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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I'm probably going to get a load of sarky answers to this post, but what the hell I just need to ask. I have had a local couple look at my profile for 5 consecutive days and after the latest time thought I would send them a nice message asking if they would like to meet. You can guess what happened next, yes they read the message and also blocked me.

Can someone please, explain why people on this site DO this?

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I know I'm probably going to get a load of sarky answers to this post, but what the hell I just need to ask. I have had a local couple look at my profile for 5 consecutive days and after the latest time thought I would send them a nice message asking if they would like to meet. You can guess what happened next, yes they read the message and also blocked me.

Can someone please, explain why people on this site DO this?

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Cos your a single bloke like me and so you must be married or playing away and or a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they were in consideration over you, and your messaged pushed you over to the "no" pile.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"I know I'm probably going to get a load of sarky answers to this post, but what the hell I just need to ask. I have had a local couple look at my profile for 5 consecutive days and after the latest time thought I would send them a nice message asking if they would like to meet. You can guess what happened next, yes they read the message and also blocked me.

Can someone please, explain why people on this site DO this?

Cos your a single bloke like me and so you must be married or playing away and or a time waster "

Difference with op is that he is a single male but can accommodate so not likely married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time,i just let them look now,they know whare i am if they want me lol

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I view profiles more than once. The reason for this, i forget who i viewed and when, specially when they change there profile picture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I'm probably going to get a load of sarky answers to this post, but what the hell I just need to ask. I have had a local couple look at my profile for 5 consecutive days and after the latest time thought I would send them a nice message asking if they would like to meet. You can guess what happened next, yes they read the message and also blocked me.

Can someone please, explain why people on this site DO this?

Cos your a single bloke like me and so you must be married or playing away and or a time waster

Difference with op is that he is a single male but can accommodate so not likely married "

well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some times on the "who is near me feature" on my phone i accidentally hit on the profile near me and most of the time it is some one not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cant accommodate you must be married ? Is this the default setting for couples or females now - are there really that many married guys on here ? At this moment in time I'm not in a position to have strangers come to my home . I wonder if this is the reason for my lack of meets ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you cant accommodate you must be married ? Is this the default setting for couples or females now - are there really that many married guys on here ? At this moment in time I'm not in a position to have strangers come to my home . I wonder if this is the reason for my lack of meets ? "

Yes, too many cheating married men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you cant accommodate you must be married ? Is this the default setting for couples or females now - are there really that many married guys on here ? At this moment in time I'm not in a position to have strangers come to my home . I wonder if this is the reason for my lack of meets ? "

Only total idiots think it automatically means they are married. Intelligent people know it can mean they live with friends or just don't want a stranger in their house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an increasing number of middle age people who due to various reasons have ageing parents live with them and hence can't accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the answer is simple and im not saying its relevant in your case.

We are in the forums daily and read many many threads. If your a regular poster we often look at the profile of someone who has contributed in saying that i also have a shit memory so if you post slot i may view alot. Doesnt mean im interested in you.

Then if you mailed us i may block you as im not interested and still not remember i viewed your profile previously. Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleased to hear that I'm not a total write off but on the other hand it means I'm not what folks are looking for Confused now if I should be happy or sad - should have kept my mouth shut !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the answer is simple and im not saying its relevant in your case.

We are in the forums daily and read many many threads. If your a regular poster we often look at the profile of someone who has contributed in saying that i also have a shit memory so if you post slot i may view alot. Doesnt mean im interested in you.

Then if you mailed us i may block you as im not interested and still not remember i viewed your profile previously. Simple really"

And also a lot of profile pics look similar. I'd forget I'd looked before.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"I know I'm probably going to get a load of sarky answers to this post, but what the hell I just need to ask. I have had a local couple look at my profile for 5 consecutive days and after the latest time thought I would send them a nice message asking if they would like to meet. You can guess what happened next, yes they read the message and also blocked me.

Can someone please, explain why people on this site DO this?

