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Does a man in lingerie turn a woman off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. Crossdresser hear. Would love to be convincing but not going to happen. I feel really good when dressed and very very horney but wanted to know is it a big no no for women to have a man in lingerie and a dress.

Second question if women's lingerie was cut to man's body and sold on high Street like women's lingerie would there be as many issues.

Sophie xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess no one is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've given people 20 odd minutes to respond and it's only 8:45. Most forum people have slightly more pressing concerns in a morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry. Justvdint want it slipping from the front page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a turn on or a turn off for me but sometimes I wonder why.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Does nothing for either of us if honest.

I like my man to be a man and dressed as a man! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get three sorts of replies here Emma.

Yes.

No.

Maybe, depends on the guy.

Possibly a forth "depends if they're convincing", but if we're talking just about undies then that's less likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's great too see a man feel confident to dress how he likes, but I don't find it a turn on personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeepers creepers, each to their own I guess

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Does absolutely nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A butch tv/ts does nothing for us... A feminine tv/ts then love it x

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

As for the second question ..no I wouldn't buy lingerie cut for a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

Why shouldn't guys be able to wear something that feels nice

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

It helps if guys are smoothe and can actually feel the sensuous fabrics... but I think otherwise its like putting silk on a chimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a massive turn off for me.

There was a guy i met several times and one day he came downstairs in a dress, stockings and an awful wig, was dreadful and i was so suprised as he had never said he was into that which you would think would be an important thing to mention to someone you met lol

I left straight away and never went back !!!

Each to their own obviously but not for me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps if guys are smoothe and can actually feel the sensuous fabrics... but I think otherwise its like putting silk on a chimp "

But if it still feels good, why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when the confidence is very high, that turns me on. Not a cocky, but proud and confident.

I cant see a point in a shy timid CD. (In regards to a CD meeting a female or MF)

Confidence is a such a turn on for me no matter who it is x

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos


"It helps if guys are smoothe and can actually feel the sensuous fabrics... but I think otherwise its like putting silk on a chimp

But if it still feels good, why not"

For some maybe but if I don't shave I really don't feel the same sensation ...just me I guess

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

My TS girlfriend looks silly in men's underwear

So I much prefer her in something sexy

D x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just don't think it's fair that a woman can wear such beautiful and sexey undies and a man can't. Wish I could shave all over. Dream is to shave legs to feel stockings properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't think it's fair that a woman can wear such beautiful and sexey undies and a man can't. Wish I could shave all over. Dream is to shave legs to feel stockings properly. "

whats stopping shaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for me but if it makes you happy then that is all that matters isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A wife who is Ok with dressing but not shaving. What do lady's prefer thongs or panties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wife who is Ok with dressing but not shaving. What do lady's prefer thongs or panties "

but if shaving makes you happy she should be happy for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am trying for it in the winter. Would love stockings lacey top and 6 stay suspender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am trying for it in the winter. Would love stockings lacey top and 6 stay suspender "

next it,ll be laser hair removal hormones n a boob job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish. Think I would have been a naughty girl

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

The right man in ladies garments turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really. What do u like in a man in lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real turn off for me, a nice tv is awesome but a hpw isn't going to be my cup of tea it doesn't look sexy at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But it's not always just the look. I am a different lover when dressed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do women think about man wearing a bra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps if guys are smoothe and can actually feel the sensuous fabrics... but I think otherwise its like putting silk on a chimp

But if it still feels good, why not"

I think it's horny on any guy, if he likes it. Horny people are horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps if guys are smoothe and can actually feel the sensuous fabrics... but I think otherwise its like putting silk on a chimp "

Lmfao@Silk on a chimp!

Thanks for that, made my day. I shall be appropriating that phrase xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Crossdresser hear. Would love to be convincing but not going to happen. I feel really good when dressed and very very horney but wanted to know is it a big no no for women to have a man in lingerie and a dress.

Second question if women's lingerie was cut to man's body and sold on high Street like women's lingerie would there be as many issues.

Sophie xxx "

Well most women Ive met have taken it as a bit of a turn off (though do say sexy legs).

As for cut to a mans body..have a look at some of the guy pants like Hom or aussie bum they are more lingerie than Y fronts.

A lot of people put Cd's Tv's in the same general basket as axe murderers or worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a turn on or a turn off for me but sometimes I wonder why."

