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"Don't think in silly or thick for this but what is cuckolding i really don't know" google is your friend | |||
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"Couples will be searching for bulls because the husband is the cuck' in the relationship. Why would they need a 2nd cuck' man?" As I said, I'm seeing if there are any couples who would like to cuckold someone else, the male half of the couple being the bull. As I'm not in a relationship I obviously can't do it the traditional way x | |||
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"Couples will be searching for bulls because the husband is the cuck' in the relationship. Why would they need a 2nd cuck' man? As I said, I'm seeing if there are any couples who would like to cuckold someone else, the male half of the couple being the bull. As I'm not in a relationship I obviously can't do it the traditional way x" but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. | |||
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"but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. " I know but I just want to be a cuck! Lol. Surely there are couples out there willing to take part?? | |||
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"but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. I know but I just want to be a cuck! Lol. Surely there are couples out there willing to take part??" well explain how you see it working? | |||
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"but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. I know but I just want to be a cuck! Lol. Surely there are couples out there willing to take part??" You'll find it insanely difficult to find a husband who will be willing to let someone pretend to be the husband. I can't see how the dynamic can work in any way | |||
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" but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. " Single guy cannot be cuckold. | |||
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"but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. I know but I just want to be a cuck! Lol. Surely there are couples out there willing to take part??" You need to find yourself a woman then. Ask yourself what would the couple get out of it? | |||
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"but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. I know but I just want to be a cuck! Lol. Surely there are couples out there willing to take part?? You'll find it insanely difficult to find a husband who will be willing to let someone pretend to be the husband. I can't see how the dynamic can work in any way " Ok you're both missing the point lol, no-one will be pretending, I want to be the one that is humiliated not the husband | |||
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"The same as any cuckold situation but I'm the cuck not the hubby " I strongly advise checking in dictionary what cuckolding means. | |||
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"The same as any cuckold situation but I'm the cuck not the hubby I strongly advise checking in dictionary what cuckolding means." Well what name would you give for what I want then? I will use that and stop confusing everybody! | |||
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"Ok you're both missing the point lol, no-one will be pretending, I want to be the one that is humiliated not the husband" The only one missing the point here is you! You need a couple with top bi male. But it has nothing to do with cuckolding. | |||
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"You can't be a humiliated cuck husband/boyfriend unless you have a wife/girfriend tho' Or am I missing something here?" Why not though? I thought this was a place full of diverse and open minded people? | |||
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"You can't be a humiliated cuck husband/boyfriend unless you have a wife/girfriend tho' Or am I missing something here?" exactly. Find a partner if you want to be cuckolded. It's the only way it works | |||
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"Why not though? I thought this was a place full of diverse and open minded people?" Calling a fork a knife is not being open-minded, it is using incorrect word. Same with you and your fantasy. It's perfectly fine, many enjoy it. But it is not cuckolding. | |||
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"I think you want to be a sub for a dom couple possibly " Finally a helpful answer And ok maybe I was using the wrong word but it's everything about cuckolding that I would like, the whiole situation would go exactly like a cuckold one so I thought the word cuckold would be fine to use! | |||
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"You can't be a humiliated cuck husband/boyfriend unless you have a wife/girfriend tho' Or am I missing something here? Why not though? I thought this was a place full of diverse and open minded people?" The person giving you advice is not the person who don't understand.... You have a basic missunderstanding of the concept! "To Cuckold" However to try and help! You can't want to be a cuckold, because your not the male half of a cpl... This is just the facts of the term! What you do want to be is humiliated and used by a cpl.... You are going to struggle to find that dynamic but im sure its here somewhere! Maybe search as suggested for bi male cpls who want a sub guy to join them!! Hope this helps!! | |||
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"You can't be a humiliated cuck husband/boyfriend unless you have a wife/girfriend tho' Or am I missing something here? Why not though? I thought this was a place full of diverse and open minded people? The person giving you advice is not the person who don't understand.... You have a basic missunderstanding of the concept! "To Cuckold" However to try and help! You can't want to be a cuckold, because your not the male half of a cpl... This is just the facts of the term! What you do want to be is humiliated and used by a cpl.... You are going to struggle to find that dynamic but im sure its here somewhere! Maybe search as suggested for bi male cpls who want a sub guy to join them!! Hope this helps!! " It does help thank you, I will give that a go. I still believe I can use the term cuckold though, it's the same but the husband would be the bull, does it really matter? Are there cuckold police arresting people for misusing sexual scenarios? ?? | |||
