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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it sould not be done if u changed ur account u should get new veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it sould not be done if u changed ur account u should get new veris "

That's our two veris gone, then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does changing your account mean that you never met those that would reverify you?

I'd love to know the thought process behind this one...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got veris on one but never asked to be re veri i just think is cheeky to ask to be it all about cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand this thread ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ? "

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done"

Because they're suddenly less genuine than they were previously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done

Why not?"

Well they are still the same people as they were in their previous profile so why not ask for the verifications to be transferred?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, 70% of (verifications) are falsely done anyway. Just to get people on (FAB) established.

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By *oisisbackCouple
over a year ago

exeter

If someone has a new profile but with different things on it like they are no longer a cpl or now they are both straight etc then you are not actually verifying the same people !

Ive seen some that read " Met xxxxx a couple of years ago on another site and they were really great company"

Is that a true indication of the people at this moment in time ? No , the verification system should be used to verify what that person is like now not that they were a good meet 2 3 4 years ago

When i set up this new account i had 3 people send a verification to help my profile get started and declined their offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion, 70% of (verifications) are falsely done anyway. Just to get people on (FAB) established."

If thats the case why are there so many threads from people asking why its so hard to get verified?

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I got veris on one but never asked to be re veri i just think is cheeky to ask to be it all about cheek "

I've never had to do it because I've never been away however I can see why shouldn't do it. I recently did just that for a lady I know who's rejoined. She's been at my place plenty of times, I've had lots of fun with her, so have others. Those things happened, hopefully they'll be happening again soon. What is the logic of saying that I and others who've met her in the past shouldn't verify her and why shouldn't she verify us, we're all genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done"

Why?? If I know somebody from the swinging world and for some reason they get a new account of course I will re veri them. I know them ffs. Fab isnt all fantasy you know some people actually exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done

Why?? If I know somebody from the swinging world and for some reason they get a new account of course I will re veri them. I know them ffs. Fab isnt all fantasy you know some people actually exist "

You trying to tell me that someone who loves chicken as much as me actually exist?

No clucking way!!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done

Why?? If I know somebody from the swinging world and for some reason they get a new account of course I will re veri them. I know them ffs. Fab isnt all fantasy you know some people actually exist "

People actually do meet from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a veri should stay whether the user have left or changed name. As now it wont show how good I was

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

What a strange thing to say.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think a veri should stay whether the user have left or changed name. As now it wont show how good I was "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done

Why?? If I know somebody from the swinging world and for some reason they get a new account of course I will re veri them. I know them ffs. Fab isnt all fantasy you know some people actually exist

You trying to tell me that someone who loves chicken as much as me actually exist?

No clucking way!!

"

lol. No I was a hologram. A chicken loving hologram. (The chicken was real lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to be changing my user name soon. So should i lose my veris? See I won't be chellesterfem and will need to re introduce myself to those ive met (the poor sods)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean like it didn't happen,you were never there,they aren't really who they say they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone has a new profile but with different things on it like they are no longer a cpl or now they are both straight etc then you are not actually verifying the same people !

Ive seen some that read " Met xxxxx a couple of years ago on another site and they were really great company"

Is that a true indication of the people at this moment in time ? No , the verification system should be used to verify what that person is like now not that they were a good meet 2 3 4 years ago

When i set up this new account i had 3 people send a verification to help my profile get started and declined their offer "

I've got a veri from someone I met 2 years ago from another site. I'm still female, I still exist, I still look pretty much the same, I still have the same personality, reliability and level of gag reflex. So why shouldn't that person verify me?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done"

I really don't see why it bothers you

p.s. this is my second profile any old friends feel free to re verify me

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

It was a dream....like Dallas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should not be verifyed from another account that major no no

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"It was a dream....like Dallas"

Who's that getting out of the shower?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should not be verifyed from another account that major no no "

Why

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've reverified someone. He was a nice guy when we met a profile ago and he's still a nice guy. I speak to him outside of Fab now and then so if he pops back on here I'm more than prepared to reverify him again. He does still exist in real life so why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done"

Ahhh I've got you now , I don't see what the problem myself which is just as well seeing as how when I rejoined my first veri was a re veri

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Does anyone wonder if no one will re verify the OP but they are happy to re verify another person who the OP no longer has any contact with? Perhaps just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should not be verifyed from another account that major no no "

Why?? If you know them why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been reverified by people I met previously, I did not ask them too but I do not see why people cannot ask to be verified again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If u want to b3 re verified go meet again an have more fun

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"If u want to b3 re verified go meet again an have more fun "

that makes no sense I think you have the misunderstood the meaning and point of a verification it is to verify that somebody is a genuine and real person not a description of your last sexual encounter also you don't always to "have fun" to be able to verify someone

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"If u want to b3 re verified go meet again an have more fun "

you are on a wind up, only explanation as to why you would make and keep going with a silly thread, a verification isnt there to reveal about the most recent encounter or to keep upto date with what people are doing, its there to get an idea that the person/people have met people and are in fact who they claim to be on there profile, you have got to be trying to wind people up with this thread and comments.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I can verify I'm genuinely really confused by this thread!

I might have to revisit it a few times to make sure I don't write anything that I might repeat at a later time!

