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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its hard to get a meet but also to talk to us lol what do u think would be the best way to get someone to talk

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

So go to a social and make connections that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So go to a social and make connections that way. "

This is by far the best advice....it's not just about the physical fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By talk I assume you mean "get a reply"? Perseverance and low expectations of what you'll get from the site are the keys here.

If you want to meet people exclusively for fucking, they you've more chance of getting laid from one friday night out on the town than a year of Friday nights bashing mails out on here.

If you want to talk as well as the possibility of a fuck then get to socials or clubs.

Any other route, then disappointment lies ahead and you'll be leaving and rejoining every few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. He needs to do what people did before sites like this were available. View this as a secondary way of meeting people and get out and socialise.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Go to a social and meet people. I should imagine being a single man would be very hard to get a meet on here.

Some clubs do social nights where it is only a social, and not a sexual night.

Great way to meet people.

We went to a club last year and a guy was there who'd been to the social in the week and came on the Saturday.

We went with our female friend, and they ended up having sex in a dark room, and as soon as he finished he got dressed and left!!!! So sadly a lot of single guys get a bad name for the few who treat swingers clubs as an 'easy shag'!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its hard to get a meet but also to talk to us lol what do u think would be the best way to get someone to talk "

Start with making your profile more interesting and then do the same with messages sent. It might get you only 1 or 2 in 100 interested but thats all you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its hard to get a meet but also to talk to us lol what do u think would be the best way to get someone to talk "

patience, I joined up about 18 months ago and just had my first meet last weekend the worst thing was though, when talking to the couple they said they were inundated with offers but nobody ever shows up when its all arranged, so it is understandable that people are wary of arranging to meet new people. (by the way, the meet was fantastic too, so many people have missed out )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redo your photos try smiling

Talk about yourself in your profile.

Put your cock away.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Redo your photos try smiling

Talk about yourself in your profile.

Put your cock away.

Good luck"

Sometimes getting your cock out works

Some good advice on this thread OP. let's hope you take note.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite,have respect,and go with the flow,you will be fine,and wellcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank u lot i wiil take that all in

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