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"Yes quite a few xx " oh right i just havent seen any profile yet. | |||
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"What's the risk caused by having sex during pregnancy?" Are you serious?!! | |||
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"What's the risk caused by having sex during pregnancy? Are you serious?!! " I thought I was....so went to Google to check. There was nothing to worry about, other than avoiding STI's (well, that's no different to usual, we all want to avoid them)..assuming the pregnancy isn't a risky one. So, given that I have no experience, and your reaction suggests I'm missing something......what? | |||
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"There was nothing to worry about, other than avoiding STI's (well, that's no different to usual, we all want to avoid them)..assuming the pregnancy isn't a risky one. So, given that I have no experience, and your reaction suggests I'm missing something......what?" That was my understanding too. | |||
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"What's the risk caused by having sex during pregnancy? Are you serious?!! I thought I was....so went to Google to check. There was nothing to worry about, other than avoiding STI's (well, that's no different to usual, we all want to avoid them)..assuming the pregnancy isn't a risky one. So, given that I have no experience, and your reaction suggests I'm missing something......what?" No, you're not missing anything! For me, when I was pregnant I didn't empty my cat litter tray, certainly didn't smoke or drink, eat under cooked meats, soft cheeses etc, and it certainly wouldn't have crossed my mind to have sex with strangers who also have sex with strangers. Add to that, having sex with my husband was extra special, and our time. Other women won't see it the same way: plenty of pregnant women on porn sites gang banging bareback who don't give it a second thought! | |||
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"Other women won't see it the same way: plenty of pregnant women on porn sites gang banging bareback who don't give it a second thought!" Can you point me in the direction of these porn sites you speak of | |||
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"Other women won't see it the same way: plenty of pregnant women on porn sites gang banging bareback who don't give it a second thought! Can you point me in the direction of these porn sites you speak of " Perve! | |||
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"I'm with Sassymiss on this one. As minimal as it may seem it's not worth the risk IMO. If my partner was pregnant I certainly wouldn't want us to play with others, personally I would prefer it that it was just the two of us, after all the child growing would matter to us more than anyone else. Besides, I wouldn't like those hormones to unbalance Each to their own as ever, but for me that would be a special time for us both to appreciate." That's the way I see it: a special time for the couple, not to be shared with strangers. | |||
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"I would have no problem having sex with a pregnant woman. Its on my 'to do' list " Ha!! Beat ya!! Ok, ok, it was with my own wife but hey, it's fookin brilliant and then afterwards when they're lactating and sitting on top of you with a milky boob in your gob and your cock in their pussy... man, it's just heavenly!! | |||
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"On another site I'm on there are always pregnant women advertising for meets. Personally I think they're very selfish: I also include pregnant women you see puffing away on cigarettes, knocking back the booze and taking drugs! Why put your unborn child at risk for your own selfish pleasure?!! "Each to their own" I guess!" Not sure about the swinging bit but not all 'pregnant women seen puffing away on cigarettes' are doing so out of choice believe it or not. I consulted my midwife on finding out I was pregnant a few yrs ago and was told by her and my consultant that it was actually just as dangerous to stop smoking during pregnancy as it was to be actually smoking. Not sure how accurate their advice was but as medical experts I trusted their advice and gave up once had given birth........twins both being 5lb + each at birth at 37 wks (which is classed as full term with twins) Sorry not a dig but just wanted to give my input as know ppl looked down at me when was 'puffing away' but rather that than put my unborn babies through what could have been serious withdrawl symtoms | |||
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"I was given the opposite advice when i was pregnant with the youngest,i was told to pack in straight away.. But that was 13 years ago so advice might have changed since then x" Me too when I had my 1st 12 yrs ago..........could just have been a thing with twins or completely wrong advice I was given but at the time I did trust in my consultant who had given same advice as midwife As mentioned before, it was not a dig by any means as I used to be disgusted if saw preg woman with fag in her hand but am now open minded to the fact that they could have been given same advice as me | |||
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"I was given the opposite advice when i was pregnant with the youngest,i was told to pack in straight away.. But that was 13 years ago so advice might have changed since then x Me too when I had my 1st 12 yrs ago..........could just have been a thing with twins or completely wrong advice I was given but at the time I did trust in my consultant who had given same advice as midwife As mentioned before, it was not a dig by any means as I used to be disgusted if saw preg woman with fag in her hand but am now open minded to the fact that they coulÞd have been given same advice as me" I didn't take it as a dig: we're each entitled to our opinions. Personally I wouldn't puff away whilst pregnant. As for professional advice: well we chose to listen to who gives us the answer we want don't we? Lawyers all study the same principles but take differing sides in court. One doctor told me to have a hysterectomy, another in the same clinic said why bother, you'll be in menopause soon. I don't want a hysterectomy, so guess which one I listened to?!! | |||
