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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mrs J has fancied this guy that she used to work with for ages. He is a really cool black guy & she has been desperate to fuck him but he doesn't know we are swingers.

He clearly feels the same way but seems a bit shy.

The trouble is he is a civilian - in other words he is not on fab.

We have dropped hints but he just has not been picking them up. Perhaps sensibly he doesn't want to make a mistake & end up with "jealous husband trouble".

Anyway after numerous coffee's & chats Mrs J is going to tell him next Tuesday we are swingers & that if he wants to fuck it will be as a mmf with me.

I literally have no idea what his response is going to be!!

Exciting though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it love to hear the out cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for it love to hear the out cum "

Definitely.

I am fascinated to find out what his reaction will be when Mrs J invites him to join with her hubby fucking her.

Having been on fab too long I wonder what a "regular" bloke will do with that kind of invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeahhh pls keep us posted!!!

Whattt will a vanilla guys reaction be;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeahhh pls keep us posted!!!

Whattt will a vanilla guys reaction be;)"

The funny thing is that he believes that he is a real stud.

But my gut instinct is he will bottle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it love to hear the out cum

Definitely.

I am fascinated to find out what his reaction will be when Mrs J invites him to join with her hubby fucking her.

Having been on fab too long I wonder what a "regular" bloke will do with that kind of invite. "

I recon it will be a big fat yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhh pls keep us posted!!!

Whattt will a vanilla guys reaction be;)"

Loveing the tats my lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for it love to hear the out cum

Definitely.

I am fascinated to find out what his reaction will be when Mrs J invites him to join with her hubby fucking her.

Having been on fab too long I wonder what a "regular" bloke will do with that kind of invite.

I recon it will be a big fat yes x"

Possibly. That would certainly be my answer in his situation.

Unfortunately I have never been invited to have sex with another guys wife

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

it sounds like a fun situation if he is receptive.

do others know about our lifestyle? are you sure he will keep it under wraps if they dont?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it love to hear the out cum

Definitely.

I am fascinated to find out what his reaction will be when Mrs J invites him to join with her hubby fucking her.

Having been on fab too long I wonder what a "regular" bloke will do with that kind of invite.

I recon it will be a big fat yes x

Possibly. That would certainly be my answer in his situation.

Unfortunately I have never been invited to have sex with another guys wife "

Thats next on the list ehhh?

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

if you think he'll bottle it, why don't you let your wife fuck him on her own, that way she won't miss out if he does bottle it

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

possibly because they do things as a couple

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Oooo intriguing!!! Let us know what happens!

It's one thing having someone you fancy all to yourself, something altogether different being invited to join 3 or more!

Seen quite a few new guys in clubs that just could deal with others being around. Going to be interesting to hear what happens in this scenario...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

You may be surprised what them civillians get up to as well! good Luck with all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhh pls keep us posted!!!

Whattt will a vanilla guys reaction be;)

Loveing the tats my lovely "

Aww thank u... )) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a civilian when i joined a couple i had known for ages. I was 21 they were both in there forties. It was after a party and drink helped the dutch courage ended up having lots of fun with them.

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Mrs J has fancied this guy that she used to work with for ages. He is a really cool black guy & she has been desperate to fuck him but he doesn't know we are swingers.

He clearly feels the same way but seems a bit shy.

The trouble is he is a civilian - in other words he is not on fab.

We have dropped hints but he just has not been picking them up. Perhaps sensibly he doesn't want to make a mistake & end up with "jealous husband trouble".

Anyway after numerous coffee's & chats Mrs J is going to tell him next Tuesday we are swingers & that if he wants to fuck it will be as a mmf with me.

I literally have no idea what his response is going to be!!

Exciting though

"

I think it's a great idea and I hope it works out for you guys....but what happens if he says no, will he still keep it to himself? Would you guys be happy if he told his mates or other work colleagues of your wife's suggestion?

Sorry if it seems like I'm putting a downer on your idea, I'm really not, I've just heard of this thing being discussed in the forums before and they have not worked as the couple's intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that's every mans dream situation I'd be biting your hand off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mrs J has fancied this guy that she used to work with for ages. He is a really cool black guy & she has been desperate to fuck him but he doesn't know we are swingers.

He clearly feels the same way but seems a bit shy.

The trouble is he is a civilian - in other words he is not on fab.

We have dropped hints but he just has not been picking them up. Perhaps sensibly he doesn't want to make a mistake & end up with "jealous husband trouble".

Anyway after numerous coffee's & chats Mrs J is going to tell him next Tuesday we are swingers & that if he wants to fuck it will be as a mmf with me.

