FabSwingers.com forum: Turns offs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when you look at profiles and looking at sending or responding to a message, does anything make you go urghh and not respond to it

for me its long friends list and not verified and no pics on public gallery

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

ooooh good question,the big thing for us is(and not smart remarks about that statement please,lol) no profile pic,its not hard to take a full torso shot,and i dont see the point of not having one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing much on profile puts me off i like to read about someone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly new on here so I haven't had many messages to test!

I find 'no face pic no reply' a bit annoying, particularly if the profile doesn't contain face pics either.

I'm careful about my identity. Why should I reveal it straight off when in all likelihood my email will be deleted / ignored anyway.

Is there any protocol on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads of things, are we picky ? hope so, we wouldn't feel comfortable being hardened swingers who don't care about anything as long as they get sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when you look at profiles and looking at sending or responding to a message, does anything make you go urghh and not respond to it

for me its long friends list and not verified and no pics on public gallery

Long friends list with no meets.

Lack of spelling / grammar ability (intelligence is sexy).

Lack of specific likes and dislikes (knowing what you want is sexy).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol hi licky how you doing sexybum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fairly new on here so I haven't had many messages to test!

I find 'no face pic no reply' a bit annoying, particularly if the profile doesn't contain face pics either.

I'm careful about my identity. Why should I reveal it straight off when in all likelihood my email will be deleted / ignored anyway.

Is there any protocol on this?

Yes there is a protocol:

Do only what you feel comfortable with and whilst listening to others is a good thing, make your own mind up about your own rules.

If someone demands face pics but doesn't have them on thier own profile, you can ignore them or not, the choice is yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cock pics are the biggest turn off for me especially cum shots fucking disgusting imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big Hate for us - badly thought out winking.

We love winks, for us it shows someone is interested and if we feel the same we wink back but if we don't feel the same we can just ignore it.

But we get so many winks from people without any profile information or with no pictures or only pictures of a fanny or cock.

So we ignore those, becuase we are not going to lead someone on by winking back at them without an inkling of wether we are really interested or not.

The downside of that of course is that we may actually like the people had we seen a picture or been able to read something about them, so often we are sending the wrong signal by not sending any signal at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ Stokies - was going to wink you but then I read your profile lol!

@ Sweetcheeks - hope ur well hun - you are one of the sexiest ladies I've not had the pleasure of meeting!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"when you look at profiles and looking at sending or responding to a message, does anything make you go urghh and not respond to it

for me its long friends list and not verified and no pics on public gallery

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yes if they are not physically appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we find no info very off putting so we wont mail any1 just gives us the impression if they cant be bothered to write a few sentances about them selfs what else cant they be bothered to do and no pics and of course no verifacations and been on site for ages lol

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

"when you look at profiles and looking at sending or responding to a message, does anything make you go urghh and not respond to it

for me its long friends list and not verified and no pics on public gallery

It puts me off when they have no pics or only cock shots, or couples with no male pics. I hate a few word intros and no verifications. All these things would put me off to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when you look at profiles and looking at sending or responding to a message, does anything make you go urghh and not respond to it

for me its long friends list and not verified and no pics on public gallery

For me it's........

Single guys who are up for a laff!....(their spelling not mine!)

Been on the site over 12 months with no verification or friends list.

And those who have to have a huge rant about time waters and the behaviour of other members of the site on their profiles!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 15/07/10 15:48:52]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops time wasters even!....that will teach me to put my specks on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when people have been on the site for over a certain time and had no meets, It just screams time waster to me. or long freinds list and no meets

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Long friends lists.

Contradictions

Using words they clearly don't know the meeaning of - especially in their ID.

More whining than content.

Text pictures.

Warnings to Sydney University, Adultfriendfinder etc.

The phrase "not looking for single guys"

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

People who say will update this later, when they have been on for over a month.

If they cannot be bothered to do this are they worth it?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

no pics,no profile,or just a cock pic,i dont need to know your life story,but a basic idea of who u are matters!

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By *aryoonMan
over a year ago

southampton

Aggressive profile text is a turn off for me. We're all here for fun and we all have our preferences but profiles being one long rant aren't v sexy, chill out and enjoy the site!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close up genitial shots - bareback - on single male profiles...your cock in another woman's fanny...not a good look to me.