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"maybe im daft but surely if youre planning to get pregnent youd stop smoking before trying ????? yes i know some pregnacies arent planned but must be good number that are, and yet women still continue smoking dispite the risks http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/404372.stm sorry but even if baby wasnt planned i wouldnt want to continue the risks .if you choose to smoke thats ur indervidual choice, ur child doesnt have that choice .being a parent in my book means putting ur childs welfare first and foremost and that starts before their born . " I completely agree, you should put your unborn child first...which is why i think it would be rather selfish to be still swinging when pregnant. the childs welfare should be paramount and whilst i am completely opposed to judging others, this is something i just dont approve of. A strange man that has a desire to screw a pregnant woman is wanting you for just that reason,because you are pregnant, so both of you are using your child in one way or another to meet those needs. will wait to be attacked for that comment i was extremely horny when i was pregnant, my partner was petrified to touch me...but i would never have dreamed of letting someone else have me. | |||
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"maybe im daft but surely if youre planning to get pregnent youd stop smoking before trying ????? yes i know some pregnacies arent planned but must be good number that are, and yet women still continue smoking dispite the risks http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/404372.stm sorry but even if baby wasnt planned i wouldnt want to continue the risks .if you choose to smoke thats ur indervidual choice, ur child doesnt have that choice .being a parent in my book means putting ur childs welfare first and foremost and that starts before their born . I completely agree, you should put your unborn child first...which is why i think it would be rather selfish to be still swinging when pregnant. the childs welfare should be paramount and whilst i am completely opposed to judging others, this is something i just dont approve of. A strange man that has a desire to screw a pregnant woman is wanting you for just that reason,because you are pregnant, so both of you are using your child in one way or another to meet those needs. will wait to be attacked for that comment i was extremely horny when i was pregnant, my partner was petrified to touch me...but i would never have dreamed of letting someone else have me." I don't see why you should be attacked for expressing your opinion, but I daresay someone might! As I've said above, it's a special, private time: struggle to understand why someone would want a stranger invading that, but hey we are each different! | |||
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"maybe im daft but surely if youre planning to get pregnent youd stop smoking before trying ????? yes i know some pregnacies arent planned but must be good number that are, and yet women still continue smoking dispite the risks http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/404372.stm sorry but even if baby wasnt planned i wouldnt want to continue the risks .if you choose to smoke thats ur indervidual choice, ur child doesnt have that choice .being a parent in my book means putting ur childs welfare first and foremost and that starts before their born . " I'm with you here. When my partner found she was pregnant she instantly stopped smoking, luckily for her she didn't crave whilst pregnant. we have spoke of trying for another sometime in the future and she plans to stop way in advance. I think similarly with playing whilst pregnant, child's welfare should (in my mind) come before a personal thrill. | |||
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"Having sex when pregnant does not harm baby,only if there are complications are women advised not to have sex,smoking in pregnancy causes premature birth asthma ect." Sex with your own partner doesn't cause problems, but having multiple is a different story. | |||
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"I was given the opposite advice when i was pregnant with the youngest,i was told to pack in straight away.. But that was 13 years ago so advice might have changed since then x Me too when I had my 1st 12 yrs ago..........could just have been a thing with twins or completely wrong advice I was given but at the time I did trust in my consultant who had given same advice as midwife As mentioned before, it was not a dig by any means as I used to be disgusted if saw preg woman with fag in her hand but am now open minded to the fact that they coulÞd have been given same advice as me I didn't take it as a dig: we're each entitled to our opinions. Personally I wouldn't puff away whilst pregnant. As for professional advice: well we chose to listen to who gives us the answer we want don't we? Lawyers all study the same principles but take differing sides in court. One doctor told me to have a hysterectomy, another in the same clinic said why bother, you'll be in menopause soon. I don't want a hysterectomy, so guess which one I listened to?!! " "As for professional advice: well we chose to listen to who gives us the answer we want dont we?" Really? Bit of a risky way of dealing with medical advice dont ya think? If we only ever listened to the advice we wanted to hear then surely there'd not be much need for medical experts in the 1st place? | |||
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"Having sex when pregnant does not harm baby,only if there are complications are women advised not to have sex,smoking in pregnancy causes premature birth asthma ect. Sex with your own partner doesn't cause problems, but having multiple is a different story." What about having sex with you're partner multiple times? Lol sorry but fail to see how one persone or multiple ppl make a difference | |||
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"Having sex when pregnant does not harm baby,only if there are complications are women advised not to have sex,smoking in pregnancy causes premature birth asthma ect. Sex with your own partner doesn't cause problems, but having multiple is a different story. What about having sex with you're partner multiple times? Lol sorry but fail to see how one persone or multiple ppl make a difference" Even if you're practicing safe sex while pregnant having multiple parnters can give you a increased risk of picking up an STI which can result in a low birth weight baby Ive just googled and there is loads of info on it | |||