I literally have no idea what his response is going to be!!

Exciting though

I think it's a great idea and I hope it works out for you guys....but what happens if he says no, will he still keep it to himself? Would you guys be happy if he told his mates or other work colleagues of your wife's suggestion?

Sorry if it seems like I'm putting a downer on your idea, I'm really not, I've just heard of this thing being discussed in the forums before and they have not worked as the couple's intended."

A valid concern.

Since they both worked together they have both moved on to new jobs so the chances of him blabbing to one of Mrs J's new colleagues is minimal.

Also our guy is leaving to work & live overseas just shortly which seems to be bringing matters to a head. I reckon he wants to carve another notch on his bed before he leaves.

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Mrs J has fancied this guy that she used to work with for ages. He is a really cool black guy & she has been desperate to fuck him but he doesn't know we are swingers.

He clearly feels the same way but seems a bit shy.

The trouble is he is a civilian - in other words he is not on fab.

We have dropped hints but he just has not been picking them up. Perhaps sensibly he doesn't want to make a mistake & end up with "jealous husband trouble".

Anyway after numerous coffee's & chats Mrs J is going to tell him next Tuesday we are swingers & that if he wants to fuck it will be as a mmf with me.

I literally have no idea what his response is going to be!!

Exciting though

I think it's a great idea and I hope it works out for you guys....but what happens if he says no, will he still keep it to himself? Would you guys be happy if he told his mates or other work colleagues of your wife's suggestion?

Sorry if it seems like I'm putting a downer on your idea, I'm really not, I've just heard of this thing being discussed in the forums before and they have not worked as the couple's intended.

A valid concern.

Since they both worked together they have both moved on to new jobs so the chances of him blabbing to one of Mrs J's new colleagues is minimal.

Also our guy is leaving to work & live overseas just shortly which seems to be bringing matters to a head. I reckon he wants to carve another notch on his bed before he leaves. "

Then it looks like all systems are go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it love to hear the out cum

Definitely.

I am fascinated to find out what his reaction will be when Mrs J invites him to join with her hubby fucking her.

Having been on fab too long I wonder what a "regular" bloke will do with that kind of invite.

I recon it will be a big fat yes x

Possibly. That would certainly be my answer in his situation.

Unfortunately I have never been invited to have sex with another guys wife "
i keep getting offered another wife's guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be making sure he doesn't have a partner first before initiating anything its one thing for a guy to stray but another to actively encourage him to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be making sure he doesn't have a partner first before initiating anything its one thing for a guy to stray but another to actively encourage him to do so. "

Agreed. We have known him for a few years & any girlfriends are of the Sat night type. Nothing significant.

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By *anxfrankMan
over a year ago

isle of man

Now what would be so funny is If he didnt want to fuck your wife, but wanted to fuck you instead i think that you would shit it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now what would be so funny is If he didnt want to fuck your wife, but wanted to fuck you instead i think that you would shit it yourself. "

You are not kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs j is a very sexy lady he would be a fool to say no,

however if he does say no you could always ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may be surprised what them civillians get up to as well! good Luck with all! "

Civilians? Sex? No!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it love to hear the out cum

Definitely.

I am fascinated to find out what his reaction will be when Mrs J invites him to join with her hubby fucking her.

Having been on fab too long I wonder what a "regular" bloke will do with that kind of invite.

I recon it will be a big fat yes x

Possibly. That would certainly be my answer in his situation.

Unfortunately I have never been invited to have sex with another guys wife

Thats next on the list ehhh?"

See that's what this is all about, fulfilling pleasures and fantasies that the average joe keeps as fantasies. There are some great people out there, and this community is so much larger than we ever imagined!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"You may be surprised what them civillians get up to as well! good Luck with all!

Civilians? Sex? No!!!! "

What if he's also a discrete swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be quite hot if she fucked him on her own first and then said that she'd like you to join. Isn't it great to be just sitting at home thinking of her fucking someone and then hearing all about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would be quite hot if she fucked him on her own first and then said that she'd like you to join. Isn't it great to be just sitting at home thinking of her fucking someone and then hearing all about it?"

Not our thing sorry. Our particular swinging rules are that we can do whatever we want with whoever we want as long as the other person is in the room.

Its clear that our friend already has plans for a dirty illicit affair with Mrs J. She has no interest in doing anything behind my back & is keen to show our friend that she is happily married.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I hope it all happens as you wish it to be and that he does want to join you both and does not bottle it out.

Will you show him your fab profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are a couple of "ifs".

If he is adventurous enough to fuck Mrs J alongside me, if the evening goes well & if he is interested in joining fab then why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fingers crossed "

Yes. They are planning to meet for a chat tomorrow night & Mrs J plans to tell him of our offer.