Profiles littered with "text speak"...sorry, I don't have time to use my Rosetta Stone to decipher!

Straight men with verifications from men thanking them for a lovely time...hmmm...don't hide your sexuality be PROUD!!

Verifications lists so long I get RSI/nod off before I can scroll to the end!

Profiles that give the impression they'd mount anything just to get their end away.

Couples profiles seeking couples but only showing a stunning female and not one of the male...hmmmmm

Cock shots with cum dripping ...

...no!

Average looking men, with average sized cock...in MY opinion, describing themselves as handsome and VWE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Recent one for me was chatting to a guy realy nice too great torso pic good profile plenty of verifications when he asked for a friends invite i was looking forward to seeing what he looked like only to find a hidden gallery of 12 pix all of his cock ffs come get a grip ppl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/07/10 11:38:22]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got a few turn off's they are

1)pvt gallery of cock pics

2)long friends list with no verifaction

3)an held open pussy pics..yuck

but each 2 they own xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

i haven't saw that and it would defo put me off

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx"

jesus kirsty no saw that one before what the porfile so i can throw up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

jesus kirsty no saw that one before what the porfile so i can throw up lol"

I think Kirsty is stating it tongue in cheek!!

The site deemed the uncensored picture I use for my avatar...my hand holding the butt plug as "too rude" can't see them posting someone shagging a sheep!!

Then again, the inconsistencies on this site sometimes...who knows!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

i do know that a site such as fab would never accept such pix wes just messing lol

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx"

So women are ok right?

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics on profile and couples Profile with only the woman on the profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional good looking couple with a large house, big cars. Bank account to make Scrooge McDuck look like a pauper. Holiday homes in Monaco etc. Don't care if they do or they don't have any of the above or similar but if they find it necessary to put it in the profile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

jesus kirsty no saw that one before what the porfile so i can throw up lol

I think Kirsty is stating it tongue in cheek!!

I've only seen it on the Welsh profiles ....

I think it's part of the tourist board promotions ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

So women are ok right?

LOL

Yes of course Men can have sex with women .....

It's a bit kinky I'll grant you that ... but hey, who am I to judge?

Kirsty

xxx xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only seen it on the Welsh profiles ....

I think it's part of the tourist board promotions ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

Is that the same tourist board that advertises three sheep tied to a lampost in Cardiff as a leisure centre?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really is my bug bear is when they write on their profile, 'just joined, will fill in later', and then you see they joined 'over a year ago'. They just can't be bothered and hope that what is there is enough. Damn bloody lazy if you ask me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile and people that say "looking for fun", no specifics. Urg.

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Profiles which say 'does anybody actually meet of this site?'

Loads of cock shots is overputting, especially when they don't put any body shots on there, and profiles which have the mobile number it, just looks desperate

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Hairy bits

Lack of "themselves" in the profile text

Pictures obviously taken by the male where the female is not totally aware of the picture (hints at pushy husband syndrome)

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"profile and people that say "looking for fun", no specifics. Urg."

profiles that just have 'hi' put me off - nothing else, just 'hi'

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Could write a large list but will stick to one or two!

Pictures of gaping pussies and some being held open as though their life depended on it!

Pictures of women or their bits with tons of "Harry Monk" all over them. Don't like doing it and dislike those shots even more!

No wants/needs/desires so how are we supposed to know if they are for us!

No pictures, as above how we supposed to know if we'd like em!

Over about 30 friends but no validations or meets even! Possible timewasters?

Well, a few more than two, but will leave it there, except to say that the first two are REAL turnoffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

close up of pvt parts and unshaved puts us off xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half a dozen pics of a cock, or half a dozen pics of a cleavage (even in different bra's,lol) is just as bad.

XXXX

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

"Pictures of men having sex with Farm Animals ....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

i haven't saw that and it would defo put me off"
even if it was a really pretty shhep?????

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

shhep???? is that a dog or a sheep

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

it was a meant to be a sheep but i cant spell that word

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Very explicit pics put me off - also dirty fingernails - yuk! Text speak written profiles, pics where you can see dirty cups, plates or piles of washing in the background, oh - quite a few things really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who don't orientate their photos properly. is it that difficult to turn a photo through 90 degrees. sick and tired of getting neck ache whilst perving profiles.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

'Profeshnal' couples (i.e cant even spell the word!)

