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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had a recent experience where the female of a couple i was invited to join was out of her head, wasted, almost too d*unk to stand.

I like a drink to loosen up and i am aware it sometimes makes you less inhibited, but i felt that she was incapable of decision making and was uncomfortable with the situation and made my excuses and left, even though the guy was encouraging me to play with her...to me it felt wrong..so i high tailed it out of there making my excuses.

Has anyone else experienced this and if so did you refuse to play....i have had a proper slating from the male for leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you did the right thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did the right thing, it could've left you in a very tricky spot in the following days, doesn't say a lot for the bloke to allow and encourage his partner to be in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did completely the right thing. A few drinks is fine, but if she was that d*unk how would you be confident that she was, in fact, consenting and happy to play?

(Her)

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You did the right thing completely. If you are uncertain consent is given due to inebriation then that is the only responce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you did the rite thing. I like a drink before a meet. To loosen me up.....i like my meet to be aware of whats going on. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again you did the right thing.

Not only from the ladies point of view, but from your own. If you were not comfortable with the situation leaving was only right.

I too like a drink to loosen up but I don't play with d*unk people who may regret it afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally the right thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks - I knew I was, but has anyone else ever experienced this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a club and the woman was totally off her face, she kept pestering everyone and no one would entertain her..

That's the last time I am taking the Misses!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Too d*unk to stand, too d*unk to consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did the right thing OP, never understand why people have to rely on alcohol to have a good time. If she was too d*unk to stand properly then probably too d*unk to consent to sex.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Totaly did the right thing .We wouldn't and don't interact at all with people who need ta be rat arsed to enjoy themselves... Not a good look at all. Total turn off in fact...

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Thanks - I knew I was, but has anyone else ever experienced this?"

look at the thread "worst meet" you will see quite a few similar stories, mine included

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"You did the right thing OP, never understand why people have to rely on alcohol to have a good time. If she was too d*unk to stand properly then probably too d*unk to consent to sex. "

First thing I thought was - has she been pressured into this by her partner and could only face it d*unk? Leaving was absolutely the right thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that we have ever encountered, if we did go and meet someone and they were worse for wear due to drink we would leave.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"You did the right thing OP, never understand why people have to rely on alcohol to have a good time. If she was too d*unk to stand properly then probably too d*unk to consent to sex.

First thing I thought was - has she been pressured into this by her partner and could only face it d*unk? Leaving was absolutely the right thing to do. "

just wondering why that was your first thought?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"You did the right thing OP, never understand why people have to rely on alcohol to have a good time. If she was too d*unk to stand properly then probably too d*unk to consent to sex.

First thing I thought was - has she been pressured into this by her partner and could only face it d*unk? Leaving was absolutely the right thing to do.

just wondering why that was your first thought? "

Her partnet's insistence on continuing the meet. Clearly he'd be able to see she wasn't in a fit state yet was happy for this stranger to shag her despite her being incapable of making any decision at that point. It's unlikely she would have been able to enjoy it either in that state. So he was putting his own enjoyment first.

That's how I saw it.

However, we will never know since the lady in question isn't here to comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You did the right thing OP, never understand why people have to rely on alcohol to have a good time. If she was too d*unk to stand properly then probably too d*unk to consent to sex.

First thing I thought was - has she been pressured into this by her partner and could only face it d*unk? Leaving was absolutely the right thing to do.

just wondering why that was your first thought?

Her partnet's insistence on continuing the meet. Clearly he'd be able to see she wasn't in a fit state yet was happy for this stranger to shag her despite her being incapable of making any decision at that point. It's unlikely she would have been able to enjoy it either in that state. So he was putting his own enjoyment first.

That's how I saw it.

However, we will never know since the lady in question isn't here to comment. "

I thought the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would walk away from this - definately never play with a d*unk - but getting giddy altogether with friends we already know etc is different matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a drink but agree If someone seems d*unk then it a polite no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you did the right thing "

I'd 2nd that if that d*unk she is in no fit state to give consent so best walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is rape to have sex with a person who is too d*unk to give informed consent so you definitely did the right thing.

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