FabSwingers.com forum: Jealous swingers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we were talking to a couple a few weeks ago at a club there dynamic was quite strange to us, she could play but he could not when I enquired why I thought maybe they were a cuck couple, she explained that she got very jealous it was very strange to me. Don't get me wrong at least they were open about it and better that than a hissy fit mid play but for me jealousy has no place in swinging. Thoughts anyone ?

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

She gets jealous about myself with women so we stick to what we like mmf

Tbh I don't have much interest in other women. If say voyuer more so then cuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's one of the things I couldn't understand they were at a couples night

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over a year ago

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Wife gets jealous if she thinks I'm getting more than her or feels left out. Can't seem to get into her head we swap about sometimes is all on other female for a time then all on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit like going to the cinema together, then blindfolding and putting earplugs in the man lol.

Maybe he's just under the thumb ? but at the end of the day, it's their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit like going to the cinema together, then blindfolding and putting earplugs in the man lol"

aha! Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say jealousy has no place in swinging too so this couple have identified what would cause it and ensure they avoid that trigger.

They know what they enjoy together and stick to that.

Seems pretty sensible to me.

Some people get jealous if their partner kisses a meet so they save kissing for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come across this quite a lot and do think it's more common than people realise, or maybe I've just been unlucky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this quite a lot and do think it's more common than people realise, or maybe I've just been unlucky?

i agree i held a gangbang for a couple a few months ago and the female told me her hubby was,nt allow to fuck any women at all but she could fuck any guy she wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really much different than a mff situation. Sometimes the blokes get more out of it than the women. Not saying that's with every case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first guy I met from here would message me on whatsapp saying 'Are you online? Are you keeping your options open?'. D'uh it's a swinging site, I'd only just joined, of course I was keeping my options open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She gets jealous about myself with women so we stick to what we like mmf

Tbh I don't have much interest in other women. If say voyuer more so then cuck"

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Seems untair on the guy and jealously and swinging definitely have ni place together in my opinion. It is an ugly emotion and I avoid people with a tendency to be jealous.

Double standards that she can play and him not.i for on wouldn't stand for it if I was a guy.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"The first guy I met from here would message me on whatsapp saying 'Are you online? Are you keeping your options open?'. D'uh it's a swinging site, I'd only just joined, of course I was keeping my options open.

Oh how vary dare you have options

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We had a regular bi male FB that both of us enjoyed often. More recently we met up with cpls instead, prefering the notion of sharing the fun. However, despite agreeing to have full swap with the cpls Mrs C ended up without sex for a couple of meets in a row.

Recently, in discussion, she came across very jealous that i fucked the othet ladies but she didn't get fucked by the other men. Turns out it wasn't jealousy per se, she was bitter though... She simply wanted more sex!

Lol that sounds like we're in competition!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She gets jealous about myself with women so we stick to what we like mmf

Tbh I don't have much interest in other women. If say voyuer more so then cuck"

We are exactly the same! Love to watch K being appreciated by other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we were talking to a couple a few weeks ago at a club there dynamic was quite strange to us, she could play but he could not when I enquired why I thought maybe they were a cuck couple, she explained that she got very jealous it was very strange to me. Don't get me wrong at least they were open about it and better that than a hissy fit mid play but for me jealousy has no place in swinging. Thoughts anyone ?"

There have been the odd times that she has gotten a bit jealous , and since I am very much more voyeuristic and absolutely love seeing her with other guys and girls , we don't go for the swapping much any more .

That suits me perfectly , and her , and ultimately that's what it's all about . Finding what works and enjoying the fun .

