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Is there a fabs unwritten code!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Basically is there any give away signs or words if you think you recognise someone off here and want then to know whilst being discreet! Anyone had any experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens on fab stays on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Indeed it does, I've just been getting an email at work with the word fab in quite a bit lol. Maybe I messaged someone and they recognise me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could mean nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes of course, but there is a bit of cheeky ness to it all in the best possible taste of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically is there any give away signs or words if you think you recognise someone off here and want then to know whilst being discreet! Anyone had any experiences

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Going up to someone in public and outing them isn't a good idea people deserve a little privacy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Going up to someone in public and outing them isn't a good idea people deserve a little privacy."

Well exactly, I would never do it unless there was a definate nudge and wink involved. Perhaps we all need a fabs code word lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been asked by a bloke who claimed he was single with his wife lol

he came up to me asked me in hushed tones and I replied "ahh u mean fabswingers in a loud ish tone so his wife heard"

The look I got told me it all

Teaches him fir pestering me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too right lol. You show him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that true ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say nothing unless it was someone I knew well and they were alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy whisper in my ear in my local ...you look fab tonight ...then he had msgd by the time I got home but he was discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed it does, I've just been getting an email at work with the word fab in quite a bit lol. Maybe I messaged someone and they recognise me lol"

Well I would guess that you know who the Emails are from and know who you have messaged a face pic to, so it should be easy to work out. but impossible to be certain without asking.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The code is don't assume everyone is on Fabswingers and calm your jets a bit. Fab is a perfectly normal descriptive word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla life is vanilla life, the trouble is some people get so hooked up in this that they see sex everywhere even when it's not there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vanilla life is vanilla life, the trouble is some people get so hooked up in this that they see sex everywhere even when it's not there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message the other day from a guy who said he saw me walking down a road where I live. he named the road too, said he wanted to speak to me but didn't. I've spoken to him before on here

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i dont appreciate people doing this kind of thing ..a local guy really spooked me by messaging me with details of my daily routine ..where i live ..where i go ..times i do it etc ...freaked me out !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is key. Even if I recognised someone in town and they were alone I'd stay well away.

The Fab stuff is in here and prearranged meets only.

Civvy life is civvy life.

Having said that though, no, I haven't actually recognised anyone in real life!

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

A recognised a woman who was serving me in a shop from here. I wasn't 100% sure it was her, I used the word "fab" 3 times whilst chatting and each time it really caught her attention, her face just changed lol Anyway, made contact and I was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically is there any give away signs or words if you think you recognise someone off here and want then to know whilst being discreet! Anyone had any experiences

D

Going up to someone in public and outing them isn't a good idea people deserve a little privacy."

And there was me thinking that screaming at the top of your voice at them "Aren't you suchnsuch of Fabswingers" would get you laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get granny to knit a scarf with the words fab worked into the pattern - this would work with mittens, woolly hat etc - possible idea for xmas pullover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone messaged me yesterday and the first thing they said was hello,

spookily I had an email at work today and that to started with hello!

its clear now that these two are linked.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"someone messaged me yesterday and the first thing they said was hello,

spookily I had an email at work today and that to started with hello!

its clear now that these two are linked.....

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Conclusive evidence

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

First rule of Fab club is we don't ta'lk about Fab club,

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By *uarenteedGenuineMan
over a year ago

sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on works team building day out 3hrs away from home..walking through city centre and this guy was shouting across the high street ""naughtygirl!! naughtygirl!""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the code of doing the following

1.Going up to the suspected fab member

2. Stand on one leg

3. Rub your head with your left hand

4. Hold out your right hand for a handshake

5. Say fab a daba do faba daba do I'm a swinger, how about you

If they are in fact a swinger they will reply by doing the same

Try it out

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By *airy_HettyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"I was on works team building day out 3hrs away from home..walking through city centre and this guy was shouting across the high street ""naughtygirl!! naughtygirl!""

