FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys, we kinda only meet last minute or last day, my husband can't just "turn the switch on" his words lol, just wondering if anyone has planned a meet not really feeling up to it and still went ahead and had a good time.. Really want to plan something as finding someone on the day is kind of risky in my eyes.. Oh And that's why we don't plan the meets as we don't want to cancel and be time wasters, thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are always planned in advance with guys that I chat to alot beforehand. There have been occasions when I don't feel like getting ready to go out on the day but by the time I get to the meet all that disappears and I'm in the zone. I've never had a meet yet that I wasn't in the mood for when I got there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i plan mine in advance and chat for ages .....always a great time but with the right person i find it easy to get in the mood

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Go to a club.

If you're in the mood you can make lat minute plans!

If your mood changes? Don't go!

Simples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i plan mine in advance and chat for ages .....always a great time but with the right person i find it easy to get in the mood"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I plan ahead and choose carefully so the ladies I have sex with are so sexy they give me hardons just by agreeing to meet. Also one to be 'in the zone' when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to chat or message a bit first.so we sort of get to know a bit about each other.

makes the meet a little more relaxed.although S.k still gets nervous.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

used to do it all the time in my previous life ,my ex would put up what is known as a swing date on the site we were on sometimes he did it without me even knowing so i met a lot of folk same day ,one cpl he wanted to meet he arranged it when we were at his fathers in harrogate so we had to drive back to pontefract then drive to hull ,we met the cpl in a pub and had a meal first ,but then my hubby was obsessed with swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys time to talk with him ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone has stated clubs work well. You can then decide if you do or don't want to play and still have a night out.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

"Hi guys, we kinda only meet last minute or last day, my husband can't just "turn the switch on" his words lol, just wondering if anyone has planned a meet not really feeling up to it and still went ahead and had a good time.. Really want to plan something as finding someone on the day is kind of risky in my eyes.. Oh And that's why we don't plan the meets as we don't want to cancel and be time wasters, thanks x"

Ive recently had some performance issues due to medication changes. We still went on meets and had lots of fun. My approach was oh well if im cant get it lets do what we can for everyone else. Freeing yourself from worrying about your own pleasure means you can really really get others off. I found i really enjoyed being able to watch the effects of what i was doing did to others. And if on occasion the equipment did work that was a bonus.

The issue i had has now been resolved but i still enjoy meeting without actually having sex. Left several ladies unable to walk straight after this kind of attention.

Gaz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm ravenous for food, I tend to grab whatever is easy to get my hands on, and can be ready in an instant, and it's satisfying, but maybe underwhelming.

If going out to a restaurant, or cooking a nice meal at home for guests, I may not nescaserily be hungry to begin with, but by the time the restaurant has been chosen, or the food prepared, and I've been enjoying the anticipation of ascrumptious meal, with exciting flavours to savor and enjoy. I would be very hungry, by the time it was time to eat and the food would usually be so much more than simply satisfying.

(Yes, I can use food metaphors for most situations)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks guys time to talk with him ??"

Yes. Surely you spoke to him before you

posted this.

He is definitely interested, not going along with things for your sake?

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