You and me both

If o ever work myself out I'll post an announcement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also a cross dresser behind closed doors, I get so horney putting on my knickers, check my pic

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

For me yes...not my cup of tea at all...but live and let live...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've generally found that most of the people who don't find it a turn on are still pleasant and respect the amount of effort people put into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Crossdresser hear. Would love to be convincing but not going to happen. I feel really good when dressed and very very horney but wanted to know is it a big no no for women to have a man in lingerie and a dress.

Second question if women's lingerie was cut to man's body and sold on high Street like women's lingerie would there be as many issues.

Sophie xxx "

I adore an erection peeping out of black lacy knickers...

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

Never knock anything until youve tried it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore an erection peeping out of black lacy knickers... "

That's what my xcross pic got but thru a French maid outfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore an erection peeping out of black lacy knickers...

That's what my xcross pic got but thru a French maid outfit "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

For men only... Check out the new "Linger London" event on the net...

I am gender female so I can't go (gutted) but all make lingerie wearers and make admirers can...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for me. I do think it is a shame that men's clothing in general is very conservative. Maybe if they had access to more 'feminine' fabrics they would feel less inclined to wear women's clothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I kowtow. I would love a pink lacey thong for a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turns me off, if i saw a man wearing women's underwear i wouldn't meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have found so many men on hear who like it. Wished more women liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've generally found that most of the people who don't find it a turn on are still pleasant and respect the amount of effort people put into it. "

I should hope so!! x

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.

Tbh it would turn me off.

However we all have different tastes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn off, think they look stupid to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I have pink lacey panties on today and I think they look nice. Right size nothing popping out. Much better than big cotton boxers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have pink lacey panties on today and I think they look nice. Right size nothing popping out. Much better than big cotton boxers "

Sound great!

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are u ladies wearing today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big turn off, think they look stupid to be honest."

yea but lots of folk look stupid

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Hi. Crossdresser hear. Would love to be convincing but not going to happen. I feel really good when dressed and very very horney but wanted to know is it a big no no for women to have a man in lingerie and a dress.

Second question if women's lingerie was cut to man's body and sold on high Street like women's lingerie would there be as many issues.

Sophie xxx "

I guess some guys like the silky feel of knickers against their cocks. A big cock straining against a scrap of fabric which wasn't designed to hold it can be quite an erotic sight. On balance though, I prefer tight boxers with an inviting bulge hidden within!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine are much nicer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until a few weeks ago i would have said it was a turn off ...

However since meeting a cross dresser at a local dogging spot and enjoying a bit of fun with him , it leads me to say it can be very horny !

I should say this is Sabrina speaking from a female perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are u ladies wearing today

"

black lacy ones with see through at the back...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sound very nice. Got funeral tomorrow so black satin knickers I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sound very nice. Got funeral tomorrow so black satin knickers I think "

And some shoes?

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

A massive turnoff .I hate wearing womens clothes really.lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do it by request

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wish I could wear my black heels but sadley black shoes to go with my suit

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

big turn off sorry but man is man and woman is woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry not for me but each to their own. Mrs devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"big turn off sorry but man is man and woman is woman "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Black satin knickers today. What's everyone else wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't do anything for me personally. My ex used to wear my stuff and ruin most of it which used to piss me off... Never did turn me on, but I'm guessing he got some sort of rise out of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I only wear mine. Very rude to wear someone else's lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, makes me shudder, sometimes even a little bit of sick comes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only wear mine. Very rude to wear someone else's lingerie "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's just nice undies why should girls have all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just nice undies why should girls have all the fun "

I don't care who wears what and when... Just as long as they buy their own stuff!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree. Where do I like to by ur undies I love boux avenue and m and s

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

All my own clothes love going shopping for new sexy wear especially heels mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love M&S stocking and holdups.. Very rare I wear underwear I usually go commando!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like m and s stockings as well and their hold ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like m and s stockings as well and their hold ups. "

Got some decent stockings from LoveHoney recently!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also like stocking hq but love honey are Ok for bedroom play but not everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also like stocking hq but love honey are Ok for bedroom play but not everyday "

Well yes....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also think tights should be banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also think tights should be banned "

Tights have their place...why banned?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They don't look grate and stockings and suspenders have more class and much more fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To much of a hairy pantie wearer if u know what i mean

I have met cd tv ts shemale an not even 50 percent were convincing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not about convincing but about how u feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about convincing but about how u feel "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bra thong suspenders and stockings make me feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my own clothes love going shopping for new sexy wear especially heels mmmmmm"

