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By *bi Haive OP   Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

What are folks views on this?

On other sites the rules are often different - many won't allow pictures of anyone other than the profile owner to be uploaded.

Whilst it's common that people will upload pics containing others taken on meets (presumably with the consent of those they've met!), abiding by the rules regarding hiding identities/visible features such as tattoos etc., is there an argument to prevent people uploading 'play' pics before they've been verified as 'meet in person' ?

Obviously there's no issue with a couple posting play pictures of activities between just themselves but surely unverified singles/couples using images of others is a bit dubious - there's the likelihood that the other parties don't know they're being used by another to attract interest and also the possibility that they've simply been plucked off the net.

Whilst applying a system where another site member could 'tag' themselves in a pic or give confirmation that they're happy for it to be used might be both complex and costly to adopt - a block on uploading images portraying others before being verified would be simple enough to administer.

Just wondered what others views were? Do these pics interest/attract you? Or make you head straight for 'google reverse' or avoid those particular profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume they've been on the scene for a while,I can use google if something seems strange but it would be a culmination of things that would put me off a profile not just a play pic from someone unverified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a good way to reduce stolen pics and fake profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the beauty of Fab is that it isnt policed like other sites . And after been on here a while u soon become good at sniffing out the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play pics on single profiles do put us off full stop.

Interesting idea obi we would be happy if it was implemented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask who is in the pic seeing as they are unverified they usually say an ex girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ask who is in the pic seeing as they are unverified they usually say an ex girlfriend. "

As long as they dont say " my mother " its ok

Lol

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By *uitsnbootsMan
over a year ago

kent


"I ask who is in the pic seeing as they are unverified they usually say an ex girlfriend.

As long as they dont say " my mother " its ok

Lol"

As long as they don't say "your mother" it's ok...

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By *bi Haive OP   Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I ask who is in the pic seeing as they are unverified they usually say an ex girlfriend.

As long as they dont say " my mother " its ok

Lol

As long as they don't say "your mother" it's ok..."

Or - your nan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or ya Grandad !

Lol

Now were just getting silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha jesus now your getting silly, I think the mother comment was pushing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing is some people don't like or don't want verifications, so they may have met others and possibly taken pics of play during the meets but either not received a veri or just don't display the veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what the difference is between verified and non-verified profiles with this. If it's clearly not the person/ couple, doesn't matter if they are verified or not. The other person may or may not have given consent. Even with verified profiles, the person in the pic may not be on this site. It can't be policed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a great idea if implemented. I personally don't put play pics up, just my preference, as I don't want them lurking around the deep dark corners of google.

I do think fab needs to police it better though. I find single profiles looking at my own profile, male and female, with no veris and no pics, not even in private gallery, and I do wonder if they're pic hunters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really really dislike play photos. If it's just between a couple then that's their business if they display them. On a single profile I think it smacks of disrespect. I would assume the other party doesn't know about it which would definitely mean I would not want to play with someone that disrespects play partners that much. Play pics for avatars go even further down in my opinion. Just tacky!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've been meeting men for NSA sex a lot longer than I've been on this site, and I am quite fond of some of my pics

Therefore I believe that assuming someone isn't genuine just because they haven't been verified on THIS site is a bit disingenuous. They might be the biggest tart ever on alternative sites, just a bit slow to start on here.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I really really dislike play photos. If it's just between a couple then that's their business if they display them. On a single profile I think it smacks of disrespect. I would assume the other party doesn't know about it which would definitely mean I would not want to play with someone that disrespects play partners that much. Play pics for avatars go even further down in my opinion. Just tacky!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really really dislike play photos. If it's just between a couple then that's their business if they display them. On a single profile I think it smacks of disrespect. I would assume the other party doesn't know about it which would definitely mean I would not want to play with someone that disrespects play partners that much. Play pics for avatars go even further down in my opinion. Just tacky!"

Agreed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I really really dislike play photos. If it's just between a couple then that's their business if they display them. On a single profile I think it smacks of disrespect. I would assume the other party doesn't know about it which would definitely mean I would not want to play with someone that disrespects play partners that much. Play pics for avatars go even further down in my opinion. Just tacky!"

I asked permission from all the guys who appear in my pics. Any guy says no, that pic isn't uploaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really really dislike play photos. If it's just between a couple then that's their business if they display them. On a single profile I think it smacks of disrespect. I would assume the other party doesn't know about it which would definitely mean I would not want to play with someone that disrespects play partners that much. Play pics for avatars go even further down in my opinion. Just tacky!

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All parties may have given full consent, so in that sense I feel its not disrespectful - but there are some people out there who just don't care, and put play pics up regardless, and that is wholly disrespectful if consent isn't given. Its a minefield!! Play pics on profile just aren't my thing, nor do they attract me to a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really really dislike play photos. If it's just between a couple then that's their business if they display them. On a single profile I think it smacks of disrespect. I would assume the other party doesn't know about it which would definitely mean I would not want to play with someone that disrespects play partners that much. Play pics for avatars go even further down in my opinion. Just tacky!"

I've been the victim in this situation twice....pics used without my permission being sought. On one occasion as an avatar in which I felt I was easily identifiable whilst the owner of the profile was not. It certainly taught me a lesson the hard way about allowing pics to be taken. My view is single profile, no play pics. If there is no way to verify the parties permission then unidentified individuals shouldn't be compromised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if anybody says my daughter theyre dead meat

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