A

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I got veris on one but never asked to be re veri i just think is cheeky to ask to be it all about cheek "

I do quite well off my cheek on here. Both of them.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"If u want to b3 re verified go meet again an have more fun

you are on a wind up, only explanation as to why you would make and keep going with a silly thread, a verification isnt there to reveal about the most recent encounter or to keep upto date with what people are doing, its there to get an idea that the person/people have met people and are in fact who they claim to be on there profile, you have got to be trying to wind people up with this thread and comments. "

He's only keeping this up because there's something that's got to him. I think someone is not re-verifying while re-verifying someone else

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Surely a veri is simply to say that you are who you claim to be (be it female, couple or male) and that you turn up when a meet is arranged.

If it's the same person (or persons) surely the veri still applies.

I've seen a few 'new' profiles with a list of half a dozen veris in as many days, but most start "met xyz a while ago on another profile/site...". Anyone reading that can make of it what they will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to be changing my user name soon. So should i lose my veris? See I won't be chellesterfem and will need to re introduce myself to those ive met (the poor sods)"

Squirtle turtle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A veri is merely a way of proving someone exists. Doesn't really matter what their username is or where they met. Certainly doesn't matter what they got up to.

If you have met the person, you have met the person. That is the crux of the matter

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I think it sould not be done if u changed ur account u should get new veris

That's our two veris gone, then "

I'd like to be able to verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone translate please do not understand post.

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I think it sould not be done if u changed ur account u should get new veris "

And as with all the previous comments, to which I completely agree with, it is still up to you to take a look at any verifications on any profile and make a decision based on that, if they have been received or "earned " then why should they not be still valid ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u want to b3 re verified go meet again an have more fun

that makes no sense I think you have the misunderstood the meaning and point of a verification it is to verify that somebody is a genuine and real person not a description of your last sexual encounter also you don't always to "have fun" to be able to verify someone "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done"

we have a new profile and have not once asked anyone to re-veri us . they have done it own there own accord,so does that mean they are wrong for wanting to let people know they are our friends and have great meets with us?

him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see two sides of this argument.

I can see the validity in OP's comments in respect of those who choose, for whatever reasons, to leave fab, only to return at a later date. Of course, they will have lost all verification's when they deleted their account, and are essentially setting up a completely new profile.

I can also understand the position that some take regarding asking those that know them to 're-verify', but in response to this, I would just make the comment that if someone I had met left the site, I would lose any veri's they had given me - which don't re-appear when they re-join. Yes, it's possible that they may 're-verify' me once I have 're-verified' them, but there's no guarantee now is there.

And again, as someone else has said, what if a couple's account is deleted, maybe due to separation, and they both come back as singles.

I'm not sure that completely banning the practice is either practical or the right thing to do. I guess site admin may have their own views on this, but in my opinion, the only way to effectively eradicate this would be to have a system that was tied into some form of appointment system, that you make your meet arrangements through - which, after the time of the meet will prompt for certain responses such as whether the other party turned up etc.

Even then, this could be open to abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to be changing my user name soon. So should i lose my veris? See I won't be chellesterfem and will need to re introduce myself to those ive met (the poor sods)

Squirtle turtle?"

I can't remember what we said. Something about a tortoise? I'm not going for iced twat. Imagine the shame at socials lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of the lovely ladies I have met on here have left the site for all sorts of reasons, if they chose to rejoin, I would happily re-verify them, I know they are real, and I know what it was like, what's the problem ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's to stop anyone, even a newbie/pic collector from posting saying they had dozens of veris previously and hoping lots of actual strangers would give a veri where it's not deserved - specially if there is hint of rampant sex with non existant female from pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changing profile name shouldn't lose existing veris, closing and starting new profile would. But who's to say the new account is actually related to the old account?

I could start new profile claiming I was YOU , even pinch and crop/doctor copies of your pics, and hope to adopt all your friends and veris - would your friends really know??

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I could start new profile claiming I was YOU , even pinch and crop/doctor copies of your pics, and hope to adopt all your friends and veris - would your friends really know??"

yes when the friends bring up old times and you have no idea what there talking about or when they invite you to come round again and you have no idea where to go

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I could start new profile claiming I was YOU , even pinch and crop/doctor copies of your pics, and hope to adopt all your friends and veris - would your friends really know??"

The last guy I reverified I texted him first to ask if he wanted me to. Someone would have had to have his phone number, his photos, his personal details, his mannerisms and his specific brand of forum banter to adopt his persona. And it wouldn't have achieved anything if they had anyway. So yes, logistically speaking you could but it would be an absolutely pointless exercise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a veri. Not a big deal nor the end of the world. Everyone's still got to do their own sussing out if a person is genuine or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread ?

I have seen few profiles saying about new profils ppl asking friends to re verify them its out of order an think it shouldnt be done"

Why not?

They have met, they are who they say they are and are genuine ?!

We have veris on our profile from people who we have met on old profile x

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Changing profile name shouldn't lose existing veris, closing and starting new profile would. But who's to say the new account is actually related to the old account?

I could start new profile claiming I was YOU , even pinch and crop/doctor copies of your pics, and hope to adopt all your friends and veris - would your friends really know??"

Well a lot of our veris would guess things were not legit as they text us and are friends with us on Facebook.

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