in a shop and discard of later "

Didn't mean it in that way yeah should of said human rather than object

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women are objects on here, then they're apples hanging from a tree, and single males are the ones jumping up and down till they're panting and sweating trying to get them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf."

I don't mind being left on the shelf...I just like to get taken down and dusted occasionally...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol so.basically your and objecting object... he sounds like a right charmer (idiot). The only object around here is my fellas big fat object that never objects lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather wank, than have an emotionless shag with 'an object'. I've met women who want to be used and abused, but only in the confines of a meet and, whilst it's great fun at the time, I couldn't really think of someone like that. I still struggle with the concept of not caring fort, respecting, liking (whatever you want to call it) someone I want to have sex with. NSA yes but not NEA "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

A woman is only an object if she allows herself to be.

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Wouldn't it be fairer to say that men are often talked of like objects on here? Its not unusual for profiles or adverts to seek meets entirely on the basis of cock size, race etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I would use the word 'Object' in reference to a woman would be to describe her as an 'object of desire'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well logically speaking, women are objects. As are men. Because we exist. But I don't think he was thinking in terms of metaphysics or philosophy."

pmsl......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read. And re-read some. Women an Object. All I can say is ... How dare ANYONE have the right to be so rude. We are all human and special and yes we are all here for the same reason but that does NOT give anyone the right to be rude about anyone. I say kick off the rude ones. PS I have met some amazing people on here and some have become gr8 friends. Shame the nasty ones feel they need to spoil the party. BUT that's just my opinion so don't bite me.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Unfortunately there's a few men on here who've come out from the stone age due to some temporal time rift. They've managed to master some rudimentary language but that's about it"

Did Vicci Boy go into Funkys room again? He warned himself not to, that shit could be serious.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

"As long as I get man handled,stroked,licked and unmentionable things done to me I do not object to being an object. I do try to not objectify men though

Can we volunteer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I were an object what object would I like to be

I'm going to have to think about that one

an object of desire?

I'm an object of derision!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a woman who objects to not getting fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a woman who objects to not getting fucked

Just one woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf."

This... All the guys saying otherwise are playing the gentleman card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf.

This... All the guys saying otherwise are playing the gentleman card. "

I've learned that it's incredibly naive to think that all people think the same as you. That's what makes us all different (thank god). As I said, I would rather wank than fuck a piece of meat or object. If that's what gets you off, happy days. It's very dangerous to assume we all have the same feelings, desires and needs. I want passion, sensual erotic tactile sex, and my friends will tell you I'm getting it thanks very much. I don't just to stuff my cock in any hole. I want the real thing, not a half arsed charade. My friends will also tell you, I'm no gentleman where appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a woman who objects to not getting fucked

Just one woman?"

No I know quite a few women

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

"He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf.

This... All the guys saying otherwise are playing the gentleman card.

This is a very valid point

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

"He's probably right...

I see myself as nothing more than a product... You attempt to make the best, most attractive packaging you can and market the hell out of yourself...

We all use, get used and ultimately serve somebody...

I embrace objectification, just don't be the last can of beans in the shelf.

This... All the guys saying otherwise are playing the gentleman card.

This is a very valid point

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