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"You can't be a humiliated cuck husband/boyfriend unless you have a wife/girfriend tho' Or am I missing something here? Why not though? I thought this was a place full of diverse and open minded people? The person giving you advice is not the person who don't understand.... You have a basic missunderstanding of the concept! "To Cuckold" However to try and help! You can't want to be a cuckold, because your not the male half of a cpl... This is just the facts of the term! What you do want to be is humiliated and used by a cpl.... You are going to struggle to find that dynamic but im sure its here somewhere! Maybe search as suggested for bi male cpls who want a sub guy to join them!! Hope this helps!! It does help thank you, I will give that a go. I still believe I can use the term cuckold though, it's the same but the husband would be the bull, does it really matter? Are there cuckold police arresting people for misusing sexual scenarios? ??" Yes it does matter because what you are describing just isn't cuckolding! it just confuses people because a single man cannot be a cuckold. End of story. | |||
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"You can't be a humiliated cuck husband/boyfriend unless you have a wife/girfriend tho' Or am I missing something here? Why not though? I thought this was a place full of diverse and open minded people? The person giving you advice is not the person who don't understand.... You have a basic missunderstanding of the concept! "To Cuckold" However to try and help! You can't want to be a cuckold, because your not the male half of a cpl... This is just the facts of the term! What you do want to be is humiliated and used by a cpl.... You are going to struggle to find that dynamic but im sure its here somewhere! Maybe search as suggested for bi male cpls who want a sub guy to join them!! Hope this helps!! It does help thank you, I will give that a go. I still believe I can use the term cuckold though, it's the same but the husband would be the bull, does it really matter? Are there cuckold police arresting people for misusing sexual scenarios? ?? Yes it does matter because what you are describing just isn't cuckolding! it just confuses people because a single man cannot be a cuckold. End of story." And why is that? Do you make the law? | |||
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"It does help thank you, I will give that a go. I still believe I can use the term cuckold though, it's the same but the husband would be the bull, does it really matter? Are there cuckold police arresting people for misusing sexual scenarios? ??" You can try to sail an airplane or fly a submarine, too. But if you choose to use terms correctly, you will have better chances to be understood and find what you are looking for | |||
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"You can't be a humiliated cuck husband/boyfriend unless you have a wife/girfriend tho' Or am I missing something here? Why not though? I thought this was a place full of diverse and open minded people? The person giving you advice is not the person who don't understand.... You have a basic missunderstanding of the concept! "To Cuckold" However to try and help! You can't want to be a cuckold, because your not the male half of a cpl... This is just the facts of the term! What you do want to be is humiliated and used by a cpl.... You are going to struggle to find that dynamic but im sure its here somewhere! Maybe search as suggested for bi male cpls who want a sub guy to join them!! Hope this helps!! It does help thank you, I will give that a go. I still believe I can use the term cuckold though, it's the same but the husband would be the bull, does it really matter? Are there cuckold police arresting people for misusing sexual scenarios? ?? Yes it does matter because what you are describing just isn't cuckolding! it just confuses people because a single man cannot be a cuckold. End of story. And why is that? Do you make the law?" no. That's just what it is! And how everyone else understands the term. You can't just make up your own definition and expect everyone to understand it. | |||
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"Hi all, I'm a guy that is into cuckolding and would love to be a cuck however, all the couples on here seem to be searching for bulls. I wondered are there any couples where the male half is well endowed and require a cuck? I realise this may not be of interest to anyone but had to ask" you are def a cuck lol google | |||
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" I still believe I can use the term cuckold though, it's the same but the husband would be the bull, does it really matter? Are there cuckold police arresting people for misusing sexual scenarios? ??" A cuck is somebody whose wife/girlfriend has sex with other men. Humiliation isnt always part of it. What makes it cuckold is the wife having sex with somebody other than the husband. So no, you believe wrong. You cannot use that phrase it is incorrect terminology and in no way shape or form describes what your looking for because your single. | |||
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"I tried to make it clear though, and was after useful advice not to be told I'm wrong, which is all I seem to have gotten" Surely the advice that you are more likely to find people who want to share the experience you are looking for if you don't call it by an incorrect name, is useful to you? | |||
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"Ha....is this guy still arguing black is white??! There's just no helping some people " | |||
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"Well I created this post to find what I'm after and whether I used the wrong term or not I made it clear what I was after. I'd love to know why everyone has commented to point out that I am wrong? Why are you here???" We're here having fun........simples | |||
