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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I posted a comment on a timewasters thread only to find the entire thread is now missing.

Why would that be?

Timewasting (from both sexes) seems to be a big issue on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it actually? Or is it just something that people moan about when they don't get meets?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/316049#message_5951724

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I expect it got s bit hairy and was deleted.

I waste a lot of time on this site.....but only my own.

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim

Their everywhere plenty of it here also and that includes women ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still there -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Their everywhere plenty of it here also and that includes women .. "

Why, though?

What's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted a comment on a timewasters thread only to find the entire thread is now missing.

Why would that be?

Timewasting (from both sexes) seems to be a big issue on this site. "

It's still there, it hasn't moved.

Though you have wasted your time posting a thread about not being able to find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shows & time wasters are rife on (FAB).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted a comment on a timewasters thread only to find the entire thread is now missing.

Why would that be?

Timewasting (from both sexes) seems to be a big issue on this site.

It's still there, it hasn't moved.

Though you have wasted your time posting a thread about not being able to find it "

That made me chuckle!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It's still there, it hasn't moved.

Though you have wasted your time posting a thread about not being able to find it "

Taken on the chin

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"

It's still there, it hasn't moved.

Though you have wasted your time posting a thread about not being able to find it

Taken on the chin "

Blame the time-space-continuum-wormhole-thready-thingies ... I always do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted a comment on a timewasters thread only to find the entire thread is now missing.

Why would that be?

Timewasting (from both sexes) seems to be a big issue on this site. "

when you view your own comment in a thread click the green triangle to the right of your name and that takes you to a screen with every thread you have posted in. Same goes for any members post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green arrow even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted a comment on a timewasters thread only to find the entire thread is now missing.

Why would that be?

Timewasting (from both sexes) seems to be a big issue on this site. "

Time wasters are only a problem if you let them be a problem.

If you think your time is being wasted block and move on, if they are a no show report, block and move on.

If your consistantly having problems with them then it's YOUR selection process that makes you an easy target. That is up to you to sort out no one else.

Sounds harsh but then so does the constant criticism of fab and how it's run by people who don't use all the tools laid out for them.

What do you actually want, fab to instantly match you up with "genuine" swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect it got s bit hairy and was deleted.

I waste a lot of time on this site.....but only my own."

Hairy..?.does that mean im soon to be deleted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when you view your own comment in a thread click the green triangle to the right of your name and that takes you to a screen with every thread you have posted in. Same goes for any members post "

Thank you - much appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you actually want, fab to instantly match you up with "genuine" swingers? "

Of course not. That would be "silly".

I've been here before - I know how it works.

But when you, for example, spend a week chatting, swapping supposedly identifiable photo's and arrange a meet for that person to then immediately disappear...deception would seem to be at least one reasonable conclusion. They might just be mad, they might be perverts, who knows. But the veri system doesn't seem foolproof by any means. Shall I set up a few fake accounts and verify myself with wondrous feedback? I think not. I shall draw back from that particular brink.

I suppose I am still just dazed and confused by the ongoing stupidity and duplicity of most people. It's not a Fab problem, it's a societal one.

Anyway, rant over, back to normality, whatever that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok fair enough but do these people have to be fakes or time wasters they could just be bored with the conversation, I have been here many years both as a single male and as a couple and not had any time waster or fake issues. There are many others like me and other that learn from other people or their own mistakes.

It is easy for some to blame the site or other users rather than accepting our own faults.

One piece of advise often given on a thread like this is,

"If your constantly having problems with fakes and time wasters, look at the common denominator. You".

Selection process, filters, preferances and chat rooms are all here on fab to help with selection add a bit of tineye or Google reverse and you have more tools.

If your still having problems after all of that then fair shout the site is rife with time wasters and fakes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok fair enough but do these people have to be fakes or time wasters they could just be bored with the conversation, "

If I was bored with a conversation I would stop conversing - I wouldn't arrange a meet and then disappear.

But, yes, there is a common denominator and as a single man I accept that I am the bottom feeder of the pond on here (I wish - LOL).

That still doesn't mean that you should be treated like crap. Or is that what society has come to?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Time wasters "

Meaning what, exactly?

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