Shopping and heels. You're talking my language

I don't borrow anything. All my own right down to my own makeup and perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my own clothes love going shopping for new sexy wear especially heels mmmmmm

Shopping and heels. You're talking my language

I don't borrow anything. All my own right down to my own makeup and perfume "

How did you get on in court btw with the washing line incident?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my own clothes love going shopping for new sexy wear especially heels mmmmmm

Shopping and heels. You're talking my language

I don't borrow anything. All my own right down to my own makeup and perfume

How did you get on in court btw with the washing line incident? "

Pah!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my own clothes love going shopping for new sexy wear especially heels mmmmmm

Shopping and heels. You're talking my language

I don't borrow anything. All my own right down to my own makeup and perfume

How did you get on in court btw with the washing line incident? "

I represented myself and wore a lovely dress, re appropriated from a line on the way to court.

I fluttered my lashes. Dropped my pencil and took my time retrieving it in the most provocative of ways.

They threw the case out in the end for fear I'd carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry big turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nothing for either of us if honest.

I like my man to be a man and dressed as a man! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, makes me shudder, sometimes even a little bit of sick comes up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big turn off, think they look stupid to be honest.

yea but lots of folk look stupid "

Don't they just!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, makes me shudder, sometimes even a little bit of sick comes up

"

Aww, that's not nice. Turn on or turn off would have sufficed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually it makes me laugh more than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL at those daring to judge others with state of their own pics!!

I say it takes a fuck lots of guts and confidence! A lot of women wish they had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL at those daring to judge others with state of their own pics!!

I say it takes a fuck lots of guts and confidence! A lot of women wish they had.

"

Guts yes. Confidence, actually.... No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL at those daring to judge others with state of their own pics!!

I say it takes a fuck lots of guts and confidence! A lot of women wish they had.

"

The OP asked for people's opinions and they gave them. Most of the opinions were just that no judgements, just that they don't or do like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not counted them up but I think the general consensus was that most don't like it.

I really can't explain what I do. I don't understand it myself. There are, however, a surprising number of people, men and women, who are glad there are guys that do dress up.

There are a shed load of guys who don't do it for anyone else to like. They just do it for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are a shed load of guys who don't do it for anyone else to like. They just do it for themselves. "

And that of course is the best reason. Do it for yourself and resist the need for approbation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are a shed load of guys who don't do it for anyone else to like. They just do it for themselves.

And that of course is the best reason. Do it for yourself and resist the need for approbation x"

Mo likes gurls more than girls as to her it adds a fun element but she does prefer a cock in a frock to some guy who sneakily wears panties under his jeans.

Sorry if the term I used is offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he looked better than me in it ,it would def turn me off!

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By *ittlelaurenCouple
over a year ago

stevenage

Turns me off big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do women think about man wearing a bra "

well men don't have boobs so would just look ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just nice undies why should girls have all the fun "

because they were designed to be worn by women, not men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get sexy undies for men too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bluestone thong and matching cami under my work uniform. Wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's everyone's choice what they wear and when they or how they wear it. do what you want to do, not what others expect of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL at those daring to judge others with state of their own pics!!

I say it takes a fuck lots of guts and confidence! A lot of women wish they had.

The OP asked for people's opinions and they gave them. Most of the opinions were just that no judgements, just that they don't or do like it"

yea yea,,but you can see there have been some crappy comments so why not highlight that as well as answering the op's original question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do women think about man wearing a bra

well men don't have boobs so would just look ridiculous"

eBay

They look real. Feel real. They even warm up..... Unless you take your bra off and the illusion...... Shattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Crossdresser hear. Would love to be convincing but not going to happen. I feel really good when dressed and very very horney but wanted to know is it a big no no for women to have a man in lingerie and a dress.

Second question if women's lingerie was cut to man's body and sold on high Street like women's lingerie would there be as many issues.

Sophie xxx

I adore an erection peeping out of black lacy knickers... "
I've a pair just like that, you should see it sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Crossdresser hear. Would love to be convincing but not going to happen. I feel really good when dressed and very very horney but wanted to know is it a big no no for women to have a man in lingerie and a dress.

Second question if women's lingerie was cut to man's body and sold on high Street like women's lingerie would there be as many issues.

Sophie xxx

I adore an erection peeping out of black lacy knickers... I've a pair just like that, you should see it sometime "

I should.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi just wanted to say blue. I love ur black lacey shorties in ur pic. So fem and yet so sexey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does me

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