Bad Spelling/grammar

'Txt tlk'

Short profiles with a combination of all of the above...'Ere 4 fun wif otha couples'

Overly crude profiles..'love watching wife getting f****d up the shitter and c*** while choking on a fatcock' etc

'Billy no mates' pictures ...i.e. grainy pics taken in the bathroom mirror on a mobile (normally by someone with a shaven head and covered in tatts!..not that I'm generalising!!)

People who generalise!

Pictures of BMW's 'scoobies'...so what mate??

Blokes covered in tribal tatts trying their best to look hard..why?...sure the site is about f*****g not fighting?

Rooms that look like they have just been burgled

Overly aggresive and miserable profiles..Dont, Wont, will not, No, etc..then finishing it with...'look forward to hearing from you'

The wife hates...really hates her 'do dar' referred to as her c***

And ...last but not least...people who eat on cam live...ok a nibble etc...but sitting there stuffing their evening meal down or a bowl of soup, 12 inch pizza's, massive cakes etc...no no no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"nd ...last but not least...people who eat on cam live...ok a nibble etc...but sitting there stuffing their evening meal down or a bowl of soup, 12 inch pizza's, massive cakes etc...no no no!"

if i cam its coffee on the go or a drink i wouldn't eat live on cam unless it was something diff :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to many penis picture's on profile. it's like that's the be all and end all "look at my cock isn't it great, you're going to love it as much as i do" get over yourself please!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""nd ...last but not least...people who eat on cam live...ok a nibble etc...but sitting there stuffing their evening meal down or a bowl of soup, 12 inch pizza's, massive cakes etc...no no no!"

Oh yuk, there are enough with pic's of themselves eating huge piles of food, didn't realise they munched on cam too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crude or improper grammar on profiles, profile pics with an untidy background, ie overflowing rubbish bins, unwashed plates etc.

Cock pics and "butchers window" type fanny pics. Pics of ladies with cum on their faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crude or improper grammar on profiles, profile pics with an untidy background, ie overflowing rubbish bins, unwashed plates etc.

Cock pics and "butchers window" type fanny pics. Pics of ladies with cum on their faces

YesSs rubbishe spellin andd grmeer gets upp mi nosse to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no oil painting myself but some people just shouldn't be trying to look sexy on cam.

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By *immy444Man
over a year ago

bristol

women who say no pic no reply and they ahve no pics on their profile ...tatoos on women put me off...women who instantly delete mail and dont even reply to say thanks for mail but no thanks ....women who block u just after u have sent them mail just asking if u want to chat on msn...poor spelling and women up themselves ...who think thy are gods gift

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Now that's a funny post

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"women who say no pic no reply and they ahve no pics on their profile ...tatoos on women put me off...women who instantly delete mail and dont even reply to say thanks for mail but no thanks ....women who block u just after u have sent them mail just asking if u want to chat on msn...poor spelling and women up themselves ...who think thy are gods gift"

If you are going to list bad spelling as a turn off, you are always best to check your own before posting.

Not the spelling police here, I just found it funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"loads of things, are we picky ? hope so, we wouldn't feel comfortable being hardened swingers who don't care about anything as long as they get sex."

feck, so a shags out of the question then eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that are negative, the ranting ones put me off.

We pretty much all experience the same kind of messages, the same kind of fantasists etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to get my own way too.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Good point, some women look like smack heads on cam sometimes..yuk.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I agree with long friends list. I once saw a profile with 1500 - 2000 firends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugli cnts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugli cnts

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ugli cnts

charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugli cnts

charming

Well they aren't a turn on!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ugli cnts

charming

Well they aren't a turn on!

i guess syou right lol

as you were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man's meat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugli cnts

charming

Well they aren't a turn on!

i guess syou right lol

as you were

I just remember a chat with mates in the pub and we concluded it isn't easy to get a hard on for someone your not attracted to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugli cnts

charming

Well they aren't a turn on!

i guess syou right lol

as you were

Not being attracted to someone hrdly makes them,automatically,an "ugli cnt" though.

I just remember a chat with mates in the pub and we concluded it isn't easy to get a hard on for someone your not attracted to! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you aren't attracted to someone hardly makes them,automatically,an "ugli cnt" though.

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