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"Couples will be searching for bulls because the husband is the cuck' in the relationship. Why would they need a 2nd cuck' man? As I said, I'm seeing if there are any couples who would like to cuckold someone else, the male half of the couple being the bull. As I'm not in a relationship I obviously can't do it the traditional way x but how will that work??? I just don't get it. The whole point of cuckolding is the unfaithful wife. " I think he means he wants the hubby to treat him as a sub man.. ie he cleans out the wife and the hubby orders him what to do etc | |||
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"The feciscoius replies are really boring me... Ok I'll concede defeat in using the wrong term but the snobbery on here and blatant ignorance is totally unnecessary! My point is, you know what I mean. Either help or don't but I don't need looking down at by the swinging police! " Ok here's my suggestion. Why not at least put what you are looking for on your profile. Just don't use the word cuckolding to describe it? | |||
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"The feciscoius replies are really boring me... Ok I'll concede defeat in using the wrong term but the snobbery on here and blatant ignorance is totally unnecessary! My point is, you know what I mean. Either help or don't but I don't need looking down at by the swinging police! " its facetious.. people have tried to explain to you which you have finally clicked onto.. its no biggie using the wrong terminology etc but when someone guides you in the direction which will benefit you then you get arsey perhaps look at your attitude.. enjoy whatever you do.. | |||
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"The feciscoius replies are really boring me... Ok I'll concede defeat in using the wrong term but the snobbery on here and blatant ignorance is totally unnecessary! My point is, you know what I mean. Either help or don't but I don't need looking down at by the swinging police! its facetious.. people have tried to explain to you which you have finally clicked onto.. its no biggie using the wrong terminology etc but when someone guides you in the direction which will benefit you then you get arsey perhaps look at your attitude.. enjoy whatever you do.." I'd say correcting someone's spelling is arsey (which btw was my phone auto-correcting) And it only needed one person to say it, I still don't really care what it's called it's a word at the end of the day! I described what I wanted well enough so I don't see why so many people want to try and poke fun? Oh and my post worked because I've had messages from couples looking for exactly what I described, they didn't feel the need to correct me | |||
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"The feciscoius replies are really boring me... Ok I'll concede defeat in using the wrong term but the snobbery on here and blatant ignorance is totally unnecessary! My point is, you know what I mean. Either help or don't but I don't need looking down at by the swinging police! Ok here's my suggestion. Why not at least put what you are looking for on your profile. Just don't use the word cuckolding to describe it? " Simply because I don't want people thinking that's all I want, I have many fantasies/ fetishes. It all depends on who I chat to and what they're into aswell. I obviously will never call it cuckolding again lol | |||
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"Ok mate I get what you want. Cuckold is the wrong term which is where the confusion is coming from. You're looking to be a sub, to a Dom couple who are looking to humiliate you for their own pleasure. Your idea of a cuckold is a humiliated guy watching someone Fuck a woman better than you can, but it goes way deeper than this. It's a shared experience between a man and wife which can't be simulated. Put your ad out as a sub and you'll likely get a better response. Good luck" Everyone take note ^^ A helpful answer and no sarcasm! Thank you mate. I developed a bit of an ignorant attitude purely because everyone that was commenting was taking the piss! The situation is no different from that of a cuckold though, just roles reversed, surely it wasn't hard to understand from my op?? | |||
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"Couples will be searching for bulls because the husband is the cuck' in the relationship. Why would they need a 2nd cuck' man?" Two many cucks spoil the broth anyway (mr) | |||
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"Well I created this post to find what I'm after and whether I used the wrong term or not I made it clear what I was after. I'd love to know why everyone has commented to point out that I am wrong? Why are you here???" I knew what you meant and you can achieve what you wanted with roleplay if a couple were into it or find a couple who want a sub. I am sure there must be people about who are into it. I am not sure why anyone is getting hung up on the word you called it and getting advice about it on a swinging forum should have been much easier | |||
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"I do and I won't lose and sleep over it I just naturally have to argue back that's who I am! Never imagined a simple question would turn the way it did though, I just think people have to much time on their hands to try and mock, I know a few people advised me in a friendly way but a few didn't actually care for the reason I posted, all they wanted to do was just point out an error " Try not to be put off, there are lots of people about who won't try and mock you for asking a question. Welcome to the forum | |||
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"Couples will be searching for bulls because the husband is the cuck' in the relationship. Why would they need a 2nd cuck' man? Two many cucks spoil the broth anyway (mr)" | |||
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"I think you want to be a sub for a dom couple possibly Finally a helpful answer And ok maybe I was using the wrong word but it's everything about cuckolding that I would like, the whiole situation would go exactly like a cuckold one so I thought the word cuckold would be fine to use!" Don't mistake popular port for what cuckold IS. If is not... Humiliation Chastity Sissification Forced bi It is being a husband with an unfaithful wife. All of the above are unique things in their own right. | |||
