FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty and feedback

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After perusing feedback I find it rather strange that they nearly all contain the following.

Sexy

Great with their hands

Tongue to die for

Goes all night

Fab person

etc etc etc

So this raised a few questions.

Are you always honest with your feedback?

If they were truely crap...would you leave feedback to reflect this or not bother?

If someone doesnt leave you feedback...would you think you were crap lol?

Have you ever played, though jeez why did I bother, left saying what a great time you had, then left feedback saying the same?

Does feedback influence your decision to meet?

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

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I don't always leave feedback, but when I do I try to be honest. If I say they are sexy, good with their tongues etc it is true. I wouldn't leave feedback if I thought "jeeze why did I bother"...I'd be more inclined to send them a message saying thanks but not again!

Sometimes feedback influences my decision to respond to messages...but ultimately there has to be something which attracts me in the contact between myself and the person I'm considering meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Cheryl.

It just amuses me as to read it all,as it comes across that just about everyone is amazing in the sack lol. In a perfect world eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If their feedback says “great with their hands/tongue to die for” etc, then that wouldn’t influence my decision to meet. Non-sexual comments (e.g. charming, witty, intelligent, polite etc) might influence me.

My feedback is always truthful, but I admit it isn’t always the whole truth. For example, I know a guy who has a rather small penis. I didn’t put this in my feedback, because 1) it would be hurtful, 2) he would probably choose not to display it on his profile anyway, and 3) he has other excellent qualities which make him still a joy to know.

If people don’t leave feedback for me, that’s perfectly fine - they’re just being discreet. In fact, I prefer to give and receive feedback that is not of a sexual nature. To me, the best kind of feedback relates, not to sexual prowess, but to whether they are good people. If someone is a good person, then I prefer the bedroom scene to be a journey of adventure, uncoloured by other people’s opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree with your post.

I wouldnt expect anyone to comment on personal issue in feedback, that would be unacceptable.

I do believe the personal qualities are more important than the sexual ones.

It was just the fantastic sex bits that made me smile and raise an eyebrow in suspicion lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try to be as honest as possible in our feedback, but tend to refer more to the social side of things rather than the sex.

We certainly would not mention any personal issues in feedback, eg 'Smelled of sweat' 'Had a bush like a fir tree' those kind of things are a no no, even if true.

Feedback should not be insulting or offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always refer to the personality of the person I have met, I think as far as good in the sack, or good with hands, what is one persons thoughts could be totally different to the next persons. Everyones tastes are different arent they. Anyway if someone put negative feedback you dont have to show it on your profile. I would have thought if you did not send feedback that person would get the message.

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over a year ago

If they were truely crap...would you leave feedback to reflect this or not bother?

No I would'nt leave feedback if that was the situation.....what I think is truly crap may be another persons truly fabulous so think it would be very unfair to do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If they were truely crap...would you leave feedback to reflect this or not bother?

No I would'nt leave feedback if that was the situation.....what I think is truly crap may be another persons truly fabulous so think it would be very unfair to do that"

I agree. It is all subjective. Besides you wouldnt put that kind of feedback on your profile anyway lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just lie like fuck because I want another shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just lie like fuck because I want another shag!"

I would tell em if they didnt do the job right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wrong button grrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your hardly going to post the ones that say.. smelly fanbelt, cock was rank.. had fingers like a bacon boner.. etc, etc..

When we have left feedback however.. We tend to say things more along the lines of great personality and they were everything we hoped and more.. Never send the same one though always personal...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldnt think anyone would post derogatory remarks, it was more about the honesty as to everyones sexual prowess lol

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