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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone tell me what people do to be timewasters? Fake profiles where they dont show? Endless emails and wont meet? Pushy single men?..etc?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block them and go to the next profile

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London

I was chatting to someone today, lots of messages , then suddenly " user no longer on site"

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron


"Can anyone tell me what people do to be timewasters? Fake profiles where they dont show? Endless emails and wont meet? Pushy single men?..etc? "

People who talk the talk but don't walk the walk. People who ask for meets but then always have excuses as to why they can't. People just out to get pictures instead of meet, the list goes on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to sound a right bitch here but honesty is the best policy.. Its not just the no shows that are time wasters.. I have travelled 3 hours for meets before only to be subjected to 20 mins worth of fun.. Now each of these meets have been great people and i cannot fault them as people but i class it as a waste of my time because they were unable to deliver what they initially said... I did do my homework.. I never go by just what they say.. That's why verifications are so important to me... I am by no means saying they were bad meets.. Just a waste of my time (travelling mainly) I've soon learnt not to travel as far for a single meet in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is my rant about timewasters.

I chatted to her, she said are you up for a shag tonight I said yes and gave my details, then didn't hear anything from her, but then the day after she said how was ur day and I replied, then its just been chat and I just asking questions, so stoped and moved on.... the fun thing is she keeps updating new verifications from others, shows she was a timewaster to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to talk and talk and maybe meet, so we are timewasters yay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea,.. I thought only women and couples got timewasted froom single guys. I think im being timewasted by some im talkin too now.. Only time will tell

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The only time I would class them as a timewaster is if I have travelled somewhere to meet and they don't turn up, and they haven't told me they're not turning up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea,.. I thought only women and couples got timewasted froom single guys.

I think im being timewasted by some im talkin too now.. Only time will tell "

Any reason why you think that?

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

Big thing on sites like this is simply don't take things seriously. So many people get wound up and caught up in all the little things you 'should' be worried about like timewasters, not enough info on profiles, not having any luck etc.

If you start letting things get to you you're not going to end up killing the fun and not enjoying it. Granted there will always be complete cocks on these sort of sites but simply ignore and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea,.. I thought only women and couples got timewasted froom single guys. I think im being timewasted by some im talkin too now.. Only time will tell Any reason why you think that? "
very keen to meet,swap pics,, then cancel out at last min., wont give me a number.. Etc.. Mainly endless messages.. Sometimes disjointed conversational stuff as if they havent read my mails.. Cobblers, i'll call it off.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Don't let fab take over your life with time wasters. Little and quality is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a women had bit banter , laugh bit of dirty talk , then she mentioned shes got a holiday inn by her way ill come over stay there well go out have meal and drink then go back and have sex , and meet up nxt day , I thought nice have some of that , so to show her I was genuine and not a messer I gave my mobile never heard a thing since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be the name of the game - women seem as bad as men in this regard, if they were ever real in the first place. A photo does not cut it for me - I want to at least talk or cam to verify and that's when the shutters come down; "friends" are removed and some pervert has your face pic forevermore. and you probably don't have theirs because they are a bloke poncing around with Internet pics. Check 'em out on Google image search - it's frightening how many of them are not real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time I would class them as a timewaster is if I have travelled somewhere to meet and they don't turn up, and they haven't told me they're not turning up."

Yep totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time I would class them as a timewaster is if I have travelled somewhere to meet and they don't turn up, and they haven't told me they're not turning up.

Yep totally agree with this "

so do I, I travelled ten minutes to tesco cafe and bloke didn't turn up once so there is no way im travelling two hours to meet someone I've not met before (unless a club/party)its how I avoid wasting my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well the women I was chatting to to arrange the meet , just found out not on my friends list anymore and her profile is hidden wtf , how can you begin to trust people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message our couples profile chat for days arrange a meet...at the last minute ask to meet sue on her own...instant block

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"The only time I would class them as a time waster is if I have traveled somewhere to meet and they don't turn up, and they haven't told me they're not turning up."

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time I would class them as a timewaster is if I have travelled somewhere to meet and they don't turn up, and they haven't told me they're not turning up.

Yep totally agree with this

so do I, I travelled ten minutes to tesco cafe and bloke didn't turn up once so there is no way im travelling two hours to meet someone I've not met before (unless a club/party)its how I avoid wasting my time"

Yep I learned my lesson!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is what annoys me , im not ere to piss balls people about if I arrange to meet I cant wait to get there obviously be nerves , which is normal but I wouldn't let anyone down

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Can anyone tell me what people do to be timewasters?"

err waste people's time

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