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"I was given the opposite advice when i was pregnant with the youngest,i was told to pack in straight away.. But that was 13 years ago so advice might have changed since then x Me too when I had my 1st 12 yrs ago..........could just have been a thing with twins or completely wrong advice I was given but at the time I did trust in my consultant who had given same advice as midwife As mentioned before, it was not a dig by any means as I used to be disgusted if saw preg woman with fag in her hand but am now open minded to the fact that they coulÞd have been given same advice as me I didn't take it as a dig: we're each entitled to our opinions. Personally I wouldn't puff away whilst pregnant. As for professional advice: well we chose to listen to who gives us the answer we want don't we? Lawyers all study the same principles but take differing sides in court. One doctor told me to have a hysterectomy, another in the same clinic said why bother, you'll be in menopause soon. I don't want a hysterectomy, so guess which one I listened to?!! "As for professional advice: well we chose to listen to who gives us the answer we want dont we?" Really? Bit of a risky way of dealing with medical advice dont ya think? If we only ever listened to the advice we wanted to hear then surely there'd not be much need for medical experts in the 1st place? " I think you're missing the point a bit. Most people would agree smoking while pregnant is a daft idea but contnuing because a doctor said would not be advice I'd follow. I have fibroids that make me anemic but will shrink in menopause. Fibroids are not life threatening and iron tablets do their job. I'm morbidly obese, major surgery and up to six months off work doesn't appeal so waiting for the menopause no brainer for me! | |||
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"Having sex when pregnant does not harm baby,only if there are complications are women advised not to have sex,smoking in pregnancy causes premature birth asthma ect. Sex with your own partner doesn't cause problems, but having multiple is a different story. What about having sex with you're partner multiple times? Lol sorry but fail to see how one persone or multiple ppl make a difference" And I'm sorry you fail to see that. example, it heightens the risk of an STI, even with precaution, now risking myself is one thing, risking a baby is another. also, if for example myself and my partner was to play with another couple, then it raises the chance of creating jealousy which can lead to complications, now where the lady may not be jealous normally, things can and do happen with hormones, so it's possible for that to happen, not something I think is worth any risk to my child or hurt to my partner. That explain it for you? | |||
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"Having sex when pregnant does not harm baby,only if there are complications are women advised not to have sex,smoking in pregnancy causes premature birth asthma ect. Sex with your own partner doesn't cause problems, but having multiple is a different story. What about having sex with you're partner multiple times? Lol sorry but fail to see how one persone or multiple ppl make a difference Even if you're practicing safe sex while pregnant having multiple parnters can give you a increased risk of picking up an STI which can result in a low birth weight baby Ive just googled and there is loads of info on it" Also many don't use protection for oral, so although the risk of catching it is the same as when not pregnant, the potential problem is very different. Let me add, also, with a partner one would expect the partner to be more concerned about baby when 'making love' where as a thrill seeking guy might get a little carried away and bang a little too hard. | |||
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"Having sex when pregnant does not harm baby,only if there are complications are women advised not to have sex,smoking in pregnancy causes premature birth asthma ect. Sex with your own partner doesn't cause problems, but having multiple is a different story. What about having sex with you're partner multiple times? Lol sorry but fail to see how one persone or multiple ppl make a difference Even if you're practicing safe sex while pregnant having multiple parnters can give you a increased risk of picking up an STI which can result in a low birth weight baby Ive just googled and there is loads of info on it Also many don't use protection for oral, so although the risk of catching it is the same as when not pregnant, the potential problem is very different. Let me add, also, with a partner one would expect the partner to be more concerned about baby when 'making love' where as a thrill seeking guy might get a little carried away and bang a little too hard. " I agree and I could have said a lot more but reeled it in a bit the info is there if people are interested in finding out,if not then thats their perogative of course | |||
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"I was given the opposite advice when i was pregnant with the youngest,i was told to pack in straight away.. But that was 13 years ago so advice might have changed since then x Me too when I had my 1st 12 yrs ago..........could just have been a thing with twins or completely wrong advice I was given but at the time I did trust in my consultant who had given same advice as midwife As mentioned before, it was not a dig by any means as I used to be disgusted if saw preg woman with fag in her hand but am now open minded to the fact that they coulÞd have been given same advice as me I didn't take it as a dig: we're each entitled to our opinions. Personally I wouldn't puff away whilst pregnant. As for professional advice: well we chose to listen to who gives us the answer we want don't we? Lawyers all study the same principles but take differing sides in court. One doctor told me to have a hysterectomy, another in the same clinic said why bother, you'll be in menopause soon. I don't want a hysterectomy, so guess which one I listened to?!! "As for professional advice: well we chose to listen to who gives us the answer we want dont we?" Really? Bit of a risky way of dealing with medical advice dont ya think? If we only ever listened to the advice we wanted to hear then surely there'd not be much need for medical experts in the 1st place? I think you're missing the point a bit. Most people would agree smoking while pregnant is a daft idea but contnuing because a doctor said would not be advice I'd follow. I have fibroids that make me anemic but will shrink in menopause. Fibroids are not life threatening and iron tablets do their job. I'm morbidly obese, major surgery and up to six months off work doesn't appeal so waiting for the menopause no brainer for me! " I'm not missing the point at all but merely stating that taking my doc and midwifes advise to not stop smoking as doing so could have a detrimental affect to my twins was not advice I took merely because it was something I 'wanted to hear' | |||
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"not for us, have been contacted before by couples where she is pregnant and personally think its very wrong. It should be a special time between the two of you. Just our own view of course " A view I share. Me and my then wife had sex whilst she was pregnant but between loving partners this is very different. Not something I'm comfortable with personally. | |||
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