So we will know whether he is keen at that point

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I find myself getting very excited for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Luck! xx

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

so? do tell!!!!! how did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am eager to know too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done this once which got us into swinging, would love to do it again. Let us know how you get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fingers crossed

Yes. They are planning to meet for a chat tomorrow night & Mrs J plans to tell him of our offer.

So we will know whether he is keen at that point"

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhh pls keep us posted!!!

Whattt will a vanilla guys reaction be;)"

Totally unrelated to OP but, just fabbed all your pics! Stunning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhh pls keep us posted!!!

Whattt will a vanilla guys reaction be;)

Totally unrelated to OP but, just fabbed all your pics! Stunning! "

Not wanting to shift the focus of the thread, as I want to find out what happened, but wow, got to agree there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to hearing the outcome x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What happened??

Big drum roll.....

Nothing Our guy called off the coffee meet at the last moment. Apparently something came up so it is being rearranged for next week.

Frustrating or what?

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

GDI. Scared him really looking forward to hearing the outcome on this.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"What happened??

Big drum roll.....

Nothing Our guy called off the coffee meet at the last moment. Apparently something came up so it is being rearranged for next week.

Frustrating or what?"

You Mr&Mrs just love to keep the suspense going.....its like a having our own sitcom...! The fans will be clasping....hopefully they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened??

Big drum roll.....

Nothing Our guy called off the coffee meet at the last moment. Apparently something came up so it is being rearranged for next week.

Frustrating or what?"

Aargh! Like a soap cliffhanger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got to know what happens, roll on next week xx

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

think this post should be moved to the 'fantasies' forum ...just an idea of course !!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"think this post should be moved to the 'fantasies' forum ...just an idea of course !! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think this post should be moved to the 'fantasies' forum ...just an idea of course !! "

Sadly real life is a bit more complicated than fantasy. I could, of course, have made up a neat & interesting conclusion if that is any help.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"think this post should be moved to the 'fantasies' forum ...just an idea of course !!

Sadly real life is a bit more complicated than fantasy. I could, of course, have made up a neat & interesting conclusion if that is any help."

Excellent riposte!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's quite interesting how the responses to a couple approaching a single man differ to the responses to a single man approaching couples in this situation.

Good luck for the next coffee meet.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"think this post should be moved to the 'fantasies' forum ...just an idea of course !!

Sadly real life is a bit more complicated than fantasy. I could, of course, have made up a neat & interesting conclusion if that is any help."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quite interesting how the responses to a couple approaching a single man differ to the responses to a single man approaching couples in this situation.

Good luck for the next coffee meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think this post should be moved to the 'fantasies' forum ...just an idea of course !! "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think this post should be moved to the 'fantasies' forum ...just an idea of course !!

Why?"

I took it as the poster suggesting it was us posting a fantasy idea.

Of course anyone looking at our profile photos and feedback will accept we have no need for silly fairy stories.

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

The excitement of the will he won't he is a turn on in itself..

Don't forget to let us know...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Are they there yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one waiting to hear the outcome of this??? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha , no I think a few of us are waiting for an update

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He will go for it .... I'm sure of it ..... Just tell him you're not going too try and bum him .... That's probably allies worried about !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I hadn't started reading this thread, dying to find out now, nosey git me . But intriguing.

Good luck Op's

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By *ewexperience83Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Wow I'm looking forward to the outcome xgood luck guys xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A quick update if anyone is interested.

After a few coffees when Mrs J & our pal talked all around our plan I decided to take the matter into my own hands.

To be fair I think the guy was trying to get his head around the idea that her husband was perfectly happy for him to join us for a 3'some.

Anyway the time for clarity had arrived & I sent him a text last night saying "if he wanted to fuck my wife then great but only as a 3some involving me"

Surprise, surprise he said yes. lol

All set for Sat 22nd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quick update if anyone is interested.

After a few coffees when Mrs J & our pal talked all around our plan I decided to take the matter into my own hands.

To be fair I think the guy was trying to get his head around the idea that her husband was perfectly happy for him to join us for a 3'some.

Anyway the time for clarity had arrived & I sent him a text last night saying "if he wanted to fuck my wife then great but only as a 3some involving me"

Surprise, surprise he said yes. lol

All set for Sat 22nd.

"
cool look forward to hearing the details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read this thread for the first time and was gonna reply that I thought you might be better off talking to the guy yourself. So glad to see that's what worked out for you in the end anyway

I think blokes need a bloke's ok's just as much as women need a wife's ok in a threesome situation. Have fun

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