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How do you know it was directed at you though?

If it was, what a twatish thing to do.

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"I had a guy whisper in my ear in my local ...you look fab tonight ...then he had msgd by the time I got home but he was discreet "

A couple of years ago I was going into a local supermarket with my teenage son when I spotted a guy I'd seen in Chams walking towards us with a lady (not seen in Chams), we instantly recognised each other, he winked and I just gave him a knowing smile, nothing more needed but we had acknowledged each other.

On another occasion at Chams, I got talking to a guy in the jacuzzi and it transpired that he lived about 200metres from me. The next time I was in the club, he came over and told me exactly what car I drove, which was my house, what school my son went to. Then a week later I was in my front garden with my gardener and this guy drove past very slowly, bibbed his horn, waved and shouted Hi ... that truly was scary. Thankfully I've not seen him in over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy whisper in my ear in my local ...you look fab tonight ...then he had msgd by the time I got home but he was discreet

A couple of years ago I was going into a local supermarket with my teenage son when I spotted a guy I'd seen in Chams walking towards us with a lady (not seen in Chams), we instantly recognised each other, he winked and I just gave him a knowing smile, nothing more needed but we had acknowledged each other.

On another occasion at Chams, I got talking to a guy in the jacuzzi and it transpired that he lived about 200metres from me. The next time I was in the club, he came over and told me exactly what car I drove, which was my house, what school my son went to. Then a week later I was in my front garden with my gardener and this guy drove past very slowly, bibbed his horn, waved and shouted Hi ... that truly was scary. Thankfully I've not seen him in over a year "

How disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its really rude to go up to someone and mention fab. Just because we are members on this internet site, this does not mean that its acceptable for anyone to approach us when we are simply going about our day to day business. Because you've spotted someone from here does not give anyone a better chance of a meet.

Use discretion, only approach people via the site. The only time I feel its acceptable is if you see someone in a swinging club or party, then perhaps introducing yourself is ok as clearly bits are partaking in the swinging hobby at that time.

However seeing someone in the supermarket and approaching is not acceptable. Why intentionally make someone uncomfortable.

People should engage the brain rather than ruled by their genitals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess they recognised the OP back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss G had a guy from a couple we had been chatting to turn up at her work, not only did he mention fab but hung around until he could speak to her for five mins asking her not to tell his other half, he showed up two days in a row trying to chat to her ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use the code of doing the following

1.Going up to the suspected fab member

2. Stand on one leg

3. Rub your head with your left hand

4. Hold out your right hand for a handshake

5. Say fab a daba do faba daba do I'm a swinger, how about you

If they are in fact a swinger they will reply by doing the same

Try it out "

Brilliant....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love that someone asks if there are unwritten codes and then buggers off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love that someone asks if there are unwritten codes and then buggers off...."

Daily Mail or Sun reporter...

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i like to wink twice, and then scratch my balls at the person i think ive reconised seems to do the trick

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Miss G had a guy from a couple we had been chatting to turn up at her work, not only did he mention fab but hung around until he could speak to her for five mins asking her not to tell his other half, he showed up two days in a row trying to chat to her ......"

This is why we play further away from home. You can't always trust everyone however discrete the purport to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss G had a guy from a couple we had been chatting to turn up at her work, not only did he mention fab but hung around until he could speak to her for five mins asking her not to tell his other half, he showed up two days in a row trying to chat to her ......

This is why we play further away from home. You can't always trust everyone however discrete the purport to be! "

thats the thing they live and work a hours drive away .. made it even more uncomfortable knowing that really .... i think eastbourne just attracts the strange ones...or is that us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on works team building day out 3hrs away from home..walking through city centre and this guy was shouting across the high street ""naughtygirl!! naughtygirl!""

How do you know it was directed at you though?

He was Running down the street after me!! And then came to Talk and i had to tell him to go lol....

If it was, what a twatish thing to do. "

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