Jealousy is a very negative emotion , and probably not one that is chosen to have , but if it does rear it's head , it doesn't mean you can't still enjoy swinging . We have been to clubs on couples nights and when couples realise she plays and I enjoy watching it opens rather than closes doors for us

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

"She gets jealous about myself with women so we stick to what we like mmf

Tbh I don't have much interest in other women. If say voyuer more so then cuck

Yup, this works for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think jealousy is a natural emotion for most people but it's up to each individual / couple to define what their boundaries are. I don't think that this lifestyle is necessarily about 'what's good for the goose..' etc. it's about making sure that you are both happy with the ground rules - whatever they are. At least she felt she could be honest with her partner, rather than doing something to please him, which sadly we have encountered before..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think jealousy is a natural emotion for most people but it's up to each individual / couple to define what their boundaries are. I don't think that this lifestyle is necessarily about 'what's good for the goose..' etc. it's about making sure that you are both happy with the ground rules - whatever they are. At least she felt she could be honest with her partner, rather than doing something to please him, which sadly we have encountered before.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a couple but the Mr doesn't join in, I'm not jealous but the thought of him pleasuring or being pleasured by others does nothing for me, I did however give him the option and didn't tell him how I felt so that if it was his wish to play with others I was more then willing to hold my tongue and let it happen... However he has no interest in it and prefers watching and fucking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand jealousy in swinging relationships. I get majorly turned on watching Paul with another woman. Infact last week i couldn't play fully as I was on but it turned me on immensely watching Paul and this ladies partner pleasuring her.

I couldn't have a meet where Paul isn't allowed to touch the other woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strikes me that they are a sensible couple who discussed every aspect beforehand and set out ground rules, if both of them are happy then its fine in my opinion (Mr) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor sod needs to put his foot down, all me, myself and I that is.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If one half of the couple chooses not to play and genuinely prefers to watch that's fine, if they are not playing because their partner won't let them i see no point in them going on the meet, I would be really pissed off of my partner told me I couldn't play but then had to sit and watch him having fun when I couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that the said couple are quite sensible, I would presume that they would have spoke about what they want and don't want in swinging, and if the way they play suits them then that's their choice, is it any different from couples who only meet single guys?

I do agree that jealousy and swinging really don't mix, but this couple have obviously worked that out and play to a way that suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that the said couple are quite sensible, I would presume that they would have spoke about what they want and don't want in swinging, and if the way they play suits them then that's their choice, is it any different from couples who only meet single guys?

I do agree that jealousy and swinging really don't mix, but this couple have obviously worked that out and play to a way that suits them. "

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

This is our situation almost exactly and we absolutely love it. Never had any issues. It is simply what we like best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh how vary dare you have options

I always keep them open. Mwhahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really sounds like swinging isn't for them if there is that much jealousy.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I know a couple just like this she plays with other guys but he not allowed to play away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple once had a full blown row in my bedroom because my fb at the time was enjoying fucking her husband too much. Was pretty awkward. She even slammed my bedroom door. Needless to say they were asked to leave and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple once had a full blown row in my bedroom because my fb at the time was enjoying fucking her husband too much. Was pretty awkward. She even slammed my bedroom door. Needless to say they were asked to leave and blocked "

Awkward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet that was a good night? Not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very awkward. But you gotta take the rough with the smooth with this swinging malarkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy is a negative emotion that inhibits openness, if someone gets jealous in a swinging environment then I would say that it probably isn't the best scene for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a case of trouble brewing we tend to avoid couples like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strikes me that they are a sensible couple who discussed every aspect beforehand and set out ground rules, if both of them are happy then its fine in my opinion (Mr) xx"

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say jealousy has no place in swinging too so this couple have identified what would cause it and ensure they avoid that trigger.

They know what they enjoy together and stick to that.

Seems pretty sensible to me.

Some people get jealous if their partner kisses a meet so they save kissing for themselves."

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

a hissy fit mid play ,,, happened to us last month john was told to stop because she was moaning to much..lol...Connie xx

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over a year ago

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

"She gets jealous about myself with women so we stick to what we like mmf

Tbh I don't have much interest in other women. If say voyuer more so then cuck"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strikes me that they are a sensible couple who discussed every aspect beforehand and set out ground rules, if both of them are happy then its fine in my opinion (Mr) xx

Agree."

i would say any person who is told they can't play is more just going along with it, I can't see many people who want to play with others but are told they can't yet their partner can really being happy with that situaron

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By *ittlelaurenCouple
over a year ago

stevenage

I admit that I find it a little difficult seeing my guy with a girl... but I did watch him lick a girl out at op4f which quite turned me on so hopefully im turning the page.

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