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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm finding a fare few couple's are put off that Im sometimes a bull for cuckolding couple's .

Im just as happy with a normal mmf or a bit off roleplay nothing is cast in stone .

Discuss! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding a fare few couple's are put off that Im sometimes a bull for cuckolding couple's .

Im just as happy with a normal mmf or a bit off roleplay nothing is cast in stone .

Discuss! !

"

I am. Massively so, particularly if they make a big deal of it on their profile. It gives me the impression that their assertion that they can leave it behind, is all talk. They're usually the ones who take being knocked back personally because, well how could I possibly resist their " bullness"? We won't meet anyone who identifies as such...but each to their own. There are plenty who are looking for that dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a couple but I don't care what my meets do with others so long as they respect my likes and dislikes, I know what you mean though, I have had a few guys turn me down because I like water sports, I had one guy say he only meets hygienic people, it happens

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I'm finding a fare few couple's are put off that Im sometimes a bull for cuckolding couple's .

Im just as happy with a normal mmf or a bit off roleplay nothing is cast in stone .

Discuss! !

"
. Different people like different things , so you can only expect a small minority to like all your attributes . Don't think the profile picture helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding a fare few couple's are put off that Im sometimes a bull for cuckolding couple's .

Im just as happy with a normal mmf or a bit off roleplay nothing is cast in stone .

Discuss! !

I am. Massively so, particularly if they make a big deal of it on their profile. It gives me the impression that their assertion that they can leave it behind, is all talk. They're usually the ones who take being knocked back personally because, well how could I possibly resist their " bullness"? We won't meet anyone who identifies as such...but each to their own. There are plenty who are looking for that dynamic"

Yep pretty much the same feeling here and having met a few at parties and clubs we have seen no reason to change our attitude.

We do understand that some like the whole cuck thing, but it's not for us, we are all about being treated equilly and with respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I said originally tho im just as happy with many other things not just cuckolding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said originally tho im just as happy with many other things not just cuckolding. "

People's time and my attention span are short...in the end, I haven't the time to give you to convince me that that is true when my experience with others has lead me to believe that it generally isn't...call it tarring everyone with the same brush, but I'd rather use my time arranging to meet people who meet my preferences up front, than spend time getting to know someone who doesn't and needs to show me why they actually do...if that makes sense...as I said, plenty of people enjoy that dynamic, or aren't bothered. You asked to discuss and I gave my opinion and experience...happy swinging!

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

We had a single guy mail us today.

Sounded like a nice chap, likes to be a bit dominant, but not always, said all the right things and ticked all the boxes.

Told him the sort of scenarios we enjoy and he replied with......"That all sounds amazing, but I hate wearing condoms, so i'll probably just cum in her pussy or arse"!!!!!

Because that's his choice.....NOT ours!!!!

Good old block button!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said originally tho im just as happy with many other things not just cuckolding. "

the thing is many believe that someone with a dominant personally will not be able to contain that side of them just like a lot of couples won't meet bi guys because tthey don't believe bi men can play straight, it's just how some think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its because describing yourself as a "bull" is immediately a turn off as the term itself sounds ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its because describing yourself as a "bull" is immediately a turn off as the term itself sounds ridiculous "

Read some profiles some couples are actively seeking "bulls"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely put off by guys making a special reference to themselves as a Bull on their profiles, even if they say just part of they offer.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Wouldn't cross a field to meet one.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm finding a fare few couple's are put off that Im sometimes a bull for cuckolding couple's .

Im just as happy with a normal mmf or a bit off roleplay nothing is cast in stone .

Discuss! !

"

Lol. Your command of "discuss" seems to imply that your dominance is more a part of your make up than you realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just toned down my profile for this very reason, I thought I'd try something a bit different and less specific for a change. A well written profile with specific likes doesn't always appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm I have issues around the whole bull thing in that there seems to be an awful lot of wannabe doms, masters and bulls in my part of Wales.

I'm rather strong mentally and reasonably so physically and I have as yet only met one man who has made me feel genuinely submissive without trying.

As soon as I feel I can take over (and I will try) I lose interest but the same goes when they start telling me what to do before I have even meet them, they seem to feel they do not need to consider my desires or give me respect as a person just because I lean towards submission in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, the profiles and messages that tell you repeatedly how dominant and bullish they are, tend to be the ones who are just playing at it and don't understand what the dynamic really is.

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

usually interpret "bull" as meaning, they think they're better then they actually are. Would be more inclined to add "shit" to complete the description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding a fare few couple's are put off that Im sometimes a bull for cuckolding couple's .

Im just as happy with a normal mmf or a bit off roleplay nothing is cast in stone .

Discuss! !

"

What is there discuss if people don't want to play your way then they have every right to do so. How would you feel if half way through a MMF the guy decided to hog tie you and bugger you till you sang camp town ladies?

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