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"If its all in a word (ya gotta love the grammar police!) , then can he not be a 'mock cuck'? OP, go for it, I'm sure there are like minded folk out there who fully understand and appreciate you desires. Best of luck " Looks like we are a mock cuck couple... try saying that 10 times fast lol | |||
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"Or maybe just a dominant, sadistic duo, who enjoy eliciting another's sexual frustration. Nobody ever called a pair of wolves mock anything." Oh shush, or I'll be forced to mock slap your tenacious derrière! | |||
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"Haha!!... I'm feeling a weird mood coming on today!! You want to rattle the cage too?! That's how people get bitten... " Bite me! | |||
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"Or maybe just a dominant, sadistic duo, who enjoy eliciting another's sexual frustration. Nobody ever called a pair of wolves mock anything." Whatever x | |||
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"Couples will be searching for bulls because the husband is the cuck' in the relationship. Why would they need a 2nd cuck' man? As I said, I'm seeing if there are any couples who would like to cuckold someone else, the male half of the couple being the bull. As I'm not in a relationship I obviously can't do it the traditional way x" Hmmm as I understand it the cuck "husband" is denied sex with his wife while she finds others to have sex with.... is this the first single male who will benefit from a no thanks answer and get orgasmic pleasure from a delete and block OP I think you need to rethink your strategy a bit | |||
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"Well I created this post to find what I'm after and whether I used the wrong term or not I made it clear what I was after. I'd love to know why everyone has commented to point out that I am wrong? Why are you here??? I knew what you meant and you can achieve what you wanted with roleplay if a couple were into it or find a couple who want a sub. I am sure there must be people about who are into it. I am not sure why anyone is getting hung up on the word you called it and getting advice about it on a swinging forum should have been much easier " Exactly thank you very much for not jumping in the bandwagon of mocking and snobbery! As you say it should have been much easier, I cant believe this post is still going | |||
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"If its all in a word (ya gotta love the grammar police!) , then can he not be a 'mock cuck'? OP, go for it, I'm sure there are like minded folk out there who fully understand and appreciate you desires. Best of luck " Oh there are, I've been messaged about it since posting, thankfully not everyone on here are stuck up their own arse! Thanks x | |||
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"Ok lets not drop it now and get back to your OP " haha, that should say "Ok lets drop it now and get back to your OP | |||
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"Ok lets not drop it now and get back to your OP haha, that should say "Ok lets drop it now and get back to your OP " Does that mean you're looking for a sub guy? | |||
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"A lot of simple people on this thread! It was obvious from the intial post what the guy is looking for and while it might not be cuckolding in its truest form I doubt many of the so called cuckold couples on here relationships are either. Another example of bashing the single guys!" Amen brother | |||
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"A lot of simple people on this thread! It was obvious from the intial post what the guy is looking for and while it might not be cuckolding in its truest form I doubt many of the so called cuckold couples on here relationships are either. Another example of bashing the single guys!" Amen brother | |||
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"A lot of simple people on this thread! It was obvious from the intial post what the guy is looking for and while it might not be cuckolding in its truest form I doubt many of the so called cuckold couples on here relationships are either. Another example of bashing the single guys!" whilst I agree some of the posts were a bit harsh, it wasn't clear to me what the OP wanted straight away which is why I asked him to explain what he meant. ..a couple of times. It was the attitude of the OP arguing the toss trying to insist that everyone else was being mean to him when all people were trying to do was point out that what he is after isn't what he was calling it and he may be better off not using the word cuckold as it was confusing people. NOT single man bashing, just disagreeing with A single man. | |||
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"The man was very polite and explained what he wanted many times, even asking what the word he was looking for , but people still went on about him using the wrong word. His patience then ran thin and he answered back....what do you want him to do, sit and take people trying to humiliate him while asking for advice? Is he not allowed to answer back? People have to remember that the forum is for all....and people will answer when cornered." I didnt say he should, I was agreeing with him, in he has been a target of a bit of a bashing here, needlessly, they could have simply pointed out he was using the wrong word for it, but he was very clear in what he was looking for, so there was no need for the mocking that went on. | |||
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"Hi all, I'm a guy that is into cuckolding and would love to be a cuck however, all the couples on here seem to be searching for bulls. I wondered are there any couples where the male half is well endowed and require a cuck? I realise this may not be of interest to anyone but had to ask" That would be a Cluck. Have you considered hiring a chicken outfit from a fancy dress shop and advertising as a Chicken or Cluck? Be spitting feathers if it goes wrong, but nothing ventured... Alternatively take a frozen chicken along to indicate your preference? | |||
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