Cos your a single bloke like me and so you must be married or playing away and or a time waster

Difference with op is that he is a single male but can accommodate so not likely married

well spotted "

It's the first thing I look at on a guys profile as if he can't accommodate then that is no good to me. Then I check to see if he is bi and finally look at pictures. If all good I read profile then message back

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"If you cant accommodate you must be married ? Is this the default setting for couples or females now - are there really that many married guys on here ? At this moment in time I'm not in a position to have strangers come to my home . I wonder if this is the reason for my lack of meets ?

Only total idiots think it automatically means they are married. Intelligent people know it can mean they live with friends or just don't want a stranger in their house. "

I for one am not a total idiot but from my experience I would say 90% of those that have contacted me are either married or living with partner. The fact I don't accommodate rules the other 10% out too as I've no intention of spending out on hotels and don't expect others to either. Plus right now I'm mainly just meeting at clubs and socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have quite a few couples that view our profile a few times a day from all over the place i just leave them to it they do no harm unless they started mailing/bugging us

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If you cant accommodate you must be married ? Is this the default setting for couples or females now - are there really that many married guys on here ? At this moment in time I'm not in a position to have strangers come to my home . I wonder if this is the reason for my lack of meets ?

Only total idiots think it automatically means they are married. Intelligent people know it can mean they live with friends or just don't want a stranger in their house. "

While not the words I would have used I agree with Scarlet.

We don't assume that anyone who can't accommodate is married or playing away. Lots of single women and couples can't or choose not to accommodate so why should it be any different for men. There are a few reasons why someone might not be able too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or kids that havent flown the nest yet.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Maybe they liked your pictures and you were their wank material, who knows They had their reason, only they really know, don't worry about it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you cant accommodate you must be married ? Is this the default setting for couples or females now - are there really that many married guys on here ? At this moment in time I'm not in a position to have strangers come to my home . I wonder if this is the reason for my lack of meets ?

Only total idiots think it automatically means they are married. Intelligent people know it can mean they live with friends or just don't want a stranger in their house. "

This to many people assume to much !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had similar with 2 couples, one local and one further away.

They looked at us daily for weeks, so being polite sent a message asking if they liked what they saw. Message read and deleted, they carried on viewing for more weeks, it was then I realised that they never put a status up, added more pictures, got verified or posted in the forums all they did was perve.

So we guessed that was their thing of there was a "their" in the first place.

Ironically if it was a faker they had gotten out attention so could have got something out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they were in consideration over you, and your messaged pushed you over to the "no" pile. "

If this is the case, and you where under consideration then your polite non pushy message (if it was) sends you to the no pile, then you have to think is this really the type of couple you want to meet?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We get a few 'repeaters' who visit regularly and even some who look quite a few times each day and one of those whose profile says they are 'not into bbws, sorry just not our thing' which is fine.....but it must be one of them who actually is into bigger girls as they spend a lot of time looking every day for someone who isn't interested

I leave them to it, it's not harming me any

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Being a couple they might not even be together whilst they are browsing, so they mightof looked individually each over a couple of days and forgotten, I often look at a profile more than once because I don't remember looking previousl.

I personally wouldn't of messaged them as I think if they wanted to meet they would of messaged after looking. This is why I have the who's looked at me function switched off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two things people should do less on this site to make their disappointment easier to bear, stop looking at the sent messages folder and the Looked at me folder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Two things people should do less on this site to make their disappointment easier to bear, stop looking at the sent messages folder and the Looked at me folder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm probably going to get a load of sarky answers to this post, but what the hell I just need to ask. I have had a local couple look at my profile for 5 consecutive days and after the latest time thought I would send them a nice message asking if they would like to meet. You can guess what happened next, yes they read the message and also blocked me.

Can someone please, explain why people on this site DO this?

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I don't even get any (profile views). Even worse, I don't receive any (mails) either. I'm a single (straight) man. Not a problem to me. But, it seems to be a problem for other (fabbers) who won't accept my preferences (single straight women) only for me. Which are very few & far between on (FAB).

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